April 2007 Mamas & Babes: Enjoying Our April Showers

[April07Mamas]

April 2007 Mommies

April has showered us with our beautiful little babes!

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If you are new here, congratulations! We hope you will consider joining us. We look forward to sharing this amazing journey together! Please posts all updates in RED.

If you are new here, congratulations! We hope you will consider joining us. We look forward to sharing this amazing journey together! Please posts all updates in RED.

Please list your stats in RED in your first post.

CC Name:
Me: Name, age
DH: Name, age
Married: Date
DC: Name
Birthdate: Date
Siblings: (Other kids & their birthdates)

The threadmistresses are MarriedaGoalie & lauren f s. Feel free to PM them if you have any questions/comments regarding the thread.

Previous Threads:
April 07 Mamas (http://www.constantchatter.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22882)
April 2007 Mamas: Graduating to Trimester Number Two! (http://www.constantchatter.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25203)
April 2007 Mamas: FINALLY hitting the Third Trimester! (http://www.constantchatter.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28639)
April 2007 Mommies: Babies Arriving!!! (http://www.constantchatter.com/forum/showthread.php?t=31237)

[April07Mamas]

Mama & Baby Roster

lauren f s
Me: Lauren, 25
DH: Kris, 27
Married: 10.21.05
DC: James Brian
Birthdate: 03/29/07
Sibling: Ava 12/16/03

MarriedaGoalie
Me: Tosha, 22
DH: Rob, 26
Married: May 20, 2005
DC: Carter Thomas
Birthdate: March 24, 2007
Sibling: Quentin, 9 (Stepson)

happy1nuv
Me: Rosa, 31
DH: Jeff, 32
Married: 9/21/02
DC: Joseph Charles
Birthdate: 3/23/07
Sibling: Dominic (Nic), born 5/18/05

Wendstress
Me: Wendy, 30
DH: Jon, 35
Married: 4/28/01
DC: Alexander Jon
Birthdate: 4/2/07
Sibling: DS James, born 5/10/05, 6 weeks early

juliemag
Me: Julie, 28
DH: Joshua, 27
Married: 4-24-04
DC: Jackson Graham
Birthdate: March 22, 2007

ieducate
Me: Karen, 34
DH: Andrew, 35
Married: August 1, 2004
DC: Julia Rose
Birthdate: January 13, 2007

SarahKatG
Me: Sarah, 27
DH: Ryan, 27
Married: December 28, 2002
DC: Juliana
Birthdate: March 29, 2007
Sibling: DD 2/12/05

mili04
Me: 29
DH: 30
Married: 11/04
DC: Noah
Birthdate: 3/8/07

Cohl
Me: Nicole, 27
DH: Matt, 29
Married: October 19, 2002
DC: Kaden Michael
Birthdate: April 15, 2007
Sibling: Bryelle July 19, 2004

diedra1027
Me: Diedra, 33
DH: Blake, 36
Married: 8/24/2001
DC: Ian Charles
Birthdate: 3/29/2007
Sibling: DD, Avery 5/5/2005

Femmie
Me: Andrea, 30
DH: 32
Married: 9.1.02
DC: Felicity Ruth
Birthdate: 4.10.07
Sibling: Tate, 4.30.04

lil_nance
Me: Nancy, 37
DH: David, 34
Married: 10/12/02
DC: Avery Elaine
Birthdate: 4/2/07
Sibling: DS, Connor, 7/15/05

pg_jess
Me: Jess, 28 (29 in a month)
DH: Andy, 29
Married: 7/27/02
DC: Ethan
Birthdate: April 10, 2007

Myshel
Me: Michelle, 29
DH: Chris, 28
Married: 6-6-03
DC: Carolina Elise
Birthdate: 05/01/07
Sibling: Luka born 7-21-05

annielynn
Me: Annie, 30
DH: Paul, 31
Married: Sept. 20, 2003
DC: Claire Ryanne
Birthdate: April 20, 2007
Sibling: Jack Nov 10, 04

BusyBee
Me: 27
DH: 46
Married: 8/17/02
DC: Noelle
Birthdate: 4/10/07
Sibling: DD 4/22/05

kimthebride
Me: Kim, 31
DH: Tom, 31
Married: 10/18/03
DC: Ava Siena
Birthdate: 4/17/07
Sibling: Thomas 6/3/05

sunni76
Me: Sara, 30
DH: Tim, 34
Married: Date 7/20/02
DC: Nolan Patrick
Birthdate: 4/1/07
Sibling: DD, Macy born 3/22/05

Michael’sBride
Me: Melissa, 30
DH: Michael, 39
Married: 8/10/02
DC: Michael John
Birthdate: 3/26/07
Sibling: Andrew – 8/26/03 Evan – 7/19/05

herewego
Me: 29
DH: 29
Married: Oct, 02
DC: Elijah Caleb
Birthdate: 4/5/07

Tonysweetie
Me: Lesile
DH: Tony
Married: 3/26/05
DC: Andrew Michael
Birthdate: 4/6/07

golfer_girl
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 3/17
DC: Emerson
Birthdate: 4/22/07
Sibling: DS, 6/9/05

tinkerbell
Me: Amy, 30
DH: Brian, 38
Married: 06/29/02
DC: Tanner Stephen Thomas
Birthdate: 04/12/07
Sibling: Julia 12/14/05

[April07Mamas]

Birthdates

January
13 - ieducate

March
8 - mili04
22 - juliemag
23 - happy1nluv
24 - MarriedaGoalie
26 - MichaelsBride
29 - lauren f s, SarahKatG, diedra1027

April
1 - sunni76
2 - Wendstress, lil_nance
5 - herewego
6 - Tonysweetie
10 - pg_jess, BusyBee
12 - tinkerbell
15 - Cohl
17 - kimthebride
20 - annielynn
22 - golfer_girl
30 - Femmie

May
1 - Myshel

[April07Mamas]

Welcome, Mamas!

Please take a moment to look over the first few posts and make sure your information is correct! Let us know in red if anything needs to be updated/changed.

(I chose to update 20 minutes before I got off work, so I don't know if I added all the info, so please let me know if anything was missed!!)

[mili04]

Copied over from the old thread since I posted as the new one was being made:

Hi all-

We just got from our first road trip with Noah. We drove 8 hours to visit family and friends. He did great on the trip. We didn't get there until 1am the first night, so his sleep was thrown off a bit, and another night we went out for a late dinner, which again disrupted his normal sleep schedule. But on the nights I had him in his pack-n-play by 10pm, he slept really well. Since he is now taking notice of his surrondings, I think he really enjoyed meeting new people and seeing new things.

Sling: We have a mei tai that my mom made that he doesn't seem to mind. I also have a pouch that I could never get him into, and on our trip, had to buy a ring sling. We forgot the stroller and the other carriers at home and we were doing a ton of walking. We ended up going to a baby boutique and the only thing they had was a ring sling. He cries every time I put him in, but calms down eventually (after 10-15 looong minutes). I hated to hear him cry but carrying him in our arms was wearing us out. I think I'll keep trying it at home.

STTN: I can't believe I'm saying this, but Noah has become a really good nighttime sleeper. I always feed him sometime between 8:30 and 9:30, depending on when he last ate, then wrap him in his miracle blanket (it truly is a miracle!), and then put him in his crib. So he goes into his crib between 9 and 10pm and then has been sleeping until 2-2:30, waking to eat, and then sleeping again until 4:30. He eats again at 4:30 and sleeps until 5:30 or 6:00, when he is up for the day. Last night, I think he would have slept longer than 2:30, but I woke him for two reasons: 1) My breasts were full and uncomfortable, and 2) he is easily distracted during the day and not taking in as much.

Naps: So even though he sleeps well at night, Noah is not a great napper. I can tell when he is getting tired, but he fights it so much. And he will only nap in someone's arms.

NIP: I do this all the time, which is strange because I am usually very modest. But I found that being couped up in the house to avoid having to NIP was driving me batty. The first time I did it was when I went in to work for a meeting and took Noah with me. My co-workers were so incredibly supportive that I didn't feel uncomfortable at all. Since then, I have nursed at the mall several times, at a restaurant, and friend's houses, and at the park. The only person I won't nurse in front of is FIL, and that is because he seems so uncomfortable with the idea that I am uncomfortable too. Whenever he comes to our house, he always yells, "Is he nursing?" before walking in. If I say yes, FIL waits outside until he is finished.

Thread updates: I am now 29 years old and DH is 30. Funny story about that: When we had been dating for about a year, DH said he hoped to have his first child before he turned 30. Well, my due date was after DH's 30th birthday, but since DS was born early, DH got his wish!

Thanks for the new thread!

[MarriedaGoalie]

WOW, new thread! Great job!! I'm so sorry... I was totally slacking... haha

[michael'sbride]

Just wanted to update...

My DS is Michael John and he was born March 26th.

DH is 39 and I am 30.

Thanks!

[lauren f s]

mili: I'm impressed you went on an overnight trip! We're going to the beach in July and I'm a little nervous about the long car ride with James! James is a bad napper, too. Actually, I just put him in his bed after holding him while he slept 15 minutes and as soon as he was put down those eyes popped open :rolleyes:. I left him in hopes he'd fall back asleep! Good job for NIP! And your FIL sounds too funny. yelling before he comes in the house!

MAG: I had finally caught up on my work and had nothing else to do for the last 30 or so minutes, so I decided to go ahead and do it :) Kept me busy!

James had been doing so well with his nighttime sleep and then last night he was up every 2 hours. I'm exhausted! I should nap since he & Ava are both asleep, but laundry needs to be folded and I'd like to shower alone for a change, too. We're meeting my best friend, her DH, and their 2 kids for a movie this afternoon. I'm excited! James should nurse and then fall asleep and then we'll all be able to enjoy the movie :D

ETA - he fell back asleep on his own! I just went into his room to check and sure enough, he went back to sleep!!

[April07Mamas]

Updated to here!

(Sorry about that girls :)! )

[myshel]

mili: Your FIL sounds like mine. He came to stay with us last week, and one morning went to take a shower upstairs. After the shower, he yelled down the stairs, "Are you decent?" I find this especially hilarious because MIL bfed all three of her kids. Where was he during all of that? :rolleyes:

Looking at the list of babies, I was right. I was the last one. Funny stuff.

Weekend widow: DH was home for 2 hours last night before returning to work until 2 am. The time he was home was fraught with tears and arguing, because I'll be a weekend widow for the next three days. I kind of flipped out, because I can barely leave the house, but he's leaving for work (Friday night and Sunday) and a bachelor party (Saturday). It's not so much that I care that he has to work or that he's going to the bachelor party; it's just that it's a perfect storm this weekend. My mom, aunt, Dh's aunt, uncle, and cousin are all coming up today to see C. I'm home alone with Lu and C all weekend. We have no real food for entertaining, and I never got the chance to go get some. Ugh! I finally told DH that my biggest issue with him is the fact that (and I really said this) he "has the sensitivity and tact of a cactus." I think that got the point across, because he did stick around this morning so I could shower.

Fear of leaving home: Since all of you are WAY more experienced at thispoint than I am, I have a question for you. How did you get over the fear of leaving the house and having DC want to eat (particularly bfers)? I never had issues with going out with Luka because he was formula fed, but for some reason, I fear leaving with C. We usually take a bottle of BM out with us, but if we're gone longer than three hours, my boobs start to ache and feel like implants, so then we're rushing home so I can pump. Does anyone have tips for NIPing? I have a bit of a hard time being discreet because of the nipple shield . We also have a problem because C is a sloppy eater (meaning she sometimes spits milk out or drips it everywhere because of my forceful letdown), and I haven't found a great way to "clean-up" after she eats without exposing myself completely. Tips? Suggestions? Advice? Personal experience?

[kimthebride]

pg_jess & STTN
Its too early to sleep train, to spoil them, to really do anything 'forceful' routine wise or detrimental to them habit wise - so don't worry about bad habits just yet!
I kind of let DS guide me when he was an infant. We had times of just sleep in a chair together, it was just survival mode for the first few months. Then i found he got his rhythm and as long as I kept an eye out for new cues (like needing a change in a naptime/drop of a nap or drop a BFing session and have a nap instead) the transition from No Sleep Newborn to Reasonable Routine Baby was pretty smooth. And of course, it just kept getting better and better as he grew.

mili
I find that travelling is the easiest when they are newborns. I know most people are more nervous to travel when the baby is so small, but enjoy it while you can, lol!
I had to LOL about your FIL. Mine acts like someone threw acid in his eyes if he 'catches' me nursing - even though I always use the Hooter Hider! :rolleyes:
That is so funny about beating DH's bday!

lil_nance
Is she just spitting up a lot, or seems uncomfortable as well?
I have had friends with kids who just SPEW, no real reason or discomfort. The only other things I have heard about are reflux and something associated with a hernia i believe??

Swaddling
I am a HUGE fan of Swaddling - I have been called a hardcore swaddler by those who see me in action. Here's my swaddling blanket review:
Koala Baby Recieving Blankets 30x40" $12.99 for 4 pack on BRU
http://TRUS.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pTRU1-3038812reg.jpg
- I used these with DS, and at 2yo we still use them as a 'sleep cue'. He naps and sleeps with them. They are a thin cotton flannel, and if you are a good swaddler, they are great! I also think they are perfect for swaddling the arms when you have them strapped into the carseat/stroller, and they don't overheat the baby.
Swaddle Me $9.99
http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/519JJJFNDNL._SS260_.jpg
-I bought it, don't get it, it didn't hold her in at all. Maybe I am just really stupid, but it didn't work!
The Ultimate Recieving Blanket $25 42x42"
http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/51NSQND1Z6L._SS260_.jpg
- I love these cotton flannel HUGE swaddling blankets. Warm, soft, wash well, and nice colors/simple patterns. These are idiot-proof and even have a tag on them with instrutions on how to swaddle perfectly. I like they they are big enough to use on the floor for playtime, and as a blanket for when she's bigger and not swaddling anymore. I do notice that at night if I am bleary-eyed and do a swaddle half asleep in bed that she can break her arms out of it though.
Miracle Blanket $30
http://g-ec2.images-amazon.com/images/I/21JpPJBa5SL._AA280_.jpg
http://www.miracleblanket.com/instructions.htm
-I've heard nothing but great reviews on this practically escape-free blanket. I just ordered one off Amazon to try, since I need something she can't break out of after I swaddle her while half-asleep at night.

myshel
Its always tough to be home alone with the kids. I had DH's head for breakfast this morning over it myself. Needless to say, I'll be headed to a matinee today on my own :D .

Getting Out/NIP
I too use a nipple shield, so i use a Hooter Hider when I go out. I keep the HH and a shield (in a pacifier case) in my diaper bag all the time. This is what I do when I NIP:
- Give DS a snack & a toy to keep him entertained
- Sit down with my HH on, shield in the case by my side, and a Koala baby recieving blanket on my lap
- I put DD on my lap under the HH, tuck the corner of the HH into something (crease of my crossed legs/hem of my shirt, whatever) to keep it from sliding and exposing me if I am really in public where men are.
- I then unhook my bra/nursing tank, put my shield on (using Lansinoh helps the shield 'stick' on), then pop DD on the boob.
- Any leakage, drooling goes on the blanket. I can also use it to wipe out excess milk from the shield when I'm done
- If she needs to burp, I sit her on my lap under the HH and do it so I'm not exposed
- When I am done, I lay her down on my lap still under the HH while I pop off the shield, wipe it out, put it in the case, put my nursing pad back on, close up the bra.
- Once I am decent, I'll take off the HH and put everything away, burp her again, then put her back in the stroller.

As for getting over the fear? Just do it, baby! Its either that or sit in the house climbing the walls. not a good option, IMO .

[pg_jess]

swaddling - We've been swaddling with various receiving blankets, but Ethan always managed to get his arms free and wake himself up. We finally picked up a couple of miracle blankets. Best investment thus far! They are amazing and there's no way in the world he can get his arms out of there. He has somehow managed to free a leg twice now, which I completely don't understand. But at least his arms are pinned! :) The lady at the boutique where we bought the miracle blankets said he was getting his arms out because the blanket was too small. She also recommended (and DH purchased) some blankets from Australia. They're giant, cotton muslin blankets by Aden & Anais (www.adenandanais.com). They're super breathable and she said they get softer every time you wash them. We use those during the day since you're not supposed to tight swaddle more than 10 hours a day...

pacifiers - We have a bazillion and one pacifiers that we're not using. We ended up getting the soothies pacifiers from the lactaction consultants. The ones we had before were all the "other" style. I figured we might use them when Ethan outgrows the soothies/isn't in danger of nipple confusion. But they're all marked 0-3 months and that's how long the soothie is rated. Are there really different sizes? How different are they and how important is it to use the right size? I'm guessing this is a choking hazard thing, perhaps the older sizes are bigger? Are there other sizes of soothies?

[Tonysweetie]

pacifiers: All we use right now is soothies. DS won't take any other kind.


Andrew must be going through is 6 week growth spurt b/c my goodness this child will eat all.day.long if I let him. Sheesh! I'll be glad when this phase passes. He's already grown out of his first set of clothes. He has officially outgrown newborn clothes and is now in 0-3 month clothes. My baby boy is growing so fast!!

[tinkerbell]

Hi

I wanted to stop by and say a quick hello. I also wanted to add my information:

tinkerbell
Me: Amy, 30
DH: Brian, 38
Married: 06/29/02
DC: Tanner Stephen Thomas
Birthdate: 04/12/07
Sibling: Julia 12/14/05

I hope all is well with everyone. I will try and update later.

Take Care

Amy

[myshel]

pacifiers - We have a bazillion and one pacifiers that we're not using. We ended up getting the soothies pacifiers from the lactaction consultants. The ones we had before were all the "other" style. I figured we might use them when Ethan outgrows the soothies/isn't in danger of nipple confusion. But they're all marked 0-3 months and that's how long the soothie is rated. Are there really different sizes? How different are they and how important is it to use the right size? I'm guessing this is a choking hazard thing, perhaps the older sizes are bigger? Are there other sizes of soothies?

Jess, there are soothies that go up higher in age. The nipples are larger on them. You can find them at Target, or at least that's where I've seen them.

DS was (and still is to some extent) a NUK man. He used the 0-3 month NUKs for long past the three month stage. In fact, he wouldn't take the next size NUK until he was almost a year old. I have read that if you're trying to wean from a pacifier, that you shouldn't move up in sizes. I guess the smaller sizes discourage sucking or something.

I wish Carolina liked the soothies. I have four of them, but she hates them. I think it's because they don't stay in her mouth very well. I've switched her to the NUKs and happiness is hers. Go figure.

DH finally rolled in last night at 3:30 am, which coincidentally was the time I finally got back to sleep after princess chub had her little late night party from 1-3am. DH is a punk. Luckily, both kids have been content to cuddle in bed and sleep an extra 2 hours with Daddy and Mommy. Because of his late night out, I plan on spending some money today. Apparently, spending money makes me feel better for some reason. ;)

[lauren f s]

NIP: I'm a very modest person, so for me it varies. If I'm out shopping I'll go into a dressing room and feed James there. At a restaurant I'll usually feed him at the table, because from my experience nobody's looking. When we're grocery shopping or at the park or somewhere out in the open like that, I'll go the car. I refuse to nurse in a bathroom, unless it's one of the nicer family restrooms, and would rather walk to the car, sit in the a/c and listen to the radio while he eats.

Swaddling: I stink at swaddling! And James loves it, poor guy. He has an afghan that a friend made him and it's the only blanket he'll let me wrap him in, so it's not ideal for swaddling. But I wrap him up like a little burrito the best I can and he seems happy. I'd love to try some of these blankets, but hate to think I'd buy one and he wouldn't use it!

Pacifiers: We bought these MAM pacifiers and while James doesn't seem thrilled with them, he'll take them.
http://i42.photobucket.com/albums/e323/laurenballew/paci.jpg
His, obviously, is blue ;).

We went to the movies yesterday and James was wonderful! We met my best friend and her family to see Shrek. I brought the stroller and set James up next to me. He woke up to eat then went right back to sleep. It was such a nice little treat, even if the movie wasn't that great!

[MarriedaGoalie]

Pacifiers: Agreed! The Soothies are the best! We even use the Soothie bottles. I don't like any of the others.

[kimthebride]

Swaddling Blankets For Hot Weather
Is this what the muslin ones are for?

Pacifiers
DS was a fan of the MAM ones.
I tried 3 or 4 different brands with DD, and she is a MAM fan as well. Which works out ok, since they have clear ones and once she's teething they also have them with gun-massaging nubs on them.

NIP Today
I am pretty vehemently against being banished to a bathroom to nurse, so unless its a nice comfy lounge I won't purposely do it.
Well I was at a family event today at a catering hall and the music was SO LOUD I had to take a chair and nurse in the ladies room for some peace and quiet. It was a new building so the bathroom was totally clean and spacious, but on principle I almost wouldn't go, lol.

I also can't tell you how many people asked me if today was her 1st outing, after telling them she was almost 5 weeks old. Yikes! I can't imagine staying inside for 5 weeks!!!

Sleep
Last night DD did a wonderful stretch from about 9pm-3am. Now, had I been sleeping as well it would have been perfect! :rolleyes: I'd love for her to do a 10pm/4am/8am feeding routine....must ask her to try that ;) .

[diedra1027]

Yeah, we're in the Infant/Baby section now!!

Pacifiers - We have at least one of every kind except the Soothies left over from Avery who never took one. Ian will grudgingly take a NUK for a few minutes here and there, but he more or less doesn't like taking a pacifier. I've been using them when DH isn't around at night to get through Avery's bedtime routine - even if he's sleeping when we start he almost always wakes up at some point during the evening festivities!

NIP - I think I'm the laziest BFer on the planet...I've learned to rely heavily on a boppy so that I can be hands free. I pretty much can't get comfortable nursing any other way. This, of course, makes NIP very difficult. I usually just bring the boppy with me and nurse in the car if I have to. When Avery was little she freaked out in public everytime we went out so I learned to nurse her in a ring sling (I also used a nipple shield with her), but it was a huge production.

Swaddling - We have a miracle blanket because I just can not figure out a good blanket swaddle on my own. I tend to get lazy with the MB and just tuck the last flap under Ian without finish wrapping it and he can totally bust out of it that way:eek:.

[juliemag]

Pacifiers - we use a slew of different types. But they all have that "orthodontic" looking tip. He didn't like the MAM ones or the soothies.

NIP - I NIP'd for the first time yesterday! Outside TJ Maxx in an area with a bunch of benches. I was suprised at how much I didn't care at ALL what anyone thought! One lady actually walked by me and pointed at me and said something in spanish to her child. Then she pointed again and said something else...because once wasn't enough. :rolleyes:

Jackson will be 2 months old tomorrow! We are finally starting to get some long stretches of sleep from him! :D The past three nights he's had a 6 hour stretch, a 5.5 hour stretch, and a 6.5 hour stretch! Hallelujah!!!!

[myshel]

Sleeping in Crib:Yay! C slept in her crib for almost the entire night! The only stretch she slept with us was from 5am until DH left for work. We finally got smart and bought a crib soother (we got the FP Rainforest Waterfall one), and it works like baby crack! It put her to sleep in her crib yesterday afternoon and for the first part of last night. It finally dawned on me that Luka needed one to fall asleep too. Why I didn't think of this sooner, I don't know!

Weekend Visitors: Our weekend visitors were fun. DH's two aunts and a cousin came as well as my mom and my aunt. The only semi-weird moment was when I started to bf C (under a blanket as discreetly as I could), and I looked over at my mom. She rolled her eyes and shuddered, turning away. My sister, who was there, started laughing. I got the complete opposite reaction from one of DH's aunts, who wanted to look at the nipple shield while I fed C.

More NIP: Thanks for all of the suggestions. I feel like I use a ton of blankets and burp cloths (cloth diapers) as it is, but I just need to practice more. Diedra, I've only nursed with the Boppy, so that's one of my fears too. I have two of them, so I'll start toting one in the car when we go out.

Luka has been feeling pretty crappy the past few days, so he's staying home with me today. So far, he seems pretty content. Let's hope he doesn't start a crying jag. :cool:

[kimthebride]

myshel
Since I am tall, the Boppy makes life so much easier at home since it brings DD up closer to boob-level and prevents backaches.
But I can't always use it in public, so sometimes I just toss a heavier crib blanket in the stroller to roll up and use to prop her higher for me when I NIP. It does help some.

[lauren f s]

Good job myshel!!! Sounds like a good weekend, with Carolina sleeping in her crib and NIP! Too funny about your mom, but good for you for doing it! My mom, funnily enough, has never been very supportive of BF'ing, but has always encouraged me to NIP. Go figure :rolleyes:. Kim's suggestion of using a blanket as a substitute Boppy is a good idea. I've used my diaper bag; it works well enough.

[mili04]

Spit-up: DS was spitting up a ton and also acted like he was in pain so the ped put him on reflux meds. He has been so much better since then. I also stay away from dairy and soy since they seem to aggrevate the reflux.

Pacifiers: We have the Nuk ones and it is hit or miss getting DS to take it. Maybe I need to try another kind.

Swaddling: Noah sleeps really well with his Miracle Blanket. So far, he has broken out of everything else, including the Swaddle Me wrap. He starts daycare in a few weeks, so I'm going to try making a big, lightweight swaddle blanket for naptime.

Travel: We just got back from our first road trip and will be taking DS on his first flight this weekend. We are flying cross-country and couldn't get a direct flight...wish me luck!

[pg_jess]

Kim - Yes, the muslin blankets are designed to be breathable/comfortable in hot weather. Plus, they're HUGE so they make swaddling really easy. I love them *almost* as much as I love my miracle blanket.

Mili - The Aden & Anais blankets I posted about earlier are huge and lightweight. They're expensive (I think DH paid $40 for 4), but in my opinion, totally worth it.

NIP - I've only mustered up the courage to nurse in the car and at my in-laws house. I need to practice nursing with a blanket so I can NIP for real. I haven't been wearing nursing tops, so I have to pull up my shirt, which complicates things. I also haven't graduated to one-handed nursing yet. I'm hoping to get more comfortable because currently we're timing all outings around nursing sessions and carrying bottles of EBM everywhere. Oy.

My doctoral classes started again last week. I think DH has officially been home alone with Ethan more than I have. He works from home, so when I'm here during the day I'm not really alone, which is nice. He's in his office most of the day, but just knowing that there's someone else here is comforting. But I'm amazed at how much more confident I feel about parenting compared to just a couple of weeks ago. I may even reconsider my only half-joking ban on a second child! :)

[michael'sbride]

Spit-up: We've had such a problem with spit-up. Michael was in so much pain that we tried Zantac to help his reflux. He was choking/coughing during nursing and I was terrified so we did a OPMS - Modified Barium Swollow Study to determine if he was aspirating milk into his lungs, which he was. My Ped strongly suggested exclusively pumping and thickening his milk with Simply Thick to stop the aspirating, but I refused and chose Reglan instead, to see if that would help with refluxing and choking. THe Reglan made no difference and he still choked the same amount so I am now pumping 90% of his feedings and we haven't had a single problem since I started 2 days ago. It helped the cranky-ness, screaming during nursing, painful burps, spitting up and choking. I have exclusively nursed my other two boys for over 6 months and I am just devastated about this BUT I believe in doing what's best for my baby and not necessarily what is best for me emotionally.

I'm still nursing the middle of the night feeding, just for ease.

Pacifiers: Michael is a MAM addict. He liked the soothie but I like the shape of the MAM better for the long term.

Swaddling: We use a swaddle me every night. Did the same with Evan until 9 months.

[Tonysweetie]

Just got back from my 6 week PP visit. My blood pressure is STILL an issue. I'm still on BP meds and now have to go see my regular Dr. Ugh!!! Why won't this go away! I was down 2 lbs. since my last visit 2 weeks ago. WHOO HOO! I can now go back to my regular activities. I'm SO excited to get back in the gym. DH will also be thrilled we can DTD once again. I also got an RX for BCP which I'm happy about. I didn't know you could take BCP while BFing but she said you can.

Swaddle: DS doesn't really care to be swaddled. I will every now and then with a regular receiving blanket but he could careless about it.

Crib Sleeping: Non existent. DS will NOT sleep in his crib. He will sleep great in his PnP and the cradle. He is still STTN which is making me a very happy Mama.

NIP: Not yet. I just can't work up the courage. I will either bring EBM or mix him up a formula bottle. We are a BFing/FF family. I was going to try and get my supply up and BF only but this is working great for us so we decided to stick to it. I still have to use the nipple shield though but really I like it more than DS really needs it. It keeps me from having sore nips and DS seems satisfied more after using it.

[MarriedaGoalie]

NIP: I haven't done it yet... I'm just not that comfortable with it. I will do it at someone's house, but not in public.

Crib Sleeping: He sleeps in a bassinet, but hasn't slept in his crib yet. I am sure he would, but I just don't feel like getting up and going in the other room to get him in the middle of the night. Until he sleeps through the night on a regular basis, he will be in our room in his bassinet.

Spitting up: It has become a HUGE issue. When I was strictly BFing, he wasn't spitting up at all and the more we substitute formula, the more of an issue it has become. He is even on soy formula. I'm wondering if I should switch back to milk based formula? I'm just not sure what else to do...

DH and I got our first night out on the town last night for our 2nd wedding anniversary. We had fondue at a fondue restraunt without the kiddos and it was GREAT. It was a nice little break!

[myshel]

MAG: How nice that you and DH got out by yourselves! I'm in the process of trying to plan something for our anniversary too.

What kind of bottles are you using? Type of formula? DS was a big time spitter. We switched to Good Start and that helped some with the spitting up. The other thing that seemed to help, quite honestly, was switching bottles. We were using som Evenflo bottles, but switched to Dr. Brown's. That made a huge difference for us. If you're not using Dr. Brown's, you might see if you can find a single bottle and try it out on Carter for a few feedings.

being home yesterday with the kids went fairly well, minus the last hour when all hell broke loose. C wanted to be fed just as I was starting dinner. Then Luka started crying uncontrollably for "Daddy, Daddy." He stood by our front window for an hour, the longest on of my life. All was well once Daddy came home though.

Baths: Is there anyone else with a sea monkey for a child? C LOVES baths. She is so calm when she's in the bath. Luka hated baths and to this day, hates any body of water that's deeper than our bathtub.

BabyHawk: I broke down and ordered a BabyHawk. I really love the look of the sling-pouches that Nancy and kim posted, but I wasn't sure how comfortable I'd be using them. I've used a mei tai before, so that's what I decided to go with. I can't wait to get it, so I can try it out in the neighborhood.

[lauren f s]

Water Baby: Both of mine are. Ava stays in her bath until the water's cold and I have to drag her out. James loves them, too. It's funny, he'll be screaming and fussing at me, I'll stick him in that bath, and he's instantly calm!

Spit Up: I think some babies just spit up a lot. James only gets BM, from a bottle while I'm at work and me at night, and he spits up like crazy.

myshel: So sorry your last hour with the kids was tough! Have you taken the kids out yet?

MAG: Happy Anniversary! How nice to have a night out, just the two of you!

My poor little guy would not nap at all on Sunday. He'd doze for maybe 20 minutes, then wake up. He slept an hour total, if that, all day, and was falling asleep in the bath that night. Yesterday he slept all day long! Poor baby only woke to take 2 bottles (he normally takes 4). He was awake when I got home for a bit, then was out for the night at 7:30! Poor guy was so exhausted, I felt bad for him! He slept well last night, so I'm hoping he'll have a good day today and be back on track!

[myshel]

myshel: So sorry your last hour with the kids was tough! Have you taken the kids out yet?

Normally, Luka wouldn't be home. He was sick with a fever yesterday, so the farthest we went is on our patio. We are continuing to send him to daycare through the summer. The reason, which seems a little lame, is that for infant and transitional rooms, the center charges full price whether the child is there or not to hold that child's spot. Once kids reach the toddler room, they will allow you to take kids out four weeks at a time, eight weeks total for the year, at $25 per week to hold your spot. If we're plunking down $175 per week, then DS will continue to go.

I think I probably could handle them out in public on my own, but the taking a bfed baby out in public thing still freaks me out a bit.

[lauren f s]

I'd keep sending him to school, too! I don't blame you one bit ;). If I take a day off work I still send Ava. If I'm paying, her butt's going! Is Luka better today?

[myshel]

Luka is feeling better, thanks. Last week, he was diagnosed with a sinus infection and pink eye. We kept him home one day to make sure the antibiotic was working and then sent him back to school. Over the weekend, he developed a 103 degree fever and cried a lot Sunday. Yesterday was just a precautionary stay home day. Luka spent much of yesterday sleeping on the floor and "taking care" of his "baby." We've been working with him to say, "Lina," but all he can get out is "Baby." Everytime, C cries, Luka yells, "Uh oh!" and runs to get a blanket to cover her-- even in 80 degree plus heat. It's pretty darn funny.

[BusyBee]

Hi, Ladies,
I'm just popping in with a quick question about the Bjorn carrier - does it get very hot for you or baby in the summer. I tried our old Snugli at home, and it's ok for a 10-pounder, but getting worse. Target has a Bjorn Air carrier (http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_3/601-4350798-5404156?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000BVN0GO) that's suppose to be cooler, but the straps & support look much like the Snugli.
Thanks!

[kimthebride]

Busybee Re: Bjorn
DS was born in June, and I used the Bjorn Active Carrier all summer/fall and he never got too hot/sweaty to the point of concern. I get the concept of this new one (I was just looking at it the other day, in fact), but I also don't think its an "active" one which means it doesnt have that great lumbar support.

myshel
Glad to hear Luka is feeling better!
Its tough having 2 at home. Trust me, I am on the verge of sending DS somewhere, ANYWHERE, some days so i can be a little less frazzled ;).
Thomas does the same thing when Ava cries - he runs to her pointing and going "UH OH BABY!" then will give her a blanket.
I'm telling you, just try once to BF in public. You'll see that no one is really noticing and you'll do great. Maybe at first try in a lounge at the mall, then a mall bench, then a restuarant, work your way up to more 'exposed' areas.

Water Babies
DS runs screaming to the bathroom when DH or I tell him its bathtime. he about passes out with delight when we give him a new bath toy. I just found these rubber ducks that light up, so we'll put them in the tub & turn off the lights. My God, I think the child is going to hurt himself he laughs so hard when we do this!
DD is one happy clam during bathtime too.

lauren
Yuck! That little sleep must have made for one cranky kid (and mama ;) ).

Married
Happy anniversary!

Tonys
Oh yeah, you can take the mini pill when BFing. If not, then my DH would be sleeping on the floor for a while :D .

pg_jess
Thanks for the info on those muslin blankets. I may order a pack to check them out.

mili
Good luck flying with DS! My DS's first flight was when he was exactly 2 months old tot he day. We were soooooo nervous, but now realize that flying with an infant is a piece of cake. Flying with a crazed toddler? Not so fun. :p

Presents
Ihave to say, it has been WAY too long that anyone in the family has had a baby girl. You should see all the cute clothes we are getting in the mail, LOL! This child is never going to wear the same thing twice until she's about 2.

[MarriedaGoalie]

Thanks for the anniversary wishes, ladies!! :)

Myshel: Honestly, we have used all kinds of formula. We've used Similac, Enfamil and the generic brand from Wal-Mart (whatever it is called). I hadn't thought about the bottle thing. He has been using the Soothie bottles and sometimes the Drop Ins system. I have one Dr. Brown's bottle and he did wonderful on that in the beginning but it is only a 2 oz bottle so we don't use it anymore. Maybe I should go buy a bigger one and see if that helps! Thanks for the advice!

[Tonysweetie]

Kim: Mini pill? She told me this is the full dosage pill. :confused: What is the mini pill? Is it just as effective?

Married: I LOVE Dr. Browns bottles, DS does so much better on those than any other kind.

I'm just so depressed with my body. I really thought by now I would've lost more than I have. I've barely lost anything. I still look 5 months pregnant. I'm still wearing my maternity clothes. Forget wearing a bathing suit or shorts this season. I'm just so sad about this. My stomach is so flabby and saggy. I have this lovely sag going over my pubic bone. It's gross. I just hate it. I've been working out for about a week and 1/2 now hoping maybe I'll start seeing a change. My stomach just looks like a big glob of lose skin. Ugh! I get so jealous when I hear about women who just had babies when I did back in their jeans. I'm not expecting to be wearing all my old clothes but I at least expected to be out of my maternity clothes by now. I have at least a good 30 lbs. to lose before I'd be anywhere near my old weight. I thought maybe it was just in my head but the other day I was walking outside and 2 of my neighbors asked me when the baby was due. :( :( :(

[lauren f s]

TS: The mini pill is the bcp, with lower doses of hormone (progestin, I think). It's safe to use while BF'ing and won't affect your supply. And I know it's depressing that you can't wear you regular clothes again. But first, remember that it took 9 months to gain that weight. Some people lose it easily, but for most of us it takes time. Exercise, eat well, and it'll come off. Also, I'd go out and buy a few things that fit you now. Get out of the maternity clothes because that will depress anybody! Go buy some nice jeans, shirts, and a dress or something that fit now. Don't worry about size, just get something that fits and makes you feel pretty. I've done this after having both kids and it's amazing what good fitting, new clothes will do for you!

myshel & Kim: Too sweet that your boys comfort their sisters like that! I caught Ava comforting James a few days ago. At least, I'm telling myself she was comforting him and not attempting to smother him with a receiving blanket that was wrapped tightly on his face :eek:. Seriously, she's a sweet girl, she just doesn't understand that he's not 3 like she is!

[lil_nance]

Hi just found the new thread. I'd been wondering why everyone was so quiet. :o

We are on day #2 of EPEF (Explosive Poop and Extreme Fussies). DD went through 3 outfits yesterday and 2 so far today. I've been ignoring some of the spit up or I'd be changing her even more. She fussed from 2pm-8pm last night. By the time DH got home even he could see I needed a break. She's fine at night just fussy in the afternoon. Wish I knew why. Sometimes she seems like she's in pain so I still wonder about reflux. But, I thought if it was reflux it would bother her all the time, right? Have her in a swaddle right now and she's sleeping on my lap thank goodness.

NIP Been doing it all the time. I just am not concerned about other peoples' thoughts this time around. I've NIP'd at the playarea in the mall, a restaurant, and friends' homes. I did go into an office at church but I was tempted to just NIP at coffee hour there too. We have a small congregation so most know I'm BFing.

MAG Happy Anniversary. I love fondue. DH and I went to Melting Pot for our anniversary in Oct.

Swaddling We have a few big recieving blankets that we usually use. I might try to get a Miracle Blanket or one of the muslin ones. I want it more for day than night. At night we only swaddle her from chest down but I'd love to get her to nap without me holding her in the day.

pacifiers I've tried 2 with DD. She's not interested. I wish she would be. Anything to end the fussies. I know she'll outgrow this phase. I'm ready for it NOW!

[myshel]

TS: I second what Lauren said about going out to buy a few clothes that fit for right now. I bought a few t-shirts and a pair of jeans after the birth of DS to get me through those days when nothing seemed to fit right. Even this time around, I've purchased a few new shirts and plan to buy a pair of capris that fit right now. You really do need to give yourself some time, my dear. Every single woman I know has had the saggy, lumpy, dough-y baby stomach. It doesn't go away like magic once you give birth, which is what I thought the first time around. Just remember that while you may not love your body right now, it did give you and DH one of the greatest gifts in the world-- your DS.

Eye color: Has anyone had their DC's eye color change yet? I just wondered. DS's eye were slate grey and gradually changed to a dark brown. Carolina's eyes are the same slate grey-blue. There's a small (and by small, I mean very, very small) possibility that she could have an eye color other than brown but...

[kimthebride]

Eye Color
DD's eyes are a fairly light blue already, have been since birth. DS started a deep slate grey and went to light blue like mine. I am anxiously awaiting to see whether DD lightens a little more to my color, or goes to a light green like DH. Here's a pic - its a little dark, but you can pretty much see how they aren't really that slate color at all:
photoremoved

tonys Re: Post Baby Body
It just takes time! And don't forget, a lot of the people you see who 'slip back into their jeans' either puked their whole pregnancy or weren't on bedrest and were chasing around other kids the whole time or are naturally very thin or are using pliers to get themselves into said jeans ;) .
Don't get down on yourself - your body just did a great thing and it takes time to recover. Besides, its just a little fat and wobbly stuff. Not the end of the world. :)

lil_nance
Boy am I THRILLED to be entering the Cranky Phase right now. Yeah, good times. :rolleyes:

[myshel]

DS started a deep slate grey and went to light blue like mine

So, there might be hope? :p DH is Hispanic/Latino, so it seems that anything genetically is influenced by him. Needless to say, DH has very dark brown eyes. I also have brown eyes. Both MIL and my father have blue eyes, so I keep hoping... maybe... DS has coloring very similar to DH's. C has lighter skin, but much darker hair. She'd look great with blue eyes.

[MarriedaGoalie]

Eye color: Carter's eyes are still blue! Hopefully they stay that way (like mine).

Mini Pill: I'm on the mini pill too. The only thing you have to be extremely careful about is to take it at the same time every day. If you take it more than 3 hours away from your usual time, then you have to use an alternate method for two days. I just set my cellphone alarm to remind me to take it at the same time!

[kimthebride]

myshel
LOL! Yes, there is still hope. DS's were dark, we didn't know if he'd go hazel or brown (like most of our Italian families) or fade to a light blue or green (like recessive me & DH). This is what he went to:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/213/509911694_85f1731fde.jpg?v=0

[BusyBee]

Kim, thanks for your input on the Bjorn - I'm going to give it a try (the Active, that is).

Eye color: Both girls started out the same - dark dark blue, navy almost. DD's slowly became lighter over the first year, to a much lighter blue (like Kim's DS - I'm not that quick with the photos :) ). Mine are more blue-gray with a bit of hazel in the center, DH's are pure blue, and DD's are even bluer than his.

Pacifiers: N is 6 weeks old today, and we just started working on the pacifier. I've been giving her an Avent, and she "catches" it sometimes, it'll take some practice.
DD refused it until she was 4 months old, but I think I was so worried about BFing that we didn't start until very late. One day she latched onto my wrist, so I popped in a Binky in instead, and it just clicked.

[lauren f s]

Eye Color: There's hope for blue eyes myshel! My nephew's dad is Hispanic with dark hair & eyes. My nephew has dark hair, dark skin, and piercing blue eyes. Ava's started out grey, then turned a lovely shade of light brown. James's are greyish blue and I swear they're turning more blue every day. DH and others see it to, esp. when he's wearing blue clothes. I really hope they stay blue;DH has blue eyes and while I think Ava's eyes are lovely, I'd love a little blue eyed boy.

[happy1nuv]

i'm so far behind...not sure where the time goes these days...

nic likes to comfort joe with a thrown blanket too... at least, thats how i see it now. before, i figured he was trying to cover up the sounds so i wouldnt pick joe up and spoil his fun...

and i agree...im much more bold nip'ing this time around...

blue eyes - not to discourage anyone, but my nieces eyes went from really blue to brown right before her first birthday... nic's eyes were brown right away (before 2 mos, when he was baptized)... joe is 2 mos today and still blue (no chance of that being permamnent)

[myshel]

I NIPed... sort of! I took DS and DD to DH's softball game yesterday. While we were there, it started to get really windy and sprinkle, so I took the kids back to the car. In the meantime, my sister shows up with her two boys, ages 3 and 5, because my BIL plays on the same team. Since my sister has to go to class, I'm supposed to watch the boys. Because of the rain, we stayed in their van, the kids watching an Elmo video. I sat in the front seat, in a very busy parking lot, watching the game, and NIPed right there. ;)

[kimthebride]

Yay myshel!

[mili04]

pg_jess: Thanks for the swaddling blanket recommendation. I'm not sure I can talk DH into spending $40 when we have 2 dozen blankets already. I'll just have to remind him of one of his favorite expressions..."You get what you pay for."

MAG: Happy Anniversary!

TS: Please don't worry too much about your body. You carried your son for 9 months and gave birth, and that is a beautiful thing.

Myshel: Good for you for NIP!

Pacifiers: Ok, I went out yesterday and bought 3 different kinds of pacifiers: Soothies, MAM, and Gerber Natural Latch. Hopefully DS will like one of them.

Eye Color: We have no idea what color N's eyes are going to be. They were slate blue at birth, then started turning brown, then went back to the slate color. I have dark brown eyes and DH has blue eyes. My parents both have brown eyes, but my grandmother has blue eyes so there is a small chance I carry the recessive gene for blue eyes. It is still a waiting game for us.

[April07Mamas]

Updated to here!

[diedra1027]

Eye Color - DDs eyes stayed grey for a long time (like 7 months) before turning brown, a lighter shade than mine. Ian's eyes have already turned brown, if they stay that way it looks like they are going to be dark brown like mine. I know two other couples with similar eye color genetics that DH and I have (I have brown eyes, but carry a blue gene since my mom has blue eyes and DH has blue eyes) and both other couples ended up with blue eyed babies. My Dad's brown eye genes are very powerful ;).

TS - I second (third?) the recommendation to go out and get yourself a non-maternity outfit. I'm still wearing my maternity pants too, but bought a few regular T-shirts to go with it. I'm so sick of these stupid maternity pants though that I'm considering some new pants too - my 'natural' pp weightloss seems to have stopped, so I don't think I'm going to lose any more weight without putting effort into it...

[lil_nance]

Ok I've decided I need to complain to you gals more often. After my last post, Avery went on to have a fairly good afternoon. Very nice for me.

myshel Yeah for NIP!
eye color Blue and staying that way. DH & I both have blue eyes, so does DS.

More curious about what her hair color will be. Both DH and I were blond as kids. His turned brown fairly early. Mine started darkening in my 20s, now it's dark blond to light brown and going grey. DS is very blond. Right now she has some reddish brown hair but, I think she'll loose it like DS did.

We have Avery's baptism on Sunday. FIL is coming in tonight but only staying one day. My family is too far away and the rest of DH's family was busy. So, it will be a small group of friends only. The older I get the more I realize that sometimes friends are better than family.

[lauren f s]

The older I get the more I realize that sometimes friends are better than family.
Because you can choose your friends ;).

I think James is going through a growth spurt. He didn't nap - at all - on Sunday and spent all day Monday sleeping, went to bed early, and spent all yesterday sleeping. In those two days he'd normally take 8 bottles and he's only taken 4! When he's awake, though, he's ravenous and scarfs down his bottle or, if I'm home, nurses constantly. Is it bad that I'm more than a little happy he's taking half the normal amount of bottles because this puts less pumping pressure on me? I've been so worried that I would have to supplement with formula (I know there's nothing wrong with formula, I'd just prefer not to if I can) and these few days of eating less are building up my freezer stash!

[happy1nuv]

dh took off Monday to accompany us to the drs.... Nic's 2 year visit and Joe's 2 month visit.

Joeys stats
Height: 23" (50th percentile)
Weight: 12 lbs 10 oz (75th %)
Head Circumference: 15" (50%)

[myshel]

We just got back fom an appointment with the LCs. I swear! They are so worried about weight gain that they wanted one last weight check to be sure. Here are the stats:

5/9 (ped): 8 pounds, 14 ounces
5/23 (LC): 9 pounds, 14 ounces

Yay! One pound in two weeks. I asked the LC about the fact that Carolina really only eats for about 10 minutes and is done. She had me feed C there and did weights before and after. Apparently, in a 10 minute nursing session, the girl drinks about 3 ounces. The LC seemed pretty impressed with that.

The LC did question why I didn't pump when C only eats from one breast (which she has always done) at a time. Do any of you do that? I tend to feed her from one breast and then offer the ooposite one at the next feeding.

[lauren f s]

Myshel: I don't. With both kids I just nursed them on one side at one feeding, then the other side at the next feeding. I know I *should* pump on the side James doesn't nurse on when he's finished, but I don't feel like it. I pump at work and when I'm home I don't want to deal with it. I nursed Ava 13 months this way and she was perfectly healthy! I think it's fine that you're doing it.

[Tonysweetie]

myshel: YAY for NIP! Also awesome she gained a whole lbs. in 2 weeks! :)

Eye color: DS eyes were grey at birth and they have turned to a very pretty bright blue. I'm hoping this stays.

Hair falling out: Is anyone's elses DC hair falling out? DS had a nice head of blond hair and on the sides he's gone bald.

Thanks girls for giving me some words of encouragement. It's just so hard to have a flabby tummy when I just had a flat tight one 11 months ago. *sigh* I did start working out and lifting some light weights this week and I got up this morning and weighed 2 lbs. less. YAY!!! :) Hopefully if I get these pesky 20 or so lbs. off I'll be back to my old self or close to it.

I'm SOOO excited. DH and I are going to go stay in a hotel on Sunday night. We are staying at the Hilton where we stayed on our wedding night. We feel we need some "reconnection" time. So were leaving DS with my Mom overnight. I'm extremely nervous to leave my little man overnight but I know he'll be fine. Must go shopping tomorrow night to get something cute to wear to dinner and maybe a haircut. :D

[kimthebride]

Single Breast Feedings
I feed from one per session. But if I pump, I pump both at once.

Hair
DD was born with dark brown hair (serisouly, is she even mine?!), but now its falling out and she has the middle-aged-man receding hairline look. Very attractive.

DH has light brown hair & I have light blonde. DS is almost 2 and still light blonde, but his lashes are a little darker. DD's dark hair is falling out, but she has very light blonde lashes & brows. So who knows!

We knew having kids would be a crapshoot as fas as coloring. DH & I are both fair. Both his parents are olive skinned, dark hair & hazel eyes. My mom is a freckly redhead and father had black hair, olive skin & hazel eyes. Genetic soup, anyone??

tonys
Have a nice night out! DH & I have been away from DS, but never together. I'd like to try it sometime, lol.

myshel
DD eats fast too - sometimes these girls are just very efficient ;) . Sounds like all is going well!

lauren
You crack me up. :) But its true! My friends become family to me, and its because we want to spend time together a lot, lol.

Growth Spurt
DD is on her way. She is an ANIMAL when its time to eat, and she's waking a little more frequently at night too. I can't tell you how many poopy diapers I change a day. Girlfriend is growing out of clothes faster tan i can wash them!

[myshel]

hair color: DH has thick, black hair (FIL has the same hair, MIL is/was blonde). I have thick, dak brown hair (both parents have thin brown hair). DS was born with brown hair, but as he's gotten older it's become a light brown-- way lighter than mine. His hair is also pretty thin. DD was born with very dark brown hair, nearly black. She hasn't started sporting the old man hair yet, so it's a bit early to tell what color her hair will be. I'd love it if it was the same color it is right now-- really dark, almost like DH's hair.

[lauren f s]

Tonys: Have fun on your night out!

Kim: :D It's true! Friend are our adopted family!

Hair color: I have no clue what it'll be! James had light brown hair with a receding hairline when he was born. We joked that he not only got my dad's name for his middle name, but my dad's hairline as well ;) Then hair grew in up top, but it's falling out on the back. Poor kid! His lashes and eyebrows are light, light brown and his hair is darker. I have dark auburn hair, DH has light brown hair. My dad is bald, but his hair was my color, my mom's is black. MIL is blond, FIL has black. Ava's is light brown. So who knows what it'll be! I expect it to be light brown, though.

[diedra1027]

The LC did question why I didn't pump when C only eats from one breast (which she has always done) at a time. Do any of you do that? I tend to feed her from one breast and then offer the ooposite one at the next feeding.Umm..yeah, because you don't have anything better to do, right?? ;) I try to feed him from both sides at each feeding, but if he only takes one I do exactly the same thing that you do...I can tell by feel which boob has more milk in it and I always start him on the fuller boob (or I start on the 'faster' boob first if I can't feel a difference between the two volume wise).

Hair - Ian is the baldest baby that anyone in my family has ever produced. I'm totally used to a new baby with a full head of hair and Ian came out with male pattern baldness (or 'The Friar' as my aunt calls it) - no hair on top with a little bit on the sides. It's starting to come in and it's pretty reddish-blond. My kiddos hair color is something I wasn't expecting - I appear to have the dominant features and I have very dark hair (DH has dark blond hair). Avery was born with jet black hair and it changed to a blond/brown and Ian's looking to follow the same pattern. Avery's hair color changes with the seasons right now (Really blond in the summer, darkens through the winter), but I'm guessing they'll both end up with browner hair as they get older.

[sunni76]

Hi ladies! We finally have our computer back up and running:) I was beginning to go a bit batty!! Hopefully now I'll be able to keep up with everyone:)
Nolan is doing great, he was 10 pounds at his 1 month dr. visit, and his 2 month is next Fri. already! Time is going way too fast.
Nursing is going well. I usually just nurse one side at a time, and I try to pump almost every morning to build up my freezer stash for when I go back to work (next week already!!). I have over 100 ounces, so I'm feeling pretty good about it.

[myshel]

OMG! Fussiness! For the love of all that's holy! My sweet, docile little girl has hit the fussies big time. She was fussy last night during all of Lost (damn it!) and is again this morning. I know that it can't be anything having to do with breast feeding because she quietly took the breast during all of her feedings last night. I think it's the three week growth spurt. ARGH!

[MarriedaGoalie]

I can't believe my little man is 2 months old today! OMG How time flies!!

I am so proud of myself. I did so well last night with putting Carter back to bed. He went to bed around 9:45 and slept until 6:00 this morning. I fed him and put him back in his bassinet. He fussed for a little bit and then must have fell back asleep because I woke up at 7:30 and he was asleep. He woke up at about 8:00. One other thing I need to get in a better habit of doing is feeding him in the mornings. I can't remember the last time I fed him before I went to work. I am just so bad at getting up early enough to do it... I have to get better at that.

[happy1nuv]

single boob/feeding ~ yup, i do that too ... well, i try and do one boob/3 hours if i can remember (so if he eats and then wants a snack in 1 1/2 hrs he gets the same boob) ... never pump the other... did the same w/ nic and never had any issues... of course... nic could stay on the boob 24/7 w/o a prob... joe wants to eat and get off, but then he wants to cuddle the boob (i think i might still be a bit fast for him... so if he stays on sucking longer than he should, he always ends up choking... his fave position is a pacifier against a preferably bare boob... BOYS!

joe's been having a few fussy episodes lately, and im pretty sure its food related (he pretty much eats, is a tad fussy - but then he cries likes hes in pain and theres no stopping it ... he's done it a handful of times in the past 2 weeks) - im just not sure how to figure out what it is... i really dont eat that much dairy but a few weeks ago i was all about ice cream and he was fine... i have a feeling im going to need to do the elimination diet, but im dreading it...

[golfer_girl]

Giant Swaddling Blankets - did someone say they were from Australia? Could someone put the link in them. Seems my DD is so long already that I often have to reswaddle to get her toes in there. I used to be a champ at swaddling with my first one. I swaddled DS for 6 months! He slept like a champ.
I do have a few larger swaddling blankets but they were hand me downs and can't find the big ones.

myshel - good for you NIP. You'll get more comfortable with it. You'll have to :). Pretty soon you'll feel like the hesitation was silly. Go get a HH or a Honolulu Babies cover. It'll make you feel so much better. I always use mine and it really is great. Another thing, I always learned that it seems like people are focused and staring at you, but they're not. They won't think twice after they even pass you on a bench. Well, if you don't have anything to cover you up, then of course, people would be more shocked. It's not as big of a deal as you think it might be. Just smile and enjoy you're out.

Pacis - the larger sized paci's grossed me out. I used the small ones for my DS till he was done with them. I didn't want him getting used to a giant nipple!

[lauren f s]

his fave position is a pacifier against a preferably bare boob... BOYS!
Ha, that's the only way I can get James to take a pacifier, too! :rolleyes:

I've been feeling pretty down lately. I was a SAHM with Ava, so this whole working/parenting a newborn thing is new for me. It's been really hard for me to find a balance at home between the kids, cooking, laundry, housework, etc. Most nights I'll get home, feed James, pop him in the bouncy and start dinner. Halfway through he's fussing, Ava's all over me trying to "help", and I'm a nervous wreck. Dinner is quickly finished, DH & Ava eat while I comfort James, then DH takes James so I can eat. Then James goes to bed, I bathe Ava, she goes to bed, then I decide if I want to clean or sleep. It's awful. And it doesn't help that when I pick him up each day he's smiling and so happy for his sitter, but rarely smiles for me (Ava, all the time; me, not so much). I've just felt like he doesn't need me for anything other than food. And it hurts. So I spent much of yesterday talking with my best friend, who went through all these same feelings a year ago with her DD, and then I talked with DH, too. For the time being, when I'm home, I'm focusing on the kids. Dinner can be sandwiches, tv dinners, take-out, or eaten late. But for my sanity (and my slowly breaking heart), I need to spend what few hours James is awake in the evenings with him. Laundry & cleaning can wait for the weekend. I really need this time with my kids and DH sees that and agrees. So the four of us hung out last night, ate mac & cheese for dinner, and had a nice night. The first truly enjoyable night for us all in a while. I'm happy :)

[sunni76]

lauren It's so hard to find balance! I remember that feeling well when I went back to work after Macy was born, and I am dreading it again this time when I go back again. It's just that you feel so stretched out like you are about to break! That's how I felt anyway. I'm glad you are going to take it easy and spend as much time with James as you can. No one will suffer if you have simple suppers and skip a bath here and there or whatever for a little while. I need to remember this when I go back too...:) The hospitals should send us all home with a cleaning service for the first few months:)

[lil_nance]

OMG! Fussiness! For the love of all that's holy! My sweet, docile little girl has hit the fussies big time. She was fussy last night during all of Lost (damn it!) and is again this morning. I know that it can't be anything having to do with breast feeding because she quietly took the breast during all of her feedings last night. I think it's the three week growth spurt. ARGH!

Must be something in the air. Avery has been fussy too. Last night she screamed from 8-12:30 except when eating. She's been good today. Sleeping a lot. We're planning on leaving the kids with my FIL and his lady friend tonight. DH & I are going to the movies. :D

[myshel]

Nancy: The irony is that after a long nap on Momma (because if I put her down anywhere else, screaming would ensue), she's perfectly content to be in her diaper, propped up in the Boppy, with a binky. What the hell?!

I hope you have a great time tonight at the movies!

We're going to a dinner tonight; it's at my department head's house. We're taking Carolina because everyone wants to see her. She's also pretty portable. Luka, on the other hand, is going to go play with his cousins. I feel bad about not taking Luka too, but these people have a beautiful house that could be destroyed easily by even the best behaved toddler.

[myshel]

Lauren: I completely understand how you feel. When I went back, at 4 weeks pp, after Luka, I struggled greatly with the balance between family, house, and my job. It's especially hard because teaching is a profession where you must bring home some amount of work. I got very good at doing as much work at school as I could. It also meant that my grades didn't get done as quickly as I would have liked. If I needed to do schoolwork, I always waited until Luka went to sleep to start on it. As far as housework goes, honestly, I'm not the type of person to spend days and days cleaning my house. I think since having kids, we've become even more lax. We, meaning DH and I, basically clean on Saturday mornings. In terms of spending time with Luka, and starting in August, the two kids, I've told myself that they will not remember the day to day activities. They'll have a faint memory of being loved abd doing things, but the specifics will fade. I've been told by many, many people that it's easiest to allow the guilt to pass when the children are young, because they don't have the memory. It's when they get older and have sharp memories that being there counts. Now, I'm not sure that I buy into that 100%, but all of these working women who have said this have great relationships with their adult children and feel like they've done the best they could. I'm sure what you're doing is the best you can do. That's perfectly fine.

I agree with sunni; they should send us home with cleaning service and a chef!

[pg_jess]

golfer girl - It was me with the big swaddling blankets...Aden & Anais. The website is www.adenandanais.com I believe. :)

[Tonysweetie]

DH & I are going to the movies. :D

Have fun!

[kimthebride]

FP Rainforest take-Along Swing
Love this thing! She napped for 3 hours this afternoon in it.

Miracle Blanket
They aren't kidding! She was freaking out, and the moment I put her in it she shut right up. Has been chilling out ever since.

fussies
Oh yeah, they are here too!

Muslin Blankets
I will be ordering a pack of these for when we're out. She likes to have her arms wrapped (like a lame swaddle, lol) when I have her out & about in the stroller. On warmer days, I think the flannel blankets are a bit too much.

Balancing Work & Family
I can't imagine - it must be really tough & demanding!

Tired
I am tired. Just thought i'd share.

[lil_nance]

We just got back from seeing Shrek 3. It's cute. The miracle is when I left DS was still awake and playing cars with grandpa and DD was screaming her head off to his friend. We arrived home to silence. Both kids are asleep...at the same time. Ahhhh. Think I'll invite FIL down more often. ;)

[MarriedaGoalie]

Balancing work and family: I have to admit... it is tough! The only nice thing is that since I don't cook, that is one less thing I have to do at night. It is really going to be tough when I go back to school in August... I'm not sure how going to school, working and having a 5 month old is going to be...?! We'll see!

[lauren f s]

Ahh, I wish I didn't cook! I hate it! I love baking, but cooking? Not so much! But if I leave dinner to DH poor Ava will be eating tons of carbs, very few veggies. James went to bed at 8 tonight, we were eating dinner by 8:30. Thank God for 30 minute meals!!

[Tonysweetie]

Family: All I have to say is thank goodness for 10 minutes frozen skillet meals or we'd have a problem. I don't mind cooking as long as it doesn't take me hours in the kitchen.

Well I left DS with DH today and went out shopping after he got home from work. I came back w/nothing. I tried on so many things and if I find something that fits in the waist it's HUGE in the butt and legs. I think until this belly sag (please tell me does go away eventually) goes away I won't be able ot get back into regular jeans. So for right now I'm wearing my maternity stuff and stretchy things. Great.

I'm really looking forward to this weekend!!

[myshel]

TS: I always have had luck at Old Navy in finding things to fit my oddly shapped post-pg body. Yes, the belly sag does get better. I won't lie though; your body is never quite the same as it was before. For a lot of women, the hips cause issues (as it did for me).

Nancy: Yay! I'm so glad you had fun at the movies. Your FIL can stop by my house to put my kids to bed. ;)

Meals: There was a point where I was going to come in and ask all of you what you cook for meals because I was having a dickens of a time thinking of things that were easy and quick. It looks like I'm not alone.

Last night was fun for us. DS went to play with his cousins (and was miraculously alseep when we picked him up), and we went to a dinner party. Everyone at the dinner party wanted to hold Carolina, so I finally got a chance to not have her clinging to me. I enjoyed that as it seems like I'm the only one who can soothe her these days.

We also had a good night of sleep. I fed C at 11 pm and put her down. She slept until 3am an woke again at 6am. Pretty good, I'll say.

[lauren f s]

Yea for all the mamas get out ALONE! How nice! I'd love to go out somewhere other than work!

TS: I don't know where you're shopping, but stay out of the juniors dept! I was 22 after I had Ava and while before the things there fit me wonderfully, after they didn't. I was so depressed until my mom made me move to the women's side. Things fit!

Meals: I get made fun of for it, but I swear by 30 Minute Meals. I have several cookbooks and am always copying recipes off the Food Network website. I know Rachel Ray can be a bit much, but her meals are quick, easy, mostly nutritious, and good. I hate that most fast, pre-packaged dinners are full of salt and fat. I can make a 30 minute meal in just as much time and it's good for my family! I also <3 my crockpot. I'll throw something in there on my way to work, come home and make a salad and we're ready to eat!

[kimthebride]

Fast & Tasty "recipe": Tomato Basil Chicken w/ Rice & Veggies
Get the Perdue Perfect Portions chicken in tomato basil
http://www.perdue.com/files/6832_361x361_2.jpg

Pour some Progresso Italian bread crumbs in a bowl and mix in a couple tablespoons (or so) of Mrs. Dash Tomato Basil Garlic seasoning
http://www.healthyheartmarket.com/ProductImages/24633.jpg

Preheat over to 375.
Coat the chicken in the crumb mixture.
Bake on one side for 12-14 minutes.
Flip and bake on the other side for 12-14 minutes.

Microwave a pack of Uncle Ben's Long Grain & Wild Rice
http://www.unclebens.com/images/products/RRLGW.jpg

Microwave some Green Giant Simply Steam Vegetable Medley
http://www.bettycrocker.com/NR/rdonlyres/24421540-5B22-4048-941D-0A706EA9AF97/0/ss_brocCar.jpg

Top the rice with the veggies, serve beside the chicken which should be moist inside & savory.

You're eating in a half hour!

Crock Pot/Slow Cooker Q
DH doesn't like creamy stuff and I don't eat meat other than chicken breast. Is there anything I can cook with these machines that could be a real dinner? Are they the same thing?

[lauren f s]

Kim: You can put anything in a crockpot! I'm not a fan of creamy soups added so I never do that. I love to put chicken breasts (w/the bone; boneless gets dry too quick, in my experience) in with a can of Italian style diced tomatoes, garlic, some Italian seasoning, salt, pepper, and a cup or so of chicken broth. Serve it over pasta with salad. Yum! The chicken cooks all day so it gets super moist and tender. Pasta takes a few minutes to cook. BBQ chicken is easy, too. Pour a bottle of bbq sauce in w/a chicken. Not much easier than that ;) Look at the crock pot thread here; they have tons of yummy recipes. I love my crockpot! I really hate cooking dinner and this makes it so easy. I put everything on in the morning before we leave for work. When I get home I make a salad and another side dish and we're eating in no time!

[Tonysweetie]

I love my crockpot as well. I use it a lot. My favorite is to make Spaghetti sauce and then boil some pasta when I get home and we eat with in 10 minutes or so. Also putting a pot roast in turns out juicy and tender. Yum now I'm hungry! lol.

Lauren: I shopped a little in the Jr. dept but mainly in the womens dept. I still didn't find anything. Like I said if I found a pair of pants to fit in the waist they were huge in the butt and legs.

[diedra1027]

Crockpot - Mine is bubbling away as we speak. Kim - I also don't really enjoy creamy soup based recipes, so I use my crock for simple meaty dishes. Tonight I'm making BBQ pork (seasoned boneless pork ribs, beef broth, and a few onions in the crock for 4 hours). When the meat is done, I'll shread it, mix in some BBQ sauce, and make pork sandwiches for dinner. I'm an allrecipies.com devotee, so all the best recipes I use come from there.

Other quick and easy meals - Soft Tacos: just brown the ground meat of your choice (we like ground turkey), mix in the taco seasoning, and serve on soft flour tortillas with the toppings of your choice. I recently found this Baked Ziti (http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Baked-Ziti-I/Detail.aspx) recipe that is quick, easy and super tasty (I halve this particular recipe and I use a package of store bought Italian Blend shredded cheese instead of the specific cheeses called for). I'm a big fan of simple marinated meats for grilling or stir fry. I find the best way to get cooking done these days is to do most of the prep work during the afternoon nap (whenever possible), so I'll cut up meat and veggies while the kids are napping so I just have to throw everything in the pan when I'm ready. For working moms, maybe cooking and freezing on the weekend then just thawing as needed or one of those dinner prep places would be helpful.

[myshel]

I got out of the house for four hours today! I went to school for a life insurance meeting and stayed to work on my room. That thing is a complete nightmare! Anyway, C handled everything pretty well. I fed her twice in my room (shut off the lights, sat at my desk, and listened to the tv), which worked fairly well. I'm still not very good at not exposing myself just a little bit, particularly when I get started and finish.

In other news, I have another plugged duct. Damn it! It's the right one this time, right at the top of the breast. It's a strange place to get one, but I'll deal. I tried massage and pumping. It's softened up a bit, but still hurts. I see some ibuprofen in my future and perhaps a hot pad. Ick.

[golfer_girl]

pg_jess - thanks for the link, these are big, but aren't the muslin ones right? I might also have to get the muslin ones. Not only do I need big swaddling blankets, my girl gets hot! It's warm here and the flannel ones are too hot in the day.

Can someone repost the link for the muslin ones too?

Balancing time - I find that it's hard too. I have to admit, I pay for conveniences often. We eat out (more like take out) often, and just do the minimum to get by. I just catch up when I have the energy or time. (Really, you never have enough time.) It's just a fact of life. My mom's advice is first take a deep breath and just to let one of the little ones cry it out for a while while you finish what you're doing, and they'll all be fine.

myshel - I feel for you on the plugged duct! I'm plagued with them often too. I'm just getting over mastitis!!! I felt like H E double L for the last few days. I called my OB and got antibiotics. Luckily I didn't need to go in, but man, mastitis sucks!

MarriedaGoalie - what brand is your sling/carrier? I'm looking for an easy one for my sister in law.

[kimthebride]

Can someone repost the link for the muslin ones too?
http://www.adenandanais.com/
I placed my order at lunch and got a notice they shipped within a few hours. can't wait to get them!

Thanks for the crock pot info ladies - I will check out that thread and maybe buy one this weekend. It seems that EVERYTHING happens at once between 4-7pm, so I end up starting to make dinner after DS goes to bed at 8pm...yuck.

[lil_nance]

We had dinners delivered by my MOMS Club when Avery arrived. One of the easy ones I liked was meatballs & gravy. Turkey meatballs, Italian style from Shadybrook Farms in the fresh meat department mixed with 1 bottle of Boston Market beef gravy. Serve with beef rice or egg noodles. Quick and yummy. The meatballs are good with spaghetti sauce too. My DS liked it too.

Kim let me know how you like the blanket when you get it. I'm also going to check what they might have at the fabric store and see if that's an option for muslin.

[pg_jess]

golfer girl...The giant blankets and the muslin blankets are one and the same, at the website Kim posted.

nance...I have the blankets already and we love them. Expensive, yes, but they keep him swaddled and they're cooler than the other receiving blankets out there. When I mentioned them at my moms' group someone suggested just purchasing muslin at the fabric store. I'm sure that would work and it would certainly be much cheaper!

BFing madness...Things are going relatively well with the mechanics BFing, but there are days when I get so frustrated with how messy Ethan is! He dribbles milk everywhere (he can't keep up with the flow sometimes) and usually spits up all over me. Lately he's been spitting up a lot, to the point that I feel he's spitting up everything he eats, even though I know this isn't the case. It's frustrating for both of us. I'm forever doing laundry because he soaks 2-3 burp cloths at each feeding (we're going to Target this weekend to get more). It's trying. And then I feel bad because I'm frustrated and it really isn't Ethan's fault. Bah.

[myshel]

ROs: DH has conceded and is willing to let us get a double stroller. Which ones do you guys have? If you could also include a link, I'd be grateful.

[sunni76]

We still haven't bought a double stroller yet either...I'd appreciate any links too! I'm leaning towards a sit and stand type, but I'm just not sure.

[beinglizzy]

pg-jess have you tried to unhook him and re-attach? Sometimes I do this with Alex when he seems to need to catch his breath when the flow is fast.

[lil_nance]

He dribbles milk everywhere (he can't keep up with the flow sometimes) and usually spits up all over me. Lately he's been spitting up a lot, to the point that I feel he's spitting up everything he eats, even though I know this isn't the case. It's frustrating for both of us. I'm forever doing laundry because he soaks 2-3 burp cloths at each feeding (we're going to Target this weekend to get more). It's trying. And then I feel bad because I'm frustrated and it really isn't Ethan's fault. Bah. This is our issue. Plus I'm really beginning to wonder if we're dealing with reflux. I know it's not as common in BF'd babies. Avery often screams right after nursing, arching back, lots of spit up, etc. Her 2mo is next Fri. I'm debating waiting until then or going in earlier.

Crazy weekend going on here. Baptism tomorrow. Will be back to post more when I can catch my breath. Oh good news she slept a lot last night so I felt sort of rested. Yeah! Wonder if it was the margarita I had. ;) (nah, I pumped & dumped)

[lil_nance]

myshel We have the new Graco Quattro Duo. I like it. It's heavy but it manuevers fairly well. We wanted a double but didn't want to spend tons of $. I figure DS will be mainly walking within a yr. At that time we'll be using a single again or I might pick up a used sit & stand. FWIW DS loves our double. He can get in and out of his seat. And he likes that it's open, no bar. He seems very happy to sit there. The only thing he doesn't like is the sunshade, but that's just his issue not something wrong with the stroller.

[lauren f s]

No double stroller here. Ava won't sit in one. She does love to push James in his, though. We actually put her in his stroller last weekend, though, at the mall. We'd had a long day and were leaving my BFF and her kids (her DD & Ava are BFF's, too, cute!) and she was sooo upset. I held James and we popped Ava in. Times like that it'd be nice to have one. Good luck finding a good one, myshel!

Today was fabulous. Since coming back to work our weekends have been spent running errands and fighting James on naps. I went grocery shopping last night and spent today at home. DH took Ava out for breakfast and I put James in bed with me and slept until 11 :D It was heaven! James was in a fabulous mood all day. He'd play, eat, then easily go to sleep and take good, long naps! And he's been smiling like crazy, too. While he napped I was able to enjoy time with Ava and bake yummy cupcakes, something I've really missed doing. I've been so tense and stressed out lately and it's been sooo nice having a truly wonderful day with DH and the kids.

[Tonysweetie]

I hope everyone has a wonderful Memorial Day tomorrow!!! We are leaving DS tonight with my Mom and I'm already having a hard time with it as this will be the first time we've been separated over night. :*( BUTTTTT really looking forward to spending time with just DH and I.

We went and saw Pirates 3 last night. SO GOOD! A lot of violence though. I do not recommend it for any children under the age of 13. There were some things in there that would really scare children. What gets me is this was suppose to be a Disney movie. :confused:


ps Andrew slept 7 hours last night! YAY!!!

[kimthebride]

OMG OMG OMG OMG!
She slept OVER 7 hours last night! WOO HOOOOOO!
The stinker is that since she has been on a nighttime feeding frenzy lately I was so painfully engorged my boobs kept waking me up because of the pain :rolleyes: . But it was lovely! She slept from about 9pm-4:30am in the Miracle Blanket (God Bless This Blanket), ate from both boobs, then slept til about 8am.
She is now my favorite person for the day.
She has been waking me up in 2-3 hour intervals at night for the last week, getting me up for the day around 6am....icky icky yucky pooh. So last night was like a vacation day. :)

tonys
Have fun tonight!

lil_nance
How much smaller than the DuoGlider is the Quattro Duo? Any chance you'd post (or email me) a pic of C in it so I can get an idea? I'd like a travel stroller smaller than my Duette.

Gas
I noticed that DD is waaaaay more gassy than DS was at this stage. She burps like a drunken sailor every session! I never had to burp DS regularly, and i have to burp 1-2x every time with her. Otherwise she FREAKS OUT when she needs to burp.

myshel re:Double Strollers
I have the Peg Perego Duette which is very expensive BUT I absolutely love it, get asked about it wherever I go, and had no issues paying for it since I knew I'd get a lot of use out of it (DS loves the stroller, will nap in it, etc). here's a link to the Peg website:
http://www.pegperego.com/page.php?sid=0b4c363aa4f1cc891d4fb6391bff2977&pageid=UJVNL001&idf=05&idp=0000000108&cl=N

Check out the Double Strollers thread. You can "search this thread" by stroller name. I did a lot fo research and put it in there. I looked at the Phil & Ted's e3, Peg's Duette & Tender, Valco, Graco DuoGlider, Macs....there's so many to choose from!

As for buying tips, www.amazon.com often has CRAZY deals on doubles, particularly joggers, and often does free shipping. Alsso check on Craig's List & eBay. Oh, and moms pop onto the double stroller thread with sale info - I know there is a Mac SBS on sale for $250 from $500 link there right now. I am considering getting this as a travel stroller, it has all the bells 7 whistles & is pretty light.

pg_jess re: BF Madness
I feel the same way - at times (particularly around 3am) when I get so frustrated, I almost wish I was not BFing so I could smack DH awake to feed her so i can sleep...or when she's just on & off and i just don't want to deal with the infant stage anymore. Then I get more frustrated with myself for getting frustrated with her since she's just doing what's normal/natural for her to be doing!

NIP
(myshel I did this just for you!)
I had DH take a pic with my cameraphone of me Bfing DD in the Whole Foods at the Columbus Circle shops in midtown Manhattan at lunctime on Saturday of Memorial weekend. In other words, in the busiest, most-exposed place with the nosiest, pushiest people you can be around. :D And yes, I am also eating lunch at the same time....mmmm goat cheese salad!
Sooo....are you feeling inspired? ;)
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/193/516189825_30c38da83f.jpg?v=0

[diedra1027]

pg_jess re: BF Madness
I feel the same way - at times (particularly around 3am) when I get so frustrated, I almost wish I was not BFing so I could smack DH awake to feed her so i can sleep...or when she's just on & off and i just don't want to deal with the infant stage anymore. Then I get more frustrated with myself for getting frustrated with her since she's just doing what's normal/natural for her to be doing!Ditto this. I think I fantasize about this tiny infant stage being over about a thousand times a day. Ian's been doing this thing where he'll be just about asleep and when I put him up on my shoulder to rock/pat him the rest of the way asleep he starts rubbing his face on the burp rag, triggering the rooting reflex, and he ends up rubbing himself awake and I have to start over at square one. Makes me crazy EVERY TIME. As for the spit-up, I'm actually pondering putting Ian in a bib for burping just to contain some of it.

[myshel]

kim: I saw your post in the sling/wearing thread and thought I'd respond here. I used a mei tai with DS when he was 1 month old. In fact, I wore it to hike in. The MT I had at that time was a hand-me-down from my sister. Here's a pic of DH wearing Luka when Lu was 4 months old:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/18/70079800_7d1e32416f.jpg?v=0

Here's another:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/34/70080260_54e530effe.jpg?v=0

DH is tall-- 6'3" and is well over 250 pounds and yet, I can wear the same carrier too. That's a big plus. I used the above carrier on Friday, wearing C while I did some light cleaning in my classroom. It worked just fine.

I just purchased a BabyHawk MT last week and got it on Saturday. I used it today for a little while, trying to garden. It was a little cumbersome for that, but it did put C to sleep. Goal achieved! ;)

I'll try to take a picture of us using the BH sometime today or tomorrow.

[kimthebride]

I'll try to take a picture of us using the BH sometime today or tomorrow.
oh thank you! i have been researching MTs all afternoon, and i like the look of those best....I am most intrigued by the headrest. In the baby wearing thread theres a link to a pic of a CCer BFing in it, and it shows the headrest fairly well but I want to be sure.

[Tonysweetie]

Were back! We had a fab time but missed DS so much. I almost couldn't wait to pick him up today. He didn't sleep well for my parents which made me feel bad but that's expected when you take babies off their routines. Hopefully he'll get back to his STTN schedule tonight. Having a 2 full days of alone time with DH was wonderful. I got myself a nice tan and a full night of not worrying about DS sleep! Even though Andrew STTN most of the time I still wake up to check on him every couple hours. We spent all day Sunday at the beach, DH surfed while I layed up on the beach to tan (Yes I did wear my bikini with my baby belly hanging out YEA!!! lol!). Then we went back to our room to clean up and went to dinner. We had a nice dinner right on the beach. It was beautiful and romantic. Then afterwards we went back to the room and ordered a movie and watched it in bed and cuddled. We were out by 11:30 and slept blissfullly until 10 this morning. It was great! Then we got up got some breakfast and went back to the beach. We stayed at the beach until 2 and got lunch then packed up to go home. We picked up Andrew a couple hours ago and I missed him SOOOO MUCH! I was so happy to see him. Now him and Daddy are napping in bed. :) I hope everyone else had a great weekends.

[myshel]

TS: I'm glad you had a great time with DH!

kim: Here are pics of Carolina in the BabyHawk. Please ignore the wretched state of my hair and face-- I didn't do my regular getting ready routine today! :o

BabyHawk from the back:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/199/519080844_f07fb541e9.jpg?v=0

A close-up of Carolina in the BabyHawk w/headrest:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/216/519108579_cd64f2da6d.jpg?v=0

Side view of Carolina in BabyHawk:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/229/519077750_87ae1016e6.jpg?v=0

So far, I've found the headrest to be very helpful. It keeps C's head in place really well. The material used in the BabyHawk is a bit more stiff than my other MT, which gives it a structured feeling. The only drawback I find with the BH is the fact that the bottom straps aren't super long. My older MT has bottom straps that wrap completely around the back and are tied in the front. I guess with my pp body, I feel like the BH straps are a bit short, but I'm sure they're fine.

[annielynn]

I know that it has been way too long. Finding the time to sit down at the computer is really an issue. ;)

I have been trying to catch up this morning with all of you. What a busy busy thread. I am very happy to hear that everyone is doing so great and that these babies are getting big and strong.

Update on us: Claire is getting big and sleep is going pretty good. The last couple of nights she has woken up around 3am. But when I go to feed her she falls asleep within 5 mins and is out until 6am. I don't think that it will be long before she is STTN. I am keeping my fingers crossed.

After weeks and weeks of trying I have decided to discontinue trying to BF. We even took her to an Oral Muscular therapist to see if that would work. I am doing exercises on her cheeks and gums 3 times a day to help build up the muscle in order to make BF easier but she still has the same issues she did when she was born. So as much as it breaks my heart, I have decided to be an Exclusive Pumper. I know that she is getting the best that she can get from me. I am hoping and praying that have the strength and supply enough to make it to at least 6 months. If I can make it that long I will go to 9 and maybe even a whole year. I would be over the moon happy with that.

I go back to work on Monday and I am not looking forward to it. The rest of this week I am dedicating myself to getting a routine/schedule down pat in order to get my to work on time. I already know that I will have to get myself up, showered, dressed and pumped. THen it is the kids turn whoever wakes up first. I am thinking that it will take me a good 1.5 hours to get ready in the morning. YIPPEE. :)

Before I go, a new picture....
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y68/alynn0903/may%202007/5_28_07006.jpg

[wendstress]

We're here.... We're hectic....

Love you all..... I'll try to be back sometime soon with an update!

[kimthebride]

Thanks myshel! I just ordered one, and can't WAIT to get it. I think it was the head support that sold me. (yours is cute, btw!)

annielynn
Wow, you did a LOT to keep BFing. i am very impressed! I'll keep everything crossed that pumping works out for you.

tonys
Glad you had a nice time with DH!

wendstress
Hello, Miss Drive By! ;)

As for us....
I was complaining a while ago that I hate eating late at night but that's when DH likes to and the only chance as of late for me to make a meal. I've just been cooking, shoveling food in me around 9pm and then up with Ava every 2-4 hours at night (exhausted, obviously). I am happy with just a bowl of cereal around 6pm - dinner's just not my thing. I have been eatin like this just to have something in me to keep up with the milk factory and give me some energy.
Wellll....or the last few days I have been eating a big lunch then just cereal & fruit for dinner and *knock knock knock* Ava has been sleeping 7-8 hour stretches! Like from 8pm-4am, then passes out after that and sleeps til 7:30am or so. SWEET! Needless to say, I just bought 6 boxes of cereal at Target today to keep up the routine ;) .

Crying baby. bbl

[pg_jess]

annie - I'm also impressed at the BFing efforts. Good luck with pumping. I hate pumping, so I feel for you! But like you said, at least Claire will get momma's milk.

TS - The getaway sounds lovely. DH and I are pondering something similar for our 5-year anniversary in July. My parents are in San Diego, so we might head down there and do something. I don't know if we'll leave Ethan overnight or not. I guess it depends on how he's sleeping by then! :)

kim - Congrats on the sleeping routine! Hopefully the cereal and fruit thing continues to work out for you.

As for us, I think we're really close to sleeping through the night. So close I can taste it. Ethan eats his last meal of the evening anywhere between 8 and 11 (some nights even earlier) and invariably wakes up again to eat between 3 and 4. He does this no matter what time I put him to sleep. After the 3/4 feeding he'll usually go back to sleep but not for very long. Today he slept until almost 8 and I was so proud I wanted to have a party.

I don't think hunger is what's preventing him from STTN. I think it's all the other issues. He'll break a leg free from the miracle blanket or spit up or have a dirty diaper or all of the above, and then he decides he wants to eat. :) At least it's only once a night. As long as I go to bed early enough, I'm okay.

I also have to return to work next Monday. My sister will be in town to watch Ethan, so it will be like training wheels for me in terms of leaving him. I only have to work for two weeks before I'm out for the summer, so it shouldn't be too bad. I am worried about daycare in the fall though. I'm torn between a family daycare situation (I don't want to send him to the house of a complete stranger) and a center (I don't want him to be ignored in a crib all day). WOHMs, what are your daycare plans?

[juliemag]

Daycare: My office has a daycare onsite, however there isn't a slot for Jackson until October. :rolleyes: So, my dad is taking him Tues/Thurs halfdays - DH can take him the rest of the day. Then, my good friend who has the summer off will take him M/W/F until she goes back to school mid-August. Then, I have to find someone who'll cover the M/W shift. My mom is going to take every Friday off as a vacation day. If we make it through this without a hitch, I'll be impressed. My poor boy will be all sorts of confused I'm afraid.

I apologize for being MIA... I read daily, just dont have time to post!

[MarriedaGoalie]

Daycare: We have Carter in a daycare not too far from our house. It is a lady that is registered through the state and has three other children in her home. We love her! Our daycare is $110 per week.

I just thought I would share a couple of pictures... my little guy is getting so big!

http://images23.fotki.com/v868/photos/1/1116680/4987978/IMG_4135-vi.jpg?1180417378

http://images23.fotki.com/v858/photos/1/1116680/4987978/IMG_4140-vi.jpg?1180417420

http://images24.fotki.com/v864/photos/1/1116680/4874880/IMG_4095-vi.jpg?1180396036

[diedra1027]

We just got back from Ian's 2 month WBV.
Height: 23.5" (75th)
Weight: 13lbs 12.5oz (90th)
Head: 41cm (75th)

My goodness, this is a whole different experience than with Avery. Weight wise, he's grazing the top of the curve in the 90th percentile and she's scraping the bottom of the curve at less than 5th percentile! At 2 months old, Ian is only 8 lbs lighter than Avery at 2 years old :eek:.

Daycare - I don't know yet whether we are going to need to do daycare or not. My perfect ideal would be to have a nanny caring for both kids in our home. I've been checking costs and in my area a nanny, even going through an agency, is comparable or more affordable in some cases to the available daycare options.

[lauren f s]

I've been trying to come by and post all day but things keep coming up!

James has thrush. My boobs have been itchy for a few days now and over the weekend we noticed a few white spots inside James's mouth. I called his dr. and a prescription was called in for both of us - meds for James and a lotion for me. He has his 2 month well check tomorrow, so the thrush will be looked at then.

Sleep: James still wakes twice a night, which I'm okay with. I know he'll sleep completely through the night soon enough. And besides, he's only up for maybe 10 minutes, so it's not a big deal. Right now he goes to bed between 8-9, then is up at 1, and up at 5. I'm trying to push him back to waking at 2 so that he'll then wake at 6 and after I feed him I can get ready for work.

Daycare: This has been a bit of an issue with us. Ava isn't too expensive since she's 3.5 and potty trained. James, naturally, is. My SIL was watching James for us and that worked wonderfully. She adores him, he's crazy about her, and he was getting tons of love & attention every day. However, she lives with my super flaky MIL and one day didn't show up. DH had to take the day off work to stay with James. Apparently MIL didn't feel like waking her up :rolleyes: I was furious and we were ready to send James to daycare but ended up sitting & talking with MIL and SIL. SIL really wanted to keep James so we stressed that it's a job and she has to show up every day. No excuses. And if she thinks she can't make it over, she can spend the night (which she did last week). So SIL is keeping James now and it's working best for us. We pay her $75 a week and James gets tons of attention and (HUGE PLUS) she's been cleaning my house while he haps! It's heaven coming home to a perfectly cleaned house every day!

Kim: Way to go Ava!! And keep up the fruit & cereal diet, seems to be working :D

Annie: Good luck pumping! I do it 3 times a day at work. So far I've found that I have to eat a good breakfast and lunch and drink lots of water to get a good amount pumped. I also snack on oatmeal cookies and swear that they help, though I think I really just enjoy a good excuse to eat a cookie ;)

TS: Glad you had a nice weekend!

Very beautiful babies!!

[happy1nuv]

Sleep ~ The past two nights, Joe has only gotten up once! AND, last night, he spent the WHOLE night in his co-sleeper (i usually fall asleep while he's eating so he ends up sleeping with me at least part of the night...I don't mind, but it makes dh crazy to think we might be heading down the same path as Nic)

Easy dinners ~ Just had to share...one of my fave things to do for dinner lately is to make pasta. Throw frozen spinach, an avacado, 2 cloves of garlic, juice of one lemon, salt and pepper (and a can of artichoke hearts too if i have them) in the food processor and throw over the cooked pasta -- the pasta heats the sauce enough, its yummy and healthy! and VERY quick! (i take the spinach straight from the freezer - no thawing) ... I've done the same with peeled tomatoes and walnuts as a base, but it takes longer since you have to blanch/peel them... i'm experimenting with other combos too since its sooo easy!

We're doing Nic's 2nd birthday party this weekend, which is why I'm so mia lately... just no time to keep up. Hope all is well with everyone!!

[lil_nance]

We had a busy but fun weekend with friends visiting. They left early Mon. Last night was horrible and so far today hasn't been great. I strongly suspect that Avery has reflux. I'm trying to wait out going to the dr. until her WBV on Fri. However, I think I have to at least call the ped tomorrow. Part of the time she's fine the other she's screaming her head off (like now). DH has been helping but we're both feeling frazzled. It really stinks and makes me not enjoy this newborn stage. I was in tears today at playgroup, so tired.
Sorry no shout outs, I'm just too exhausted.

[myshel]

daycare: For the next school year, my dad will come to our home to watch Carolina. We had the same set up for Luka, except my dad lived with us at the time. After next school year, we'll put C into the same daycare center that Luka attends. It's connected to DH's work, and we've had a great experience there with Luka.

stop with the plugged ducts! I got two plugged ducts yesterday on the same breast (left this time). I knew they're were coming on, but went to DH's softball game with the kids anyway. After the game, I drove home in a haze. By the time I got home, I was running a fever of 102.5 and shivering like mad. Luckily, I got them worked out by midnight, but the feeling crappy finally wore off at 4 am.

growth spurt? For the last few days, C has been up for longer stretches, eating like a fiend. In a two hour time period, she'll eat for 10 minutes (usual eating length), get drowsy, wake up, eat again, get drowsy, wake up, eat again... well, you're seeing the pattern. I'd say that easily, in a two hour time period, she'll eat a minimum of 3 times. Last night, she was up at 1:30-- 2:15am (at twice in a 45 minute time period and wouldn't settle down until she had), 4:30-5:15am (ate twice again), and then up at 6:00 am. Someone please tell me this a growth spurt. C is 4 weeks old as of yesterday. Also, someone please reassure me that this will pass and that she'll start sleeping longer stretches at night. This morning, I was bitching, and DH said, "Michelle, she's not doing this to be spiteful. She's just a baby." It amde me realize that I'm losing my temper a bit more, but I retorted back, "Yeah, but I'm the only one who has to deal with this. You get to sleep through it and then go off to work all day." He didn't really have much to say to that.

[lauren f s]

Nancy: I'd call her dr now. Maybe they can get you in for the checkup today? James was supposed to have his on Friday but I got it moved to today because of his thrush.

Happy: Yummy dinner idea! Thanks for sharing! Happy early birthday to Nic!

Myshel: It sounds like a growth spurt ot me. I don't think kids follow a definite timeline for these, because I know James hit one last week, at 7 weeks. All that crazy eating and being up sounds like one to me. It's easy to get frustrated, esp. when you're the only one up at night dealing with it. I get so irritated with DH for not understanding just how hard it is. Here's hoping it ends soon!!

[happy1nuv]

michelle ` its a growth spurt! And, it will pass... HUGS!!!

[diedra1027]

myshel - sounds like a growth spurt to me too. Should pass quickly...on the bright side all that nursing is probably pretty helpful in getting those plugged ducts cleared.

[kimthebride]

The Sleep Diet
Either its a crazy coincidence, or I am onto something.
So for 3 nights i ate cereal & fruit for dinner and she slept 7-8 hours straight.
Then last night I had chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans & carrots (nothing garlicy/spicey at all). She did not sleep as well. Then was up at 5am for the day. Help me Lord.
Needless to say, i am back on the cereal bandwagon until further notice. :p

Wet Cough
One of the reasons she was up so early today was this wet cough. She's had it here and there, but this morning it was really bad.
I took her to the Ped today, and he thinks she has a "touch of reflux". He wants me to be really good about burping her after she eats, hold her upright after meals, and get a wedge to put under her head so she sleeps propped at a 25 degree angle. He said its worse 30-60 minutes after eating, but doing all this can help the cause. If it gets worse, I need to bring her in before her 8 week appointment (in 2 weeks).

I asked my Ped about the dinner thing, and he laughed a bit and said something I am eating could be bothering her but it could just be a coincidence. But if it works and makes me happy, then keep it up. (I think after 2 years of me dishing out far-fetched theories, he thinks I am a total fruit loop :cool: )
Oh, and she's up to 9lb 8oz now, so she's def eating enough. Yay!

Smile
She smiled & giggled the other day when both DH & I were looking at her. Love it!

Heat Rash
She also has a bit of heat rash, which I know looks so much worse than it feels but still...yuck. Luckily she loves baths, since wiping it with cool wet cloths is the way to help it.

myshel
Sounds like a spurt to me. Hang in there!

lil_nance
Give your Ped a call now. I'm glad we went in for just this suspicious cough - we feel better just knowing what it is.

happy1
Mmmm sounds good! Can you please come over and cook for us?

diedre
I can't believe how different ian is from Avery! LOL!

Married
Cute pics. :)

pg_jess
I am crossing my fingers you STTN soon. so close!

[Tonysweetie]

myshel: I hear ya on getting irritated with your DH. I do the same thing. Infact we got into a nice little argument the other night b/c his response to me was "I work all day so I need my sleep" and I'm thinking and I don't??!! My DH thinks staying home to take care of DS all day isn't "work."

Kim: I say stay on your diet! LOL!

I'm so jealous of you ladies taking about your DC smiling. We have yet to get a big smile out of DS. He will smirk every now and then but it's not on purpose I don't think. Should I be concerned about this? He'll be 8 weeks on Friday.

Andrew had his first playdate last night here is a picture of how much fun he had...

Zach on left, Andrew on right
http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f184/Tonysweetie/DSCN6519.jpg

LOL! The both slept pretty much the whole time. Look how big Andrew is compared to Zach. They are only 2 weeks apart.

[lauren f s]

DH took James to his 2 month checkup today. I couldn't get off work to go. My boy is huge! He weighed 12lbs 13oz (75%) and is 23.5 inches (75%). He's up almost 5 pounds from his birth weight! I've been so stressed and worrying myself over whether he's getting enough breastmilk from my pumping, but clearly he is!

[myshel]

diedra: I suspect we'll be dealing with the same weight issues that you are, only mine will be reversed sexes. Luka has always been third percentile or lower in weight from four months and on. Carolina already has little rolls on her thighs, something we never saw on Luka-- EVER. A couple of people have commented on the fact that it isn't cool that Luka will be smaller than his sister, but whatevs.

TS: I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one! I will say that DH is really good about trying to be helpful, but I put a lot of pressure on myself to do things at home. Cute playdate pics!

So, I just got done NIPing.. sort of. I sat at my school desk which faces a wondow into the hallway and fed C. Granted the kids aren't here right now, but lots of teachers and custodians are roaming the halls. :p

DH and I have to take Luka to the ped today... he has... wait for it... a swollen penis (insert jokes here). Yes, it's true. DS has an unusually swollen man part, so bad in fact that his daycare teacher called "alarmingly freakish" (she's a really nice woman, BTW). Hopefully, C will cooperate while we're there.

[MarriedaGoalie]

Sleeping through the Night: DS is sleeping through the night now, pretty consistently. He goes down around 9-10pm and gets up anywhere from 6-7 am. It is wonderful!! :)

Pacifier: Carter has decided he doesn't like his pacifier very much anymore. He spits it out or keeps his mouth closed tight so that I can't put it in there. I wonder if its just a phase...

[lauren f s]

James won't take a pacifier either. He'll suck on his fist, but not the paci. Ava never took one, so it doesn't bother me that he doesn't either.

[sunni76]

sleeping thru the night We aren't quite there yet, but I hope we almost are! Lately I try to put Nolan down about 9-10pm, and he usually gets up about 4am, I nurse him and then he either stays in bed with me or I'll put him back down.
It's my first day back at work today, so at 5am this morning when he finished nursing I put him back in the bassinet so I could get another hour or so of good sleep. He was sleeping so well, he didn't even wake up before I had to leave for work!! I ended up pumping right before I had to go.

pacifier Macy never really took to it. Around 3-5 months we thought we had her hooked, but then suddenly it stopped working and she would just spit it out. Nolan seems to be the same way, he won't take it for more than a couple of minutes--it seems like then he realizes what it is and spits it out!

[lil_nance]

Avery had a good night. Slept from 11:30-5. YEAH! It's amazing what a little extra sleep does. I'm feeling ok this morning. :)

[kimthebride]

Avery had a good night. Slept from 11:30-5. YEAH! It's amazing what a little extra sleep does. I'm feeling ok this morning. :)
AMEN!
Two nights ago was not good, and last night (after my cereal ;) ) she slept from 9pm-4am, ate, then 4:20am-8:30am. I'm like a new woman today!

[myshel]

Count me in as another who's had a good night. Carolina went down at 10pm, woke at 3:00am and 6:00 am and is sleeping right now. Yay!

[Tonysweetie]

*Waving* me too! Andrew went down at 11 and slept until 6:30 am! Then went back down until Noon! WHOA!!!!:D

[happy1nuv]

congrats to all w/ good sleep... grumbles the seriously sleep deprivedfrom this corner of the world. mental note to eat cereal and fruit tonight... kim, what kind of cereal u eatin?

[lauren f s]

Okay night for us; James was up twice and seemed ready to be up for the day at 4:30, but he eventually fell back asleep. He had to get 5 shots yesterday at the dr and slept all afternoon, so I wasn't expecting a great night of sleep. He was in a fabulous mood this morning though, smiling at anyone who spoke to him, so I could care less that he was up more than usual.

[kimthebride]

mental note to eat cereal and fruit tonight... kim, what kind of cereal u eatin?
LOL!
For breakfast I eat granola & yogurt or Raisin Bran/Zoe O's/Frosted Mini Wheats w/skim milk and for dinner its usually Frosted Mini Wheats with Skim Milk and an apple or pear. :) And lots lots lots of water.

[lil_nance]

Back from Avery's 2mo WBV. 8lb 12oz, 21in. 10% all around. Quite a difference from her big brother who was 11lb 10oz at the same age. Spoke to the dr. about possible reflux. Holding off on meds for now. I'll try to get back later to update more on that and tolerance of shots (or lack of). Right now off to deal with a screaming baby who really wants her Tylenol to kick in. :(

[sunni76]

We had Nolan's 2 mo WBV today too. He was 12 pounds, 2 ounces and 23 inches. He did great with his immunizations (3 shots and 1 oral), and has been sleeping ever since! It was way less traumatic this time around than when we went in for Macy's first shots--I started crying during hers. Nolan only cried for a few seconds though til I picked him up, and then nursed him.
I was a bit distracted though--Macy's sick today, her temps been up around 103. We've been doing ibuprofen, and that kicks in for a bit, but then it shoots back up:( Our ped checked her out too, said it's just a virus, and it's been pretty common lately. He thought her fever could last 3-4 days! I hope not.

[lil_nance]

We put Avery back in her carseat and went shopping. She happily slept through it all. AND I found 2 pairs of shorts that fit. :D Got home, nursed her, and she's back asleep in the bouncy. Hope she sleeps tonight.

After discussing things with the ped we feel that Avery's symptoms are not 100% reflux. They may be a combo of her immature digestive system and my over supply and heavy letdown. I've been nursing on the same side, leaning back to ease letdown, burping, keeping her upright after feedings. Any other suggestions? Kim I know you've had supply issues so feel free to chime in. The ped did say that if things don't improve or if I really want to, we can try the Zantac for a wk and see how it works. I'm holding off for now but had her note it on the chart so I can just call if for a prescription if need be.

Sunni hope Macy feels better soon.

[lauren f s]

Sunni: I hope Macy gets better!

Nancy: I hope all the new things you're trying work for Avery!

I'm trying Kim's cereal and fruit diet. James is up every night at 1 and 5. I really, really want to make that 2 and 6, because after I feed him at 6 I can get up for the day and get ready for work. So tonight I made myself a nice bowl of Raisin Bran Crunch with sliced bananas and oj for dinner. We also have lots of grapes and cherries, too. Let's see if this works for just Kim or the rest of us, too! (Did it work for you happy?)

[lil_nance]

Avery at 2mo
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1194/526991746_acbc1cb936.jpg?v=0

[Tonysweetie]

lil_nance: She looks so sweet!!

[kimthebride]

lil_nance
Adorable! She is like a girly version of C. I love when siblings look alike. :)

Our feedings are going well now. I am BFing on one side, burping her not long after my let-down kicks in, then keeping her upright for at least 15 minutes after a feeding. Oh, and she now spends more time propped up than flat on her back. She's coughing less, which was for us the only sign of reflux. If her coughing stayed the same or got worse, i would have tried a Rx...I think the discomforts of reflux at a certain level are accumulative, so if you can prevent aggravations it can almost 'be calmed down' if it isn't that bad in the first place. Luckliy it seems we're at that threshold, so the little things we're doing are helping.

sunni
I hope Macy's temp drops quick - we had a week of high temps with Thomas this year and its just scary.

BFing Pattern
It seems like Ava is on her own little eating pattern now. She pretty much eats 'around':
8am, 11:30am, 3pm, 6pm, 8:30pm, 3:30am
Not too bad for almost 7 weeks. Though she's a bit more fussy this week in trying to settle herself down to sleep, so I think its a growth spurt (because when she wants to eat ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE til she has the nip).

*sniff*
Today is Thomas' bday...I can't believe my baby is two!

[myshel]

Happy Birthday Thomas!

Nancy: I'm glad you're getting things figured out with Avery. Hopefully, she's feeling a little better soon (and the screaming lessens). I think Avery looks like Connor too! :D

Sunni: I hope that Macy gets to feeling better soon.

Kim's diet: I haven't tried it yet, but things are going okay here so...

Friday: On Friday, DH, Carolina, and I were supposed to go to a baseball game.Even though it was pouring rain, we drove up the the stadium and made a decision. At that point, it looked like they were going to cancel, so we headed out for Mexican (yummy) and a movie. So, Carolina saw her first movie Friday, in a theater, Knocked Up. DH and I thought itwas hilarious to be at that movie with a baby.

Saturday: Saturday was awful. All C wanted to do was eat. It was like she couldn't get enough. I'd feed her and then 20 minutes later, she'd want to eat again. DH took Luka out for a bike ride on a local trail, and I was supposed to go out with my sister to the mall, but I never could leave because anytime I'd be part way ready, C would burst into tears and DEMAND to eat. I spent much of the day glued to the couch, crying, watching movies. I felt awful. Luckily, we went out for ice cream (where C promptly freaked and I fed her in a super busy parking lot-- the ice cream place is one of those walk-up joints).

We've experimented with giving C a bottle of EBM. She always seems more content after that. I'm not sure what the difference is between getting it from the tap and a bottle but...

[sunni76]

Happy Birthday Thomas! Hope you guys have a great day.

Thanks for all the well-wishes for Macy. She is definitely feeling better and back to her old self. I think it was a 24 hour thing. She woke up Fri. night/Sat. morning at 3am, and was calling for us. DH brought her into our bed--big mistake! She was feeling better and just wanted to talk and play. I was trying to nurse Nolan at the same time too. And of course she had to be touching me, and only sharing my pillow. Nolan had a rough night, I think due to his shots on Friday. So, basically Fri. night was practically an all-nighter for us.
BUT, last night was great, and Nolan slept 9 hours:) It was wonderful, even though I only got 6 straight hours--that felt great!!

[MarriedaGoalie]

Happy Birthday, Thomas!!!

[lauren f s]

Happy birthday Thomas! I hope you all had a great day Kim :)

James chuckled at me tonight. Not a laugh, not what I'd call a giggle, but a chuckle. I was playing with him with one of Ava's stuffed puppies and he gave a definite chuckle :D.

[pg_jess]

Sunni - Glad Macy is feeling better. That high fever must have been scary!

Nance - Glad to hear the reflux symptoms are subsiding. I have to keep Ethan upright a lot while feeding or he spits up all over the place...
Avery is adorable!

Kim - Happy Birthday to Thomas! Time flies, eh?

Myshel - Congrats on Carolina's first movie! :)

Lauren - Yay for chuckles! So cute! I can't wait for Ethan's first real laugh. I'm sure it will be just as delicious as his first smile.


Weekend Woes - Ethan had a busy weekend between grandparents visiting all day yesterday (and holding him the whole time - I could never ask them to put him down) and a family BBQ today. Our whole routine (such as it is) went out the window, and my little guy hardly slept at all. He's exhausted now. I feel awful. Hopefully he'll settle back into his routine tomorrow. Last night was the worst. He woke up for his usual meal at 3, ate, burped, and started to fall asleep. The second I wrapped him to put him back in his crib he started screaming and was up until almost 5...

Back to work - I have to go back to work tomorrow. Only for 9 days, but still it's work. I'm nervous about finding a decent place to pump. Even though I've been away from Ethan for up to 9 hours (for class), I know I'm going to miss him like crazy tomorrow.

Daycare Update - I got a list of local, licensed, family daycares from a local school district. The first woman I called lives about a mile or so from us and sounds really nice. We're going to meet with her tomorrow evening to interview her. After that I'll decide whether to call other people from the list or just stop there. I really liked her over the phone, so we'll see. Keep your fingers crossed for us...it would be really nice to find someone that close to home!

Hope everyone's week gets off to a good start!

[wendstress]

Macy's sick today, her temps been up around 103. We've been doing ibuprofen, and that kicks in for a bit, but then it shoots back up:( Our ped checked her out too, said it's just a virus, and it's been pretty common lately. He thought her fever could last 3-4 days! I hope not.

James had that just after Alex was born... It lasted 4 days and then went away. Fever really seemed to be the only problem. As long as he was taking ibuprofen, he acted near 100%. But the second the ibuprofen wore off, the fever spiked right back! Good luck!

Ooops... I should have kept reading to see that she is feeling better!

While I'm here.....

Alex had his 2 month WBV on Friday. He was:

13 lbs, 3.2 oz - 85th %
22.5" Long - 36%

I guess I grow them fat and short..... James was 85% on weight and 33% on height at his 2 year visit! Funny..... James doesn't look chuncky at all.... Although Alex does have some rolls on his thighs!

Happy B-Day Thomas!

Sleeping - Just getting me up 1/night.... Now if everyone else would stop getting me up! Friday night Alex got me up once, James got me up twice, and the Dog woke me to go outside. Ugh.

Weight - 28 lbs down, about 18 lbs to go until I'm back to my pp-weight!! I can fit into my blue jeans, though!!!! They are snug, but doable. I've been on a steady loss weight of 2 lbs/week for the last several weeks....hopefully the trend continues!

New Baby Envy - Anyone else suffering this? We saw a few brand new new-borns yesterday and I wanted to hold them!!! I know Alex is only 9 weeks old, but he's filled out and looks more "fat baby" than "brand new baby". Since I suspect he'll be the last, I'm feeling a little sad!

Better run - need to get to the bank!

[myshel]

Any suggestions? DH and I have to travel this weekend for SIL's college graduation. Our plan was to start driving when Luka went down for a nap on Saturday (usually anout 10 am). I'm scared to drive though because I've never traveled with a BFing infant. Lately, Carolina has been eating almost every two-three hours. The trip will take 4-5 hours. So, would I just feed her right before we leave and then stop when she needs to feed again? Have any of you traveled with a small, bfing infant before?

ETA: I'm just scared because sometimes, she eats 2-3 times in an hour. We don't really want to stop that much if we can help it. Maybe a bottle of EBM?

[wendstress]

Myshel - hopefully the car motion will keep her sleeping, but I'd definitely plan that you'll need to feed her at least once!

A few tricks I've used....

Turn up the fan in the car as high as possible (modify the temp so yoou don't get too cold or too hot!) - the white noise helps. Even open the windows a crack for added sound.

Appropriate Music. We have a "Baby Beethoven" CD that works a lot of the time. Don't be afraid to put it on loud to get her attention, and then slowly back it down.

Good lucK!

[happy1nuv]

wendstress ~ Joe could really use to move up to 3-6 mos clothes, but i keep putting it off because he's just my lil baby and I can't believe he's that big already (but, yes, the chunk is!) ... it's insane because he's not even 3 mos yet!

myshel ~ i'd plan on feeding right before leaving and either stopping to feed or bringing a bottle of ebm with you... I took nic on a 4 1/2 hour car trip when he was still eating all the time (i forget when) ...and even though he hated the carseat, once we were on the highway he did pretty good at sleeping steady... we did stop at a rest stop once each way to feed/change him (we changed him in the car and i fed him at the tables they had setup for the food vendors cause mama was car-crazy at that point). He totally suprised me by how well he tolerated the trip... hopefully Carolina will too!

oh, and i haven't tried kim's cereal diet yet because we've been crazy here with nic's 2nd birthday party plans (it was sat - lots of fun) ... BUT, joe slept from 10:30pm - 4:30 am last night! WOOHOO!!! it seems like if he eats around 10/11, i have a much better night, but he's not one to be force fed (dream feeds don't work...he just nuzzles the boob and keeps on sleeping) But, when the timing works, it WORks!!

[lil_nance]

Happy Belated B-Day Thomas & Nic
new baby envy It's funny but I'm just the opposite. My friend has a 4mo DD that I just can't get enough of. She's a chunk at 16lb 12oz. and so alert and active. Meanwhile Avery is finally looking like a baby but she's barely fitting into 0-3mo clothes. A good portion of her stuff is still Newborn. I know I'll regret it but part of me wishes she was a bit bigger.

myshel We travelled by car (5hr to visit DH's family) a number of times while I was nursing DS. I would feed right before we left, then stop about half way. We stopped at a BRU once and once at a mall. I nursed in a changing room in one of the mall stores. Most of the time he slept while the car was moving. If he got too fussy, we stopped and I fed him. The trip definately took longer but it wasn't too bad.

[lauren f s]

Myshel: I'd nurse C before you leave. Does she sleep well in the car? The motion may knock her out and she could sleep the whole drive! If not, I'd just have a bottle of EBM ready, or stop to nurse. I'd prefer to stop, just so I could have a chance to stretch my legs and use the bathroom. Good luck! We're going to the beach next month and it's a 6+ hour drive that I am dreading!

New Baby Envy: Not here! I love where James is now, out of that newborn phase and becoming more active and engaging. I went to Target at lunch and was so excited to be able to buy him 3-6 months onesies and shorts.

Good luck at work today pg_jess! My first day was rough, but it got better.

[kimthebride]

myshel
Wasn't Knocked Up HILARIOUS! I seriously pulled something seeing that this weekend (a matinee by myself :D ). Don't feel too guilty about the concept though, I think it was 40 Year Old Virgin I took DS to as his first movie, and he was a newborn - LOL!

Re: Driving with BF Baby
Yeah, i've done it a bunch of times. I find when baby is in the car, all bundled into the carseat they sleep longer. I'd maybe nurse right before leaving, then let her sleep until she really wants to eat again. A few other tips:
- Keep a Boppy, magazine, Burpcloth, water & snack in the backseat. This way when its time, you can just pop back there, feed her in the seat next to her in a relaxed manner.
- bring a white noise CD, I like the Soothing Sounds one with vacuum track
- bring a bottle of EBM as well. I find sometimes they just want 'a little drink' when out & about like that, and this way you don't have to go thru the rigamarole of BFing

sunni
So glad Macy's feeing better & Nolan is sleeping longer. You must be one relieved chica.

lauren
Sooo cute on the chuckle!

pg_jess
Hope everything is going ok today back at work.

New Baby Envy
Lol - not at all!
I was just thinking today that I am anxious for Ava to get to about 18 months or so, this way I have 2 totally mobile kids and no more newborn/baby stage. EVER.

happy1
YAY for good timing! And I hope you had a great time at nic's party. :) happy birthday little guy!

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Thanks everyone for Thomas' Happy Birthday wishes! We had a very busy weekend (3 bday parties for other kids in 3 different places + an Open hosue here). We are all fried, and took today to stay in (the rain was a nice excuse ;) ) and recoup.
His party is here on sunday, so we're looking forward to that.

[diedra1027]

New Baby Envy
Lol - not at all!
I was just thinking today that I am anxious for Ava to get to about 18 months or so, this way I have 2 totally mobile kids and no more newborn/baby stage. EVER.Ditto!!

[Tonysweetie]

Kim: Better late than never...Happy Birthday Thomas!!

New Baby Envy: Nope. I love where Andrew is now. He's giving smiles and just cute as a button. I don't feel like I'm going to break him anymore, lol.

Things are going well on our end. Andrew is sleeping wonderfully! *Knock on Wood* He's been sleeping through the night for about 4 weeks now and he's almost 9 weeks old. YEA! He goes to bed around 10 and sleeps until 7. Last night he slept until 9 am though! WHOO HOO! He has his 2 month WBV tomorrow. I really dreading the shots.

Pregnancy weight: I still have about 15 lbs. to lose. I can't get back into any of my pants yet but I'm wearing a lot of my shirts which is a plus. I'll be glad when I'm back into my pants but that's at least 10 lbs. away I'd say.

[happy1nuv]

You would think that since I've done this before, I'd have a great stash of nursing friendly tops but either I've misplaced half my wardrobe or...WHAT did i wear last time around?!? ... Must find some new tops since I am rotating through about 5... I had MORE clothes when I was pg... ;)


What's everyone doing for dh for fathers day?

[MarriedaGoalie]

Father's Day: I want to get DH a dog chain necklace with a dog tag for each of the boys with their name on them, but I can't find one for a decent price. Anyone have any ideas?

[lauren f s]

Father's Day: DH actually got his gift a couple of weeks ago. He wanted a new Ipod and while we were at the mall I went ahead and let him pick out what he wanted. Not sure what we'll do on Father's Day. My family is having a small thing at my grandfather's house, but he lives 3+ hours away and I'm not sure I'm ready to brave that drive with a 3 year old and a 2 month old! If we don't do that, then I'll cook DH whatever meal he wants and Ava will make him something in school, I'm sure.

[kimthebride]

Baby Weight & Clothes
I have about 6lbs to go to get back to pre-this-time pregnancy weight ;) . But I'm alllllll squishy since I was couch-ridden the whole time! So I was a 10 when I got pg, but I'm a 14 now.

I took a stand last weekend, handed DS to DH, nursed DD into a milk coma and went shopping. I essentially bought me an entire new wardrobe at Banana Republic, lol! All my non-maternity clothes are away in storage, and I was getting too small to wear my maternity pants anymore and too sick of wearing preggo tops. I just want to look good, you know??

As for shedding the lbs, eating a cereal dinner each night helps :rolleyes: but i do a lot of walking and am slowly doing more stretching & starting up daily yoga practice. I don't want to scare anyone on the beach next month when we're on vacation ;) .

[lil_nance]

OMG we're in the middle of a growth spurt. Well it better be a growth spurt otherwise there is something seriously wrong with DD. She has nursed every 2hr or more frequently the whole day. The only break I got was when she fell asleep in her carseat @ Target. I don't think I've ever experienced this frequency before. It's exhausting. Hope she sleeps well tonight.

Father's Day No clue. I was thinking about looking into a lawn service but all I got for Mother's Day was cards and a gc for Starbucks, so...

pg weight I think I have about 8lb left. But I'm still squishy too. I bought some new shorts this weekend. I need to look into a few pairs of pants. My pre-pregnancy jeans aren't fitting and I'm tired of maternity clothes. Isn't it funny how we can't wait to get into maternity clothes and then can't wait to get out of them.

[MarriedaGoalie]

Pg Weight: I'm actually down 4 lbs from my pre-pregnancy weight, but my body shape is completely different! I had to buy a bunch of new pants.

[lauren f s]

PG Weight: I was down all my pre-pg weight when I went in for a check up at 4 wks pp. But I, too, am squishy and was in desperate need of pants/skirts that fit my bigger hips and shirts to accomodate my bigger boobs. I take James on a walk every evening while DH & DD have their time together. I actually met a mom who lives across the street from me tonight, walking her 4 month old DS! I'm excited to have found a new mom on the street and plan to stop by her house tomorrow to see if she wants to walk together. That, in addition to pilates exercises, and I hope to reduce the squishiness by our July vacation. My co-workers actually commented today that I look like I've lost more weight. Yea!

[kimthebride]

Sleeeeepyyyy
So last night Ava ate at 7pm, 9pm, 2am, 4am and 8am. And of course this was a night that I got to bed late. I almost wish it wasn't so beautiful out...because I totally need to take T outside to play at the playground, but I'd love to stay in on the couch :o .

[sunni76]

weight I've still got almost 15 pounds to lose:( Nothing fits over here either. I have no idea what I wore after having DD...cause it seems like I have nothing this time around!! I did go and buy a few new things, but I'm hoping to lose this weight so I can get into my summer clothes.

father's day I'm thinking about getting the book "The Dangerous Book for Boys" for DH from Nolan
http://images.barnesandnoble.com/images/12370000/12374266.gif

From Macy I'm hoping to get him a CD from Baby Back Records, they put rock songs in a kid-friendly version. We always have to listen to "Macy's music" in the car, so hopefully this will be a good compromise:) One of the local stores here stocks the CD I guess, I hope to find it. I've struck out so far online. Here's an article about it:
www.associatedcontent.com/article/83428/baby_back_records_rock_n_roll_baby.html

[lil_nance]

Kim Did you get your BH yet? I'm drooling over them or something similar. Not sure I can justify it though. I use the stroller more than wearing DD. I have been slinging her more. It helps when she's fussy and DS is demanding my attention.

[happy1nuv]

Kim... joe ate EVERY.TWO.HOURS last night so i feel your pain... and, i know nic needs to go outside, but ...aint happening. And all we have to do is go out the door, not even walk to the park! :) so, dont feel bad if it becomes a couch day!

[kimthebride]

BabyHawks
I didn't get mine yet lil_nance - I got the shipment notification but its not here yet :( . I do have to say that BH is having a little 48 hour second birthday sale until 10pm PST on June 6th. You can use the code birthday2 for 15% off a custom order if anyone is interested....

Shopping cart Covers
I am a huge fan of my www.SewCuteBoutique.com one, but have heard some great things about KozyPal cart Covers. On 6/6 & 6/7 you can get 20% off select overstock fabrics, just go to this link: http://www.kozypalcartcovers.com/store/wsDefault.asp?onsale=on . I may get Ava's now, since I started using one with Thomas when he was only a couple months old. You can use it for them to lay down and nap in the cart while you shop, before they are big enough to sit up....

Father's Day
I did a Photo Book on Shutterfly, telling the story of how Dh became "The World's best Dad" from his childhood, through our marriage, and each of our kids' pregnancies/births/childhoods thus far. I can't wait to get it. :)

[lil_nance]

cart cover I spent so much time choosing what I wanted for DS. Needed something neutral so we could use it with kid #2. Finally chose the dog print with red background from Be Germ Free on eBay http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=160039227288&category=73470. I love it but found I didn't use it that much. I'm just not as germ phobic as I want to be :p .

[wendstress]

I'm totally NOT germ-phobic. Go ahead.....eat off the floor, kid! ;) Exposure to different bacterias/viruses help to boost the immune system. A lot of my job is focused on microbiology - I handle microorganisms on a daily basis. Since my job went down the microbio road, I have become much LESS germ-phobic than I used to be!

Got out the 3-6 month clothes today, since Alex is busting out of the 0-3 month set. Even his toes have rolls of fat! I love chubby babies!

[herewego]

Kim & Mom's With Nipple Shields

Can you guys check your shield and let me know what size you are using? I'm using a 24 (I think they come in 16, 20 & 24) and my LC thinks that maybe it's too big-like there is too much space between the tip of my nipple and the tip of the shield. It is taking Eli forever (over an hour) to nurse with the shield and my breast is not empty, nor is he satisfied at the end of a session. He also gets frustrated at various points throughout the session and will cry, thrash, pump his leg etc. until I can convince him to go back on the breast and keep sucking. This is making us think that the shield is too big because he is having to work too hard.

I'm curious to know what size you are using....also how long does it take you to nurse with the shield? When Eli was taking the natural nipple, he was pretty efficient and would be done nursing from one breast in 10-15mins. Now it's taking so long that I am discouraged from even trying to nurse him because it takes so long and he's still not full...and I STILL have to pump and top him off with a bottle.

I know that nursing with the shield can be successful and I really want to re-establish a good nursing relationship, so I'm not giving up, but I'm feeling a bit frustrated by the whole thing. Any advice or support you shield users can give is much appreciated!

Thanks

[myshel]

herewego: I have a 24, but that's because I bought it at Target and that's all they carry. My nipple doesn't reach the end of the shield either. There's no way it ever could (I'm using the shield because I have the world's smallest nipples). It hasn't caused any problems for me. Carolina nurses just fine with it. She's generally a fast nurser-- 10-15 minutes unless she's comfort nursing; then it takes longer. I guess I didn't realize that this could be a problem. Hmm...

Nancy: I have a BH (I bought an in-stock one-- the discount Kim posted doesn't apply to in-stock MTs, just so you know) and like it really well. I tend to use the stroller more often too, but it's nice to have a MT just in case. We've gone a few places in the past that don't allow or facilitate strollers very easily. It's always nice to whip out the MT and use it. The BH has also worked for walks around the neighborhood too.

Umbrella stroller question: Are any of you tall or have tall DHs? We bought a Chicco umbrella stroller before Carolina was born for Luka. Both DH and I hate it. The handles are too short for DH, and we both kick the wheels. Yuck! Our biggest problem is that we live in Iowa, which is nice normally, but we have little access to really good baby stores. We bought the Chicco in Des Moines (state capitol) at a BRU and rushed into buying it without really looking. I'd be willing to buy something online, but would love suggestions. My only requirements are that it has a sun shade and a basket beneath (smallish is fine). Suggestions?

Us: Things are going well for us. Carolina has finally settled into a routine of sorts. She stills feeds frequently during the day, but is pretty good at night for five weeks-- only up twice. She's pretty animated now which is cool.

I've been looking at clothes recently, but I'm not sure if I should buy much in 3-6 months just yet. We have some onesies, but that's really it. Raising Luka has trained me to be cautious, because he is so tiny that I never can predict when he'll go up in size. Are you guys moving up yet?

Today is my wedding anniversary. No big plans as DH plays softball tonight. We'll probably enjoy grilled hotdogs. Wahoo! :p

[MarriedaGoalie]

I'm totally NOT germ-phobic. Go ahead.....eat off the floor, kid! ;) Exposure to different bacterias/viruses help to boost the immune system. A lot of my job is focused on microbiology - I handle microorganisms on a daily basis. Since my job went down the microbio road, I have become much LESS germ-phobic than I used to be!

I totally agree with you! Some would probably call me a bad mother because I rarely sterlize nipples, etc. I think if you "protect" them from germs too much, it will make them more suseptible to diseases/colds, etc later on.

Myshel: Happy Anniversary!!! :)

Clothes: Am I the only one who's little one is still in newborn stuff? Eek! He wears newborn and 0-3 but is far too small for 3-6 stuff yet.

[diedra1027]

I'm totally NOT germ-phobic. Go ahead.....eat off the floor, kid! ;) Exposure to different bacterias/viruses help to boost the immune system. A lot of my job is focused on microbiology - I handle microorganisms on a daily basis. Since my job went down the microbio road, I have become much LESS germ-phobic than I used to be! Ditto (minus the microoganism handling ;)). I did buy a cart cover to use with Avery...not because of gems, but for extra padding. Avery hated the car seat, so I never shopped with her in it. I carried her in the Bjorn until she could sit up, but once she could sit up she tended to tip over unpredictably when sitting in the grocery cart. I got tired of trying to setup blankets and jackets around her.

Clothes - Ian is closing in on 14lbs, so the NB/0-3 size clothes are LONG gone.

Umbrella Stroller - We have a cheapy one from BRU and we have the same problem, myshel. I have to stand to one side of it and push it with one hand in order for it to be comfortable for my height. I'm too cheap to buy anything else though, so hopefully other tall ladies (like Kim!!) have some suggestions.

Weight - I'm about 4lbs above my starting pg weight, but still in clothes a size up from pre-pg size due to the tummy waddle (attractive!!). DH and I took the kiddos on a really LONG walk two weekends ago and that seems to have triggered a little bit of tummy reduction. I actually only have one pair of shorts that fit and they are getting baggy, but I'm not quite small enough for my pre-pg pants yet.

[Tonysweetie]

MAG: DS is still in newborn and 0-3 month clothes. A lot of his 0-3 month outfits are still pretty baggy on him. The only thing he can wear 3-6 month stuff is in onesies.

I'm so jealous of all you ladies that are so close to your pre-preg weights and wearing your old clothes. I'm so far from it. I've been exercising 6 days a week and eating super well and nothing is happening. I'm stuck at 13-15 lbs. to lose. :o

Andrew had his 2 mo. WBV today he's now 10 lbs. 7 oz. and 21 inches long. So he's on the small side but he gained 2 lbs. from his last visit. He had his shots today as well. Oh my goodness did I ever feel terriable. He cried so hard his little face turned purple but he calmed down immediately afterwards and has been sleeping pretty much ever since. Poor guy!

[lauren f s]

Germs: Eh, I don't worry about it. If something fall on the ground outside or floor of the grocery store then yeah, I'll wash it. But in my house? It gets a quick wipe on the leg (if that) and is given back. I think shopping cart covers are cute, but I just give the cart a quick wipe with a baby wipe if it looks dirty and in Ava goes.

Umbrella Strollers: I'm short, so no help there! DH is 6'4", though, and just resigned himself to not pushing. Please share if you find one, though, because I'd like to get one for James that would work for me (5'4") and DH!

Baby Clothes: It varies for James. Just a few 0-3 month things fit, namely gowns and shorts. Everything else is too short and starts stretching on his mid-section. I went shopping last week and Monday and bought several things in 3-6 months. They're a little big, but he's growing so fast I know they'll fit soon!

TS: Shots are the worst and they never get easier! I was secretly glad to miss James's 2 month WBV because I missed the shots :o.

[juliemag]

Cart covers - I bought some cute amy butler fabric a while back and plan to have one made. Mainly b/c I like the look of them and want to provide a squishy seat for DS. :p

Baby weight - I was down to my pp weight at the 6 week checkup, but I dont know if I've lost any more since then. I dont have a scale and haven't been around one. I can fit in mostly all of my bottoms, but almost none of my tops - thanks to the boobs. Hmph.

Baby clothes - Jackson is just about out of his 0-3 month clothes. Most of his outfits are looking stretched in the torso. We have a baby gap outlet right near my house and I did some stocking up last week on 3-6 month clothes and 6-12 month clothes. I couldn't resist...most of their onsies and shorts were only like $3-4 each. I went nuts.

Umbrella stroller - I had registered for the chicco umbrella, but now I probably wont get it. DH and I are both tall and I'm sure we'd have the same problem that myshel had. I'll probably try to snag a combi when DS gets closer to 6 months old.

:)

[annielynn]

I am back at work and it stinks. I didn't want to come back on Monday. I really wish that I had had about 3/4 extra weeks to take off. I could have really used them. It is amazing how fast time flies by.

Claire was pretty mean to mommy 2 nights ago. She wouldn't sleep! After a whole night of trying everything I could to get her to sleep she finally passed out at 2am. I had to be up at 5 to start my day. Needless to say I was exhausted all day yesterday. She made up for that last night. She slept for almost 7 hours last night. From 10:30 until almost 5:30am!!!!! I feel great this morning. Lots of energy. I hope that baby girl can keep that up.

Baby Weight I am down below my PrePG weight but I am oh so squishy and my body shape has shifted once again. I can fit in my clothes but they aren't all that flattering yet. Since coming back to work I have started working out. I walked a mile on monday and yesterday, and I have been lifting some weights. I tried to do some crunches but they still hurt around my incision. I am going to have to wait a bit longer to start those up again.

Baby Clothes Claire is still in 0-3months clothes and some newborn. I had to put a few things away already because she is too long for them. I am still finding that most of the 0-3 clothes are too big for her. Especially pants. Nothing fits around her tiny little waist.

[SarahKatG]

Hi everybody! I've been faithfully reading along just about every day so I thought I'd finally post an update on us.

Juliana had her 2 mo wbv yesterday (a week late) and she is a major chunky monkey. She weighs 14lbs 14oz (above 95th percentile) and is 24 inches long (at 95th percentile). She is well into her 3-6 month clothes. She flew through size 1 dipes and 0-3 clothes. It's weird to already be packing away things she has outgrown.

Sleep is going well. I have to say she's doing much better than DD1 did at this age. Juliana only woke up once last night at 4am to eat and then wanted to be up for the day at 6:30 but I took her into bed with me and she slept until 8:30. I can definitely handle that.

We took our first vacation with her last weekend. We went to Disneyland for 2 days and visited family for 2 days. It wasn't an easy trip, but we all had fun and it was worth the extra work.

Oh, and for those looking for a new carrier, I just got an Ergo and wore it all weekend at Disneyland and it was awesome.

[kimthebride]

Nipple Shield
I use the 24mm, and though it 'seems' big it does the job. DD is done in 15-20 minutes. BRU usually carries the other sizes...
As for tips? Ummm...make BF sessions all about BFing: dont tempt him to relax/doze off by wrapping him up warm or swaddling him, turn his whole body toward the nip so he's not looking around or trying to kick/bat at you or a blanket while BFing, don't make eye contact too much while he's doing it which may distract him. That's all I can think of right now...maybe try a smaller size shield? Or massage your breast towards the nip to get more milk out, faster encouraging him to suck more??

lil_nance I just got my BabyHawk and am very impressed! DD loved being in it, it was easy to use, lightweight, sturdy, love the head support. I'm very happy I bought one.

Umbrella Strollers
I am a HUGE fan of the Peg Perego P3 umbrella-folding stroller. I registered for this after my 5'9" friend and her 6'4" DH got it for their DD 4 months before my DS was due. I got to test drive it, and loved it. And once I had mine, I had no need for another stroller. Great weight, basket, height handles, folding size, seat, recline, washable fabric, I could go on for ages. I have never known anyone to buy this stroller and not like it. I have been using it for 2 years, and really am a fan. I have long legs and never kick the wheels.
I have the 2005 model, which you can buy on www.AlbeeBaby.com for $250. The 2007 model is $329. Here is what the 2005 model looks like in I think this is a navy color:
http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/albee-baby_1951_115865669
I am not a fan of Chiccos or Combis. I did get a cheap Chicco Capri umbrella stroller to fly with for DS (I needed something fast & cheap when the airline broke my P3), but I tried all the models of both brands and found them to be too short for tall people, a bit unstable and just not great quality. I wish they made a $20 simple umbrella stroller for us talk people, when we don't want to take our everyday stroller out....short people are so lucky.

Cart Covers/Germs
I don't use it for germs (ha ha mine is problably dirtier than the carts it goes in!), but I like that it encases his snacks & toys when we're shopping since he likes to drop things between the bars of the cart when its not there. Also, when we're eating out it catches most of his mess so I don't need to clean the floor after feeding him. And when he was little, I'd lay him down in it to nap when we shopped.

[happy1nuv]

cart cover - have one, barely used it for nic ... thank goodness it doubles asa plymat, which we actually did use it for. it was way too big a pita trying to get it on holding nic in one arm... and while im a freak when it comes to food, i have no issues with germs...

[pg_jess]

vent...

Started back to work Monday for two weeks before I'm off for the summer. Leaving Ethan is easier because he's at home with my sister for these two weeks, and DH works from home. But getting home in the evenings and trying to get school work done while wanting to do nothing but cuddle with Ethan is tough. I miss him terribly. After being with him 24-7 for 8 weeks, it's hard to adjust. Especially given I spent Wed and Thurs at work from 8:30 until 3 and then in class from 3 until 8.

Last night I hit the breaking point. I've only been getting about 5 hours of sleep each night this week and I've reached the point where coffee doesn't even help anymore. Ethan had been sleeping well and only getting up once a night to eat, but last night he woke up twice and I just couldn't deal with it. I'm exhausted to the point that my entire body aches. My boobs are killing me from all the pumping I have to do while at work/class. I'm just so. darn. tired. I cried through both nighttime feedings and then felt guilty for being upset and crying because I was convinced Ethan could tell and would think I was upset with him. Middle of the night paranoia/craziness is amazing. For some reason I ended up sleeping on the floor of the nursery, using stuffed animals for pillows, and I can't remember why I decided to do that. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

Tonight I fully plan to call on DH or sister to do the nighttime feeding(s) from a bottle and get a full night's rest...

[myshel]

STRESS! ARGH! Here's the rundown:

*Pick up MIL from her meeting in town at 3pm
*Pick up the rest of the items for dinner-- MIL and DH's g-pa are staying with us tonight
*Finish any last minute laundry so we have clothes to wear this weekend
*Pack up for two adults and two kids
*Pack car with our crap
*Figure out a way to transport frozen EBM-- most likely a cooler
*Get up tomorrow, get self, DH, and two kids ready to travel
*Drive 5+ hours for SIL's graduation
*Spend the weekend in a hotel (with only 1 king sized bed-- great thinking MIL! :rolleyes: ) with family to see and events to attend
*Drive 5+ hours home

This does not include any nursing or tending to children. I'm so not ready for this. It's really going to be stressful for me.

[lil_nance]

Myshel I feel for you. Since it's a family event, let the family help. Hand the kids off to anyone and everyone. Both kids. We had DD's baptism Mem. Day wknd. My girlfriend spent a good portion of the weekend holding Avery while her 8yo daughter entertained Connor. Made my life a bit easier. Good Luck.

pg_jess Sorry things are rough. I'm tired too. DD is only getting up once a night but we're getting her and us to bed super late. I've been getting about 6hr of sleep interupted by a 30-90min feeding, diaper, burping session. It's exhausting. I'm a SAHM and people think I can rest when the kids rest. Yeah right, like they are ever napping at the same time.

[kimthebride]

myshel
Hang in there - just make your list and plans, and take one thing at a time. Oh, and try to have some fun, okay? :)

pg_jess
I couldnt imagine going back to work, it must be so difficult both emotionally, mentally and physically. Is there any more help anyone can give you? Can DH do a bottle at night so either you can go to bed earlier or so you can STTN more regularly?

As for us...
We're in Bad Luck Streak 2007. Ready for this?
1. Our A/C has been broken, looks like its $1400 to fix, and guess who just went abroad due to a death in the family? The guy who was in the middle of fixing it. So we have 90 degree heat and no A/C unless his wife can get someone else to come do it for us before he comes back in a week.
2. We have to drop the price of our condo about $35K to have any chance of selling it in this crapola market. Yeah, I'm really happy about that.
3. DS came down with a sudden ear infection, throat infection, cough & viral infection. I was up every hour last night with him, plus BFing Ava, then he had me up for the day at 6am. And we had to go to the Ped's again today for a 2nd antibiotic shot (he had a 103.5 temp yesterday), then to the pharmacy for Rxs.
4. We had to cancel DS's bday party for the SECOND time. We're moving it to next weekend, hoping someone can come!

Soooo....anyone here have any actual GOOD news to talk about, maybe cheer some of us stressed out & cranky folk up??

[annielynn]

Oh I wish that I had some good news to share but my daughter who had a horrible night of sleep three nights ago and then a really great night of sleep two nights ago reverted back to crappy sleep last night. To top it all off Jack woke up just as we were getting Claire to sleep after midnight last night and wouldn't go back to bed. So he crawled into bed with us and finally fell asleep at 1am this morning just in time for Claire to WAKE UP again. Good grief! I am really looking forward to a nap this weekend.

Kim you poor thing. I hope that Thomas gets better soon with the antibiotics. I just read in the LJ that you have to try and keep the kids seperated. Good luck!!! I just don't know how you are living with no A/C. I would just die without ours. I hope that she finds someone to come and fix it soon.

Myshel I hope that you have a smooth and stress free trip. Try to find as much quiet time as you can. Good luck and have a good time.

Oh Jess I am so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. I think that it is a great idea to have someone on night watch for you. A good 8 hours of sleep will do wonders for you. One day I will convince DH that he needs to let me sleep for 8 hours and put him on night duty! ;)

[sunni76]

pg_jess Hang in there! Only a week or so left, and then you'll be off for the summer, right? Hopefully you can get a decent night sleep tonight, you deserve it.

kimoh no! I hope Thomas feels better soon. Sick toddlers are no fun. That really sucks about the condo too:(

myshelSounds like you are going to need a drink;) Try to have some fun at the graduation!

Sounds like we are all in a bad sleeping streak! I was up once with Macy last night, and twice with Nolan. Why does this always happen on nights when I have to work the next day?? Right now I'm only working 3 days a week, I'm liking this schedule, and dreading going back up to full time. I have no idea how I'll balance it all!

[Tonysweetie]

I don't like all the bad reports. Andrew did well last night. He went to bed kinda late last night, around midnight and slept until 8ish which was great but usually he's in bed by 9:30/10 and sleeps until 6. DH is off tomorrow finally so tomorrow morning will be his morning to get up with him. Yay, I get to sleep in! :)

Kim: I'm sorry Thomas is sick. Poor guy! I hope he feels better soon so you can catch a break.

PgJess: (((Hugs))) hang in there!!

I need your ladies advice. I had started on the mini pill and only lasted 3 days on it. I called my Dr. and asked for the combination pill (Yaz) so I got my pills today ready to start this coming Sunday (I like starting on Sundays) but my Dr. told me to wait for my period before I start my next pills. Why do I have to wait? Of course I just said "Okay" and got off the phone and didn't ask why. I haven't had a PP AF and I'm not feeling like one is coming anytime soon and me and DH want me to get started ASAP as you can imagine why. ;) I really want to start this weekend. Who knows when AF will make a return. BTW I am no longer BFing/Pumping. I kept my goal of 6 weeks (actually made it to 7) so I can take the combo pill now.


I hope everyone has a great weekend. Not much planned my way except relaxing I hope. God Bless!!!

[happy1nuv]

ts: hmmm, no clue why you'd have to wait. BUT, if you want to try to force it you can try taking bee pollen. Last time around, i was getting antsy cause we wanted to ttc once nic turned 1 and af wasn't returning (i was still bfing) -- i started taking bee pollen and not only did af return, but it was regular (something that hadn't happened for me for a VERY long time!) you can also try something else - vitex maybe? but, bee pollen is supposed to be a super food and really really good for you. I really want to take it now (its also supposed to help with allergies) but im afraid for af to come back. im hoping it stays away for a good 18 months when we'll be ready to think about trying again(pipe dream i know)

[MarriedaGoalie]

Carter did great last night! (Sorry ladies!) He went to bed around 8:30 and was out until 7:00 am. I am feeding him right now and hopefully he will be out for the night. It makes for an early night for me, though. At least I can get some stuff done around the house.

[lauren f s]

pg_jes: *hugs* It's sooo hard going back to work and trying to find that balance at home. I'm still struggling with it. If your DH will give DS a bottle during the night so you can rest, have him do it! Do you have an office at work? Say you're pumping but really take a nap during the day if you have to. I've done it! I've been back a month and while it's still no fun leaving James, it is easier now that I'm learning how to manage my time. And remember - you have the weekends with him. Treasure those!

myshel: Good luck this weekend!!

Kim: Poor Thomas!! I hope he feels better!

We're doing well here. James just went down for his nap, Ava's still asleep, DH is doing work outside. It's nice and peaceful and quiet :)

[sunni76]

Ok, so I went to a scrapbook night last night with a friend. DH put Nolan to bed at 8:30pm, and he slept straight thru until 5:30am!!! I couldn't believe it! I'm starting to think I need to get out more often;)

[MarriedaGoalie]

I thought Carter was going to be all screwed up last night 'cuz we kept him up until 12:30, but he slept straight through until 9 am! Woo hoo! :)

[Tonysweetie]

I thought Carter was going to be all screwed up last night 'cuz we kept him up until 12:30, but he slept straight through until 9 am! Woo hoo! :)

Fantastic!

Andrew is still doing pretty well with his sleep. He's has been going to bed around 10:30 and sleeping until anywhere between 5:30 to 6:30. I'm loving this. I hope it continues for good until he sleeps even longer! :)

Well I've been dieting and exercising really really really well lately and have only dropped maybe 2-3 lbs. If I dare eat out one night and eat something a bad such as a slice of pizza I gain those 2-3 lbs. right back. I really don't think my stomach is ever going to shrink. I've been this same size since about 4 weeks PP and DS is now over 9 weeks old. Ugh! I'm still stuck wearing elastic waisted things and maternity clothes. It sucks big time!

[wendstress]

Alex slept from 9 PM until 5:30 AM!!! Almost heaven....

Except that James was up at 9:30, 11:30, 1:30, 3:30, and 4:45 for the day.

I mean, really. ANyone want to buy a 2-year old?

[diedra1027]

omg, Wendy...the two year olds must be up to something. Avery has been getting up for the day between 4:30-5:30 for a week now. YAAAAWWN.

Unlike most of you ;), Ian isn't sleeping that great either. He normally goes down around 10-11 and gets up between 2-3. If I put him back in the co-sleeper he scoots and snorts around for an hour before getting up again. He'll sleep longer if I bring him into bed with me though. I get up with Avery between 4:30-5:30 (usually), so I'm a pretty tired mama most days.

[lauren f s]

I left my pump at home today :(. Grabbed the bag and attachments inside, but forgot that I actually pumped on Saturday and left the actual pump itself in the bedroom. We have one car, which DH uses, so he's got to run home and pick it up for me. James ate at 7:30 and my boobs are starting to hurt!

[annielynn]

Sleeping break through. Claire slept from 11 until 7:30am Saturday night and 11 until 7am last night. Very happy mommy! I hope that this is something that sticks around. She still goes down to sleep really badly. She doesn't like to laid down. But after about 5 mins of fussing she is out. YEAH Too bad I had to get up at 5:30 this morning. ;)

She is scooter too. Last night I placed her in the middle of the crib covered up nice and snug. This morning I heard her bubbles on the aquarium so I went to check on her. She was completely in the far right hand corner of the crib, curled up like a froggie snoozing away. She must have kicked her aquarium with her foot sometime and fallen back asleep. What a cutie pie!

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y68/alynn0903/June%202007/June8_9_10038.jpg

[lil_nance]

Not enough sleep here. Avery went down around 12:45. DS let out a scream in his sleep about 4:15. Must have woken her up because she started squirming and snorting. I fed her at 4:30 and she proceeded to spew it all over me. Bing drenched w/ BM in the wee hours of the morning, fun. :rolleyes: Put her back down at 5. She woke up again and I brought her into bed at 6. DS up at 7:15. Not sure what was going on but yesterday afternoon/last night it seemed like she wasn't keeping anything down. I kept having to change outfits for both her & me. Something must have stayed in because we had some messy diapers this morning.

DH got DS to say I Love You to me for the first time today. Sounded more like "I Ruv You" but when accompanied by a big toddler hug around my knees, who cares. :D

[lil_nance]

Kim waiting for pics of your BH. :)
I've also got my eye on a Kozy or maybe something custom. Decisions, decisions. I've been slinging DD a lot lately. Had her in it at my MOMS Club picnic yesterday. Got a lot of compliments and questions. Babywearing beyond a Bjorn isn't very common around here.

[Tonysweetie]

annielynn: What a pretty little girl!

Lauren: Ouch! I hope you got relief!

Wendress: That's awesome that he slept that long now if only your other DS can get the memo also. :)



Uggggghhhh I'm so miserable I have a UTI and it SUCKS! It hit me so quickly today. I got up and felt fine but as the day wore on it got worse and worse. I got a Z pack and just took my first dose. I so hope I'm not running to the bathroom every 20 minutes tonight. But with all this water and cranberry juice I'm drinking I'm sure I'll be up all night in the bathroom. Good times.


QOTD: (Warning TMI) Is anyone else having issues going to the bathroom since giving birth. Things got back to normal fairly quickly for me but the past few days things have been pretty difficult to the point where it hurts. I've been gulping water thinking it would make things easier but it's not at all. I dread everytime I need to go. I bought some stool softeners hoping this will help. I even noticed earlier today when I went that it hurt REAL bad and I noticed some blood. It freaked me out! I do have hemorrhoids (from pregnancy). Is anyone else having or had this problem?

[myshel]

TS: The blood could be from your hemorrhoids. Maybe try eating more fiber to help ease things along.

6 week appointment: I'm cleared for all activity that's "legal" according to my OB. ;)

Our trip to WI went well. Both kids slept most of the way there. We stopped once three hours in to eat lunch and feed Carolina. On the way home, Carolina slept the entire way. Overall, my stressing wasn't really worth it. Things went well, and there was never a bfing issue.

Fussiness Galore: The last few days, Carolina has gone through these extreme periods of fussiness. I can't seem to pinpoint what's triggering these episodes. She fusses at the breast and really can only be soothed by being held and jostled a bit. Is this another growth spurt? I swear, you'd think I was a first time mom. I don't remember a lot of this stuff from Luka because I was already back to work.

[diedra1027]

Fussiness Galore: The last few days, Carolina has gone through these extreme periods of fussiness. I can't seem to pinpoint what's triggering these episodes. She fusses at the breast and really can only be soothed by being held and jostled a bit. Is this another growth spurt? I swear, you'd think I was a first time mom. I don't remember a lot of this stuff from Luka because I was already back to work.There typically is a growth spurt at/around 6 weeks and that's what it sounds like to me. I noticed that several of us had really super fussy babies at the 6 week mark, kind-of beyond the growth spurt stuff. General fussiness is supposed to peak around that time too, so I swear they just go crazy at that time to make sure that you really appreciate that the super fussy times are coming to an end!

[lauren f s]

There typically is a growth spurt at/around 6 weeks and that's what it sounds like to me. I noticed that several of us had really super fussy babies at the 6 week mark, kind-of beyond the growth spurt stuff. General fussiness is supposed to peak around that time too, so I swear they just go crazy at that time to make sure that you really appreciate that the super fussy times are coming to an end!
Sooo true! James was an absolute nightmare the week before I went back to work. I was ready to go in several days early, it was so bad! But once that week passed he was 100 times better.

[myshel]

Thanks for the reassurance, diedra and lauren. I really can't complain too much because it's not like the fussiness is all day long. It just seems to take longer to soothe Carolina and the last few days, unless she's dead tired, there's a lot of squirming at the breast, even after a burp and diaper change. Luckily, DH's expectations about what gets done during the day aren't very high, so I can turn my attention to Carolina instead. I also think Carolina has a cold, so that isn't helping things much either.

[MarriedaGoalie]

QOTD: I'm not having those problems, but I am more prone to UTIs now... which suck since I was already really susceptible to them!

Doctor's Appointment: Carter had a doctor's appointment today. We were worried about him having reflux and so we decided to take him in. He is 2 1/2 months old and weighs 13 lbs 1 oz. He was exactly at the 50th percentile in his height, weight and head circum. I have a perfectly average baby! They did diagnose him with reflux and since DH had so many problems with ulcers and stomach sensitivity as a child, they wanted to go ahead and put him on some medicine as well as special formula. They also want to see him back in a week to see how it is working out for him. Also, she noticed that he doesn't like to turn his head to the right. She said that we need to make an effort putting his head to the right to help build up those neck muscles. Anyone else having this problem? I hope it doesn't develop into something more serious! :(

[lauren f s]

MAG: Poor Carter! It's good you got him into the dr though and they were able to diagnose it so quickly. I'm sure that'll help him a lot! And I wouldn't stress him turning his head to the right. When you play with him, rattle a toy on his right side so he'll turn his head that way. Does he follow you when you're in the room? You could walk from side to side, talking to him, so he'll turn his head, too. I really liked the book Your Baby, Week by Week. It breaks down development into each week for the first year and along with what to expect that week it also has a good list of games and activities to try.

I don't know what got into James last night, but he was up so much. It was awful! He went to bed at 8, was up at 12, 2, 4, and 7. I think I'm getting sick, too, because I've had a really sore throat the past two days and I felt 10 times worse each time I'd wake up with him. And it would take forever for me to get comfortable to fall back asleep, then he was up again :(. But, when I went to get him out of bed at 7 I walked in to this:
http://i42.photobucket.com/albums/e323/laurenballew/of50590393-3.jpg

Can't stay mad when he's smiling like that. (Finally caught a smile on camera!)

[diedra1027]

...he doesn't like to turn his head to the right. She said that we need to make an effort putting his head to the right to help build up those neck muscles. Anyone else having this problem? Ian definitely prefers keeping his head to one side. I don't worry about it (DH does though), because I have observed that he *can* move it to the other side if he wants to. If you look at how our bodies are designed, we have big 'ol heads supported by relatively small necks. It just takes some time to develop the necessary muscle/muscle control in our tiny necks to control these big noggins! The only thing I really do to work on it is position myself on the less favored side and try to get him to turn his head that way on his own, but I'm not working on it regularly or anything...maybe once a week if I think of it when he's playing on the floor.

[wendstress]

MAG- Alex definitely has a preference, too. My first son did, too, and he turned out fine. LIke the others have said, just do your best to encourage that he look the other way, too.

Yes ladies, I had 8 hours of sleep last night. Alex slept from 9 PM until 7 AM (BLISS!). James woke once at around 10 PM screaming hysterically again - I'm suspecting night terrors. He screamed for 5-10 minutes and never woke up, an then he was suddenly done and went right back to bed. Really strange, and quite upsetting to watch. But, then he slept through until 6 AM (his usual waking time).

[myshel]

MAG: DS was like that too. Our ped just reminded us to switch him around in the crib from time to time. It really didn't cause any problems for us.

Wendy: Yay! for sleep! Luka has had a few of those night terrors too. It's really weird to deal with a screaming child who isn't awake at all.

Shamelessly cute picture:
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1135/542988173_ab59760941.jpg?v=0

Luka was trying to help Carolina with her binky. We took this picture on the green in front of the chapel of Lawrence University in Appleton, WI. Neither child could sit still or be quiet during graduation itself, so we spent much of the time in this area.

[wendstress]

Myshel - you were in Appleton??? This is where I live. In fact, James' Daycare is only about 1 blocks from LU. DH and I were driving around on Friday and wondered what all the tents were for!

Look familiar??? We didn't get married here, but our photographer suggested it for some photos since it was Spring and nothing was in bloom.

http://www.pbase.com/wendym/image/33445854/medium.jpg

[lauren f s]

myshel: I *love* Carolina's dress!

[kimthebride]

tonys
Really, it takes time for it to all go back to where it was. Some people recover faster, others slower. Just try to take it in stride, keep up the good work in eating healthier and excercising which should give you about 1lb a week loss, and before you know it you'll be the incredible shrinking woman.

happy1
I can't believe you are already talking about TTCing again. AK!! You are one brave mama. ;)

Scooting
Ava does this too. We'll put on on one end of the PnP and before you know it we hear the crinkle crinkle of her frog legs kicking the bag of wipes, lol! RIBBIT. RIBBIT.

lil_nance
Oh my God, I am soooooo looking forward to the ay T tells me he "wuvs" me! So sweet!!

BabyHawk
Here she is! I know I took forever, but I've been a bit tied up. This is actually the limited edition gold fabric, which I love! And I got it with one pocket:
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1066/543965576_e27ed10e27.jpg?v=0
DD loves it in there, and I really like the quality. The headrest is the big seller for me.

Poop Issues
No, I am pretty much living on high fiber cereal and water so constipation isn't an issue. But my (almost 3 year old thank-you-very-much-Thomas) hemmy is frickin' killing me. When I see my OB I swear I am asking him to cut the thing off. I am so over it. I call it The Hitchiker.

6 Week CheckUp
Because my OB is so busy, the first morning appointment I could get (so Tom can watch the kids) is actually at 9 weeks :rolleyes: . And that was with over 4 weeks notice!

myshel
So glad to hear the trip went well and all stress was for nothing!

Fussiness
She just goes psychotic when she wants to eat, otherwise she's pretty chill. But right now she's eating more often and she goes from Calm Carrie to Freak Out Frieda in a matter of seconds. I mean SECONDS. Its crazy!

Favoring One Side
DS had this, favored looking right. The Ped could actually see it in the shape of his head, so we had to do some physical therapy exercises at home, make sure we alternated laying him down with his head on each end of the cradle/PnP, and so on. After a bit, his neck loosened up, head rounded out and all was well.

OMG we have such a cute group of kids! :D myshel I must get that dress for Ava: where is it from???

And since we are sharing smiling pics, here's my little sunshine making up for the exhausting feeding frenzy:
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So Where Have I Been??
I have spent the last almost week fighting Thomas' fevers, infections, not STTN, plus Ava's growth spurt, and now my own health since I am fighting off the sore throat & sneezes now. Plus trying to re-plan his bday party for Saturday, the dealings with my realtor in relisting our condo at the new price, getting our A/C fixed, and all other Poop-Hitting-Fan emergencies as they arose.

I am rather tired!

I almost wish the A/C wasn't getting fixed today, since I just laid both kids down for a nap and could REALLY use one myself....

[wendstress]

*raising hand* I finally have a smiling baby photo, too!

It took forever to get, but here is my happy boy!

http://www.pbase.com/image/80466130/medium.jpg

[myshel]

Wendy: Yes, that picture setting totally looks familiar. Darn! If I had known that one of my April Mommies lived there, I totally would have tried to meet up with you. We spent an awful lot of time at the hotel, bored out of our minds!

Carolina's dress: It's from the Baby GAP. I'm not sure if they still have them or not as we got it from a friend. DH's best friend's wife (a mouthful, huh? ;) ) loves to buy clothes for Carolina. Apparently, she's projecting her wish for a litle girl on me (her little guy just turned one last week) and buys things for C all the time. It's almost embarrassing, because I normally don't shop at Baby GAP for clothes. It's just too expensive given the fact that little ones wear the clothes one day and have outgrown them the next (I tend to favor Target, Children's Place, and Old Navy). Come to think of it, most of C's really nice dresses and onesies came from this friend. Oy!

This is as close to a real smile as I've been getting lately:
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1285/542846436_cf21d7b5b4.jpg?v=0

[lil_nance]

Beautiful babies, ladies!
myshel I'd love to get a pic of DS & DD like that. precious!
Here's my smile
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1295/544456077_2e1de45906.jpg?v=1181762968

Kim Lovely BH
NJ Mommies Just found out a babywearing store opened in Red Bank. They are going to carry BH & Kozy. I'm waiting for their Kozy's to arrive and then planning a trip to road test some carriers.http://www.littlewillowbaby.com/
STTN Still not happening here. Ugh! DD went down around 11:30 up at 3:30 and again at 5. At 6 I banished her to the crib. Not quite ready to have her out of our room but mommy needed some sleep
scooting DD moves around so much more than DS. A couple of times I haven't strapped her in and she's practically scooted out of her bouncy :eek: . As DH pointed out, she moved around more while in me too.

[happy1nuv]

lil_nance ~ the lady that owns the store belongs to one of my mom groups... small world, huh? (its funny - every time i turn around someone is telling me about that store...i MusT get over there to check it out! (another friend went and said it was a great store!)

and... im jealous... am i the ONLY one who cant capture baby's smile on camera?!?

[golfer_girl]

Just saying hi to you all.

DD is somewhere close to 12 lbs! Her 2 month checkup will be in 2 wks. I suspect she'll add another pound by then! And yes, my girl just started smiling and cooing! It's wonderful.

pg_jess - I got the australian swaddle blankets and LOVE them. Thanks for the link.

kim - you'll never believe, I found a used 2005 model Peg Perego double stroller at a baby store that was going out of business that sell used and new stuff. The stroller was used of course, but when I saw it, I thought it might have similar features to yours that you so well described in previous posts, so I grabbed it - for $150!!! I think that was a bargain. I'm not a fan of the tandem, but love the quick snap off seats that can lay flat, etc... I plan to keep it at least until the kids are bigger and can get them into the lightweight Maclaren double. Thanks for the info - it made my decision quick to buy it and know it was a bargain.

[annielynn]

Anyone else have a little one that doesn't want to go to sleep at night? The last two nights I haven't been able to get Claire to sleep. Last night it was 1am and the night before was 1:30am. I am so tired. I was actually having a hard time getting to work this morning because I was falling asleep. I have tried keeping her awake until her last bottle, that didn't work. I tried making sure that she got a good nap in the early evening, that didn't work. She is just a night owl. I am exhausted all the time. sigh

I think that we have the cutest babies ever! I love all the smiles.

Does your little one smile more for you or DH? Claire love to smile at Daddy. When she hears his voice at night she just perks up. Totally different than the way that Jack was. Jack was/is mommy's boy! Claire is leaning towards Daddy's little girl!

[happy1nuv]

joe wanted to sleep last night... but only when mama was upright and preferably moving! let's just say i broke my own rule and totally enjoyed a half cup of caffeinated coffee this morning!

[myshel]

joe wanted to sleep last night... but only when mama was upright and preferably moving! let's just say i broke my own rule and totally enjoyed a half cup of caffeinated coffee this morning!

A little coffe doesn't hurt at all. I've decided that one Diet Coke a day won't kill me either. I've been good about caffeine consumption, but some days...

Carolina slept well last night-- up at 2:15am and 6:00 am. Since we're both fighting colds, after the 6:00am feeding, we both went back to sleep.

Carolina has been a fussy Mcfussy butt for periods of time during the last few days. I'm starting to think it's a growth spurt thing. I also think she gets tense when she can't be near me, because she definitely favors her mama. It's funny, because I can put her in the swing and walk out of the room. Within a minute, she knows I'm gone and starts wailing. I think I'm going to start leaving her more with Daddy to get over this little thing.

Last night, I stayed home with both kids while DH went to play softball. Both of them bawled (for different reasons), but once we got things settled down, it was fine. Luka cuddled up to me on the couch and helped hold the baby while I got ready to feed her. At one point, he even lifted up his shirt and tried putting the nipple shield on himself. He held it on and said, " Baby Milk" and pointed at Carolina. Funny stuff.

[lauren f s]

At one point, he even lifted up his shirt and tried putting the nipple shield on himself. He held it on and said, " Baby Milk" and pointed at Carolina. Funny stuff.
That's so cute! Lol!

Add us to the list of those up last night. He went to bed at 9, up at 12:45-1:45, up at 4, up at 6, up for the day at 8. James is 12 weeks, so I'm not sure if he's going through a growth spurt or what's going on. I swear, sometimes it's like I've never done this before because I question everything! He napped most of the day and has gone from taking 4 oz bottles to 6 oz (which is causing me to freak out and pump like a mad woman!), so that leads me to believe growth spurt. I don't know. :confused: I just know I'm tired. :(

[kimthebride]

8 Week WBV
Ava is up to 10lb 5oz and 22 1.2" long - 50% in both, so she is also perfectly average! ;)

Sick House
Thomas is getting better, I now have a cold I'm trying to get rid of before Saturday's party, and I spoke to the doctor about the chances of me giving it to Ava. He said the BFing really helps, and to simply wash wash wash my hands, wash them between touching DS and DD, wash before BFing, etc and she should be okay. Oh, and I got the OK for cold meds, thank God.

Sleep, Oh Blessed Sleep
Ava went back to her 9pm-4am then 7:30am routine, thankfully. And Thomas is STTN again now, despite his cold. A few nights of this and maybe i'll be caught up?

Coffee
Seriously, if you couldn't have coffee while pg or BFing I wouldn't have kids! :p I drink a cup (ahem big fat mug :o ) of 1/2 decaf 1/2 regular daily, and sometimes its just regular. Ava - even with a little reflux - never is affected by it at all. So enjoy!

Laughing
DD was laughing for me last night - soooo cute! She did one "aha!" laugh a week or so ago, but last night it was continuous. So cute. We caught it on video, too.

golfer girl
This is me, passed out with jealousy at your purchase:
http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:J4PSxg6f4P8YJM:http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/pic/GDFCARD/GFLX37~Felix-the-Cat-Passed-Out-Posters.jpg

Off to rest....

[diedra1027]

Here is Ian's smiley picture :). I remember how hard it was to get Avery to smile at this age because she was so intent on staring at the camera!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v498/diedra1027/IanSmile02.jpg

Coffee - I wouldn't survive without it. Ian's been getting up at 3, 3:30, 4, and 4:30 :rolleyes: then Avery gets up for the day at 5:30 (if I'm "lucky"). He also seems intent on getting up the *second* my head hits the pillow if I try and take a nap in the afternoon. I'm only getting about 4 hours of uninterrupted sleep at night if/when I get to bed at 11.

[lauren f s]

I don't drink coffee, but I do drink Coke. And on nights where I get next to no sleep and have to work the next day, you better believe I drink more than one!

I love all our smiley babies!!

[juliemag]

Awww, all the cute smiley babies! I love it!

All this sleep talk has me somewhat relieved. Jackson hasn't ever slept through the night, which is ok with me for the most part. But he also doesn't really follow a routine. He sort of gets up at either 2, 3, or 4 am. And that is usually his one wake up for the night. Then he's usually up for the day around 6-ish. Sometimes he likes to fuss around midnight, but a little "shhhh-ing" and he is back down for a couple more hours.

I'm back to work today for the first time. :( I am just trying to nail down this pumping routine and trying hard to force myself to get work done. Ha!

Here's my contribution to the smiley baby talk!

http://pics.livejournal.com/juliemag/pic/0009gf08

[MarriedaGoalie]

This isn't the best picture, but I love his smile in this picture... :)

http://images23.fotki.com/v871/photos/1/1116680/4987978/IMG_4142-vi.jpg?1180417429

[lauren f s]

James rolled over this morning, back to front! Last night DH was playing with him and he was so close, onto his side and trying so hard to go over. I was playing with him this morning and he did it - several times!!

(Ava did belly to back first and was 5 months old before she rolled back to front, so I'm really excited!)

[happy1nuv]

Joe's rolled both ways (back to front and front to back) this week but not at the same time... BUT, bad mommy that i am, i dont remember what day he did which first! Second baby syndrome, which i SwORE to avoid...is ssooooo striking!!!!

[kimthebride]

Before I forget yet again to say this...

I bought and have been using the Aden & Anais muslin swaddling blankets and really, really like them! They are really big and thin and breathable, I can swaddle Ava even on hot days (and with our A/C broken the last few weeks, every day has been hot), without over-heating her. Another good use is for putting over the top of the carrier when I'm wearing her or over the carseat while in the stroller as breathable shade. I got the white ones, and am so pleased. Just another blanket recc!
http://www.adenandanais.com/unisex-wraps.html

Good rollin', Joe & James!! :cool:

[Tonysweetie]

Wow babies rolling over already! When I put Andrew down for tummy time he just lays there most of the time and cries. :rolleyes:

I'm such a goof, so I'm going to a dinner party tonight and I said I would bring dessert. I love lemon cake, so I went to the store yesterday and got the cake mix, pudding mix, and everything I need to make it. I come home and make the cake. When I went to get it out of my bunt pan it stuck and fell apart. I was so mad! :mad: So today I get up and load Andrew up once again and go to the store to get more cake mix and stuff. I just got done putting it in the oven and I realized when I was throwing out my egg carton my eggs expired back in February!!! :eek: I'm now terrified I'm going to make everyone sick. I do NOT want to load Andrew back up in the car and go to the store to get MORE cake mix, eggs etc. So I'm trying to decide to finish the cake and bring it or go buy a pie at the store. I do not have time to make anything else. It's almost 3 and the party is at 5:30. Crud!

[MarriedaGoalie]

Carter isn't rolling yet, but he did laugh on Wednesday for the first time! It was the cutest thing EVER! :D

[pg_jess]

I have been crazy busy with being back at work and school the last two weeks. I'm done now, and home for the summer (well, until August), so I'm hoping to catch up... I feel like I've missed a lot around here!!

Golfer Girl & Kim - I'm so glad you guys like the Aden & Anais blankets. I think they're totally worth the price. I use them all the time. We've pretty much abandoned all our other receiving blankets in favor of these.

Smiling/Laughing - We get plenty of smiles (though we have yet to catch a really good one on camera), but no laughing yet. He does laugh in his sleep sometimes, but not when he's awake.

Rolling - When we were doing his 2 month photo shoot (here at home) we put him on his tummy. Three times in a row he rolled from his tummy to his back. I think it was mostly that he would kind of tip and then the momentum from his huge head would carry him the rest of the way, but it was still exciting! I can't believe so many of your babies have already rolled from back to belly! They're growing so fast!

Daycare search - The first lady we went to visit was questionable. We arrived at her house to visit just as she was getting home from going out to dinner. When we all walked into her house, it was obvious something was burning. She had left a tray of cookies in the oven (that was on) while she and her husband went to dinner!!! Then she said she always does stuff like that because she has no sense of smell. Um, hello??? Scary. So the search continues. It was too much trying to visit her after a long day at work, so I postponed any future visits until I was done. Hopefully I can get some good visits in in the next week or two and find a good place...

Hope everyone has fun celebrating Father's Day this weekend!!!

[myshel]

Score! I got a bunch of good deals on clothes for Carolina at a neighbor's garage sale. I purchased a bunch of Baby GAP clothes as well as two Hannah Anderson rompers. I'm super stoked about those. They were only $2 each!

Normally, I'm not a huge garage sale person, but since they had nicer clothes, I felt okay about buying them. Our other neighbor was having a sale too, but I couldn't find anything for Luka over there. Sizes and seasons didn't match up correctly.

[lil_nance]

myshel I love garage sales and that's a great price for Hannah Anderson. Love Gap too.

I got a BH today!!!! YEAH! :D Took DH to a local store that sells BH. She's also going to carry Kozy MTs but hasn't got them in yet. We tried on BH and DD promptly fell asleep. Ended up getting that exact one. No action shots yet but it's a natural BH with a pocket in Amy Butler Lotus Star Paisley-sand. LOVE IT! Super comfy.

[wendstress]

OK, don't shoot me.... Alex has been sleeping through the night (3 nights in a row)! From around 9 PM to about 6:45 AM. WOOHOO! Tonight he even went to bed at 8:20PM. With luck, I'd love to start being able to put down James and ALex at the same time!!!!

Today we saw Thomas the Train (http://www.thomasandfriends.com/usa/parents/dowt.html). It was a blast and James had the best time.... He went to sleep with his conductor hat on. I have some photos to upload - I'll share a few later.

Going to bed - have to enjoy this kid-free time!

[myshel]

OK, don't shoot me.... Alex has been sleeping through the night (3 nights in a row)! From around 9 PM to about 6:45 AM. WOOHOO!

Wendy: I was going to freak out on you, but then I remembered that Alex is a month older than Carolina so... :p

Our Father's Day has started off very nicely. :rolleyes: Luka was crying this morning, which is pretty normal for him. So, Chris enters his room to find a scene out of a horror movie-- vomit everywhere! We got all of that cleaned up and brought Luka to our bed, where we all cuddled under the covers. Chris and I were drifting off to sleep when I heard this weird noise. I lifted my head just in time to see Luka spew all over our bed. I jumped out of bed just in time to witness Luka projectile vomiting all over his sister. The kicker-- Carolina never woke up! Ugh!

[sunni76]

myshel oh no! I hope Luka is feeling better today. What a way to start your day though, sheesh!

Nolan slept from 9pm to 6:30am last night! He nursed a ton yesterday, but I think it was well worth it for the sleep we were able to get:)

[lauren f s]

Poor Luka! I hope he's feeling better today myshel!

We had a low-key Father's Day. My parents were on vacation and didn't get back until yesterday, so we just stayed home and were lazy all day. I've been battling a sinus infection and it was rainy and gross outside, so we were bums and laid around much of the day. I made DH a nice dinner and the kids gave him a card (he got a new iPod, his gift request, a month ago).

[myshel]

Thanks, ladies. Luka is fine. We suspect that he tried drinking out of a sippy cup that was sitting in his room all night and that's what made him sick. We're trying to wean Luka off of bottles at night (our neighbor said she though every parents does one thing too long with each of their children. Giving bottles in the morning and at night was ours with Luka. :rolleyes:). Since he doesn't always take to the sippy right away, we usually let him take it into bed with him, because he'll drink it until he falls asleep. Well, he didn't do that Saturday night. Yuck! Seriously.

Lukas has started acting out against Carolina. It's not in a "I hate you" kind of way; it's more like "I love you so much." Last night, I was holding Carolina in my lap, and Luka came up next to me and to my eye, started to kiss her on the top of the head. Suddenly, C turned pruple and started screaming. I pulled her away from Luka and saw teeth marks on her head. I swear!

Sleep: Lately, C has been adjusting her sleep schedule. She's been drifting off to sleep around 9pm each night, usually in her swing or on the couch. Around 10-10:30 pm, we'll take her upstairs to change her and nurse her once again. Since we've been doing that, she's been sleeping until at least 3:30 am, some nights 4:30 am. Last night, she never even slept in our bed-- up at 3:30 am, back to crib, slept until 6:45 am. Pretty darn good.

Father's Day: Pretty low-key here as well. Saturday night, I made Chris a steak and baked potato, and we were able to eat it sans children as both were napping. Yesterday, we did grilled burgers with my dad. Chris joined the kids in our kiddie pool too. I ended up getting Chris some running shorts and a new Nalgene bottle for Father's Day.

Pool party pictures:
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1414/562340723_6bdf86482c.jpg?v=0

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1055/561933770_bfd2bfa787.jpg?v=0

The last picture cracks me up, because Carolina never cried when Luka dumped that water. She loves the water a ton more than Luka ever did!

Nancy: Congrats on the BH! I hope you like it!

[kimthebride]

myshel
Glad Luka is ok. Thomas has done that - found a cup of milk he hid then barf it up. Smells fantastic, doesn't it? (blech!)

Sleep
Ava is pretty much doing 8:30pm-4am then 7:30ish. She wakes up quietly and just lays there, so when I get up I turn on the mobile and have time to make coffee & get bfast started before she wants up & out.

BabyHawk
Yay for getting one, lil_nance! Saturday Ava got fussy while I was racing around prepping for Thomas' bday party, so I wore her in this. She passed right out, and slept in there for well over an hour. I was greeting guests wearing it, and they all commented on it. :)

Father's Day
We let Tom sleep in (his favorite weekend activity). I dressed Ava in a "I LOVE DADDY" onesie and Thomas in a "DAD ROCKS!" tee, and lined up all his presents. When he got up, we gave him all his gifts which he loved (a Shutterfly photobook from me, matching golf shirts from Thomas, fruity smelling shower stuff from Ava & an iTunes card from the cats). Then we put the kids down for a nap while we got ready to go out & prepped the apartment for a showing that afternoon. then we put 2 sleeping kids in the car and headed out to his favorite pizza place in Staten Island. We had a nice lunch, then came home so he could watch US Open. It was a good, dad-focused day!

Now I am off to finish cleaning up for another showing at noon. I'll just take the kids out for a quick walk, then check back in here later.....

[Tonysweetie]

I hope everyone had a great weekend!

Fathers Day: We slept in, then I gave DH his card "from" Andrew. We got ready and went to my Moms where he got into the pool for the first time. Then after my Moms we went to Tony's Dads and had dinner. It was low key.

Sleep: I'm blessed! Andrew sleeps 8/9 hours at night. Usually from 11 to 7/8ish. Then he'll go back down for a morning nap around 9 and sleep until 11. It's wonderful. He's been doing this since 4 weeks of age. :) :) :)

I got my first PP AF yesterday. It caught me by surprise. No symptoms or anything. It feels weird to have a period after 11 months of not having one. :cool:

[pg_jess]

Ethan had his 2-month dr appointment today, complete with immunizations...not quite as bad as I thought. He screamed for a minute or so and then promptly fell asleep in my arms. Adding his stats...

weight - 13 lbs, 12oz (90th %ile)
height - 23 1/4 in (50th %ile)
head - 16 1/2 in (65th %ile)

[lil_nance]

We had a good night of sleep last night. She went down at midnight. Started squirming around 5 up at 5:30 to nurse and back down until 7. DH got up with her and I got to sleep in until 8:30. Nice :D. Unfortunately this was followed by a day of fussies. Avery has just been in a funk all day, makes for a long day. She did take a short nap late in the morning and again around 4:30. Of course as soon as daddy got home, she quieted down for him. We took a walk this evening. DH had her in the BH. She seemed to like it had her eyes open and looking around or napping.

[lauren f s]

myshel: Glad Luka is better! Cute pool pics! And I hate to laugh, but I did when I read Luka bit poor Carolina! I am glad my kid isn't the only one loving their sibling a little too much; I'll catch Ava poking James's soft spot and smothering him with blankets ;).

Kim: Sounds like you gave DH a great Father's Day! I love he got gifts from the cats!

pg_jess: Great job Ethan! Isn't it funny people were so worried about his weight gain and now he's doing so well!

PP AF: None here yet, thank goodness! I didn't get one after having Ava until she was 11 months old and I really hope that's the same this time around.

[myshel]

Jess: Grow, Ethan, grow! :D

Nancy: DH often wears our BH too. He likes to turn it to the plain side when he does it. He gets quite a few looks as we walk around the park or the neighborhood. I'm sorry to hear Avery is fussy. Honestly, Carolina has some pretty darn fussy days too. DH has learned to accept that I may not get anything done around the house, depending on Caorlina's mood that day.

Lauren: Yes, Luka loves his sister way too much. He'll pile blankets on top of Carolina in 90 degree heat!

Clothes: How far in advance are you guys buying clothes? All of the clothes buying for the kids falls to me. For both kids, it seems like we got a ton of clothes in the very beginning (0-3 month sizes), but then the gifts dried up very quickly. In fact, Luka got no clothes for Christmas even though I specifically asked for them. Carolina will be the same way.

I'm just curious about your clothes buying habits. I still haven't gotten into a groove/system when it comes to buying clothes. I'm just wondering what other people do.

[lauren f s]

My clothes buying habits are non-existant! When I was pregnant with Ava I had three cousins with little girls all 1-2 years older than her, so I was bombared with more clothes than she was ever able to wear. I didn't "need" to buy her anything (socks, shoes, clothes, bibs, etc) until she was 2! My family has next to no boys; I have 2 nephews, but my sister gave her clothes to a friend and my SIL puts my nephew is really ugly outfits, so I don't want to take anything from her :o. I usually go to Target once a week during my lunch breaks and pick up a couple of things for each kid then. The clothes are cute, made well, and cheap. That gives them plenty of play clothes and then I'll hit up the mall for Children's Place and Old Navy for their nicer things.

[myshel]

Thanks for your reply, Lauren. My cousin has three girls, so I was hoping she'd pass some clothes along my way, but so far, she hasn't. My sister has two boys and has given me lots of clothes, but they aren't always in the best shape or in style. Her boys are rough on clothes and because of that, her MIL purchased tons of clothes from garage sales. Luckily, we've gotten through this summer by borrowing a ton of shorts from a co-worker. Sadly, none of my co-workers have girls. One of my co-workers is pregnant and didn't find out what she's having. If she's having a girl, I'll probably give her some of my stuff.

I try to buy items on clearance. Target makes up a majority of Luka's clothes right now. Carolina has a lot of Carter's stuff. I think I need to make another trip to the Carter's outlet.

[Tonysweetie]

I'm a clothes buying fanatic! I buy DS clothes pretty much everytime I go out. I don't buy him expensive things though. I usually buy the next size up from where he is now. He is just now getting into 3-6 month stuff but can mainly wear his 0-3 month clothes still. So I've been buying 6-9 month stuff lately. He didn't really get many clothes as gifts at my shower. I probably own just about every outfit they have at WalMart and I'm working on Target. :)


Well I started Weight Watchers today. I'm having the hardest darn time getting this pregnancy weight off. I'm still about 12 lbs. away from my weight I was at my first visit and almost 20 lbs. away from my weight I was about a month before I found out I was pregnant. I'm SOOO sick of wearing maternity clothes. I still have to wear my maternity jeans and some of my Tshirts. I can mainly wear my regular tops but my jeans...yea right! They are nowhere near close to fitting me. I've tried going out and buying new jeans and if I find them to fit in my waist they are HUGE in the butt and legs. It's all thanks to this skin sag above my pubic bone I have now. So I'm hoping if I drop about 30 lbs. it will at least get smaller and make it easier to find clothes.

[kimthebride]

Big Sibling Love
Thomas is usually so good with Ava, I am lucky. Other than an incident when he piled about 4 too many blankets on her :p , we've had minimal "love-harm" done.

He actually did the cutest thing yesterday. She was laying on the play mat in her diaper, and he sat next to her and did the exact same thing i do to her to make her laugh: with my index finger, I gently poke her from her belly button up to her chin then once on each cheek going "boop boop boop beep beep beep!". He did this to a t, then leaned down and kissed her gently on the cheek. I just about died of cuteness!!

Clothes
Goodness, I love to buy but have no need! My friend had a son, so handed me all of her DD's stuff up to size 24 months (both our kids are same age & different gender, so we just traded wardrobes). Then this is the 1st girl in YEARS on both sides of the family, so I was inundated with girly clothing gifts..mostly up to 6 months, but some up to 12. Plus...ahem...I have my own problems with buying her stuff :o . Seriously, I should photograph all of her clothes...I think I have 3 small shelves of clothes for ME, and the whole rest of the walk-in closet is hers, plus half the armoire is hers, and DS has half the armoire and a rack in the closet...its insane! We have literally no room for so much as another sock here.

i bought a bit when I was pg, all sizes up to about 18mo if it was nice and on sale. now I buy what I need, normally specific items like swimwear or a special occasion outfit. At this point, I need to wait until i can donate her 0-3mo stuff to make space before I can buy anything else. Once i can do that, I'll keep an eye out for winter stuff.

[diedra1027]

Clothes - I have/had a BUNCH of hand-me downs for both kids. When I do buy stuff I tend to stick to Old Navy and Target. I don't have to worry about buying for the right season too much since we live in Seattle...fall and spring stuff can be worn interchangably and the amount of really hot or cold days is limited. Ebay can be a good source of quality, gently used 'lots' of clothes too.

[MarriedaGoalie]

PP AF: I had one last week, but it only last three days. Now that I'm not BFing full time, I expect to get it back on a regular basis.

[Tonysweetie]

DS is going to sleep in his crib tonight. Well were going to try to get him to. I'm a little sad about this. I love having him right there but I guess it's time. Wish us luck!

[wendstress]

Anyone using Enfamil? I have some coupons.... PM me if you would like them! First come, first serve!