The Maybe Mamas: TTC #1 in 2007

[MaybeMamas]

Welcome! If you are thinking 2007 is the year you will try to see your first BFP (Big Fat Positive pregnancy test), then this is the thread for you. Whether you are on the fence or just counting down days, you are more than welcome here. TTC (Trying To Conceive) is not always an easy decision to make.


How will a new baby change your life?
Is DH on board?
Are you healthy enough?
What do your finances look like?
How can you minimize stress once you make your decision to TTC?
Can you begin to see yourself as a mommy??


This group is designed to allow you to ask such questions in a friendly (and yes, sometimes rambunctious) atmosphere. Feel free to lurk, but we encourage you to join. The more the merrier!


Once you do decide to take the plunge and join, please list your stats in RED in your first post.

CC Name:
Me: Name, age
DH: Name, age
Married: Date
TTC start date: Date
Any other children:
Miscellaneous Info:

*Additionally, please posts all updates in RED.


The Threadmistresses are LadyD088 and akacharlotte.

Probably Mamas:
Elissa - BFP 10/20/06, EDD 6/27/07
Amew - BFP 12/19/06
LadyD088 - BFP 1/16/07, EDD 9/22/07
Filmgirl - BFP 1/15/07, EDD 9/25/07
MrsH - BFP 1/14/07, EDD 9/25/07
Jenji-
Loving624 - BFP 03/16/07

Actual Mamas:

[MaybeMamas]

The Baby Dance has already begun for...

ag-girl
Me: 28
DH: 31
Married: 05/03
TTC: 01/07
Any other children: furbabies only
Miscellaneous Info: Charting since October 06

Amuse Bouches
Me: AB, 28
DH: DH, 27
Married: 3/1/03
TTC start date: 11/06
Any other children: Nope.

Annette
Me: Annette, 29
DH: Mike, 29
Married: 11/10/01
TTC start date: 11/06
Any other children: no
Miscellaneous Info: you can find me on the charting thread

APhiJill
Me: Jill, turned 40 as of yesterday
DH: Dave 47
Married: 12/11/01
TTC start date: feb or march 2007
Any other children: DH has a 16 year old from a previous marriage and I had a miscarriage on 12/12/06

BrandonsBride
Me: Amber, 21
DH: Brandon, 25
Married: April 29, 2006
TTC start date: July 2006
Any other children: We have 2 cats...Tori & Tia
Miscellaneous Info: I'm ready for a BFP!!!!!

Dancn226
Me~Jenn, 26 sson to be 27
DH~Chris, 29
Married July 3, 2005 1 year already
TTC start date: Aug 2006

j.d.l.102205
Me: Jenn, 28
DH: Dave, 28
Married: 10/22/05
TTC Date: March 07
Other Children: None, just furbaby Riley Pup

JFlo
Me: J, 27
DH: E, 27
Married: August 2003
TTC start date: February 2007
Any other children: none
Miscellaneous Info: going off BCP (and on PNV) in December, have read TCOYF and plan to start charting, DH and I are going to Hawaii in May 2007...this was going to be our last big vacation pre-pregnancy, but now with our timing shift, we could possibly be with-baby!

JLRenheos/JLR
Me: 30
DH: 34
Married: 4/21/2001
TTC: March 2007
Any other children: None
Misc.: have been taking multivitamins for 6 mos. & have irregular Af.

Hew?B
Me: Heather, 30
DH: Matt, 29
Married: Oct 7, 2006
TTC start date: Oct. 7, 2006
Any other children: We have 2 Dogs...Molly & Bosco
Miscellaneous Info: I have had 2 m/c one in 6/2006 when we were not trying and one in 12/06 when we were trying

Kanga1622
Me: 26
DH: 28
Married: 08/31/02
TTC: 02/06
Any other children: our pup, 2
Miscellaneous Info: Charting since July 2003

karabear0117
Me: Kara, 23 (in a couple weeks at least)
DH: 26
Married: 10/28/2006
TTC: January 2007
Any other children: A four year old yellow lab, Zakk
Misc.: Well we figured we have a house, the cars are almost paid off why not go ahead and see what the future brings.

KK812
Me: P, 21
DH: E, 31
Married: 8/05
TTC start date: 9/05
Any other children: 3 furbabies
Miscellaneous Info: Since I am young and we started as soon as we got married, we have held off on seeing if I have any issues getting PG, but if we don't get PG by March, we will check things out and explore other options

linekelei
Me: Lindley, 30
DH: Steve, 30
Married: 8/21/04
TTC start date: March or April 2007
Any other children: Only pups-toy poodle, Daphne, and mini poodle, Buster
Miscellaneous info: Long cycles

Mandos*Bella
Me: A, 23
DH: A, 25 (26 in Jan.)
Married: October 16, 2004
TTC start date: Now, I guess!
Any other children: Just our furbabies Ginger and Puggy
Miscellaneous Info: We're excited!

May27jnj
Me: 21
DH: 22
Married: 5/27/06
TTC start date: 3/07
Any other children: 0
Misc.: I don't ovulate but I'm going to a new Dr to see what she says


MES in Chicago
Me: Melissa, 31
DH: Paul, 38 in January
Married: 10/23/04
TTC start date: 3/9/2007 (last day of BCP!!)
Any other children:nope, just our furbabies Crouton, pug and Oreo, Shi Tzu
Miscellaneous Info:I have PCOS and I have a fair amount of weight to lose. My OBGYN is confident I will be pregnant in 2007! I love her positive attitude

miss-madelyn
Me: Danielle, 22
DH: Dalen, 21
Married: We're not married, we have engaged for over a year and together for just over 18 months.
TTC start date: November 2006
Any other children: I had one before Dalen, but I placed him for adoption
Miscellaneous Info:We had a bit of a scare just after Christmas when my doctor thought I had cerical cancer; but I was given the clear, and all is well in my land!

raven077
Me: Karen 29
DH: Kyle 30
Married: October 2005
TTC start date: Dec 2006/Jan 2007
Miscellaneous Info: A severe degenerative disc problem

rubyslippers
Me: Heather,34
DH: Kurt,32
Married: 10/15/06
TTC start date: January 2007
Any other children:none for either of us
Miscellaneous Info:I've been doing WW and would like to loose another 20-25 lbs to be at a healthier weight before getting PG No known issues other than my AGE

Tree23
Me: Teri, 30
DH: Jeff, 33
Married: 5 July 2001
TTC start date: April 2004
Any other children: just the cuddly, furry kind...a 3.5 year old sweetheart named Kacey (Pembroke Welsh Corgi)

WestieMomma
Me: Megan, 27 but will be 28 when TTC
DH: Erik, 29
Married: June 8, 2002
TTC start date: March '07
Any other children: just our furbaby Karsen
Miscellaneous Info: DH travels a lot for work so that could make TTC a bit of a challenge!

[MaybeMamas]

May 2007

akacharlotte
Me: Stacey, 34
FH: J, 31
Married: 04/21/07
TTC start date: May 2007
Any other children: just furbabies
Miscellaneous Info: Stopped BCP about 5 years ago. Started charting Jan. 06

jeneca128
Me: Karen, 24
DH: Dan, 24
Married: 3/26/05
TTC start date: May 07
Any other children: 3 furbabies

lil_geek
Me: Tara, 27
DH: Terry, 26
Married: 05/13/06
TTC start date: May 2007
Any other children: Nope. (1 dog and 20 cows that demand a lot of attention!)
Misc Info: I went off BCP in early September and am now charting to avoid. Was dx'ed with PCOS as a teen but haven't seen any signs/symptoms since being off the pill

June 2007

futuremrslp
Me: Becky, 24
DH: Matt, 27
Married: June 10, 2006
TTC start date: June/July 2007
Any other children: Nope.

Julss05
Me: Julie, 29
DH: Mike, 31
Married: June 15, 2002
TTC start date: June 2007
Any other children: Furfelines Lady and Bandit

PookiePrincess
Me: Kristi, 27
DH: Sean, 30
Married: 10/29/05
TTC start date: June 2007!
Any other children: 2 furbabies, Fancy and Ryoki

July 2007

Bethnjim
Me: Beth, 28
DH: Jim, 26
Married: 07/12/03
TTC start date: July 2007
Any other children: 4 cats, Belle, Stitch, Cali and Feona

Walton
Me: 28
DH: 28
Married: 06/02
TTC: 07/07
Any other children: Nope
Miscellaneous Info: DH is a Ph.D. candidate, so we have been waiting for that chapter in his life to end. The dissertation is supposed to be done this summer, so the plan is to start trying then.

August 2007

heather1029
Me: Heather, 24
DH: Jeff, 24
Married: 10/29/05
TTC start date: August 2007
Any other children: Nope. Not even animals!
Misc Info: I went off BCP in early September and am now charting to avoid

Sue
Me: Sue, 34
DH: J, 37
Married: 8/10/02
TTC start date: August 2007
Any other children: 6 fids

summerbride2005
Me: C, 29
DH: W, 29
Married: 8/7/05
TTC start date: 8/07
Any other children: no
Miscellaneous Info: I have stomach issues that I am taking medication for everyday. I can't take them if I am pregnant, so I will be stoping them before August.

TerpsFan
Me: B, age 29
DH: B, age 29
Married: August 2003
TTC start date: Aug/Sept 2007
Any other children: 1 year old beagle/basset mix

September 2007

Angelcookie2002
Me: Danielle, 23
DH: Benji, 25
Married: 9/9/2004
TTC start date: Sept 07, right after our 3rd anniversary
Misc: We're taking a 3 week vacation to kick off TTC and as a last time for the two of us before we have kids.

coquelicot
Me: K, 28
DH: B, 29
Married: October 11, 2003
TTC start date: Summer 2007
Any other children: No, just a lovable mutt

trisigmanc
Me: Tracie, 32
FH: Eric, 29
Married: 10/4/03
TTC start date: Most likely September/October 2007
Any other children: just furbabies
Miscellaneous Info: Talking about stopping BCP, but we'll see. Maybe a few more months.

October 2007:

November 2007:

December 2007:

KaliLily
Me: Kim, 33 (34 in Jan 07)
DH: Joe, 33 (34 in Dec 06)
Married: 8/16/97
TTC start date: Winter 2007/2008
Any other children: Nope, unless you count our cats (Kali & Lily)
Misc Info: I was diagnosed with PCOS in 1996 and have been on Metformin for around 5 yrs. Interestingly, I seem to have (finally) been ovulating on my own since July. My cycles have been 32-34 days. DH's response to this was, "Who would've thought something would start working your 30s!"

K-L-U
Me: Katie, 27
DH: Tony, 27
Married: October 12, 2002
TTC start date: Hoping December 2007
Any other children: Our dog, Jack


Unknown TTC Date

CC Name: May27jnj
Me: 21
DH: 21
Married: 5/27/06
TTC start date: None really yet
Any other children: 0


On Hold:

[MaybeMamas]

Pregnancy Test Sensitivity Chart
Sensitivities checked with manufacturers in February 2005 - Test Name Lowest hCG detected

AimStick Pregnancy Test Strip 20 mIU
AccuHome Midstream Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
Answer Early Result Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
Answer Pregnancy Test (Cup) 25 mIU
Clearblue +/- 25 mIU
Confirm 1-Step Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
Equate Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
First Response Early Result Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
One Step Be Sure Pregnancy Test 25 mIU
Precise Pregnancy Test (doctors office) 25 mIU
Quickview Pregnancy Test (doctors office) 25 mIU
Walgreen Digital 25 mIU
e.p.t. Home Pregnancy Test
1 line = Not Pregnant 2 lines = Pregnant 40 mIU
e.p.t. Certainty Digital Test 40 mIU
Fact Plus Pregnancy Test 40 mIU
Clearblue Digital 50 mIU
CVS Cartridge Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
CVS Midstream Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
Dollar Store Brand Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
PROOF POSITIVE! Personal Home Pregnancy Test
Found at the Dollar Store and 99 Cents Stores 50 mIU
Drug Emporium Brand Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
e.p.t. + / - Test 50 mIU
early Pregnancy test 50 mIU
RiteAid Brand Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
Target Brand Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
WalMart Brand Pregnancy Test 50 mIU
Walgreens Pregnancy Test 100 mIU


Here is a sample reference list for HCG levels in singleton pregnancies, based on days past ovulation (DPO):

* At 14 DPO, the average HCG level is 48 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-119 mIU/ml.
* At 15 DPO, the average HCG level is 59 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-147 mIU/ml.
* At 16 DPO, the average HCG level is 95 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 33-223 mIU/ml.
* At 17 DPO, the average HCG level is 132 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-429 mIU/ml.
* At 18 DPO, the average HCG level is 292 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 70-758 mIU/ml.
* At 19 DPO, the average HCG level is 303 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 111-514 mIU/ml.
* At 20 DPO, the average HCG level is 522 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 135-1690 mIU/ml.
* At 21 DPO, the average HCG level is 1061 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 324-4130 mIU/ml.
* At 22 DPO, the average HCG level is 1287 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 185-3279 mIU/ml.
* At 23 DPO, the average HCG level is 2034 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 506-4660 mIU/ml.
* At 24 DPO, the average HCG level is 2637 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 540-10,000 mIU/ml.

Odds of Conceiving
(from babymed.com's Fertility FAQs):
quote:

Here are your odds of conceiving:
1 in 5 each month
1 in 10 each month if you are over 35
1 in 2 after 4-5 months
4 in 5 after one year
1 in 5-10 in the second year
1 in 2.5 if you make love once a day during the fertile time
1 in 3 if you make love every other day during the fertile time
1 in 10 if you make love only once 4-5 days before ovulation
1 in 30 if you make love only once a month
1 in 7 if you make love 5 times a month
1 in 3-4 if you make love 10 times a month
Zero if you ONLY make love after ovulation

Useful Links

Due Date Calculator (http://www.parenthood.com/pregcal.html)

[MaybeMamas]

*This is a collection of tips, not a to-do list. If it's your first month, take a deep breath and see what your body can do by itself! Of course, some of these are good ideas even during your first month-- like taking PNV for 3 months prior to BD. Use your common sense!

CM supporting tricks
1. Grapefruit juice: Supposedly helps boost CM production. Plus, it's just good for you.
2. Robitusin: Robitussin is a brand name of a product that is based on guaifenesin, an expectorant. There are other guaifenesin based cough syrups also (Equate also has one). It is used in TTC to thin the CM mucus to make it more sperm-friendly. 1-2 tsp. twice daily until ovulation. Make sure the product only contains guaifenesin without added decongestants or antihistamines, which could dry your CM.
BEWARE extromethorphan, an ingredient in some cough medicines, may cause birth defects. (from: tryingtoconceive.com)
3. Green Tea: Reputedly also helps with EWCM. Drink as much as possible starting CD1 up to O. I think there are also capsules out there. Consider decaf if you don' usually have caffeine.
4. Stop taking antihistamines: Claritin, etc. dry you up. Stop taking them a couple weeks before O if you can.
5. Take Evening Primrose Oil: EPO is used to increase the amount of EWCM. The dose is 3000 mg once daily. Discontinue EPO when your thermal shift occurs as it can cause uterine contraction which may hinder implantation of the embryo in the uterus. (Also taken from: tryingtoconceive.com).

Nutritional Tricks
6. Prenatals 3+ months prior: Folic acid prevent neural tube defects
7. Men's multi with zinc, A, selenium for DH: Supports spermies
8. No Caffeine: Research shows that too much caffeine can reduce your ability to absorb iron and increase your risk for stillbirth. Avoid coffee, tea, and colas or switch to decaf to increase your chances of getting pregnant. If you are a complete caffeine junkie, then the safe limit would be a cup a day. Try switching to a milkshakes which will boost your calcium as well and assist in conception. (from babyhopes.com).
9. No (or little) refined sugars and carbs: because it isn't good for you? What else?
10. Yams: possible chemical that encourages ovulation... and maybe hyperovulation (think fraternal twins)
11. No Peas: from maplekitty's post on page 2: "...a study conducted in India...what they discovered was that a natural chemical found in peas - called M-xylohydroquinone - did appear to have contraceptive effects....were found to cut pregnancy rate up to 60 percent. In men, who took the pea capsule, sperm counts droped by some 50 percent."
12. No soy or avacados: interferes/mimics estrogen production
13. No peanutbutter and no spinach: Apparently they deplete calcium, which is really important in building a baby.
14. pineapple during LP: Helps with implantation???

Exercise Tricks
15. Regular Exercise: (30 minutes 4 days a week). You shouldn't start a new exercise program when pregnant, but you can continue one; many women think it helps with labor and energy during PG
16. Kegel's Exercises:L&D easier, bladder control is a good thing
17. Tummy Crunches: L&D easier

Pre-conception Visit Issues
18. Rubella Vaccination:* make sure you're still immune from childhood immunizations; not a good thing to catch while PG
19. Renew Tetanus Shot: can't get one while PG even if you do step on a rusty nail.
20. Consider the cystic fibrosis testing question.: visit that link.
21. Consider getting a Flu Shot:[b] Getting a really high fever in early pregnancy is no good.
22. Visit www.babycenter.com
*for more info on vaccinations, as well as other pre-TTC advice, see here:
CC "What to do before TTC" thread

[B]Miscellaneous Tricks & Advice
23. Red Raspberry Leaf Tea: Helps tone the uterus and muscles of the pelvic region. Also a highly nutritive ingredient and "powerful fertility-promoting herb, especiallly when used with pepermint".
24. Consider baby aspirin: see tryingtoconceive.com. (End of the page.)
25. Start a baby/pregnancy binder: There is so much to know! Might as well use your anxious waiting time productively.
26. X-Rays: Get dental xrays done if it's been a long time; no xrays while PG.
27. Go Horseback Riding: no horseback riding while PG
28. Chart!: know that window of sweet fertile opportunity!
29. Meditate, avoid depression: supposedly helps somehow, and after reading this list you'll need to take a couple of deep breaths.

DTD Tricks
30. BD schedule: Statistically best to BD every fertile day so long as there is no sperm count problem (according to TCOYF).
31. Hips up, headstands, general pelvic up body contortions:go spermies, go! Hey, it can't hurt.
32. Morning Nookie: Higher sperm counts in the morning
33. Get turned on:: the more aroused the woman, the better environment for conception?

[MaybeMamas]

Recommended websites...

www.babytalkin.com
www.ovusoft.com
www.babycenter.com
www.storknet.com
www.babyfit.com
www.1800diapers.com/index.aspx

For more sites, check out the first pages of the following groups: TTC w/ Charting, Seeing What Happens, and Still At It.

[MaybeMamas]

Reserved for recommended books...

Taking Care of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, MPH. Also known as "TCOYF", and referred to many ladies here as the bible of fertility.

The Conception Chronicles byPatty Doyle Debano, Courtney Edgerton Menzel, Shelly Dicken Sutphen
Reviewed by: eli1126 (Beth)
Overall this book is mainly about couples who can't get pg without medical assistance. It is informative for those who may want to see a step by step process for dealing with IF.
What I didn't like about the book:
-Not everyone deals with IF and it comes off as being that it's so difficult to get pg that *everyone* may have problems and or need medical assistance to conceive.
-tends to be glib about the message boards. Yes baby dust may be corny to some, but well wishes never go out of style.
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0060937645.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

Other Books
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0671524313.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/073820949X.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

For a fun read (like bridget jones diary/sex and the city)
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0345475755.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

From j*east:
I've only bought The Mother of All Pregnancy Books. I'm planning to get as many as I can from the library first. I love books, but some are just worth reading once and some I'll consult often.
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0764565168.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

Here are the titles I've previewed and will probably buy:
Misconceptions by Naomi Wolf
Birthing from Within by Pam England
Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way by Susan McCutcheon
The Whole Pregnancy Handbook by Joel Evans

Still need to preview:
TCOYF
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer
Husband Coached Childbirth by Robert Bradley
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn by Penny Simkin

Previewed and won't buy:
What To Expect When You're Expecting
Your Pregnancy Week by Week by Glade Curtis

I'm aiming for NCB, so that definitely influences my thinking. I'll almost definitely be using a birth center and MW, so I look for books that are open to that and not just, "Go to the hospital and get an epidural." I need more information!

From Lynzy AHL:
Skimmed/Read first 9 chapters of Hanci Goer's Thinking Woman's guide to a better birth (I think that's the title) Review: Very informative and sites TONS of references for PRO nat. Non-invasive birth. Would purchase just to use as reference to reinforce birth plan with caregiver and hospital staff.

Mayo Clinic Complete Book of Pregnancy & Baby's First Year - FREE from my state farm agent
** Very clinical and science fact based. Lists many of the standards of maternal/prenatal care and common afflictions

Thinking Womens Guide to a Better Birth - Henci Goer
** PRO natural child birth. States Pros and Cons of many common practices. Great resource for reinforcing birth plan with practitioner/hospital

Spiritual Midwifery - Ina May Gaskin
** Ugh this book is different. Many natural birth stories to inspire if you can look past the pictures of hippy chicks with longer pit hair than your husband's. Back was filled with more science/medical information for midwives. A little to do-it-myself.

The Nursing Mother's Companion - by Kathleen Huggins
** Very little to do with latching/good habits but HUGE amts of focus on issues and corrections. Helpful reference AFTER birth

29th August, 2005. 10:35 pm. BABY BOOK REVIEWS THUS FAR (Con't.)
Hypno Birthing - The Mongan Method - Marie F. Mongan
**Not bad gives some very good insites and techniques for relaxing includes CD

Husband~Coached Childbirth - Robert Bradley
*** Right on par with my thoughts on labor and delivery will read this and hopefully take the class if I can talk my husband into 12 weeks of classes if not I'm going to need a birth partner I'll be accepting volunteers next JULY HAHA

Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way - Susan McCutcheon
*Read above said book and leaved the dated photos of this one behind. Basically reads like classroom instruction

Easing Labor Pain, The complete guide to a more comfortable and rewarding Birth - Adrienne B Lieberman
* Worth reading, but from the library

Planning for Pregnancy, Birth,& Beyond - American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists
*** Planning on buying this in the next few weeks as it has whole section on pre-conception like the mayo clinic book but less clinical

Pregancy SUCKS - Joanne Kimes

Pregancy SUCKS for Men - Joanne Kimes
*** FUN pregancy books want them both and to use the second book to announce my BFP to Dan

Complete book of Breastfeeding - Marvin S Elger
Liked the nursing mother's companion layout and style much better

Womanly art of Breastfeeding - TIT NAZIS err I mean LaLeche League International
Uh I got it breast is best other than that I like the Nursing mother's companion better and it beats the dated pics in this one worth checking out from library for the info but not worth my hard earned bucks to buy

Gentle Birth Choices - Barbara Harper
*** CD - Appendix - Chapter devoted to Water Birth (www inntertradions com for related books/information)

[MaybeMamas]

A FEW MORE MONTHS AND WE HIT 2007!!!

OPEN FOR POSTING!!!

[raven077]

Well, I'll be the first, though I'm not sure if this is right for this thread yet. It's more of an update. I'm moving TTC from Nov/Dec to Dec/Jan '07. I'm taking some medicine that I want to clear out of my system and I won't stop that until late October. Plus, go ahead and make me 29 since my birthday is less than 20 days away. ;)

raven077
Me: Karen 29
DH: Kyle 30
Married: October 2005
TTC start date: Dec 2006/Jan 2007
Miscellaneous Info: A severe degenerative disc problem

Good luck to all of the 2007 Maybe Mama's. :)

[Mandos*Bella]

Not sure where I belong, as I am not on BC pills anymore, however we are not necessarily trying, per-se. We are definitely BD'ing, though ;)

Here is my info:
CC Name:
Me: A, 23
DH: A, 25 (26 in Jan.)
Married: October 16, 2004
TTC start date: Now, I guess! :D
Any other children: Just our furbabies Ginger and Puggy
Miscellaneous Info: We're excited!

[TerpsFan]

Can't believe it's time for me to join finally

TerpsFan
Me: B, age 29
DH: B, age 29
Married: August 2003
TTC start date: Aug/Sept 2007
Any other children: 1 year old beagle/basset mix

[LadyD088]

I'm adding my own info because I HIGHLY doubt we'll be TTCing again until after the 1st of the year, considering the holidays are coming up and work will be crazy for DH.

LadyD088
Me: Deb, 30
DH: Ryan, 29
Married: May 8, 2004
TTC start date: Feb 2006
Miscellaneous Info: Chem PG March 2006

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!

Welcome new members!! Yes, Good Luck to ALL!!! May 2007 bring us ALL BFP's!!

[elissa]

Adding info over here as well and can update as we go!

elissa
Me: Elissa, 30
DH: Chris, 32
Married: 10-1-05
TTC start date: October 2006
Any other children:none
Miscellaneous Info:fibroids removed via myomectomy June 2001 so could have problems TTC

[LynzeyAHL]

I'll add my info later ... *waves* hi girls :o

[Mandos*Bella]

Hi Lynzey! :D

[Julss05]

Julss05
Me: Julie, 29
DH: Mike, 31
Married: June 15, 2002
TTC start date: Dec 2006/Spring 2007
Any other children: Furfelines Lady and Bandit


We are hoping to TTC starting in December but who knows what will happen so I imagine we might be trying in 2007 too. Look forward to chatting with everyone!:)

[Sue]

CC Name: Sue
Me: Sue, 33
DH: J, 37
Married: 8/10/02
TTC start date: Late Spring/Summer 2007
Any other children: 6 fids


I went off BCP in May and have been CTA since then. We want to buy a new house and get settled in, pay off some bills and take a real vacation before we start trying. I would like to avoid a birth in winter or around the holidays (my b-day is 3 weeks after xmas and it sucked growing up!! And I have a niece born on Xmas Eve) so we're hoping to start late Spring.

A bit nervous, wondering if I really want a baby, if I do because it seems like the next step or is what is expected of us. A lot to sort through!

[PookiePrincess]

I've been waiting for this thread!

CC Name: PookiePrincess
Me: Kristi, 27
DH: Sean, 30
Married: 10/29/05
TTC start date: June 2007!
Any other children: 2 furbabies, Fancy and Ryoki

I went of BCP and started charting in June. We're working on paying off some of our debt, plan to buy a house next summer, and TTC! We're trying to time so we'd be due in the spring, which will be a great time for me because I'm a teacher. I can take time off and go back for the end of the school year.

[Julss05]

I know this might be a little early but has anyone thought of baby names? I was bored the other day so I compiled a list off www.babynames.com. We have already agreed on a boy's name but we may change our mind or not have a boy so I looked at names for both.
Here's my list: http://www.babynames.com/Names/namelist_print.php
Some are family names, some not, some are traditional, and a few are unique. The indented ones are middle names. I just chose from the website but you can add names too.

[Reenie]

I've been waiting for this thread!...We're trying to time so we'd be due in the spring, which will be a great time for me because I'm a teacher. I can take time off and go back for the end of the school year.

OOh, me too, on all accounts! I have been waiting for this thread, and I'm a teacher, too, so hopefully our TTC will work with the school year. ;)

CC Name: Reenie
Me: Reenie, 25 (26 when TTC)
DH: Eric, 26 (27 when TTC)
Married: 11/13/04
TTC start date: July 2007
Any other children: 2 furbabies, Cheetos and Bella

We have the house and our debt is comprised of mortgage and student loans. That's under control. I am in an M.Ed. program, from which I am projected to graduate in December 2007. The only thing that could set us back is DH's school, but we seem pretty secure for this summer! :)

[Sue]

I know this might be a little early but has anyone thought of baby names?

Sure have :D We had names picked out for years, until good friends of ours named their girl Emily (this was before it was SO popular). I thought we had the boy name picked out, then my DH recently said he wasn't so sure anymore. Which sucked, because there aren't very many boys name I like.

[PookiePrincess]

We have a girls name picked out and a probable boys name. My husband had a crazy boys' name picked out that I finally talked him out of, but I think we've decided on a new one, unless we find something we like more.

[LynzeyAHL]

we've had ours picked out for years. Now if we change it after delivery b/c the baby doesn't look like a X or a Z remains unseen at this point haha :o

[WestieMomma]

CC Name: WestieMomma
Me: Megan, 27 but will be 28 when TTC
DH: Erik, 29
Married: June 8, 2002
TTC start date: March '07
Any other children: just our furbaby Karsen
Miscellaneous Info: DH travels a lot for work so that could make TTC a bit of a challenge!

I'm planning on going off the pill in Dec. We have been paying off all debt including student loans. With all that paid off I plan to work part-time or maybe be a SAHM when the baby comes.

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!!!

[LadyD088]

Baby Names:
Up, we sure have them picked out!!
Boy: Ethan Gregory (Ethan - we just like, Gregory is DH's middle name)
Girl: Charlotte Emilia (Charlotte - my maternial grandmothers' name, Emilia - DH's paternal grandmothers' name)

We LOVE the names!!! Can't wait to get to use one!!

Deb

[Julss05]

We had names picked out for years, until good friends of ours named their girl Emily
Same here! I wanted to name my first daughter Emily but my cousin beat me to it.

LadyD088-Love the names! Our friends named their son Ethan and he is the cutest most well behaved baby I have ever met. I like Charlotte too, nice that you could use family names.

As far as our baby names,
For a boy: Christopher (DH picked it and I instantly liked it so we got one down!), not sure of a middle name yet.
For a girl: ? No idea! We can't agree on one so lets hope the first one is a boy!

[Sue]

Same here! I wanted to name my first daughter Emily but my cousin beat me to it.

LadyD088-Love the names! Our friends named their son Ethan and he is the cutest most well behaved baby I have ever met. I like Charlotte too, nice that you could use family names.

As far as our baby names,
For a boy: Christopher (DH picked it and I instantly liked it so we got one down!), not sure of a middle name yet.
For a girl: ? No idea! We can't agree on one so lets hope the first one is a boy!

They also used our wedding song years before us also!!

Christopher is one of our boy names. We had decided that was it, then recently J changed his mind, he may want something else. For a girl, I think we've settled on Ainslie Nicole. It took him a bit to aquire a taste for Ainslie, but he really likes it now.

[WestieMomma]

Names...so hard to pick anything out! I like unique names.

For girls I like Landry or Kyler.

For boys I like Cash, Chase (but my nephew's name is Chance so it's probably too close) or maybe Cade.

[KaliLily]

DH and I talked a few nights ago and we're (tentatively) going to start TTCing next month. (Shhh...Don't tell! ;) I'm keeping my mouth shut this time around because I'm tired of getting hassled with questions. They'll all know when I'm PG!)

This week I went to the doctor for a Tdap vaccination (Tetanous, diptheria and pertussis). My last one was in 1981 :eek: and my OB/GYN agreed it was a good idea to get that updated first. And while I was in the building for my shot, I stopped by his office to drop off a list of my prescriptions. The nurse called this afternoon, and everything I'm on is A-OK! :)

Now without further ado, here are my "stats":

CC Name: KaliLily
Me: Kim, 33 (34 in Jan 07)
DH: Joe, 33 (34 in Dec 06)
Married: 8/16/97
TTC start date: As early as Nov 06, but maybe a few months later
Any other children: Nope, unless you count our cats (Kali & Lily)
Misc Info: I was diagnosed with PCOS in 1996 and have been on Metformin for around 5 yrs. Interestingly, I seem to have (finally) been ovulating on my own since July. My cycles have been 32-34 days. DH's response to this was, "Who would've thought something would start working your 30s!"

Have we thought of names? Oh yeah! We've talked about baby names since we were newlyweds.

Girls
Kaitlyn Marlee (We both love the name Kaitlyn; Mar for DH's Mom, Maria, and Lee for my Mom's middle name)
Kassandra Emilie (Kassandra for my mom, Sandra, and Emilie for DH's Mom's middle name)
Jocelyn Michaela (after DH)

Boys
We can't seem to agree on boys names, but this is my favorite: Michael Philip (DH's middle name, my Dad's first name)

Other options to appease DH (he is fixated on continuing the "JMD" initials he shares with his Dad):
Jakob Matthew
Jakob Michael
John Michael

I'm hell-bent on getting my Dad's first name in there somewhere, though!

[LadyD088]

Welcome Kim!! I love how you are using your family names, that's what we were going for (for the most part).

WestieMomma - Those names are so cool. Really different and unique. I hear ya on not-so-common names!! I realize Ethan is but we just love the name.

Sue - Hmmm, never heard of the girls' name, sounds lovely!
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Thought we could use a QOTD so....
QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?

I'll answer. They probably have an idea since we were pg earlier this year. However, we've decided NOT to spill the beans so early this time as a precaution to any issues that may arise. We plan on waiting until I start showing to really announce anything (if we can wait that long).

Deb

[Mandos*Bella]

We share a home with my grandmother, so she is kinda privvy...but I don't think she is aware of how soon we could be trying.

As for everyone else, nope! I'd rather it be a surprise. Plus my mom would ellude to the fact that we haven't taken all the vacations we should, etc.. :rolleyes:

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?

My mom has a general idea. I've told her our plan is to start trying next summer. I'm sure that will be emblazoned in her brain until it happens. Other than that, I don't think many other people know. I might have mentioned it in passing to one or more of my aunts, but I doubt they'd remember.

[KaliLily]

Welcome Kim!! I love how you are using your family names, that's what we were going for (for the most part).

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Thought we could use a QOTD so....
QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?

Deb

Thanks, Deb! DH and I are both very close to our parents so it seems natural to honor them this way. I would love to use other family names (paternal grandmother who died years before I was born and a Great Aunt I was very close to), but I worry about offending the parents whose relatives' names weren't used. And there's no way I'm having enough kids to cover everyone!

QOTD: I pretty much answered this in my initial post. We aren't telling our families, though they are all aware we want to have kids sooner rather than later (given my age that's kind of obvious :rolleyes: ). I even made a point to ask DH not to mention it to anyone. His father has a history of harping on us to give him a grandchild. I will be telling one friend since she's a CC'er and if she "stalks" me she'll see these posts. I trust her though that she won't tell anyone, plus she's also never been one to hassle me about my TTC efforts or lack thereof. Otherwise, as far as I'm concerned it's no one's business but mine and DH's...and you ladies here of course! :D

PookiePrincess: I loved your "emblazoned in her brain" comment about your mom. Sounds just like my mom! That got a LOL from me.

[Sue]

QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?

The only one that knows is my SIL, who is also trying - but that is a whole other story. My parents aren't the type to nag for grandchildren, even though I am their only shot. And my DH's parents have 7 already, and they have pretty much assumed we weren't going to reproduce. So, it'll be a big surprise!

[KaliLily]

[And my DH's parents have 7 already, and they have pretty much assumed we weren't going to reproduce. So, it'll be a big surprise!

DH's parents have 2 grandchildren from DH's sister, however, my FIL really wants a grandchild from his son. Probably has something to do with the family name living on. Several years ago DH finally had to tell his dad to lay off the baby talk, and that we'd have kids if/when we were ready. Then about 2 yrs ago I made a "when we have kids" comment in front of FIL and he remarked, "You're still planning on having kids?" like I was too old by then or something. I was only 31!!! :rolleyes:

My parents are much more laid back. Would they love for me to have a child? Yes. Will they be OK if we never do? Yes. They have 1 grandchild from my brother.

[Sue]

My brother is 46, never married and I doubt he ever will, so I'm the only chance for my folks. But they have never even mention it, and my parent's are older - in their 70's. I think my in-laws would like a grandchild from DH, they have a special relationship, even though there are 6 kids.

[PookiePrincess]

PookiePrincess: I loved your "emblazoned in her brain" comment about your mom. Sounds just like my mom! That got a LOL from me.

LOL! My parents don't really nag about us having kids at all, but I know my mom WILL NOT forget that I gave her a time frame. They were the only ones when we got married that said to take our time. That doesn't mean they aren't REALLY looking forward to it, but my brother and SIL met, married and had twins in 18 months. They didn't want us to take that route!

[Reenie]

RE: baby names
We have our boy-name picked out for certain: Timothy Edward. Timothy because we're both Irish and we love the meaning, too (Honoring God), and Edward because it is DH's and my brother's middle name. Girl-name is a little trickier. We have gone round and round about this one, so I won't say this with much certainty, but for now it's Amelia Elizabeth. The middle name will certainly be Elizabeth because it's a family name for DH.

RE: Who knows?
We have told another couple who we're good friends with simply because they'll be trying at the same time. I did mention it to another friend because she ... well, long story, but she is kinda competitive and sometimes overbearing and was saying how it would be great that we would both be having babies at the same time, so I casually mentioned that I wasn't sure where she had gotten that idea and that there's no way we're waiting four more years to have a baby. I think my mom may have an idea from mother's intuition (and because she knows that we'd try in the summer and that next summer would fit well into our other plans), but I haven't mentioned it. And DHs mom, OH MAN, we cannot tell her. She is so ready for us to have a baby; she asks multiple times every time we speak to/see her, and she already has stuff for the baby :eek: (the hypothetical future baby :rolleyes: ).

[LadyD088]

...but I worry about offending the parents whose relatives' names weren't used. And there's no way I'm having enough kids to cover everyone!

OMG I LOVE that last sentence!! Could you even imagine? Way too many kids. But I understand what you were saying about offending possible family members. That's why we've stuck with our grandmothers (to whom we were both very close to). Maybe for future boys (if we are lucky enough to have more than one) we might incorporate our grandfathers' names but that's WAY down the line (unless we have twins and both are boys). So we'll see.

Since Reenie brought it up....new QOTD!

QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?

We totally have!! Dh works for a retail athletic store. He's got shoes on hold for the baby. He's even purchased the Nike/Jordan booties and USC booties too!! Gotta love DH's!! I have purchased books, some outfits (on total clearance), and the bedding/decor. I have stopped now though because I have no place to put all it - we have 2 med sized boxes full. I will wait until we pass our 6 month until I even THINK about buying anything else - or let everyone else buy this stuff. My mom has purchased a few items as well. I believe MIL said she has purchased an item or two but I have not yet seen them.
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So I'm just living with AF right now...by myself. DH won't be back from San Jose until the end of this month - just in time to start BD'ing!! I can't wait! This will be the longest we've ever been apart (a total of 33 days!!!) Never again can I do this.

Hard enough to be alone. But alone, in a new place, with no car? Seriously, I think I might be going crazy!

Anyways...off to work, I guess.

Deb

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?

No. No one has specifically bought anything for our future babies. I'm afraid to buy a book, for fear I might jinx myself. Though, I think at the beginning of next summer I'll buy some books so I can start reading beforehand. Summer is really the only time I have to read anything for enjoyment. My mom has stuff in preparation for when we do but that's only because she originally bought them for my nieces. They have a pack and play, 2 high chairs, towels/washclothes, and several onesies, not to mention the baby soap and lotion and all that good stuff.

[Sue]

QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?

No, I think my DH would think I'm off my rocker if I did! I have tons of ideas, picked out bedding and have an inkling of strollers etc., but haven't bought anything. But you should see all the sites I have bookmarked!

[Julss05]

QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?I told my parents we are starting soon and few close friends but that's it.
QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?

I got a cute momma/baby animal picture I couldn't resist I put in the guest room (future baby's room) but couldn't bring myself to hanging it. I would love to start reading up on pregnancy books now, I guess I'm afraid of the strange looks when they found out I'm not pregnant yet. I know I'm not the only one that likes to be prepared though especially when your talking about having a baby! I could always order online to avoid the pregnancy questions. I swear it's like trying to buy a book on sex before you have it! Stupid lady at the bookstore gave me a hard time when I bought TCOYF saying it doesn't work as BC, 3 years later I'd like to smack her with it:D.

I'm sorry, it has been a rough week. Been cramping all week with sore bbs, AF not supposed to show up until next week but I feel like crap now:(. Well I'm off to take a bath. Goodnight ladies.

[KaliLily]

They were the only ones when we got married that said to take our time.

That's good advice. As my mom always says, "You can't send them back!"

ETA: QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?

Oh boy, please don't think I'm a total nut job when you read this...

About 5 years ago I fell in love with a bedding set I saw at Babies R Us (I was shopping for a friend's new baby). I knew it was what I wanted for a nursery and was afraid it would be gone by the time I had a baby. When I saw it drastically reduced on Burlington Coat Factory's website I snatched up everything I thought I might want: bedding set, diaper genie cover, lamp, light switch plate, mobile, valances and wall border. Then I came across a matching baby book at their store and bought it too. I also have 2 baby CDs I found cheap at a music store and a plush giraffe rattle I found on sale while shopping for another friend's baby (I love giraffes). Plus...

From the moment my mom learned my SIL was expecting, she bought every baby item in 2s - one for my nephew and one for my hypothetical child. She continued to pick up things she thought were cute even after my nephew outgrew the baby/toddler stage - he'll be 9 in December. When we moved to VA (from WA), she gave me everything she had collected over the years in a HUGE rubbermaid bin. (I haven't looked through it because I want to be surprised when I open it at my baby shower.) Plus...

MIL has been collecting baby stuff for my hypothetical offspring for about as long. A few years ago she bought the entire line of giraffe clothing at a Carter's outlet store. And I have gathered from talking to her that she has other stuff too. I'm going to need a shed for all of this stuff!

While this most likely reads that we're all raving baby lunatics, as for my purchase of the bedding/coordinating stuff I just didn't want to find myself pregnant years later wishing I'd just bought it. It's really beautiful and perfect for a boy or a girl. I still love it. And I got an amazing deal! As for my mom, she wanted to make sure that my child was treated the same no matter what her finances were once I had a baby. My mom is so cute. Other than my fondness for giraffes, I'm not really sure why my MIL has been acquiring her collection. Maybe for the same reason as my mom, or because she heard my mom was building a collection!

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Julss05 - I can totally relate! I almost went into the Motherhood Maternity store at the mall today to ask if they carried plus size maternity clothing, but didn't want to have to admit I wasn't pregnant yet. What can I say? I'm a natural researcher and I like to be prepared!

Deb - I completely empathize with you. DH moved to VA before me - he had to start working w/in 2 weeks of the offer. He left on Halloween and I was left to deal with the realtors, prospective buyers and packing all by myself until he returned the day before Thanksgiving to move our household. I was so lonely! Then when our things arrived in VA, he left for Germany the next day! I was left alone in a new home full of boxes with no friends or family for a week 14 days before Christmas. Fortunately, I took him to the airport so I had the rental car.

[JLRenheos]

JLRenheos/JLR
Me: 30
DH: 33 (34-Dec.)
Married: 4/21/2001
TTC: Anytime in January 2007
Any other children: None
Misc.: have been taking multivitamins for 6 mos. & have irregular Af.


My younger brother & his wife are expecting their 1st baby right around Easter. She is just over 15 weeks along. I took it really hard when I first found out. Now I'm really excited for them & to become an Aunt(on my side of the family!)
I'm just hoping, that before they deliver, my husband & I will be pregnant by then. It'll be hard if we're not.
I cannot wait for this road, we've waited so long for this. Geesh, we've been married long enough! I never thought we'd wait as long as we have & we're really thrilled to finally start!

Baby Names: They change all of the time. Nothing *really* stands out, but there are a few that I/we like.

Who Knows?: As far as TTC, none of our families know our timeline for sure, but they're probably expecting soon. I've expressed my feelings to my Mom & my MIL on how I felt when I first found out about my brother & his wife being pregnant & and I'm sure they get the hint.
As far as *close* friends, I/we've discussed it openly. No biggie. I have a gf who's planning on ttc around the same time as my husband & I. She doesn't want to be pregnant alone. She wants to be able to share pregnancy stories along w/a gf who's also pregnant. Majority of our friends already have children & are going on their 2nd and 3rd child. My husband & I are one of the last remaining few couples left to start a family.

QOTD: purchasing things for the baby
Nothing. We don't plan on buying anything until we're pregnant. We haven't purchased things for ourselves, but we have had things given to us. The items are anxiously awaiting us! I have things that my SIL has given to us,....such as an exersaucer, swing, cradle/swing, a carseat, stroller, and a choice of 2 cribs(that she's keeping at their house for us). On another hand, my Mom is going bonker's with my Brother. She is taking a carload down at Thanksgiving full of baby stuff. I warned her not to do that with me. ;)

[WestieMomma]

I need to get caught up in here!


Who Knows?: My parents and friends all know that we will be TTC in the spring for sure. A lot of friends have recently had their first baby and some are starting to think about #2. I have been going to a lot of baby showers lately and seeing a lot of friend's newborn babies so that only adds to my "baby bug"! We have been married the longest in our circle of friends and are one of the few that don't have kids yet....it's time!

QOTD: purchasing things for the baby I have not purchased anything. I probably will start soon though if I see something cute. My Mom and me go to a lot of craft shows this time of year so I'm sure I'll see some stuff I can't resist. I need to pick up some books as well.

[Julss05]

We have been married the longest in our circle of friends and are one of the few that don't have kids yet....it's time!

Same with us! With exception of one couple who are currently TTC all other friends/family members our age, most married less than us are working on having the last of their kids or are already done. We will be the only ones with a newborn unless they have a big oops!;) Hoping if the winter doesn't produce anything I'll definitely be pregnant by spring.

Cycle Stuff
I started spotting today so I think AF will show tomorrow. I don't think I O'd on CD 18 like FF says though because that would give me a much shorter luteal phase than usual. FF first said I O'd on CD 13, then CD 14, finally changing it to CD 18 but I think I really O'd on CD 14. Oh well, I guess it doesn't really matter this cycle anyway:rolleyes:. Have a good weekend everyone!

[raven077]

QOTD: Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family?
Only one couple, the parents of our godson. She's been hoping we'd start trying for his "girlfriend" right after we got married, LOL. But I was hoping that they'd go for number two when we were going for number one. As for family, we're not telling just so we don't get anyone's hopes up. My parents aren't pushing, even though I'm the only girl, and the only one of their three kids who will have children. His dad really wants grandchildren but really, there is no pressure from his family either. It's nice, actually.

QOTD: Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?
Nope. Though I'm sure I'll make up for lost time the second I get a BFP.

[LadyD088]

Julss05 - Sorry to hear it sounds like AF is on here way. I just finished with her visit...hoping its the last one I see for (oh let's say)...9 months? LOL Hope he visit is quick. Always confusing the whole luteal phase and such. I can't deal with the temping every morning. So I go on my own signs. Any chance you can incorporate those with FF? Just so you can get a better idea of when you O?

WestieMomma - I hear ya on those thinking about #2 already. I know a few of my friends are there, already pg with #2 as a matter of fact. Crazy. I get kind of jealous but just have to remember my time will be here soon (I hope).

JLRenheos - WELCOME!! I completely feel the same way. My 2 friends are due to have babies next year. Our baby would have been born in Dec (near the holidays). So I am really hoping to be PG so I can get thru that and my friends deliveries. Sad to think like that but whatever helps us!! You know?

That is great that you've been given so much!! Awesome!! And some of the big stuff too!! Very cool.

The only thing I found out about trying to TTC with friends, is when they get PG and you don't...its very hard for them to discuss their excitement, etc...while you are sitting there thinking it could be you as well. Hard when one person gets it first!! Of course, it all goes away but hard in the beginning. Now, I couldn't be happier for my friends!

KaliLily - So glad someone else can understand. However, I luckily didn't have to deal with selling/buying a house!!! Just the moving part. I couldn't imagine if he was out of the country though!! I have 12 more days to go...that's less then 2 weeks right? LOL
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Update: AF has left the building!! WOO HOO!!! I just HOPE my O works out to be a wee bit late (like normal) so that when DH comes home, we can BD and all will work out. Not sure I could take another month of NOT trying (since its been since May).

Deb

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!

[LynzeyAHL]

CC Name: LynzeyAHL
Me: Lindsey, 28
DH: Dan, 24
Married: 10/30/2003
TTC start date: December 2005
Any other children: 2 kitties and 1 angel baby
Miscellaneous Info: Diabetic and low progesterone - fertility drugs coming to a uterus near you. :o

[Julss05]

I ended up calling in sick today because my cramping was real bad:(. It's not so bad on birth control but I'm not on any right now and won't be until after our first is born. Anyone else get bad cramps? If childbirth is this bad I think I can handle it but any worse and I'd definitely be asking for drugs!;). I took some Midol but still feel horrible. Anyone get a prescription for cramps? My cousin had to but I can't remember what was prescribed. On a good note this means I can go to the wine tasting festival this weekend! I've never gone to one, sounded fun. Might as well live it up a little while I can right?!

LadyD088-Hope it's your last! Good luck!

[KaliLily]

I've noticed my PMS/Menstrual symptoms overall are worse off of BCPs. Ever since I started ovulating (on my own! :) ) last Summer I get really sore breasts, bad cramps and my joints (particularly wrists and elbows) hurt. I also get extremely tired. Interestingly, though, the breast tenderness has eased up the last 2 cycles. Last month AF surprised me because I hadn't had any breast tenderness. They're a little tender this time, though!

I just want AF to arrive soon (I'm on day 29) so I can start monitoring for ovulation and get the BDing started! :D

[LadyD088]

Julss05 - Thanks! I hope its the last cycle but I'm not going to be too heart broken if its not. I am just TRYING not to put all my hopes in one basket. Luckily DH is coming back one day earlier but it all depends on that O!

As for symptoms, I am pretty lucky. I only get bitchy a few days before. I do sometimes get back pain but nothing else. However, in high school, I used to be out and in bed due to cramps so I know how you feel. It wasn't until I was OFF of BC that my symptoms got SO much better. Weird, huh, how we are all so different.

LynzeyAHL WELCOME!!! I really hope that 2007 is your year, looks like you've been waiting.
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QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
(BTW, anyone can make QOTD's too!!!)

QOTD: I am excited, nervous, and anxious. Excited because its a new chapter in our lives. I feel that we are completely ready to move on to starting our own family. Nervous because I'm scared that my families issues will be my own (taking years and years to get pg, even with medical treatments). Anxious because, honestly, I just want it to happen already! I've been with DH for 14 years. I have dreamt about what our kids would like like forever...I want to know already. I know our parents are the same way too...everyone is anxious for us to have kids.

Deb

[Reenie]

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?

Sort of the same as yours... excited and anxious. Nervous because I am hoping that we won't have a long TTC road ahead. Nervous because I finally realized that we will never, ever be 100% ready. Nervous because this is a whole person, you know? And excited and anxious because we're ready, ready, ready. I am not even too excited about the thought of pregnancy... I want that little baby already so I can kiss the ten fingers and ten toes, smell that new baby smell, etc etc.

[WestieMomma]

I took some Midol but still feel horrible. Anyone get a prescription for cramps? My cousin had to but I can't remember what was prescribed.

I think the medication you are thinking of is called Anaprox. It's the RX version of Aleve basically. Maybe your dr would give you a rx for it. Hang in there! I am scared to see what my cramps are going to be like when I go off the pill in Dec !

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
basically the same as everyone else..nervous but so excited!

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
I am so freaking ready to get started that I can't wait! Being around babies and my nieces makes me want one NOW! As far as my feelings though, I'm not too nervous or anything, just ready to get moving with it. I feel like I've been talking about it for too long and now I'm ready to just do it. The past several days at school it's all another teacher and I have been talking about!

I think part of it though that makes it worse is being a teacher. I see kids all day long. I see some kids and some parents and just shake my head. I guess it's given me a lot to think about and I've seen lots of things I want to do as a parent and lots of things I don't want to do.

[Reenie]

I think part of it though that makes it worse is being a teacher. I see kids all day long. I see some kids and some parents and just shake my head. I guess it's given me a lot to think about and I've seen lots of things I want to do as a parent and lots of things I don't want to do.

Tell me about it! And add to that the fact that I teach high school and see pregnant STUDENTS all day, so the feelings get compounded. I am just ready. It is silly to be jealous of a pregnant 15 year old, but sometimes I am. :o Not that I want to be 15 again, but pregnant, heck yeah.

[Julss05]

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
My feelings about becoming a mother are many feelings. Excitement to finally make a human being with the man I love. Curious to know what our kids will act and look like, who they'll take after in good and bad ways:rolleyes:. Some anxiety over how we will handle parenting issues, even though we get along great I'm sure there will be times we'll have different ideas on how to handle our future kids. Scared about making mistakes and possible health problems. The satisfaction of creating something that will love you back unconditionally. Feeling comfortable with the idea of becoming a mother which I never thought I'd be. Happy to start the next chapter in our life as husband and wife. Looking forward to sharing my life with another life and sharing everything I know with them. Worried about not enough time in the day, but I imagine other things that currently seem important will be pushed aside to make time for our new little one. An overwhelming but good feeling knowing something so small will forever change our lives. I have so many other feelings, I'm sure the same as many of you it's hard to put it all into words without writing a novel!

WestieMomma Thanks. Are they blue pills? That's all I remember.

LadyD088 I did get one nice symptom since coming off birth control and that is shorter periods. They use to last for at least 7 days sometimes longer and very heavy but now it lasts no more than 3 days. Sure wish the cramping had stayed behind though.

[JLRenheos]

LadyD088 - Thanks for the warm welcome! I guess we're fortunate that we won't have to buy some of the big items, esp. the cribs! I guess it'll be a rat race to see who will become pregnant first among the girlfriend & I. The year 2007, will be a good year, we hope anyway!

My last af was in Aug., I skipped the month of Sept. and I'm feeling she's on her way anytime now. I have been exhausted, sore bbs & waay bitchy - just ask my husband. I have Provera for a back up. It's been a recurring problem for me as far as having irregular periods.

QOTD What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
Nervous, and scared. I want to be a really great Mom. Someone, who's always going to be there & who will always lend an ear. I want to be the type of Mom, that you can go to for anything. I'm sure overwhelming, at first. It's something new to my DH & I, foreign like. It'll be something that we've never experienced before in our entire lives. We're really excited to take this journey to the next step & become parents for the 1st time. We get to be role models in our child's life and live through the eye's of our child.

[LynzeyAHL]

we're getting a puppy for christmas and I'm more nevous about training a dog to behave than I am of having a baby and being a parent haha what is wrong with that statement?!? :o

[LadyD088]

LynzeyAHL - Awww, how sweet!!! You will have to post a pic when you get your puppy! And TOO funny about training it v's having a baby and being a parent. Nothing wrong with that statement. The puppy is the here and now. Have fun and GOOD LUCK!

Deb

[LynzeyAHL]

LynzeyAHL - Awww, how sweet!!! You will have to post a pic when you get your puppy! And TOO funny about training it v's having a baby and being a parent. Nothing wrong with that statement. The puppy is the here and now. Have fun and GOOD LUCK!

Deb

haha thanks Deb we're getting a golden doodle (standard poodle golden retreiver mix) my cats are going to HATE us! lol its pretty exciting to know its going to be born in November soon and be ready to come home in december that's only about 8 weeks! :eek:

[Julss05]

golden doodle (standard poodle golden retreiver mix)
Our friends got one of those. She's about a year old now and cute, just as energetic as a retreiver without all the shedding. They have a lab too and it gets along pretty well with it. I thought they'd be a lot smaller than a retreiver but only by a little bit. Have fun!:)

[Julss05]

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? I'm about 25-30 pounds overweight and am trying to lose that much before TTC. I'm on no special diet just eating healthier and have lost 5 lbs. so far. I'm not worried about gaining weight during pregnancy as much as being a possible high risk pregnancy with being overweight to start with and what complications that could pose.

Also is anyone getting the flu shot? I don't usually but will be getting one because of TTC. I'm trying to prepare as best as I can on my end to make a healthy home for baby to be:).

[JLRenheos]

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? I certainly need to get back into the process again. I stopped working out in June & haven't done anything since. I worked out for a 1 1/2 steadily & then quit. I want to go back to the walking trac at my local rec. center, back to weight lifting & some of the other machines. I would like to lose about 30-35 lbs. & be able to maintain it.

I'm not planning on getting the flu shot.

[Sue]

I'm a little behind here...

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
Pretty much the same as everyone else, nervous, scared and excited at the same time. I want to be the type of mom that is pretty much the opposite of the relationship I have with my mother. I want my child to be able to talk to me about anything, to be a friend as well as a parent.

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC?
I'm just trying to lose weight in general, not specifically because of TTC. I'm doing WW, when I was doing it in the summer, I lost 15 pounds. I just started back on it and it's been a rocky couple of weeks, but I've lost 4 lbs. I want to get back down to around 115 - just about another 18 lbs. to go. I'd like to be at my good weight and enjoy it for a little bit before getting pregnant :)


ETA... Not planning on getting the flu shot, I've never had in the past and since we're not TTC until the spring, I don't see the need.

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? I don't plan on losing any weight, but I'd like to exercise and keep up with it. I usually start and then get sick or something else happens and I stop. Once I get out of the habit, it's hard to start back up again.

Flu shot-I'm not getting one since we don't plan to TTC until next summer. I am a teacher so I'm around kids all day, but I've never gotten the flu. *knock on wood*

[Sue]

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? I don't plan on losing any weight, but I'd like to exercise and keep up with it. I usually start and then get sick or something else happens and I stop. Once I get out of the habit, it's hard to start back up again.


Me too. The exercise is more important to me than losing the weight. I want my body to be in good shape and to keep it up throughout my pregnancy. In the end, it'll help with labor and helping my body bounce back afterwards.

[Reenie]

Flu Shot?
Nope.

Losing Weight? I am 7 pounds overweight, so of course, I'm trying to lose that before TTC; I'd like to lose an additional 10, but if I just lose the 7, I won't be upset.

[amew]

Hey, gang. Can I join? We are definitely hoping that 2007 will be the Year of the Baby for us, and I think I need a place to share my thoughts on the process.

Me: L, 29
DH: C, 30
Married: 8/01
TTC start date: Oct./Nov. 2006
Any other children: No kids, but one really cute Beagle pup.

I stopped taking BCP two months ago, and just finished my second post-pill period. So far, we have more or less been trying to avoid, though we haven't really been overly careful. Now we are both feeling increasingly ready and downright anxious to start trying, so I think that we are going to throw caution to the wind and get on with it in a couple weeks when I hit the fertile part of my cycle. But I had blood drawn for a cystic fibrosis screening and a rubella titre at my annual last week, so I would like to wait for the results before jumping in.

QOTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
Same as everyone else--excited, nervous, scared. My mom rocks, and I am a little overwhelmed by the pressure I know I will put on myself to be the kind of mom she is/was. And I am very nervous about balancing my job and my kids, and, to a slightly lesser extent, about how my relationship with DH will be impacted by a baby. But I am so darn excited to see and hold our child, to know what that child will look like/act like/be interested in/etc., and, mostly, to show our kid the world.

QOTD: Anyone losing weight before TTC?
Nah, not really. I am pretty happy with my weight. I am trying to exercise and eat healthy just because, though. And if I lose a couple pounds in the process, great.

Flu shot? No. I've had allergic reactions to the shot (swelling, hives) the past two years, so I am skipping it this year. I have reacted to several different vaccines through out the course of my life, so I obviously have an issue with one of the common preservatives or something. But if I didn't have a negative reaction, I would definitely get the vaccine. In general, I think the flu shot is a very good idea.

[Julss05]

Can you please update my TTC timeframe to just Spring 2007, thanks!

[loving624]

Hey ladies! I can join in on the 2007 being the year of the baby for me!!!

Me: K, 25 yrs old
Him: G, 26 yrs old
Kids: One furbaby Hercules
M/c: None
Other info: Have had 2 bad pap smears. Did biopsy first time, came back as level 1. Waiting on results as we speak for the 2nd biopsy. Dr is more worried this time that it will come back level 2 or 3, meaning I will have to get a treatment, then a wait a month before TTC

OTD: What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
I am sooooo excited about it. I feel it is the most rewarding job in the world and DH and I are so anxious to get started. I think the best day for me will be holding our little one for the first time.

QOTD: Anyone losing weight before TTC?
Not really, I lost 15 pounds before our wedding and gained 10 of it back, but I am still in the range I should be. But I do need to exercise better

Flu shot?
I didn't get one this year, I had the biopsy the same week and I was worried it would mess with the results. I never get them really

[coquelicot]

Just saw this thread...

CC Name: coquelicot
Me: K, 28
DH: B, 29
Married: October 11, 2003
TTC start date: Summer 2007
Any other children: No, just a lovable mutt

Now to try and answer a few of the QODs:

What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
I'm scared to death. On the one hand, DH and I have all the variables in place. We've been married a few years, have a home with an extra bedroom, have good jobs and some savings, aren't too young, aren't too old, etc. We're both healthy and have a great support system in our family and friends. But on the other hand, both of my parents are deceased, and neither one of us has family living within an hour of us (closest people are his parents and sisters, 90 minutes away). I'm an only child and pretty much the youngest of my cousins, so I have next to no experience with babies (all of my babysitting was with older children). DH was the youngest of his siblings, and even though he has nieces and a nephew, he didn't help out too much with them as babies, especially since he didn't live in the same town as two of them when they were that age. So how in the world do I figure out what to do with that helpless little thing?

Anyone losing weight before TTC?
I could stand to lose 10 pounds, but if it doesn't come off...meh. I'd want to lose it in the belly area, anyway, and it would just come right back. Heck, I've seen women 4 months along with less of a belly than what I've got! I'm just trying to switch to healthier eating habits (more whole grains, more reduced-fat and fat-free foods, etc).

Flu shot?
Not this year, since we won't be TTC until summer. But next year...probably.

[LadyD088]

Hey Girls...I was in MI for 3 days and just got back. ALSO....DH is back in town so, I haven't been around for bit. I will update this weekend though.

So with that....WELCOME NEWBIES!!!!!

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? Well I hate to say it but I'm about 40lbs overweight and am not doing a thing about it. HOWEVER, I did just start (last week) doing crunches and back exercises...mainly to help with the pg and labor. I would like to keep up any type of exercise I can while pg (which I will discuss with the doctor) since I know I will probably end up being high risk. For some reason, I just feel like I might get the high blood pressure issue. I don't have it now, but you know how you just "feel" about things? Well that's how I feel. I'd like to avoid that. I just know I can't lose that much weight since we are already TTCing.

OOOHhhh (ETA):
Flue Shot - No, I will not be getting it.

Deb

[WestieMomma]

QOTD-Anyone losing weight before TTC? Yes I would like to lose 10-20 lbs. I had lost 10 over the spring but have been bad lately and not exercising like I had been so I've gained it back :( I can do it though. I really enjoy working out and am usually very faithful I have been so busy lately with work. Excuses, excuses!! but I would like to be as healthy as possible before becoming pg.

Did anyone happen to catch the thing about obesity and pregnancy on the Today show? I think it was on Tue or Wed? I saw the commercial about it so I Tivo'd. It was very interesting. The said that overweight pg women are more likely to end up with c-sections and then of course have hypertension and gestational diabetes. The doctor on there said that losing just 5-10% of your body fat before becoming pg can really decrease your chances of ending up with complications like hypertension, etc. They also said that obese pg women are now being told not to gain any weight during pregnancy but if they do only 5-10 lbs max.

Flu shot? Already got one but I work in a family practice so I am around sick people all the time. Supposedly the Flu Mist is going to offer better coverage this year than the flu shot.

[raven077]

What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
Actually still pretty nervous. I'm kinda glad I'm still taking Lamisil which means we have to play it safe for a little bit longer. Originally, this anniversary weekened was when we had talked about starting to try (even though I'm past my O now). I'm also pretty nervous about the toll the pregnancy will take on my back with the problems I have. I had hoped that with all the treatments I've been doing that I would be in a better spot by this point, but I'm not. I do know though that when it happens, we'll be ready. We both love our little godson to pieces, and DH is so wonderful with kids. We'll muddle through somehow just like everyone else. ;)

Anyone losing weight before TTC?
I had lost over 20 lbs in the two years before our wedding, and in the past 10 months have gained about 15 back. Doctors are testing adrenal glands and thyroid, but I know I haven't been getting as much exercise as I was. For some reason, I have no energy now. But we both just signed up for a membership at our local Recreation Center which has a huge gym and some classes that we can take. I was planning on starting again in early November, and DH will officially start in January. My goal is to be back down the 15 lbs, PLUS 5 more by December/January.

Flu shot?
Nope, never have, and prolly never will.

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!!

Loving624 - I went ahead and put you at TTCing in Dec. Just let me know if that changes. Good luck with the test!!!! Hope it all works out.

[KaliLily]

Wow. There have been a lot of QOTDs that I haven't gotten to. My life's been a little busy lately. Good busy, but still busy.

What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)? I know I'm usually very wordy, but the answer to this one is simple: That I'm ready. It was like a switch went off in me and I knew it was time.

Anyone losing weight before TTC? I am horribly in need of losing weight, so I have been trying since Spring. I'm only down about 8 lbs and have hit several roadblocks, but I'm still trying to eat healthy and get some exercise. I'm not on a diet plan. I'm just trying to be sensible - more protein, dairy and whole grains, less junk! My ob/gyn thought this was a good strategy.

Flu shot? Most definitely! I got really sick from the flu 2 days after Christmas last year, which is unusual for me. I guess my body doesn't have the right immunities for the East Coast (I grew up on the West Coast). So this year I am determined to get a flu shot. I've never had an adverse reaction to the vaccine, so I'm not concerned.

And an update on my TTC planning: I'm on CD 41 now :eek: and I'm extremely frustrated! I'd had a normal cycle length (32-34 days) since Spring and now when I'm ready to TTC my body goes back to its old tricks. I've had PMS symptoms for a couple weeks now, but still nothing! (And I know I'm not PG) Oh well, maybe my body knew that DH was going to be out of the country at ovulation time next month, so it's resetting itself. :)

I was sick from late August to early October (sinus infection, severe bronchitis) so maybe that's messed me up a little. Here's hoping I get back on track. I don't want to have to resort to filling my Clomid prescription.

[Reenie]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?

I am. I think that I will be a nervous nelly until (well, probably after, too!) I get that baby in my arms. It seems like recently I've become more cognizant of all of the people who suffer miscarriages and infant loss, and that is just absolutely terrifying for me. I also worry about things like GD and HBP, but that's why I'm going to lose my few extra pounds before TTC so that shouldn't become an issue (actually, I'm not sure that it's that much of an issue now; as I said, I'm only 7 pounds overweight but still...).

[dancn226]

Can I Join?? DH and i have been TTC since Aug. I want to Join, since we have had NO luck thus far!!!!

Me~Danc (Jenn) 26 sson to be 27
DH~Chris 29
Married July 3, 2005 1 year already

Could you please add me.

THx:D

[Sue]

Welcome to all the newcomers!!

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
Not really... not in terms of a m/c or infant loss. That will probably change when we become pregnant - once it's real.

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?

I wouldn't say I'm scared of being pregnant. I'm more scared of having problems getting pregnant. DH thinks it'll be simple and will happen the first month we try. I'm not quite that optimistic. Of course, my cycles have been wacky, so I think that's part of it. Sometimes I feel like these boards are so full of information, but they provide more information about the negative aspects too (m/c and losses, infertility, and that statistic that there's only like a 20% chance to get pg each month). I never knew facts about all of that and sometimes I wish I still didn't know!

[Julss05]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
Sure. Scared of physical and emotional changes that will take place plus sustaining a healthy pregnancy overall. The other day I wondered if pregnant women ever get a suffication feeling from sharing their body with another being, but I know that may just be a weird thought that never happens:o.

[amew]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?

I am scared about not being able to get pregnant, I am scared of the magnitude of being a parent and all that comes with it, and I am somewhat scared about labor, but I am not that scared of pregnancy itself. One of my biggest pregnancy-related fears is that I will feel so awful that I won't be able to work effectively--I can't imagine having to sit in my office feeling completely exhausted and nauseated day after day. And I do have fears about pregnancy loss (my mom had a miscarriage at 5 months and a full-term still born, so I've always been hyper-aware of the possibility), but I simply won't let myself dwell on that fear.

[angelcookie2002]

Can I join?

CC Name:Angelcookie2002
Me: Danielle, 23
DH: Benji, 25
Married: 9/9/2004
TTC start date: Sept 07, right after our 3rd anniversary
Misc: We're taking a 3 week vacation to kick off TTC and as a last time for the two of us before we have kids.

[KaliLily]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?

I am scared about not being able to get pregnant, I am scared of the magnitude of being a parent and all that comes with it, and I am somewhat scared about labor, but I am not that scared of pregnancy itself.

What she said. :)

[coquelicot]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
At this point, no, but ask me again closer to TTC time. :) I don't have any known health conditions that would complicate things, and I have a wonderfully supportive DH. I'm not quite sure how much my body's going to change. What worries me the most are the hormonal changes. I can be majorly moody even when AF's not visiting, and it can get worse around that time of month. I've already warned DH to be prepared! :D

[LadyD088]

QOTD: Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
I am not scared of being pg, in fact I look forward to it very much so. I am scared of not getting pg due to amew's issues with her mom (same with my mom,1 still born. 4 mc, and then me - that was it) That really scares me but I try not to dwell on those because I am a different person.

What does make me nervous is labor...I'm not scared, I just wonder how it really will be. However, from what I've heard from all my friends that have been pg, I really look forward to the experience and welcome all the changes.

Deb

[KaliLily]

CD 43 and AF is finally starting to come around the mountain (whew!), but OMG the cramps are horrible!!!!! I think I'll be taking the easy way out tonight and ordering pizza for dinner. Between AF's impending arrival, morning yardwork and afternoon laundry I'm exhausted!

Now I just have to decide whether to track ovulation and see if I can do it "on my own" or give in and take my Clomid.

[PookiePrincess]

I hear ya, KaliLily. I'm on CD 51 and it's been one long, crazy cycle (though we aren't TTC yet). Hopefully AF will be here soon.

[Sue]

That is one thing I am very thankful for... My cycles have pretty much returned to normal after being on the pill for over 15 years. Charting has been an eye opening experience, such subtle changes that mean so much :)

[LeslieandPaul]

CC Name: LeslieandPaul
Me: Leslie, 22 (23 in February)
DH: Paul, 29
Married: August 20, 2005
TTC start date: Hopefully Fall 2007 (we'll probably be taking a cruise in October for DH's 30th b-day, so that may be our kick off)
Any other children: 2 kittens, Stella and Octane
Miscellaneous Info:Currently CTA (for over 20 months). DH has been exposed to radiation over the years b.c of his job, which worries me

QOTD:
I know this might be a little early but has anyone thought of baby names Yup. I had names I liked and then bought the Baby Name Wizard, so I've changed my mind a bit. DH is Italian, so I'd like to take that into consideration.
For a boy I like Cole, Vincent, Matteo, or Evan.
For a girl, Sophie, Charlotte, Mia (probably shortened from Maria-Paul's aunt's name), Gina, and a few others that I can't think of right now

Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family? Everyone knows we plan on having children, just not when.

Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?
I'm sure my mom's bought some things. I've bought some clothes (i used to work at the Gap so I picked up some cheap stuff), a Boppy, and fabric to make into bedding (i've already painted the spare room in preparation for a baby).

What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
It's so scary, but so exciting. I can picture myself with a baby, and I think I'll do okay with that, but I really wonder what kind of parent I'll be and what my child would be like.

Anyone losing weight before TTC?
I've lost 10 lbs recently, and would like to lose 5 more, but I don't need/plan to lose weight before TTC

Flu Shot? I don't know if I"ll get one this year, but next year since we'll hopefully be TTC, I'll probably get one.

Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
I'm scared of having morning sickness, or not being able to get pregnant, and of labour and delivery, but not of being pregnant.

[KaliLily]

I hear ya, KaliLily. I'm on CD 51 and it's been one long, crazy cycle (though we aren't TTC yet). Hopefully AF will be here soon.

Sending some of my hormones to you. Hope they help! ;)

Speaking of hormones and AF...

QOTD: Does anyone else get a cleaning/organizing bug up their butt when AF is arriving/about to arrive? Over the weekend I mended a sock and our comforter, which has been torn along the bottom seam for over a year. (It took me about 2 hours on Saturday night and another 2 hours or so Sunday afternoon. I hand-sewed it, I don't have a sewing machine, nor do I know how to use one.) Today I decided to go outside and weed whack since it was an unusually warm, windless day for late Oct. I also did laundry, handwashed some dishes and picked up a little downstairs. Oh, and I made the bed! The only time I make the bed is when company is coming. Who am I?!?!?!

[bethnjim]

Here is my info:

Beth
Me: Beth, 28
DH: Jim, 26
Married: 07/12/03
TTC start date: July 2007
Any other children: 4 cats, Belle, Stitch, Cali and Feona

We have finally decided on a month and year. We were originally putting it off, but we feel like it might be time so we got out a calendar.

[LadyD088]

LOL Kim!!! Not sure I've related it to AF but there are times when I just MUST clean and its always at night. Like I will get a bug up my butt to fully scrub the bathroom, etc... Weird. And I HATE when that happens because it only happens late at night, like 11pm. I wish I would get one of those bugs now...I have some major dusting to do! LOL Happy cleaning!

WELCOME BETH, LESLIE, DANIELLE, AND JENN!!!!

Deb

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!!

Welcome ALL Newbies!!! Our little thread is growing so quickly...and its not even 2007 yet!! WOO HOO!!!

[JFlo]

Can I join?


CC Name: JFlo
Me: J, 27
DH: E, 27
Married: August 2003
TTC start date: March 2007
Any other children: none
Miscellaneous Info: going off BCP (and on PNV) in December, have read TCOYF and plan to start charting, DH and I are going to Hawaii in May 2007...this was going to be our last big vacation pre-pregnancy, but now with our timing shift, we could possibly be with-baby!


QOTD:
I know this might be a little early but has anyone thought of baby names/We have an on-going excel spreadsheet of baby names. When we hear a name or a name comes to mind that we both agree on, it goes on the list.

Do your family and friends know you plan on (or already are) starting a family? Our family and friends are under the impression that we're going to wait until DH is done with his masters degree. Eventhough we've pushed up our date, we're not going to tell anyone.

Have you (or any family members) purchased anything for a baby?
nope.

What are your feelings about becoming a mother (parents)?
We are so excited to become parents! We constantly talk about TTC, what our kids will be like, what they will look like, etc. But, we are also big planners so it's kind of in our nature to discuss these things at length.

Anyone losing weight before TTC?
I don't necessarily want to lose weight since my weight is average for my height, but I do want to get myself in better shape so that I can continue to exercise throughout pregnancy.

Flu Shot? Yes, I will be getting one this year.

Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
I'm a huge worry wort, so lots of things scare me...I'm scared we will have a hard time getting pregnant (and/or staying pregnant); I'm scared that we really just don't know how much a baby will change our lives; I'm scared that my DH and I won't be first in each others lives, etc. But actually being pregnant...no, not really scared. It may help that for the most part people who are close to me who have been pregnant have had it pretty easy, so I haven't heard that many horror stories.

[LadyD088]

WELCOME JEN!!!

[amew]

So I think I may be in or almost in my first ever official 2WW. :eek: I don't temp (I tried, but I was terrible at it--I never get up at the same time, sometimes only get a couple hours sleep, would often forget to temp altogether, etc.), but I do watch my CM and keep close tabs on my cycle. Today is CD 14, and I had EWCM Sunday, yesterday, and today. This is my third cycle off BCP, and the first two were both 28 days, with EWCM starting around CD 11 and drying up after CD 14. We had sex Saturday, Sunday, and this morning, so I think we may have covered our bases pretty well.

Now I am totally excited, anxious, and, honestly, pretty darn freaked out by this whole TTC. Oh well, guess there's no turning back now. :)

[KaliLily]

So I think I may be in or almost in my first ever official 2WW.

Now I am totally excited, anxious, and, honestly, pretty darn freaked out by this whole TTC. Oh well, guess there's no turning back now. :)

Sending good thoughts your way!!!! :D :D

[JLRenheos]

amew - Best of Luck to you in your 1st 'official' 2ww!

I'm so glad af left today. It's been a painful one. I haven't had af since August. I guess my body just decided to up and skip the month of September. I do have provera for a back up, though. Now, if I can keep my af regular then I'd be right back on track.

QOTD - BABY NAMES We've talked about several baby names that we like. I think we're going to keep them to ourselves for right now. We have nothing in stone.
We did have a boys name(Jack/Jackson) that we both liked very much, however, my SIL/BIL named their 3rd/last son(Jack) THE name we liked. They never knew we liked that name & we had never discussed baby names with them before.

QOTD -Does anyone get the cleaning/organizing bug when af is here/arriving? No, not really. More than anything I feel less motivated during that time frame . It's due to being sleepy & having cramps and being grouchy.

QOTD - Is anyone scared of being pregnant?
Wait until Jan. or Feb. and then ask me that question. ;)
Yeah, I think so just a little. I'm sure it's a natural feeling.

[Sue]

So I think I may be in or almost in my first ever official 2WW. :eek:
Now I am totally excited, anxious, and, honestly, pretty darn freaked out by this whole TTC. Oh well, guess there's no turning back now. :)

How exciting!!

[kanga1622]

I'd like to join.

Kanga1622
Me: 26
DH: 28
Married: 08/31/02
TTC: 02/06-11/06 Starting again 03/07
Any other children: our pup, 2
Miscellaneous Info: Charting since July 2003

We are taking a break for 4 months for me to work out a slight health issue and plan to start TTC again in March. Which means we're very unlikely to have a baby until 2008! That thought freaks me out big time!

[LadyD088]

Originally Posted by amew
So I think I may be in or almost in my first ever official 2WW.

Very cool!! I am in my 2WW now too. When are you going to test? I am looking at Nov 8 as a test date, if AF doesn't arrive.

Good Luck. Its a very trying time, I'll say that!!! Try NOT to think about the testing and wanting to test early. Try to wait until after AF would have arrived - makes for better results.

Deb

[WestieMomma]

QOTD Is anybody scared of being pregnant?
No not really. I guess I'm a little concerned that I will get morning sickness and be a total wussy if I do that but other than that not too worried.

QOTD -Does anyone get the cleaning/organizing bug when af is here/arriving?
No...I wish! In fact I just starting having a cleaning lady come in the past month because I was sick of having to spend a portion of my weekends cleaning, plus I'm lazy! lol! I have been getting the cooking bug lately though but I love to cook more when the cooler fall weather hits.

Good luck to the ladies who are in the 2WW. I was going to finish up my last two pill packs which would put me being done in Dec. but I am really thinking about quitting this month..my last pill may be taken this Sat-we'll see if I chicken out or not!:D

[amew]

Good luck to you, too, Deb! Thanks for the well wishes, all.

Very cool!! I am in my 2WW now too. When are you going to test? I am looking at Nov 8 as a test date, if AF doesn't arrive.

Well, AF is due Nov. 15, so I may try to hold out until then. Since it's our first time trying, I'm not really expecting it to work, so I haven't really thought about testing. But I suspect all that will change as I get further along in the 2WW! I am already kicking myself for not seducing DH again yesterday to get a last shot in...

[LadyD088]

Amew
I am already kicking myself for not seducing DH again yesterday to get a last shot in...
TOO Funny!!! I love it.

Deb

[KaliLily]

Re testing: I was looking over my instruction sheet from my doctor and he recommended testing if AF hasn't arrived by CD 35. And before you laugh at my instruction sheet, it's because of my PCOS. My DR rattled off all these steps when he was prescribing Clomid and offered to write it down so I wouldn't forget. :)

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor? Given my history of PCOS, we'll probably TTC for 6 months before seeking further testing/assistance - unless Clomid stops being effective. I can only take Clomid for 6 months at a time anyway. (Though I have decided not to take it this month. If I don't O on my own, I'll start the Clomid in December.)

[coquelicot]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
Hmm...a year, maybe? As impatient as we can be when we want something, though, it might end up being sooner. Let's see how frustrated we get first.

[LeslieandPaul]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
6 months. I know they say to wait a year, but considering DH's exposure to radiation, and the problems I've had with my cycles in the past, a year is too long for me.

[Sue]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?

Probably about 6 months... I'm CTA and my cycles are pretty regular - no problems since I've been off the pill.

[JFlo]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?

Probably 6 months. Although as someone with a Type A personality, it will probably kill me to wait even that long.

Good luck to the ladies in their 2WW!! Exciting :)

[PookiePrincess]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?

Probably 6 months. When we do TTC, I'll have been charting for a year and that should be plenty of time to see if anything is not right. Then, 6 months of trying and I'll be more than ready.

[LadyD088]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
**Hmm, I think I would wait until June. That will put us at trying for 8 months. But who knows, DH might get frustrated and ask to see a doctor sooner - we'll see!

Deb

[amew]

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?

Probably around 6 months. I am pretty regular and have no known issues, so if nothing has happened after six months, I think I would want a sperm assessment to rule out male factor.

My best friend and her DH did a sperm assessment after 5 months because she was charting, knew she was ovulating, knew they were timing it perfectly, and didn't get pg. They were told to go straight to IVF due to poor sperm quality. She ended up conceiving triplets during her "trial run" on the meds the cycle before they were scheduled to start IVF.

[Julss05]

QOTD -Does anyone get the cleaning/organizing bug when af is here/arriving?
Yes just before AF you can find me cleaning every part of the house! It's weird but not a bad symptom I think;). I also clean when I'm very upset.

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
6-10 months. Although my mom got pregnant with all of us the first time without birth control with different men so I might be concerned that I have fertility issues if it doesn't happen after say 5 attempts of perfect timing. My brother inherited the fertility gene too, got his wife pregnant twice the only two times they didn't use anything. Maybe I won't be that lucky but we'll see, I know it could also mean fertility issues with DH so we'd explore that too after trying for a while.

My friend just found out she is having a girl! I'm so excited for her, that is the gender she was hoping for. I kind of guessed it would be a girl based on the simple fact that she didn't track her ovulation and probably BD earlier than O.

Well I got to go to work:(. Wish I could stay on here and chat. T.G.I.F

Good luck Amew!

[rubyslippers]

Hi ladies! Well the wedding is over the thank yous are sent and here we are! :) We knew because of my age we would want to TTC asap. Although whenever we do it won't be soon enough for the in-laws. They are very ready for grandchildren. My fam is fine since there is a nephew and 2 nieces thanks to my brother and sister.

CC Name:rubyslippers
Me: Heather,34
DH: Kurt,32
Married: 10/15/06
TTC start date: January 2007
Any other children:none for either of us
Miscellaneous Info:I've been doing WW and would like to loose another 20-25 lbs to be at a healthier weight before getting PG No known issues other than my AGE:)

We'll try on our own for 6 months before consulting a doctor. I had my annual visit in August and did that visit as a pre-conception visit.

[Reenie]

Welcome rubyslippers! Congrats on your marriage. :)

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
I don't really know. Maybe six months to a year? I know that a lot of doctors won't even see you if it hasn't been a year and you're in your 20s (which we are/will be). I have been charting for almost a year (I'm on my 13th complete chart this month... I did a half-month trial last November and started really charting last December); I know that I'm ovulating and have short luteal phases. I have started taking vitamins for the short LP and they actually seem to be working, so hopefully by this summer, I'll have nice long LPs.

[raven077]

Welcome again to all the new ladies. :)

QOTD: How long do you plan to TTC "on your own" before consulting a doctor?
We'll probably do six months. So far I've been charting since March, just starting my 10th cycle, so I feel that I'll have a pretty good handle on things. My LP can be fairly short at times and at the best of times, it's only been in the mid-range. Though I just did an adrenal spit test for my chiro and one of the things they tested for was Progesterone and my doctor said mine was in a really good range so maybe I'm ok. We'll see when we start trying. :)

[MaybeMamas]

UPDATED TO HERE!!

Welcome ALL Newbies!!!

[kanga1622]

We plan to try for a year before really consulting a doctor. We've already been trying for 9 months. I have my annual exam in 2 weeks so I'll talk to the doc then but I know they won't do anything until it has been a full year. I'm just worried they will want me to have 12 cycles before getting worried and that would take me almost 16 months.

So much for waiting: we decided just to keep trying so my TTC date can go back to 02/06.

[filmgirl7]

CC Name: filmgirl7
Me: Carrie, 29 next Tuesday
DH: J, 33
Married: 1/7/06
TTC start date: 1/07
Any other children: nope
Miscellaneous Info: no known issues to speak of, just a lot of anxiety about the process.

Well, I held out for as long as I could, but since I now know that we won't be expecting a July baby, it's time to join. We made an attempt this past cycle (our first real try) but it didn't happen, so i'm trying my best to just move on.

It helps that we JUST moved, and just joined a gym too, so there's lots to keep me busy over the next 2.5 months until we can try again. (We're avoiding August and September babies.)

I'm going to go back and read through some of what has already been posted.

[Reenie]

Welcome, filmgirl7! Your post prompted me to think of this:

QOTD: If you could pick your due date/baby's birth date, what would it be and why?

I would pick anytime in the month of May because I am a teacher (we get out of school mid-June) and I'd like to use my accumulated time off (paid) and then have the whole summer off (paid) with the baby.

[LadyD088]

QOTD: If you could pick your due date/baby's birth date, what would it be and why?

I guess I would have to pick Dec...I just LOVE the holidays and would love a holiday baby - what a wonderful present every year to be reminded of the beautiful gift brought into the world at such a magical time. I have heard people hate their bdays during the holidays but I would hope my child wouldn't...that is if I could pick their bday.

Unfortunantly, if we are pg right now, my kid will have to settle for a smack in the middle of summer pool party!!! LOL

I will be testing on Sunday. Will post when I know.

Deb

[Julss05]

QOTD: If you could pick your due date/baby's birth date, what would it be and why?

Either in the fall (October, November, December) months or late spring (end of April or May) because the weather is best. That and we don't have a lot of other family members born in those months. My mom had 3 summer babies and told me that is something I want to avoid I guess because of the already elevated body temp. I realize though it may not happen that way and will take whatever due date is given to me;).

Welcome to the group filmgirl7!

I am SO sick! That's why my chart is crazy looking. We are supposed to go out of town this weekend and I'm hoping the sickness will leave too.

Happy Veteran's Day everyone!:)

[filmgirl7]

Good morning ladies! Thanks for the welcome.

Julss -