I think we can all know someone or some situation on both sides of the fence.
My aunt worked as a kindergarten teacher in Chicago/inner city for years. She would tell us stories of how the girls in her class were having sex with their 1st/2nd grade boyfriends because they didn't want the boys to "quit" them. Or how parents would yell at her and insist their child had a learning disorder/problem of some sort because they could get more welfare.
I know my aunt tried for years to help the kids - and this was in kindergarten. Eventually the parents got the best of her and she was forced into early retirement. She doesn't talk about it too much...
I think, to her, she now believes many of those kids are unreachable because of what she's seen/experienced at that level. Maybe her position will change over time.
ETA: I'm sure my aunt experienced far worse things in class that what I listed - she just never shared them with me and my cousins.


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