DD is 10 months old and I WOH 3 days/week. We have a nanny on those days and are pretty strict about DD's naps. DH and I have been having trouble getting DD to nap twice a day recently and separately we have some issues with our nanny getting her to nap. This week, they are renovating the apartment immediately below DD's, which has been loud and making it hard for her to sleep during the day.
I just found out that DD did not sleep ALL day today and I am really mad. My mom happened to be in town and said it was not our nanny's fault (she loves our nanny--probably more than we do), but I can't help but think there must have been something our nanny could have done. Is this unfair? Should I let it go?