Is an appointment with your DH at your regular OBs office how you started the process? No. I had discussed my concerns with my OB and she referred me to a Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE) - DH did go to that first appointment with me where we discussed infertility and what our next steps would be as far as testing.
Are there any questions that you wished you asked but forgot? - to be honest, that first appointment with the RE was so overwhelming I probably forgot to ask most of what I wanted to ask.