Thanks ladies for thinking about me, I am really really nervous and scared for tomorrow. Part of me is keeping my hopes up, the other is thinking bad thoughts. I can barely concentrate on work right now, I feel like my mind is going a mile a minute. My appt is at 2pm tomorrow and since the techs doing the u/s can't give me any information, I have to wait till they call my dr right after and talk to him.
If the pg is not good I have the option of a D&C on Thurs per my dr. He prefers to do it that way instead of waiting cause it can take a long time. So we shall see which way it goes.
xhristina Glad your procedure went well. I was completely under in the OR for mine. Glad DH took good care of you.
xhristina I am glsd the procedure is over, I hope you are doing ok.
Polkadot you must be so patient. I would let my family have it for that. I can't believe the things they have said. It's like sometimes it just doesn't occur to people that words hurt. So sorry.
My mom realized what she said afterwards b/c she saw the look on my face but my comeback from that was: Thanks for reminding me and then storming off: She got the hint. and as far as my sister...she is 21 dumb, and immature and going nowhere fast...I've lived with her this long...a few more years isn't gonna kill me thank god she lives in another town...close enough for me to see anna but far enough where i dont see her everyday!
* lauren & brian *
* eli joseph & ben henry *
* geaux tigers **who dat*
Polkadot- Glad to know I'm not alone in my insensitive family. I cannot imagine my mom saying that to me. Thank goodness she got the message when she said it to you. As far as your sister, sounds like you have a good attitude about it. Family....you're stuck with them, so make the best I guess.
xchristina- Sounds like things went as well as could given the circumstances. So sorry you had to go through that though. Having a caring DH makes a world of difference. Hope you continue to heal.
xhristina- glad everything went okay. and kudos to your DH for taking such good care of you.
jeggink- I keep checking in here for updates on you. keeping everything crossed that everything is okay.
insensitive comments- I get tons of them. the worst was 2 days after my first miscarriage, my mom asked me when I was finally going to give her grandchildren close to her (my sisters and their kids live far away) so she could spoil them. uh . nice sentiment, but could you give me a little healing time please??? and then when I was very early pregnant for the third time (after losing 2) she asked me how I was feeling and I told her that I was nervous and nauseaus and her response was "you know, there are things in life other than pregnancy." thank you for pointing that out. I told her that right, there was nothing else in my life. the saddest part is that she has no recollection of these comments when I call her out. she's young, I guess she's got some early senility. still hurts to hear it but ever since then, she has been a rock for me. so I suppose I can forgive.
xhristina - I am glad everything went well with your D&C. I was very glad after I had mine to know that the waiting to m/c was over and that I was then ready to move on. It is still very emotional almost 4 weeks later but everyday I feel a little stronger. Now if only AF would show up soon
jeggink - I hope everything goes well. I keep checking in to see if there is any news. Hopefully everything went well.
insensitive comments - I didn't get a lot of them. One of my friends said she was sad I MC but really wanted me to hurry up and get pregnant again so that our kids could be close in age. I think that her general thought was nice it just didn't come across that nicely. I actually think that the most insensitive people are those that have been completely avoiding me or avoiding having any in-depth conversation about the mc with me.
Well I hope everyone is doing well. It is a gloomy day here and it is really starting to make me sad.
Well, hope everyone has a great Wednesday
oh, I am so sorry that the ultrasound didn't go well today. You will be in my thoughts tomorrow. I hope everything goes well. At least you get to get it over with fast and will not have to think about it for two long. I am so sorry
thank god she lives in another town...close enough for me to see anna but far enough where i dont see her everyday
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