February and March 2010 Moms - Second Trimester

[betsyboop]

Oh Scout, I'm so sorry for your loss. You don't have to come back and answer, but I'm just thinking out loud- why did the Drs not realize it was your water leaking when you went to the hospital before?? It seems like they should have caught something like that- but maybe there wasn't anything that could have been done even if they did know?? I'll be thinking of you and your family during this incredibly difficult time

[karlatta]

Scout, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure Daniel knows how very much he is loved.

[dnagirl]

So sorry Scout for your and your family's loss. Daniel will always be in our hearts.

[hope0805]

Scout, my heart breaks for you and your family, I don't know what else to say.

[Dettes]

Scout- I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am. I was truly hoping for a different outcome. I will continue to keep you, Daniel and the rest of your family in my prayers and hope that you can all eventually find some peace in all of this. Hang in there.

[MichelleRenee]

Scout: I am very sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.

[febmar2010moms]

That was the most difficult update I've had to make. I wish there was a better way to commemorate Daniel's life and your loss, Scout. I hated removing your details, but I understand wanting to separate yourself from this thread. Be sure to let us know if there's anything else we can do.

[losthoosier]

Scout: I wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers..... I am very sorry for the loss of your son.

[seapod]

Scout: you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers all weekend. I'm sorry for your loss of your lovely Daniel.

[scout]

Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.

why did the Drs not realize it was your water leaking when you went to the hospital before??

I don't know. The amniotic fluid test they did was negative, and went I went to follow up, it was too late. I would recommend that if anyone is leaking fluid, don't rely on that test. Follow up. As it is, I don't think there was much that could be done. Once my water broke, it was over.

I won't be popping back in, so I wanted to give everyone "permission" to start the thread back up with regular pregnancy issues. I know that when I was pregnant with my first son, a mom lost her baby late, and it was awkward to post about pregnancy questions, and I know everyone had questions about their pregnancies, but were scared to be the first to post in case they seemed insensitive. The thing is, all of you are going through a happy time where you have lots of questions, and I wanted everyone to feel free to get back to discussing pregnancy things. I wish you very happy and healthy pregnancies. While I'm mourning a big loss, I do have two children here with me, and I feel very blessed for that.