I love your hair in your wedding. Long hair is only going to get more difficult. If you don't like it - cut it off! I have a 5 month old and he rips most of my hair out while he's nursing anyway. I actually think I rpefer your hair in your wedding than how it is now!!
I keep it long because I love it, but soon I will cut my hair shorter so it's easier.
P.S. Good for you for taking the time to schedule a hair cut. I finally got mine cut when Jack was 4 months!! (And it had been almost 7 months since my last hair cut. Talk about looking frumpy...)