Mine are fairly different too.
DS1 - 40w, 19 hours of labor (7 actual hard labor, when I got an epi) from the time my water broke (slow leak), 1cm. About 20 minutes of pushing. Tearing - I didn't have him tell me what degree, but probably 2nd or 3rd. 6 lbs, 14 oz.
DS2 - 10 days early, water broke in a gush, pretty good contractions within 10 minutes, hard within 2 hours - obviously went to the hospital right away - I was 2cm. I was thinking of attempting a natural birth but got talked into a very, very light epi. One push a couple of hours later - seriously, he slid out. 7lbs. Same amount of tearing.