View Full Version : Seeing What Happens: TTC in August 2006
Tenny
08-11-2006, 06:54 AM
Wow, ladies I have to be away for the computer one day and I'm so lost!! So I'll just pick up here if that is okay with all of you!!
QOTD I would love a little girl since I already have a little boy. But then I think about a little brother for DS and I think how wonderful that would be. Really I would thrilled either way. But there is a theory around my office, if two engineers (which DH and I both are) have a baby it will be a boy. So far in my office that has been true 100% of the time. So if you go by that.....when I get pg, I'll be having a boy!!
So I have a guestion...Do you think it is a bad thing that AF has only been 3 days long the last three cycles? AF stated on Tuesday and today is Friday and she is already gone. Which I guess is good I don't have to deal with her over the weekend, but it kind of has me worried!
DelSol
08-11-2006, 06:54 AM
:( DH wasn't in the mood last night so no BDing for us. This put more determination into me to find a article on what needs to be done while TTCing. I was upset last night because yeah I was tired too but I was willing to do BD last night. I'm not feeling too confident that this was our month but we will see.
I just checked FF and put a fake temp in for tomorrow and FF is saying my O day was on CD15, if that is the case then we did BD that night. I had some make ovulation pains last night so know I'm guessing when O occurred either on CD15 or CD16.
QOTD:
If you could choose, what would you prefer the gender of the child you are trying to conceive now be? Why? Are you doing anything to make that more probable?
I always wanted a boy first but when I have dreams of me being in labor, the doctor always says it's a girl. In all reality we will be happy with either one.
I'll be back later on for SO's, I need to get 2 offer letters done.
kiki61872
08-11-2006, 06:56 AM
Hi Ladies - I could use advice....
i usually O about cd 21-22 but this month FF is saying earlier. I think they gave me dotted crosshairs for cd 17.
fyi - i took an OPK monday when i got home from work. i did get a faint second line - but i know that in order to be a + the line needed to be darker than what is was. i did another one the next morning and nothing.
did i miss my surge?
can you guys peek and let me know your thoughts?
Tenny
08-11-2006, 06:57 AM
I've done tons of research on this and found that an acidic environment is key to having a girl. So this cycle I've started taking supplements to help with that (even though I'm pretty sure mine was already acidic) and I've gone as far as buying pH strips to test the pH of my CM to make sure its at the girl level which is has been all cycle long.
FSUSammy I never knew that! Out of curiosity what is the level for girls vs boys? What kind of supplements are you taking? Having a science background I find all that stuff so interesting!
DelSol
08-11-2006, 06:59 AM
So I have a guestion...Do you think it is a bad thing that AF has only been 3 days long the last three cycles? AF stated on Tuesday and today is Friday and she is already gone. Which I guess is good I don't have to deal with her over the weekend, but it kind of has me worried!
I don't think you should worry, AF for me ranges from 3 - 5 days, this past cycle she was 3 days here.
Tenny
08-11-2006, 07:01 AM
kiki61872 I haven't charted in a long time so my skills are a little rusty. But it looks like right to me. As for OPK, I have never used them so I really can't be much help. I'm guess I didn't really help at all....sorry!! But it looks like you got your bases covered! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!!
DelSol Thanks!! It is kind of nice have AF for only a few days!!
melandtim
08-11-2006, 07:48 AM
Tenny - AF for me is almost always only 2 days. Been like that for as long as I can remember, even on the months when I do ovulate.
Kiki - This was my first month using the OPK and I had the same thing happen and it corresponded when FF says I ovulated.
kiki61872
08-11-2006, 07:52 AM
thanks ladies.
i'm glad this bd fest is coming to an end. i love dh and all but man i'm wiped out.
i was just a little concerned because i never O this early. hmmmmmm.
Sunshine
08-11-2006, 08:28 AM
looty~I just wasnt sure if the cervix did close, I really didnt know. But from the sounds of the research I have done, it doesnt! YAY!
Well, I WAS bossy............LOL! Not anymore tho....or maybe you should ask DH that question:p I still could be....LOL!
melg~heehee, hopefully in 10 months or so I will be able to change it:D
Thanks!
Bella~Well, I am 27 and my sister (whom I dont speak to unfortunately...LOOOONG Story) is 26, and I have an ex-step brother (:p) who is 23! I lived with my sister until I was about 14, and then moved in with my Dad, where I lived with my bro for 4 years-ish.
I HOPE that that was a sign for you! YAYYYY!
QOTD:
If you could choose, what would you prefer the gender of the child you are trying to concieve now be? Why? Are you doing anything to make that more probable?
Not doing anything to "better the chances" for a boy or a girl, I'm just trying to get pregnant! LOL! DH wants a boy first, I go back and forth....Its not a big deal to me!
FSUSammy
08-11-2006, 08:42 AM
Tenny - The level is aboug 4.5. You don't want to go lower than that because then you'll kill the sperm. I'm taking Vitex, cranberry, calcium, magnesium, and acidopholus (sp?).
DelSol - Sorry you didn't get to BD last night.
kiki - It's very well possible that you missed your surge. I think that happend to me yesterday. I took my first OPK (got tired of waiting for O) and the test line was lighter than the reference line and about half an hour later I had these horrible cramps on my right side. Then this morning my temp jumped up.
dancn226
08-11-2006, 09:14 AM
HI girls, hope all is going well. I am so not sure when or even if I o'd. So just to be sure DH and I are all about the "practice" We have had so much b'ding this month. We have maxed out more this month, that being said, we have had to catch an egg.....At least I pray we did. I mean seirously if we didn't I am going to start to think that something is wrong with me....other than my mental issues today. I am having such a bad day, can't wait to get this day over wtih!!!!!! Hope today is going better for everyone else!!!!
dancn226
08-11-2006, 09:16 AM
As for the yesterday's COTD, I really want a girl. I am a dance instructor, and I would love to be able to teach my daughter to day. My husband who is a firefighter on teh other hand wants a boy. WE know we both want 2 kids, so we have always joked about how we would have one of each and then the girl ends up being a Firefighter and the boy a dancer......Funny!!!!
looty
08-11-2006, 10:03 AM
Chelsea~Your Dh is really spoiled. My DH will be so jealous! :p
Lana~I'm the same way too. Although most of the offspring from DH's family are male. He has all brothers and we only have 1 neice and 5 nephews.
Delsol~Sorry that your Dh wasn't in the mood last night. I hope you O'ed on CD 15 since you bd'ed that night. Looks like birthday bd'ing isn't out now though!;) Happy Birthday early if I don't get in here on Sunday!
SwaneeK~Thanks for the cheers. Have fun on your trip next month and come back and join us when you are TTC again!
Melg~I know we are supposed to keep you sane, but I was just wondering if you have tested? If you only had brown bleeding for about 8 hours I wouldn't consider that AF. As far as the CM...I don't check it on a regular basis like some women do but if I check it I usually just do it when in the bathroom before getting ready to go. I just check it at the outside. You are suppsed to feel it without looking first and then look at it according to TCOYF. I don't know about going in to get it. I can look it up for you if you want. I am exactly the same on the QOTD. If I knew I was surely going to get both genders I would want to boy first but if not then I definitely want a little girl.
Bella~I am glad that you have some hope again. I think that is funny that you said maybe your DH can only make girls. My Dh's family says the same about themselves excpet with boys...until the last one born was finally a girl.
FSUSammy~You might have missed the surge because that is supposed to happen before O (I think 24-36 hours before). At least you have your temps to help you figure everything out. I knew that you said you were trying for a girl. I find the stuff that you are doing to insure that is very interesting.
Mel~I hope you are our first BFP this thread. I don't think that anyone is testing before you so I can say that!:p So really one more day til you can be overly excited about a possibility? I am crossing my fingers for you!
Tenny~It is hard to keep up here somtimes. I think that if AF is 3 days you re fine. On the pill that's what I usually had. Now it is only 4-5 days usually. Too funny that 2 engineers means boy.
Kiki~Based on your chart I would say that it is right. You may have missed the surge since you took it the night before you O'ed. Might have been too close to O. Looks like you have a good chance this month!
Sunshine~I guess sometimes they are still bossy but I was referring more to your younger years when you were living around your siblings. I knew you were!:p I'll add you to the list! LOL....The rams won their pre season game yesterday! Yay!
Dancn~I hope you are right and you caught the egg! You had me cracking up at your girl firefighter and boy dancer. That would be funny! I hope your day gets better.
Not much going on here. Got another pregnancy announcement last night...SIL. I am fine with it though but I may change my tune if Iam not pregnant by next February because everyone I know is due between Feb 1 and March 2. That will be a happy month, but a very hard one if I am not pg by then.
Seeing What Happens
08-11-2006, 10:10 AM
Updated to Here!
Come on everyone! I want to add some people to the graduates section! We haven't had any month without any graduates so statistics say that someone has to be pregnant right now or will be very, very soon! :D
Chelsea524
08-11-2006, 10:12 AM
Dancn, I hope you guys were able to catch the egg, that is funny about the boy being a dancer and the girl a firefighter, I joke with DH that if the next one is a boy he will have to go into dance class and stuff, I was a long time dancer up until I had kids and I really want a girl to (hopefully) have that same passion.
Sammy, I had never heard of that for trying for a girl, may have to try that next cycle if this one isn't it. Yeah on the temp spike!!
kiki I agree with FF, one more day of temps will tell for sure though since the other two were open dots. Looks like you guys did a great job covering you bases though!
Tenny, my AF was always about 3 days, this time it was about 6 but I think that was just making up for the fact I had a 75 day cycle.
DelSol, sorry for no BDing last night, I missed out too, our men seem to be just plain lazy some times;)
Melg, to check CM I ususally just use one finger and run it along the civix and wall, it should come out with enough to check it that way. Thats just me though, not sure how others check.
Bella, I hope that is early moning sickness that you are having, when will you test? good luck!!
Mel, I hope those cramps are a little one getting comfy for a while!!
Me, well we didn't get to BD last night, and I did try but DH didn't want to. I was at his work today collecting his paycheck for him and ran into one of his employees that I am friends with, we started ttc at the same time and she got pg on her first try, she's already looking pregnant. Anyways, she told me DH always jokes with her that he is holding out BDing to be funny because he thinks I am obsessed about it. Grrr. So I have decided once I do get pregnant I will just hold out on him and see how he likes it;)
Chelsea524
08-11-2006, 10:19 AM
Ok so I was slow typing again and missed Looty. DHs family is the same way, all boys, out of 8 grandkids only one is a girl but she is DHs sisters kid so she doesn't really count in that because her husband is not part of the whole genetics thing. I really hope you will be pregnant well before Feb!!
ETA a question, do you usually O the day of EWCM or the day after?? Anyone know? I had EWCM on Wednesday and watery/creamy (more creamy though) on thursday, not sure which to count as O.
FSUSammy
08-11-2006, 10:26 AM
Chelsea - You'll know when you O when your CM dries up. It's possible to have several days of EWCM. I'd count the day before dry up as the day you O'd. Now if you happen to dry up in the middle of the day but had fertile quality CM earlier then you O'd that day.
kiki61872
08-11-2006, 10:41 AM
do you guys ever get some creamy CM after an O?
last cycle maybe about 5 dpo i got tons of it.
Lanapoo
08-11-2006, 11:05 AM
Kiki - yeah, this last cycle there were a couple days during the 2ww where I got a ton of creamy. Weird huh?
Nothing going on here. CD2...ho hum :rolleyes: I'm doing a baby shower for a friend tomorrow afternoon so that should be a lot of fun, I can't wait to start decorating!
Looty - No problem mentioning it... the thought crossed my mind to test since AF was sooo irregular. However, since we are new at this I figure I don't know what my normal is. I had only a few hours of normal blood... but the brown milky kind of stuff and spotting was a total of almost 2 weeks. So I don't think that is really a chance. I did test after I had been brown spotting or whatever that was for 5 days... it was negative. :confused:
So I am guessing I'm on CD9 (from the RED, the one day with red...) or more, as much as 16 if you count from the first "leaking" of brown.
I hope to get a BFP later this month :)
Hopefully Melandtim will start us off with a nice long string of BFPs :D
bellabonga
08-11-2006, 12:33 PM
Sunshine, I had hoped you would have lived with a sibling four years younger when you were at Mayaīs age to tell me how you liked the spacing. But since you only moved in so late with your stepbrother, that doesnīt count.
melandtim, I hope youīll be our first BFP next week! :)
Tenny, I was never this lucky but a friend of mine too has AF for only 3 days and she got pg twice.
Delsol, Iīm sorry that your DH wasnīt in the mood.
looty, Iīm quite sure that I read once that some men can only make boys, some can only make girls and the rest can make both. So up until now DH has not proved yet that he can make boys too. ;) Iīm crossing my fingers for you that your belly will be already impressive by February.
dancn, sorry about your bad day. I hope your weekend gets better! :)
Chelsea, your DH is not only spoiled but quite naughty too! Pay it back to him once youīre pg! ;) AF is supposed to come on Wednesday, so I would probably test next Friday if nothing has happened until then.
FSUSammy
08-11-2006, 12:35 PM
Is anyone testing this weekend????
dancn226
08-11-2006, 01:01 PM
Chelsea524~I am telling you I have been a dancer for ever, and its so hard not to do it. I am on summer break right now, and its killing me. My DH and I really want to open my own dance studio, thought we should do that before kids, but said you know what can't wait!!!!
Looty~ Glad I made you laugh, its been a bad day, can't wait until this weekend, my DH b'day is on Monday so I took that day off. So I am ready for a good weeekdn.
Bellabong~I am glad to have made you laugh, its good to know that even in this horrible attitude, that people are laughing.
Hope everyone has a good weekend!!!! It will be good, because I have Monday off.
Everyone get their B'ding on !!!!!! :0)
DelSol
08-11-2006, 01:14 PM
melg ~ thanks, I'm holding out hope but without BDing last night I just don't know.
bella ~ so glad to see you have some hope for this cycle. My fingers are crossed for you.
FSUSammy ~ I'm on CD17 also my temp spike was yesterday, good luck with the OPK.
melandtim ~ I hope your temps stay up.
kiki61872 ~ I think if we did that much BDing, my DH would drop dead. But it looks like you have yourself covered and good luck catching your egg.
Tenny ~ I love when AF is only 3 days but she can be real pain on my 2nd day.
dancn226 ~ I hope you caught your egg. I'm having one of those days just because I am frustrated DH can't/doesn't understand the importance of BDing & when it needs to be done.
looty ~ I'm hoping I O'd on CD15, which is what FF will be telling me tomorrow. SO maybe I can get some bday BDing in. Thank you for the Bday wishes.
Chelsea524 ~ doesn't it stink missing out? Laziness is DH's middle name. If my DH even cracks a joke about holding out during the fertile time, I'd be cracking him upside his head and holding out for a very long time after I got PG.
I think I got everyone, if I missed anyone I am sorry.
I hope everyone has a nice weekend, I'll probably be back on later. I need to get some cleaning done since DH is having a company visit him to do some work with him. Tomorrow BIL is having a surprise bday party for my sister. DH will be visiting his Gram tomorrow so I won't see him until late Saturday night. I think tonight will be an early to bed night, I'm beat.
FSUSammy
08-11-2006, 01:18 PM
Hey ladies. Thought I'd give you guys an update.
I did another OPK about 2 hours ago and it came back negative again and was actually lighter than yesterday's OPK. My CM has dried up and my boobs are starting to hurt so I'm really starting to think that I did O yesterday. Well I'll just have to wait and see what tomorrow's temp is and of course Sunday's temp as well to confirm O.
Sam
dancn226
08-11-2006, 01:57 PM
DelSol~I was there last month!!! Totally, I think things are just going good with us and its something he wants to see happen sooner than later!! So he has jumped on the bandwagon!!! Which always helps. I was totally dealikng with him last month. I feel you pain!!!
I am just having a bad technology day!!! Every damn computer i touch breaks, so it really sucks.
I really hope eeryone has a good weekend, I probbalby won't' be around with DH's b'day we will probably be having some fun. We are going to the Bristol Renassiance Faire on Sat. then some surfing behind our boat on Sunday and probably MOnday since that is his acutaly b'day!!!!!!!!!
Sunshine
08-11-2006, 02:00 PM
looty~GO RAMS! It was a good game, hey?
Chelsea~Sorry you didnt BD last night, but :eek: what he told his coworker. I'd smack him! LOL!
Bella~Well, my DH is 30 and his sister is turning 25 this year and they got along GREAT! He says he has memories of his sis wanting to always hang around and sometimes that annoyed him, but mostly he was proud to have a little sister!!!!! I'm sure the age difference will be just fine:)
Have a GREAT weekend everyone:D
Chelsea524
08-11-2006, 04:26 PM
Sunshine DH always does stuff like that, I always make a comment to him that he is just trying to see how far he can push me before I bite his head off, he thinks its funny to get me frustrated:rolleyes:
dancn your own studio?! I would be so jealous! Dancing used to be my life, I toured with my dance company all over the western states, ballet and jazz, ballet was my love, just lost the body for it after my first pregnancy, I didn't take care of my body and gained a lot of weight during that pregnancy that has been hard to lose.
Sammy Thanks, that what I figured, I have dried up so I am pretty sure I Oed yesterday, but still didn't have very much CM yesterday so maybe it was the day before, who knows. Yay on you Oing!! We are all about the same point in our cycles it seems, not many are quite ready to test yet.
Delsol happy birthday on Sunday if I don't get back here before then, thats my DS birthday too!
melg I would count the day with red flow as CD 1
Lana Have fun at the baby shower!! I love those, so much more fun then wedding showers
Well, as stated above I think we must all be at the same point in our cycle, in a week or two we will be having so many BFP!! Mel will have to tide us over until then with hers!
Squee
08-12-2006, 08:59 AM
Hey ladies, sorry I havnt been around. It seems each cycle I go through I pull further and further away from here. I have been lurking tho and trying to keep up with everyone.
Im on cd 23 and probably 8dpo. I havnt been temping since a few days after O so there is a chance I may not have. I really dont think Ill test at all after last month. I will expect af anywhere between cd27 and cd33. If she is going to come I hope its earlier rather than later.
Looks like we will have alot of action at the end of this month. Seems like were all pretty similar phases of our cycles. Good luck everyone!
DelSol
08-12-2006, 09:46 AM
Chelsea524 ~ Thank you for the birthday wishes. Happy birthday to your son!
I had huge temp spike this morning. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. FF still showing I O'd on CD15, which works in my favor. I have a weird feeling in my tummy and not sure what it could be. I don't think it would be O pains 3DPO.
DH is staying home today, Gram most likely is getting released from the hospital today so she is going to have a busy day, he's gonna go up later on in the week. He wanted to know what I wanted to do on my birthday and I was like I don't know. He said I can give ya the goods, I looked at him and said I wanted the good last night but you didn't want too. He didn't say anything then so I won't be passing a change to BD up but I know it's too late for anything to happen with this BD.
bellabonga
08-13-2006, 12:48 AM
It seems like Iīm out. :( I had sore bbs for the past two days and was really convinced that Iīm pregant. I probably was but belong to those whose pregnancy already ends with AF. Just when I wiped I saw some light pink, so I guess AF is on her way. :( Well, at least it was a short cycle. Tomorrow I will get the results of the hormonal check up and the results of the thyroid check up. Iīm anxious to know if they found something wrong.
Happy birthday, DelSol! :)
looty
08-13-2006, 06:46 AM
Happy Birthday Delsol!
Bella~I hope you are wrong about AF and that you get some good answers tomorrow!
ETA: Sorry I didn't do more SO's. I am just kind of in a dumpy mood right now because we just found out that my grandpa has leukemia. It feels so strange to be typing that still. I am hoping this cycle will end in a pregnancy so our family can have some good news.
Chelsea524
08-13-2006, 07:45 AM
Bella, sorry about AF, do you think it could just be implantation spotting?
Looty, I am so sorry about your grandpa, I hope you do get your BFP this month to cheer the family up a bit, so sorry.
Happy Birthday DelSol!!!!!
Not much going on here, been a bit crampy but nothing major, DS is two today so I need to get the house cleaned up because every one will be coming over tonight. Have fun everyone, this week should be the start of a big string of testers and BFPs right? I will be testing Friday, I's sure it will be to early but just hoping to get a BFP before DH leaves camping.
DelSol
08-13-2006, 07:51 AM
Thank you bella, looty & Chelsea524 for the birthday wishes.
bella ~ sorry AF is coming.
looty ~ sorry to hear about your Grandpa, you are in my thoughts & prayers. ((((hugs))))
Chelsea524 ~ Happy Birthday to DS! I need to clean too but it's because DH is having a client over on Tuesday.
Me ~
CD19 4DPO. My temp stayed up this morning. My tummy stills feels weird, it feels like I have been doing a ton of sit-ups and the muscles are sore. Maybe it is my mind playing tricks on me.
Yesterday was my sister's surprise bday party, she was really surprised. My niece was so cute, she's 2 and when it was time to sing happy birthday, my dad and I had to laugh because the look on her face you would have thought she thought it was her bday and we were singing to her. Her bday was in July and when we sang to her, she kept wanting us to sing to her again (according to her).
Sunshine
08-13-2006, 08:46 AM
Happy birthday, DelSol!
Bella~I'm sorry:( If it is AF I hope she comes and goes quickly so you can begin a new cycle...
looty~I am so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. (HUGS) If any month would be best for a BFP it would be this one. I'll be thinking of you:)
Chelsea~HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your little boy:D
I cant WAIT until Friday!!!!
DelSol~heehee, your neice sounds so cute!
I have read from a few people that feeling like you have done a million situps was a symptom! They found out they were pregnant that cycle! GOOD LUCK!
Nothing going on with me, no sore BB's, nothing.........
Gotta go, DH just woke up!
Enjoy the rest of the weekend everyone:D
bellabonga
08-13-2006, 02:07 PM
Happy birthday, Corbin! And gratulations to Chelsea on your gorgeous son! :)
looty, Iīm very sorry about your grandpa.
Chelsea, Iīm quite sure that AF will be here tomorrow or the day after.
I used a just-in-case tampon today and when I removed it, there was some brown blood. So Iīm quite sure that AF will be here soon. :(
Looty, <<hugs>> I will be thinking of your grandpa and your family. I hope you can get a bfp and bring good news!
Bella, I hope you are wrong and it is not AF... maybe implantation spotting.
Del Sol - Happy Birthday!
Chelsea - Wishing you lots of luck! Maybe the cramping is a very good sign?
<crossing fingerS>
ANyone heard from Mel? We've been putting lots of friendly hopeful pressure on her... I do hope she gets good news though!
Me... (counting those few hours of red as day 1) I'm on CD 11. We bd'd every other day since the brown stopped... so maybe this is good. My only worry is that my AF was so irregular so I am just really hoping that I am o'ing. We'll see. I am hopeful that this month and bding is working. It's been fun so far! Though lots of pressure on DH.
:o
I think my bbs are sore... so maybe O? We bd this afternoon, so I hope to do it again tomorrow night and catch that egg? Truth be told I have NO idea when I o, if at all, so I guess the more the better. Or at least every other day... that's what I'm going for since it's just more realistic for us.
melandtim
08-14-2006, 03:54 AM
Yup CD 2 for me, :mad: Started spotting Saturday and AF arrived yesterday . I am actually not as upset as I was last month. I had decided to not stress this month about it and I succeeded. I think last month I was so sure I was PG and I still think that I was that I was so disappointed when AF arrived. But thank god no gut wrenching cramps this month.
DH and I are both sick so hopefully we will be better in a few days and ready for a major BD fest this time. I am a woman on a mission this month :p
Bella - holding out that you have some good news!
Del Sol - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!
Chelsea - Happy Bday to your adorable son!!
FSUSammy
08-14-2006, 04:28 AM
Bella - Sorry about AF.
Looty - Sorry to hear about your grandpa.
Mel - Sorry about AF.
Me - I'm on CD 20 and my temps have not spiked at all. I had a dry up a few days ago and then yesterday I had creamy CM. What's weird is in the mornings when I wake up I feel super hot but my temps are not corresponding with that feeling. Also when you look at my charts you can see a very slow rise in temps. Very strange. Don't know if I did O or not. Guess its a wait and see.
Sam
bellabonga
08-14-2006, 05:03 AM
melg, have fun during your BD marathon! :)
melandtim, sorry about AF! :( I really thought this was it for you.
FSU, I have no clue about temps and CM, so I canīt be of any help.
Me: Still no AF and the internal spotting has become less instead of more so far. Iīm on an emotional rollercoaster - one moment Iīm sure that AF will be here today or tomorrow and the next Iīm tempted to go out and buy a HPT. I hope I wonīt get one today as itīs probably a waste of money and too early anyway. I called my internist today and at least everything is okay with my thyroid. I asked for a copy to be send to me but I remembered to ask for my TSH which was 1.45. This is good news as itīs supposed to be >2 to get pregnant. Iīll call my obgyn in the next hour to ask for the hormone check they did.
motray36
08-14-2006, 05:59 AM
Hi everyone!
My parents were in town this weekend so I've been mia - I'm going to skip SO's for now for the sake of time!
No UTI for me...but I do have my first ever YI...ewwe. So BDing is off for a bit, but I haven't O'd yet, so there's still a glimmer of hope.
Baby dust to all!!!
Tenny
08-14-2006, 06:56 AM
Bella I'm keeping my fingers crossed that AF stays away! Great news about the thyroid!
motray36 YI!!! So sorry, they suck!
melandtim Sorry AF came!
melg The every other day plan sounds like a good one to me!
DelSol I hope your temp stays up!!
looty So sorry to hear about your grandfather!
FSUSammy By looking at your chart, I'm not sure if you Oed yet either!
Nothing much going on here.
melandtim
08-14-2006, 07:21 AM
looty - I am so sorry about your grandpa. Keeping him in my prayers.
motray - YI are so horrible. Hope it clears up quickly for you.
Thanks Sammy, Bella and Tenny - we will try again next month :)
DelSol
08-14-2006, 07:21 AM
Sunshine ~ Thanks for the birthday wishes. My niece is cutie and stinker, she is showing her terrible 2's. Even DH commented to me Saturday night how he saw her bold streak coming out. She is very loud and kept screaming for my mom and everyone would tell her to stop screaming but of course she wouldn't listen. :rolleyes: I'm hoping my "feeling like I've done a million sit-ups" is a good sign. :D
melg ~ Thanks for the birthday wishes. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.
melandtim ~ sorry AF showed her ugly face but stay on your mission. Thanks for the birthday wishes.
FSUSammy ~ I hope it's not an annov cycle
bella ~ great news about the thyroid. Maybe this is implantation spotting, I'll keep everything crossed for you.
motray36 ~ sorry about the YI.
Tenny ~ I'm hoping they stay up too.
Me ~ not much going on, just waiting to test, I have 9 more days to go. We were BDing last night and he asks if this one goes towards making a baby? I said no that was last week, this one is for the fun of it. He said Oh. I think he was upset that we couldn't have the potential to make a baby last night. So I did say to him, that is why I wanted to BD on Thursday but you weren't in the mood. :p
I hope to be back later, I'm off for a phone meeting in a few mintues.
Enjoy the day ladies!
kiki61872
08-14-2006, 07:25 AM
good morning ladies.
just hanging out - 2ww now.
i might test saturday or sunday - even though it will still be early. i'm suddenly addicted to poas :)
i better be preggers. we sure did bd enough. i'm trying not to get all worked up but its hard. last month i was SOOO disappointed when AF showed and i dont want to feel like crap like i did last month so i'm trying to keep things in perspective.
Chelsea524
08-14-2006, 07:33 AM
Sorry AF showed Mel I hope thise next month is your month.
Bella I hope AF stays away, must have been implantation spotting;)
Sorry no time for more SO's just getting into a busy day of work.
Well, I have been feeling a little a little off yesterday and today, my stomic has been a bit upset, feeling like I am sea sick is the best way to describe it, sensitive BBs, not to sore, but sensitive and just really tired, oh boy, let the obsessing and FPS start!
looty
08-14-2006, 08:21 AM
Chelsea~Happy Birthday to your son! Sounds like you have some promising symptoms. I hope they aren't FPS but R(eal) PS!
Delsol~I too have head that having your stomach feel that way can be a pg symptom. I don't know who early it usually starts though. A big :p to your DH about the bd'ing.
Sunshine~I think that it would be a great to be able to share the news with everyone, especially if the more detailed reports come back bad. Let's hope that doesn't happen but I still will be able to share that news. Everyone is excited about my sister's pregnancy but since she is so far away I don't think that anyone feels that it's quite real yet.
Bella~I am happy that the results came back normal and that the spotting has stopped. Hopefully the good news will continue through your BFP!;)
Melg~The sore bb's may be a sign of O. I understand wanting to bd every other day because it is more realistic for you...same for us.
Mel~Sorry AF showed up, but I am glad that the cramps haven't been bad this month. It also seems like you are handling it pretty well this month. I hope if this isn't our month I am the same way.
FSUSammy~I am not too sure about the temps of the change in cm. I know some ladies here were talking about how they had creamy cm after O, but that doesn't help with the temps. I hope some answers become clear soon.
Motray~Ugh! I have YI! They are really no fun, but I much rather have one of those than a UTI!
Hey Tenny! It's not the best news about my g-pa but we only have the preliminary so we are holding out hope that it isn't too bad yet.
Kiki~I hope you aren't disappointed! If I am thinking of the right person you certainly did cover yourselves so... It is hard to not get too wrapped up in symptoms you may have and not get excited.
Thanks to everyone for your hugs and thought about my grandpa. We only have the preliminary report back that tells us he has leukemia but not which kind. They have said it isn't advanced yet and that they think it is a slow developing kind so that is some good news. Nothing else really going on here. I am just between 7 and 9 days into my 2ww. I think I will be waiting to test until either next weekend or the beginning of next week. I have a test in the house though and I usually have a harder time resisting if there is one here. So we shall see how long I can hold out!;)
melandtim
08-14-2006, 08:41 AM
good luck Chelsea and Kiki!
Looty - that sould like promising news about your grandpa. Hopefully it was caught quickly and can treat it My neighbor was given very dire predictins last fall when they found out she had liver cancer. They later found breast cancer as well and she is now 100% clear!!
BerBer
08-14-2006, 08:42 AM
just a quick drive by post...
I have been feeling sorta weird latly and had the worst YI I have ever experienced about 3 days after I o'd...arg so on top of worrying about being pg I get that...jeez when it rains it pours.
Yesterday I started to get some cramps that were pretty dull all day on and off. This morning they continued so AF might come a little early. It seems odd because I don't usually get cramps but... with all of our guest we have been eating out a lot more so it is prolly a combo of diet and AF or something because I feel sorta bloated too.
So I'm just waiting around for AF and if I don't get anything by Sunday... I am going to get an HPT. That will be 14 DPO, do you think that is late enough?
Baby Dust to all!!!!
Sunshine
08-14-2006, 09:32 AM
My CP is still high?!? On the high end of medium anyhow. Normally I mark high when I cant feel it, and I can Barely feel it.......Also, it seems as tho since I STOPPED drinking grapefruit juice I have TONS of CM............I barely had any drinking it and now all of a sudden I am almost swimming in it?!?! Not EWCM, just Creamy....
melandtim~ugh, I'm sorry AF showed:(
motray~ugh....a YI? yuck. Hope it goes away VERY SOON!
DelSol~You mean a 2 year old that Doesnt listen? Strange;) heehee!
Do you still feel "sit-up-y?" LMAO!
Chelsea~ugh, I HATE obssessing over FPS....I hope yours are real:)
So far, my BB's arent even sore yet. But it is starting....
looty~I cant wait to find out when you test:D
BerBer~14DPO is a good time to test:D
DelSol
08-14-2006, 11:37 AM
I forgot to mention this. I noticed over the weekend that my throat would get really dry when I was talking and I'd constantly need to have a drink in my hand. That normally happens when I take my allergy medicine because it dries me up so good but I haven't touched my allergy medicine since mid-July. I'm gonna have to read the pregnancy symptoms thread to see if this could be anything.
I just got back from lunch, my boss took me and the department out to lunch for my birthday.
Lanapoo
08-14-2006, 12:15 PM
Hello all!
Chelsea - Yay for O! Hope your DS's b-day celebration went well.
Squee - I hope this month is it for you!
Delsol - Isn't it funny how guys think they can get you pg at any time? I had to explain the whole thing to DH too.
Bella - I hope it was just implantation spotting.
Looty - I'm sorry about your gpa, glad to know that it was caught early and is hopefully a slow moving kind.
Melg - I think your current mode of TTC is a good one. Maybe DH and I will do the every other day thing this month. If we do it all through the month, hopefully we'll get lucky.
Melandtim - I'm sorry you got AF :(
FSUSammy - That's weird about your temps, could it be an anovulary cycle and that's why the slow temp rise and confusing CM?
Motray - Sorry about the YI, that must be totally crappy.
Sunshine - Maybe you haven't O'd yet? Lots of creamy CM and high CP seem like pre-O symptoms...
Nothing going on with me, just waiting for the last of AF to leave so we can get on with BDing. The baby shower went well, it was so fun to decorate and do crafty things. The mom to be has the cutest belly I swear! I want a baby bump too! ;)
FSUSammy
08-14-2006, 12:21 PM
Lana - I hope its not another anovulatory cycle. I'm tired of those!!!
bellabonga
08-14-2006, 12:32 PM
motray, sorry about the YI! Does your DH have to be treated as well?
Tenny, Delsol, Chelsea, looty, Lana - thank you for your good wishes but it seems as if itīs not meant to be this month.
Berber, 14DPO is fine to test. Your bloatedness could also be pg-related. ;)
Now Iīm really frustrated. Not only did I get a BFN some minutes ago but the results of my hormone check are also not good. :( You know I had a feeling the whole month that my cycle was somehow messed up as I never had the certain feeling that I ovulated. My obgyn said that most hormones were okay (I forgot which ones he mentioned as we only talked for maybe 1-2 minutes) but that my estrogen level in the first cycle half would have been too low. No idea how he knows that since the blood draw was on CD 20. But he said that because of the lack of estrogen the egg couldnīt ripe properly. So maybe that means that I didnīt O at all but Iīm not sure which is why I took the HPT. He said that he wanted me to take some tablets on CD 4-9(?) and I asked whether he was talking about Clomid. He was. Now I havenīt heard positive things only about Clomid and Iīm not particuarly keen to take it if it isnīt necessary. So I told him that I donīt think that this cycle is representative since I usually notice that I O in the middle of my cycle. Sadly I forgot to remind him that he saw a 21mm egg ready to jump on the ultrasound on CD 13 during the cycle before this one. I guess if he had checked the last information about me on the computer, he should have seen that himself but apparently he didnīt. But since I know that ovulation usually is no problem, I asked if we could repeat the test next cycle to see if this one was just messed up and the next one is okay again. He agreed to do that.
So now Iīm just waiting for AF to finally arrive and I will go back on next CD 21 for another hormone check. If it comes back with the same result, I probably will start with Clomid. Crap! After I knew that the m/c had nothing to do with the functions of my body, I was so convinced that everything was okay. And now that. I hope this cycle was only an exception. Maybe the grapefruit juice is to blame and did that in combination with the Vitex. ;) Speaking of Vitex, I totally forgot to tell him that I take it again and totally forgot to ask if this could influence the estrogen too and if I should continue to take it. But as you all know the saga of the unfriendly receptionists and the in-a-hurry-doctor, I wonīt call again to ask. So Iīll continue to take it and maybe Iīll ask the online obgyn on my German TTC board.
The internal spotting has now also stopped and so it doesnīt really seem as if AF would arrive tomorrow. My boobs are still sore (even after the BFN) and somehow there is still a tiny bit hope left since itīs only CD 26. Which is BS, considering that I probably didnīt O at all. And even if I did, this wouldnīt be a promising start for a pregnancy. So I hope AF turns up soon and when I get the next hormone results I will be on CD 28 but this time I hopefully will be pregnant! :D
FSUSammy
08-14-2006, 12:46 PM
Bella - Sorry for your saga with the hormones and all. Let me know what you find out about the vitex. This is my 3rd cycle on it and I'm not seeing any improvement. I'm thinking about taking Clomid too but not sure if I should next cycle. I know that I can't take Vitex and Clomid at the same time though.
Tenny
08-14-2006, 12:49 PM
Bella So sorry!! It seems like you are on such an emotional rollercoaster! I hope this cycle was just a fluke and next cycle is more normal. I'm still holding out hope for you that it is just too early that is why you got the BFN.
Sunshine
08-14-2006, 12:54 PM
Bella~I'm sorry:( Its great that your doctor is taking your request to wait for one more cycle.
I'm not sure whats going on with mine, if I am Oing late, or if GF juice just dried me up instead of gave me more CM. I hope it was just the Juice!
Chelsea524
08-14-2006, 03:54 PM
Ah, I just hit the wrong button on my keyboard and lost my whole post, I will try to rewrite it.
Bella, sorry about the frustrating results, I hope your next cycle is normal and you get a BFP
Lana, I hope AF leaves quick for you so you can move on to BDing and catching the egg
DelSol, they say thurst is a symptom, I hope thats true for you!
Sunshine, with your CP still high that could mean you have not yet O'd and are just about to, I would throw in an extra BD just in case
BerBer, 14 dpo should be plenty late enough to test, have you decided which result you are hoping for??
Nothing new since this morning, all FPS have left pretty much, BBs are still sensitive but not really sore, not feeling sick any more, but still tired, although that is normal for me. i have a total of 10 tests waiting for me at home, I need to really try to hold out, I'm on CD 25, if I can at least wait til friday it will be CD29, but I won't feel to bad if I test a little early, they had tests at the dollar store so I bought a weeks worth:p and then I have three first responce tests that I will save for last or until I see a faint line on the cheap ones.
katiems118
08-14-2006, 04:01 PM
Wow I have posted in awhile, lots of catching up to do!
BerBer-You have to test so that the rest of us have something to be excited about!!
Bella-I agree with Lanapoo I think it could be implantation spotting, you never know!
looty
08-14-2006, 04:11 PM
Mel~It is always nice to hear positive outcomes. Thanks!
Berber~Bloated could also be pg symptoms...if not since it sounds like you have been having stomach issues and have eaten out a lot it may be bowel related. I hope it's a pg symptom! 14 DPO should be good!
Sunshine~Have you had any other signs of O'ing? It sounds like you may have O'ed recently since you had some EWCM and now your CP is coming down from being high.
Delsol~From what I heard a dry mouth and being more thirsty can be a og symptom. Just to fuel the fire.:p
Lana~Glad that the shower went well. I want a baby bump too. I don't remember who it is but someone has my "bump, my bump, my lovely baby bump" in their signature. I always laugh at it and think that I want to be able to sing that song!
Bella~Sorry that you didn't get the results that you wanted either time. I hope that you are right and this cycle is just a fluke. That is really great that the dr was willing to let you check again next month.
FSUSammy~I hope that you are able to figure out what is going on your your O. Sorry to hear that the Vitex isn't working.
Hey Tenny! How are things going with you?
Chelsea~Cheap tests are the way to go if you are a chronic early tester (or want to be one). Sounds like you are ready to go. I hope s BFP comes up an each and every one of those by the end of the week!
Nothing new here, but I just wanted to share this because I thought it was funny. We just got a statement in the mail from my insurance. It said the dr billed them $567 for the HSG and they allowed $30! Hahahahahaha! I have always seen that there are negotiated prices for in network drs but have never seen that much of a discrepancy. I thought that was hilarious! Dh was worried we would have to pay the rest and I told him they aren't allowed to bill us the difference. Then he saw the humor!:D
Lanapoo
08-14-2006, 04:22 PM
Looty that is hilarious! I want to sing the baby bump song too :D
Thanks Chelsea! I feel for you on trying not to test, it's SO hard to wait this last week isn't it?
That is such a bummer about the test results Bella, I'm hoping the Dr was wrong. I think you're smart to wait on the Clomid and give your body a chance to work on it's own.
DelSol
08-14-2006, 04:34 PM
I will do SO later on or tomorrow, need to finish up cleaning before tomorrow.
Quick Question:
Can I take Motrin? I have a killer headache brewing and I'm wondering if I can take anything?
TIA!
looty
08-14-2006, 05:37 PM
Delsol~I wouldn't worry about taking Mortin. I used to worry about that stuff, but I dont' since I heard that the baby isn't really hooked up until after you could get a BFP. Take care of your headache!
Lana~I know wouldn't that be a great song to be sing!:D
It was weird...I had a sore throat earlier and about an hour ago I started to feel feverish. I do have a low grade fever and just feel yuck. It is just so strange to think that even a few hours I felt totally fine (aside from the sore throat). I am going to lay down until DH serves me dinner on the couch. ;)
Ericka_Jarett
08-14-2006, 05:39 PM
DelSol - looty is correct. It takes a while if you are pregnant for the baby to even start using the placenta for anything. Since your not pregnant that you know of yet, you can do just as you usually do, better not to suffer for a what if, that can just make things worse for you
Sunshine
08-14-2006, 07:46 PM
Chelsea~You read my mind....Dad wasnt home yet after we both got off work, so we used the time wisely;)
I cant believe you have 10 tests at home! I would be testing every day!
I havent bought any HPT since cycle 1 ended in a BFN:p Can you believe that? I really cant!
looty~I had watery, not quite EWCM-y from day 8-13ish...I had an ovulation type pain on the 13th. And then I went sticky, to now creamy on day 17 and 18?!?
Oh, and also on day 10-13 I couldnt reach my cervix. So I thought I O'd on day 13:confused:
OMG about the insurance statement!
We BD'd!!!! Just in case;) Thats my only update! LMAO!:D
melandtim
08-15-2006, 03:52 AM
I hope we can all sing the baby bump song soon!
bella - sorry for the confusing results. Hopefully your doctor is wrong and you are pg, keeping my fingers crossed.
looty - I hope you aren't getting what I have. Mine started with a sore throat and its been a week and I am still sick. I barely have any voice at all and I feel miserable.
Nothing new to update on. AF still here and cramps are pretty bad today further compounded by being sick :( Haven't gotten the results of my bloodwork yet. And without a voice can't call in to get them :(
Happy Tuesday to all!!!
FSUSammy
08-15-2006, 04:34 AM
Chelsea - Wow 10 test!!! That's a lot. I don't even have 1 yet LOL
Looty - That is hilarious about the insurance statement. It's funny yet sad at the same time to see how much insurance companies screw doctors.
Sunshine - Your cycle is starting to sound a lot like mine. Where you thought you O'd and now your CM is soooo not corresponding with that.
Me - I'm on CD 21 today and my temps have Dropped drastically. It could be because my comforter somehow wasn't on me, but I don't know. I had very creamy CM yesterday, more on the lotiony-side too. I'm going to wait and see what kind of CM I have today and depending on that I might test with an OPK. The problem is right now is not the best time for us to BD just because DH hurt his back over the weekend when we attempted to do WAY too much landscaping at our home. I don't want to hurt him more by BDing KWIM?
motray36
08-15-2006, 06:07 AM
kiki - hoping for a BFP for you!
DelSol - What a cute comment from DH about if that BD "counts" :p
looty - I would much rather have this YI than a UTI...I am semi-prone to UTI's, and I think it really is the worst thing ever, at least in terms of short-term illness. I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa, know that he is in my thoughts and prayers. I was so tempted the other day to buy some HPT's that were on sale...I kept telling my self to have self control!! I hope you feel better soon!
BerBer - I hear you about the "when it rains it pours." I seriously need to get out an umbrella :(
Bella - DH doesnt have any symptoms, I think I got it after we BD'd. But, I told him to keep watch for anything that might be weird. I hope your hormonal issues work out for the best, and I totally agree with your decision to hold off on the Clomid for the time being. I really don't like to over-medicate myself or be on medication that I don't really need. Hopefully your body will be able to adjust itself.
melandtim - Again with the "when it rains it pours!" I hope you feel better soon!!
Chelsea - there is no way I could have 10 tests in the house...I would take 3 a day because I have no restraint!!
Sam - there must be ways to BD that won't hurt his back ;) .
me - CD22, temp jump this morning...I may have woken up 1/2 hour before I usually temp, which typically makes my temp higher, but I might have been dreaming that I woke up...not sure. I guess we'll see what the next few days have to bring!
Tenny
08-15-2006, 06:33 AM
You ladies move fast here!!
looty I have been feeling the same way...sore throat and feverish! I have had a never ending cold for 2 weeks now. It goes away and then comes back!
FSUSammy I hope your DH's back feels better that way you can DTD!
melandtim Seems like that type of cold is going around! My throat is killing me too! I hope you feel better soon!
Nothing much going on here. I think I'm on CD8 (even though I don't want to keep track...grrrr). I feel like crap because I have this never ending cold!! I usually O around CD14 so I guess we should gear up for action. We have been practicing so that is nice. Trying not to obesses!!!
Chelsea524
08-15-2006, 06:35 AM
The ten test thing is kind of funny, I was at the store and decided to buy a package of test to have on hand (a pack of 3) then I decided if those we in the house there was no way I would wait long enough to test so I went to the dollar store and picked up some cheap ones there. I know I have no self control so I needed to make sure I didn't waist the expensive ones:p
Nothing new ere, no real symptoms at the moment, just waiting to test, even with the 10 tests I have been able to hold back, I will probably start on friday.
melandtim
08-15-2006, 06:52 AM
Thanks Tenny and Motray! I hope my cold/whatever this is doesn't last as long as yours Motray. Hope you are feeling better as well.
Chelsea - you are showing a lot of restraint! So far I have yet to test. Of course AF has been showing up like clock work or like this month a few days early so I haven't been tempted :p
BerBer
08-15-2006, 07:05 AM
So DH and had a talk last night about TTC and our little opps this month. He said that he thought we are ready and if we have to push our trip to Europe back a few months that isn't a problem. And that people in Europe get around just fine with their babies so he doesn't think it will be a problem for us.:p He seemed almost excited about the whole idea. I think of the two of us I am the most scared but, I know we will be fine.
I really don't think I am pg but, I feel so much better now after our talk. My cramps are gone and I just feel nomal... I sorta hope that we get to have a turn at TTC for real! Sounds like fun!:D I think we will even move our TTC date up if I'm not this time around! lol you girls were right!:cool:
Gosh this waiting is killing me!
Happy Baby Making Ladies!
DelSol
08-15-2006, 08:01 AM
Let's see if I get these shoutouts done fast so I can get some work done :D
Kiki61872 ~ keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Chelease524 ~ hopefully your symptoms arent FPS, fingers crossed. I hope my symptoms are true. 10 tests! I have none!
looty ~ lets hope its a PG symptom for me. Its not too much now just having some fluttering/bubbles in the tummy but not much pain. Thats great Grandpas leukemia isnt advanced, they can catch it early on. Looks like well be testing around the same time. Just add more fuel for me! I keep trying not to read into it but I cant help myself.
BerBer ~ fingers crossed & good luck to you.
Sunshine ~ I can only hope shed listen to us. Not feeling it too much but it comes & goes. I have some fluttering/bubbles in the tummy now. :D BDing.
Lanapoo ~ I know Ill have to explain it to DH if he werent successful. I hope AF leaves you soon.
Bella ~ :( I hope next cycle if better for your.
FSUSammy ~ hope DH's back gets better. Back pain sucks, I deal with it every now and then. Sorry about your temp drop.
Thanks looty & Ericka, I did breakdown and take 2 Motrin. I felt better by the time I went to bed.
motray36 ~ my silly DH, poor boys needs the fertile cycle explained to him. :p That's good about the temp jump, I had another temp jump this morning. I keep saying go up and stay up!
MelandTim ~ I hope you feel better.
Me ~ CD21 6DPO. Not much going on. I'll be testing on CD28, which will be 8/22. AF usually arrives around then. Could I test earlier?
Sunshine
08-15-2006, 08:29 AM
Not much to say............:p
BB's still dont hurt, YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY:)
I think the bcp are Finally out of my system:D
dancn226
08-15-2006, 09:53 AM
Hi everyone, its been a while. Long weekend...My DH's b'day was yesterday, so we had a long weekend filled with lots of activites. I am on CD25. No symptons as of yet at all. Just kind of going with stuff. I will admit I am very tired, but that is an all the time kind of thing.
Looty~ Sorry to here about your grandfather, I will pray for you.
Hi to everyone else! Just carious, if anyone else around CD 25 is goign to test!? Not to sure if its to early or not?! But I am very carious because my DH and I have never had such a Bd'ing marathon like this. SO I am hoping for the best here. I am going to start wondering if it doesn't work out this time. Hope all is well for everyone else!!!!
looty
08-15-2006, 10:01 AM
I am still feeling a litte under the weather today so I just wanted to check in and say that I am reading along but probably won't be posting or doing so's today.
dancn226
08-15-2006, 10:22 AM
Wow, looty you and I are right by each other. Sorry to here you feel under the weather today. I am just angered. I teach dance and when I do our dance recitals, I have someone DVD them for me, so the students can buy them. WEll, I am waiting for this dvd to be done and it has YET to be done, and the show was in May, I am so pissed off, this man is really getting under my skin, he won't even answer my freakin phone calls. I am getting very pissed off!!!!!! So I am totally stressed today, which is making me very MAD!!!!!!! Just tell me what the he is going on!~~~~
Chelsea524
08-15-2006, 11:34 AM
Dancn, I'm on CD 26, I will be testing on Friday I think, although I think I O'd a couple days late so I will probably get a BFN and have to test again nect week. Just hoping to get a BFP on DHs Bday and before he leaves camping for a week and a half. When are you testing?
dancn226
08-15-2006, 12:38 PM
Wow, that is such a great idea. I am not to sure when to test. I would say taht I o'd around the 8th, so I am not to sure what i would get. Part of me wants to test just to see, but then the other part doesn't want to waste the $ if its going to be negitive!! I am prettty negitive like that:rolleyes: Anyhow, we are right around the same cycle to..That is awesome. Lets pray we get a bfp this month. I dont' know about you, but that would totally make my hubby's day!!!!! Go for the testing for the b'day, i mean how cool of a b day present would that be. To bad my DH's b'day was just yesterday, and I know it would have been way to early for that. GOOOOOD luck with that. I am praying for you. What an AWESOME present!!!!:cool:
FSUSammy
08-15-2006, 01:07 PM
Hey ladies. I just got back from the gastroenterologist regarding the acid reflux I've had for 2 weeks now. The doctor asked me if there was a chance that I was PG and I told him that I was pretty sure that I wasn't. :(
He wants me to try Nexium and wants to do an endoscopy. My endoscopy isn't scheduled until Sept. 8th and I asked him if he wanted me to avoid getting PG until this is all resolved and he said yes. :( :( :(
So I guess I'll stay on this thread cheering the rest of you on for some BFPs while I wait to get this all resolved. Hopefully I'll get the all clear to resume TTC after the endoscopy.
Sam
Sunshine
08-15-2006, 01:17 PM
I'm so sorry FSUSammy:( And I know all about acid reflux, DH has it and had to go through all of that testing too:( I hope it goes by quickly and smoothly for you and you get to the bottom of it:(
HUGS
dancn226
08-15-2006, 01:24 PM
Oh FUSSammy, I am so sorry about all that. That is not a good thing at all.
HUGS.......................
DelSol
08-15-2006, 03:34 PM
FSUSammy ~ sorry to hear the news about your acid reflux. I hope the doctor can take care of it. We are happy to have you cheer us on.
looty
08-15-2006, 04:02 PM
FSU~Sorry to hear the news about having to put TTC on hold. I hope they are able to figure things out quickly so you can jump back in the game. Thanks for sticking around ot cheer us on though. :)
Dancn and Chelsea~It's always cool to have someone around the same time as you. I have a longer cycle though so I am not planning on testing until Sunday or the beginning of next week! Probably more like the beginning of next week becuase I hate seeing that - test (although I say that now and I already said I will have a hard time resisting the test sittingin my bathroom).:p
Hi all.
FSUSammy, I'm so sorry about holding on TTC. Practice may make perfect though?! I really hope that you get it figured out and start to feel better. In reality (and according to my Dr) feeling better and not being stressed about it will help your chances of conceiving. So... here's hoping it is figured out soon.
If my cycle is anywhere close to normal and counting the 6 hours of red as CD1 :confused: I'm on cd 12 I think. So... Bd marathon. We Bd'd Sunday and last night. Tonight is the night off, and back on tomorrow. We are aiming for every other dya, but last night we took advantage of being not too tired and got one in so we could rest tonight :)
Almost mid month - can't believe no BFPs yet... but there are still so many of us who are not ready to test yet. Crossing fingers for lots coming up. And of course I would LOVE to be a graduate!!
DH is into this now too, and really wants to bd every other night....
I hope it does the trick!
bellabonga
08-16-2006, 04:45 AM
melandtim, I hope youīll feel better soon! And I hope youīll get your results soon as well. Have you tried Cold Eeze against your hoarseness? This has helped me very much last year and was the only thing I could find that said it was against hoarseness.
Sam, Iīm so sorry that you have to take a break from TTC. :( I know how hard it was for me to wait six weeks after the m/c. But acid reflux is no fun and as it is something you have badly anyway during a pregnancy, itīs probably better to get something done now.
motray, men donīt have to have any symptoms and can still (re)infect you. I have only had this once and I got it from my then-boyfriend who still carried this around with him from his ex-girlfriend. Yuck! :eek: So to be on the safe side, I think your DH should use your cream too or get something prescribed by your doctor. Better safe than sorry.
Tenny, I hope you feel better soon. Have you tried Cold Eeze? This has helped me very well with my last cold. Although I bought the cheaper Target brand Cold Eeze. Have fun with the BD!
Chelsea, I have to stock up in the Dollar Store when Iīm in the USA next month. Here the cheapest HPT is $4, Clearblue is more like $9-10. So I donīt test that often simply because I think they are too expensive. But with cheap tests like that, I guess I would test every day from 10DPO on. :D Good luck, I really hope youīll be our first BFP!
BerBer, since I live in Germany, I can reassure you that taking a baby here isnīt dangerous at all. :D Depending on when you want to fly, you donīt have to delay your trip at all. We went to Florida for our honeymoon when I was 20-22 weeks without a problem.
Delsol, there are HPTs that can be used from 10DPO on. Good luck!
Sunshine, yay for the BCP being out of your system!
dancn, good luck testing! :)
looty, I hope youīll feel better soon! Maybe itīs not the weather but a pregnancy...
melg, good luck with your BD marathon and have fun! :D
Me: Mid-morning CD 28 out of a sudden became CD 1. So despite my still sore bbs, I know I can safe the money for a test. Although I have no clue why my bbs feel this way. For those of you who have already had a child, they feel the way they did when I had the first pre-milk around 21 weeks. Which is weird since I would have been 22 or 23 weeks with Olivia right now. So much for FPS. Yesterday night something weird was going on with my ovaries but starting AF today makes it quite unrealistic to have Oīd on CD 27. So I have no clue what my body is up to. I have also wondered if this might be an early ectopic and my ovary is bursting soon. So if this weird boob feeling continues two more days, I will take another test to rule out an ectopic.
melandtim
08-16-2006, 04:56 AM
FSUSammy - Sorry to hear about acid reflux and having to put TTC on hold. Hopefully your doctor can figure out what's wrong quickly and you can get back to TTC!
Bella - Sorry about AF, just wasn't either of our months :(
Wow we have a # of people getting ready to test in the next week. Good luck and Baby Dust to all!!!
I'm on CD4 - AF is pretty much done so just waiting for our BD fest to begin. I warned poor DH that I am a woman on a mission this month and he better be saving up his strength :p I finally am starting to feel better and actually have somewhat of a voice today. Unfortunately I am in meetings all day starting in an hour so no time to call the doctor's office today :(
kiki61872
08-16-2006, 05:34 AM
hi ladies
i need some help and who else better to go to???
can you guys peek at my chart?
warning - might be TMI for some...
the past 3 days i have had spotting - i have a pantyliner on just case but none has made its way on to it. its when i wipe i have mostly brown blood or pink. yesterday i had a tiny red in it. last nite it stopped. this morning i have more pinkish brownish - but again only when i wipe.
now to me - this sounds like it could be implanation spotting - except for a few things - first my temps are tumbling down. this morning it was 97.7 which is what my coverline is.
also - i also suffer from a short LP. which is why i'm thinking this is probably my period?
my periods are always really light - but its always red and mucousy.
not brown and pinkish like this.
unless later on today it turns into a period???
usually when i get AF the day my temps drop i spot and then either later on that day i get AF or the next morning.
i usually dont spot for 3 days!
is this AF? should i change to CD1?? i'm thinking its this way just because its sooo early.
what do you guys think?
motray36
08-16-2006, 06:06 AM
Tenny - hope you are feeling better today!
Sunshine - Yay to BCP being out of your system!! It really does feel good to be artifical hormone free!
looty - hope you're feeling better as well :(
Sam - I'm so sorry that you have to hold off on TTC....hopefully the GI stuff will clear up.
bella - thanks - I will be calling my doc this afternoon!!!! I'm so sorry about AF...I hope you can figure out what your body is doing!
kiki - I'd keep it as spotting for now and see what happens to your temps tomorrow.
me - I may have O'd, but because of my stupid "illness" we haven't BD'd for about a week...so unless we've got some powerful swimmers, I'm more than likely out of the running this month. I guess we'll wait and see!
Chelsea524
08-16-2006, 07:18 AM
motray, It does look like you probably O'd, sorry you weren't able to BD more this month
kiki, I would keep it as spotting to, hopefully it is implantation spotting with an implantation dip, have you talked to your dr about your short LP? You may want to get on some progesterone to lengthen that.
Mel, I hope AF packs her bags quick and you guys get plenty of BDing in this month to catch that egg
Bella Thanks! Sorry AF showed, I was really hoping you would get your BFP. They do have some really cheap tests on ebay you can buy as well, I think they have packs of 10 for $5 or combo packs with opks and hpts really cheap.
Sammy, That is to bad, I am sorry you have to take a break this month, but I agree with the others, acid reflux is already bad enough during pregnancy, if you have it bad right now you definitly want to get that fixed first.
Melg good luck catching the egg!!
looty I am probably going to be testing with you as well, I am expecting a BFN on Friday because I know it will be early, I think I O'd on cd 19-20, just hoping I can get an early BFP for DH
Well, it looks like we have quite a few testers coming up, and also a lot of sick women on here, I also have a cold but its not to bad, I've been taking extra vitamin C, staying away from cold meds just in case, if it gets to bad I'm sure I will take something.
No FPS to report right now, nothing new or exciting, just waiting to test, I was actually planning on being bad and test with a cheap test this morning but forgot, and I can't test tomorrow because I have to work, and if I got a BFP I wouldn't be able to get any work done so I guess I am forced to wait til friday.
Tenny
08-16-2006, 07:25 AM
Chelsea524 I think I might have to go to the Dollar Store and stock up. I never knew they sold pg there. Last time I was TTC I bought a bunch off the internet. I was peeing on a stick almost every other day just because I could!
dancn226 I hope you get a BFP for your birthday!
FSUSammy I'm so sorry you have to put TTC on hold.
melg Hope you can catch that egg!!
bellabonga I really hope it isn't an early ectopic. Really weird about how your BBs feel. I hope you get some answers soon! I think I may have to go out and get some Cold Eeze, thanks!
melandtim Let the BD fest begin!! Glad you are feeling better today. I'm still not feeling too great!
kiki61872 I think I agree with motray36 and would keep it as spotting for now and then see what later today and tomorrows brings.
motray36 Sorry your illness kept you from DTD. I'm afraid the same thing may happen to me. I need this cold to go away!!
Well nothing new going on here. I'm still feeling under the weather and I hope this cold goes away soon!
kiki61872
08-16-2006, 07:36 AM
[QUOTE=Chelsea524;921582]
kiki, I would keep it as spotting to, hopefully it is implantation spotting with an implantation dip, have you talked to your dr about your short LP? You may want to get on some progesterone to lengthen that. [QUOTE]
i keep hoping that its implantation but trying not to get my hopes up. in reality it more than likly will be AF!!! eeer.
i actually have a dr appt in early september for a 'fertility consultation' and that is one of the thing to be discussed.
DelSol
08-16-2006, 07:42 AM
cross posted from Charting...
Quick post, I was sitting traffic for a long time so I need to cool off because I'm ticked off about it, not that it could be helped.
Sorry to hear about AF showing for those that she did.
Good Luck to those testing soon.
I have another good temp so it's looking good. If AF is too arrive my temps take a dive around 10 DPO - 12DPO and then she arrives shortly there after. Guess I need to see what happens on 10DPO.
Hopefully I can get back later on but it's looking to be a busy day now. Grr and I need to get my bills paid too.
looty
08-16-2006, 07:42 AM
Sunshine~I am not sure about when you O'ed. If you can ususally tell by the O pains then I would just go with that. Some ladies do have creamy cm after O, but it sounds like you covered yourselves either way. :)
Mel~Sorry to hear that you have been sick too. I am glad that you are starting to feel better today. Hopefully you will be able to squeeze a call to the dr in between meetings.
FSUSammy~Again, I am sorry to hear that you have to put TTC on hold. As far as the insurance screwing the drs. I agree in a lot of cases but I do know that drs also hike the prices up for insurance companies since they know they pay so little of that.
Motray~Thanks for the thoughts on my grandpa. I am sorry to hear that you have been sick and that may have made you miss your opportunity this month. I hope not though! Wouldn'tit make your DH puff his chest out if you were pg this month?:p
Tenny~Sorry to hear that you have been sick too. Ihate those never ending colds. I had a pretty much non-stop one all last winter due to constantly passing it around at school. The joys of being a first year teacher. I hope you feel better soon. At least it isn't keeping you from bd'ing!
Chelsea~I hope that you are our first BFP! I haven't heard anyone else testing before Friday so you could be the start of our lucky string. Crossing fingers!
Dancn~The dvd situation would make me upset too. How rude! If you think you O'ed on the 8th I would say the earliest I would test if I was impatient would be Sunday or Monday. If I was feeling I could wait, I would wait until Wednesday. It is so hard to wait though. I am like you, I always go back and forth. I want to test so I know. I don't want to test because if it's negative it will be upsetting and a waste of money. Lather, rinse, repeat. :p
Delsol~I hope we both get a BFP together! I guess you could test a day or two earlier but if you can hold out until the day AF is due, I would. I am strange like that though. I just hate seeing a BFN on a test and if I test early then I just tak myself into thinking that it was too early! ;)
melg~I can't believe that we haven't had any BFP yet either. There are a lot of people testing soon so hopefully that means they will all get BFPs! Good luck with your bd'ing marathon!
Bella~Sorry about Af. Are you having pain that makes you think you are having an etopic pregnancy? I hope you are right that the illness is pg related but I doubt it.
Kiki~I agree that I would keep it as spotting. CD 1 is supposed to be first red blood but I wouldn't count one red spot as red. It is really early too, but I looked at the previous cycle and you only had an LP of 9 days. If that continues, you should go see your doctor because it could mean that your progesterone is too low to sustain a pregnancy. Not to scare you but just FYI.
I am feeling better today. I still have some congestion issues but no fever so I much better. This cycle has been so weird. I have been having a lot of off and on cramping. It isn't bad but enough to notice it and wonder what they heck it is. I am hoping this weekend is the beginning of a long stretch of BFPs!
Sunshine
08-16-2006, 07:55 AM
Bella~I am so so sorry....:( I hope that the feeling in your BB's goes away! Best of luck to you this cycle!!!!
melandtim~YAY that AF is almost gone! Good luck this cycle!
So funny what you said to DH! I said the same thing to mine last night, that if this cycle isnt it, he is giving it up whenever I wanted it! LMAO!
kiki~I hope it is implantation spotting for you! But I really have no clue about temps and charting temps, Sorry...
motray36~I am hoping that is what it means:D This is cycle 4, so it could very well have taken that long!
I hope the swimmers were exceptionally strong this cycle!!!
Chelsea~ugh, I am sick too. Well, I had a runny nose yesterday, and woke up with the sniffles today:( ugh.....I hope you feel better soon!
And I cant wait until Friday!!!! Good Luck!
Tenny~I hope you feel better soon! I woke up with the sniffles this morning too:(
DelSol~I hope your temps keep rising:D
looty~I HOPE SO!
I hope you are right, I hope this weekend is the beginning of MANY BFP's!!!!!!!!!
Hope you feel better soon!
Well, I woke up with the sniffles:( Nothing major, but its enough to make me sound funny when I am answering the phone....LOL!
Good luck to all the testers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
looty
08-16-2006, 07:58 AM
Crossposted with kiki. Glad that you have a dr appointment. I figured you knew that already but I wanted to make sure to mention it. I hope it's an implantation dip too. Crossing my fingers for you!
looty
08-16-2006, 08:04 AM
Sunshine~I hope you aren't starting to get the cold that so many of us have around here.
Wanted to add this strange dream I had a couple nights ago. I dreamed that I had a little baby girl. I was in the car trying to take her somewhere and I kept hitting the cars behind me and in front of me everytime I tried to pull out. I just couldn't stop the car in time. Plus I didn't have the baby in the carseat, just laying in the front seat. When I got frustrated and parked, I realized I hadn't fed the baby in 2 days! :eek: I woke up after that laughing at myself. I always have weird dreams but that is one of the weirdest I have had in a while. The past few nights I have been having some doosies.
kiki61872
08-16-2006, 08:15 AM
looty
thats a funny dream.
dreams are strange arent they?
what do i do if my temp dips below coverline over the next few days but still no red blood and just spotting?
what if this is a super light period???
(why am i obessive by nature????????)
RobynScott
08-16-2006, 08:19 AM
Hey all,
I'm back from the beautiful Caribbean! Other than AF showing up (and with her, my very hormonal / PMS-type not nice self) - the trip was amazing!
Hard to be back and already swamped at work - haven't had a chance to read the thread yet but I will so I can go back and reply.
I really appreciate all of the support I got before I left - hope to catch up later and SO to all.
Good luck to everyone testing soon / waiting / getting ready to BD!
Sunshine
08-16-2006, 08:24 AM
RobynScott~Welcome back!
looty~I am hoping it is just allergies! LMAO!
SUCH a funny dream! I have strange dreams all the time too, altho I never dreampt about my wedding, and so far, no baby dreams....:(
melandtim
08-16-2006, 08:50 AM
welcome back robynscott!
Maybe we are all passing our sickness to each other via the computer :p
looty - glad you are feeling better
kiki - my cycle does the same thing and it is so annoying. Some months I spot for a couple days then it stops for a couple then starts again. Very frustrating
sunshine - at least my DH laughed when I said it. He was totally up for the challenge :D
dancn226
08-16-2006, 11:15 AM
Looty~I am in total agreement with you on that whole thing!!! You test, you get a negitive its like all hope is off, so I like to at least in my head assuem that I am, until toher wise proven wrong right :0) Anyhow, the DVD situation is getting better, they are supposely done. So I am pretty happy about that. Can't wait to be done with that situation.
Anyhow, lastnight, I had the weiredest dream ever. I had this dream that I was freezing, like it was Christmas and I was out in teh snow. It was so bazarre. Anyhow in this dream, my feet started to hurt really bad, and I flipped my foot around, and found that I step on a razor blade, you know one of the ones you cut carpet with. Anyhow, it was so bazarre. I mean I have heard some say that there Preg. Sysmtoms were werid dream, boy let me tell you hopeuflly that would be one!!! It was way to werid. Anyhow, hope all is going good for everyone. Today is such a crazy day at work. I had to take some time out to just breath. So I am posting to Say HIII To everyone!!! :0)
looty
08-16-2006, 11:46 AM
Kiki~Dreams are so strange. Supposedly they have meaning to your waking life but other than feeling like I have no control over actually having a baby (hense the not being able to stop the car) I have no idea what it could mean. If it doesn't turn red in the next few days I would test and see if you are pg. Maybe you can join us testers this weekend. I think that even if you are not obsessive by nature it is hard to not get that way about TTC.
Hey Robyn! Welcome back from your trip. I hate the part of going on vacation that involves coming back to work with a pile on your desk. Sorry to ehar that AF showed but thanks for cheering us on still. (I actually forgot that you went out of town for a little while and went searching to find out whey you weren't around. Then I hit a post talking about you leaving and it hit me. Duh!)
Sunshine~ I hope it is just allergies for you too! I never had any wedding dreams that I remember but I have had a couple baby dreams (not usually pleasant ones either).
Hey Mel! Glad to see that your DH is up for the challenge.
Dancn~That is good that the DVD issue is getting worked out. Taking that long is razy! Ever since I was a kid I have always had very realistice strange dreams, so I can't really count it as a pg symptom, but I will for you!;)
Lanapoo
08-16-2006, 11:48 AM
Hello All!
Welcome back RobynScott! Sounds like you had a great time.
Well, it's CD7 and I'm determined to catch the egg this month. So I better be getting some BD action at least every other day until after O ;) . So the BD Fest began this morning (making me late to work :o ).
dancn226
08-16-2006, 12:08 PM
Oh Looty, thanks for hoping its one for me. I am desprate and drawing at antyhing right now. I dont' have any symptons at all. So I am thinking that is n ot a good thing!! But whatever, I will believe whatever I so choose!!1 :0)
Lanapoo, glad to here that the b'ding fest is going. Hopeuflly you catch that egg this time. I just can't tell you how werid it is that is so hard to catcht that egg when you are ready. I have always worried my whole life about having accidents, now its like damn it, can we please have an accident, or better yet a planned accident. What is up with that. Isn't it so annoying!!!
Lanapoo
08-16-2006, 12:33 PM
LOL Dancn, you are too right. I remember all the times I accidently skipped a pill or two and being SO freaking paranoid that I was pg! And here I am on my 5th cycle of ttc :rolleyes: .
Sunshine
08-16-2006, 02:02 PM
Wishful thinking that it was allergies I had. I have a full blown head cold now:(
I cant stop sneezing and I have gone through an entore box of Kleenex today:(
I wanna go hooooooooome:(
Goodnight everyone!
looty
08-16-2006, 03:40 PM
Lana~I love me some morning bd'ing but that very rarely happens during the week during the school year because I would always be late and it would be hard to explain to my principal that I had to get that quicky in.:p I hope your bd'ing fest works for you this cycle!
Dancn~A lot of ladies don't have any symptoms before (or even for a while after) the BFP, so don't count yourself out yet. I don't really have any either, except I am more crampy right now than I usually am. Other than that nothing out of the ordinary.
Sunshine~Sorry you have caught the cold. :( Go home and have your DH take care of you!
Maybe Mel is right and we are all passing it around from the computer. We share practically everything else. :p I can't believe how mnay people have colds right now. I hope everyone feels better soon!
FSUSammy
08-16-2006, 03:56 PM
Hey ladies. I posted this on the TTC thread since I go on there too. But I figured that I can't let you ladies down since you guys are sooooo awesome. So I figured I'd repost it here too.
I was inputting today's temp into Ovusoft and decided to look back at my previous chart from my last cycle. What I remembered as being odd when I got AF was that my temp didn't drop when she came, like it normally would for me. And what's even odder is the fact that my temps haven't gone as low as they usually would pre-O. I opened up TCOYF and read an interesting article in the Maximizing Your Chances of Getting Pregnant sectoin (specifically on page 157 of my book) It's about a woman that thought she got AF but her temperature didn't drop as they should by the end of AF. Turned out by CD 13 (of this "new" cycle) she decided to test because her temps were still above the CL, well turns out she got a BFP.
Hmmmm I know this is a long shot but I'm seriously going to run out and buy some tests, because maybe that's why I've been having my acid reflux (that I've never had before).
Anyone want to take a look at my Ovusoft (Oral) chart to see what I'm talking about?
Update: I ran out to CVS and I bought a pack of HPTs. I'll be taking it in the morning and I'll post the results when I get to work at 7am.
Sam
DelSol
08-16-2006, 05:05 PM
cross-posted from charting
After sitting in traffic, my day got worse or at least I thought it did. I am just in a real pissy mood and could bit someone's head off but I trying to remain clam and then I get upset because I am thinking these thoughts plus I have pain around my rib cage. I have someone out on disability, works in our NY office and is suppose to also be getting NY Statutory disability well she isn't. I called our carrier, got transferred to the correct person, left 2 messages and followed up with an email to this person, she has not return any of my calls or email. I also called her periodically through out the day. I finally call an 800# talk to her case manager, who was really nice and knew his stuff and he told me my company didn't have the NY statutory disability and I said but we do, I have a packet here with all the information and thanking us that we choose them. He said something must have gotten messed up and that I should call my benefit broker and have them call the sales person so get it straightened out because he's getting paid a commission and we don't have the benefit.
So I am in a bad mood and hoping tomorrow is better because I will be in my Baltimore office all day.
FSUSammy ~ good luck testing. fingers crossed that it will be good news.
Sorry for the lack of shout-outs, it's my crummy mood (I hope this isn't a sign AF is coming but it's still too early). No sickness for me, knock on wood. Mine is allergies, they said on the news ragweed bloomed early.
Tenny
08-16-2006, 05:28 PM
FSUSammy I wonder?!?!? I looked at your chart and it seems really promising! But of course I don't think I can wait until tomorrow for you to test!!:D
DelSol Sorry you are in a bad mood! I hope tomorrow is a better day for you!
Sunshine Sorry you got our cold! I hope you feel better soon!
dancn226 and looty Weird dreams!
melandtim You know I was thinking the same thing, we are just passing around our colds via computer! A new defination for computer virus!! (I crack myself up!!!:)
kiki61872 I think if you don't get red bleeding within the next couple of day you should test. How many DPO do you think you are now? Can you test now?
I think my body is gearing up to O since I notice increased CM today. I'm a little nervous about actually trying again. I was playing with DS this evening and I asked him if he wanted a little brother or sister and he shock his head yes. Of course he is only 15 months old so he really doesn't know what he is saying yes too. But is was too funny he stopped thought about it and was about to say "no", but then changed to "yes".
Have a nice evening Ladies!
charliezangel
08-16-2006, 07:00 PM
sorry no SOs ladies. I'm CD 59 today. yesterday, i had some spotting in the late afternoon, put in a tampon because i thought i was starting AF. (sorry if TMI) then a few hours later, took the tampon out, and it was clean. Still no AF and no spotting at all today. To add insult to injury, my bb's are KILLING me. God only knows what the hell is going on with my body. all tests have been BFN, POAS tests and the blood test. so who knows. I have had very watery CM and the last cpl days have been EWCM. If ou count back about 13 days ago, it was super fertile quality CM.
OH, and on top of everythig.....
My sister is PG, my aunt is PG and a girl I work with just announced she is PG. GRRRRRRRRRR
looty
08-16-2006, 07:17 PM
Oh Sam! I hope that is why you are having acid reflux! Good luck testing and let us know right away! Fingers crossed!
Sorry you had a bad day today Delsol. I can see how that would be frustrating. Hopefully tomorrow will be better!
Sorry you still don't have any answers Charliez. Are you going back to the doctor soon?
Berber~If you want me to add your stats you can just post them I will be happy to add you to the roster since you get to stick with this TTC stuff.:D
FSUSammy
08-17-2006, 04:20 AM
Hey ladies. I tested this morning and it was a BFN. It would have been the perfect excuse as to why I have had the reflux if I was PG but oh well it makes me feel better to know that I'm not and that its ok for me to take the meds without harming a baby. My temps did go up this morning so there is a possibility that I ovulated yesterday. We'll see in 2 more days.
At least now I have 2 more tests at home for next time. ;)
Sam
melandtim
08-17-2006, 04:24 AM
FSUSammy - I so hope you are right. Can't wait to hear from you today!
DelSol - sorry about your bad day. You won't be far from me today! Hope things are better for you :)
Charliez - hope you are able to figure out what's going on soon.
Tenny - LMAO :p you are so right!
Sunshine - sorry you have this horrible cold. Rest up because it seems to be hanging around for awhile.
Looty - you are so right! We do share absolutely everything so why not our colds :p
Good luck lanapoo!
I'm on CD5. AF is gone so the BD fest is going to begin tonight. I am hoping if we DTD every other night and then each night when I think I am about to O it will hopefully work! I finally have most of my voice back so I will call the doctor today about my blood work.
melandtim
08-17-2006, 04:29 AM
FSUSammy - sorry it was a BFN :(
Tenny
08-17-2006, 04:39 AM
FSUSammy Sorry abou the BFN!
melandtim Glad you are feeling better! I still have this stupid cough!
DelSol
08-17-2006, 04:44 AM
Just wanted to do a quick post, I'm feeling better today and traffic looks better today, at least online. My temps stayed up again this morning.
melandtim ~ I'll actually be in Columbia but I don't think most people know where that is in MD.
kiki61872
08-17-2006, 05:09 AM
OH, and on top of everythig.....
My sister is PG, my aunt is PG and a girl I work with just announced she is PG. GRRRRRRRRRR
i hear ya!
i work in the HR dept for my company and part of what i handle are medical leaves.
if one more person stops by regarding a maternity leave i'm going to loose it.
melandtim
08-17-2006, 05:31 AM
DelSol - that's even closer!! Baltimore is closer to home, Columbia to work. You will be about 15 minutes from me!!
Tenny - my cough is still here as well but getting better, I'm just happy my voice is almost back to normal.
Hi Ladies.
This thread moves so fast! I've been lurking but not posting too much - you know, fear of getting that cold from you all :p ;) :D
FSU Sammy - sorry about the BFN. This whole process really does make you wonder and it just is amazing how many scenarios we can think up! good luck with the reflux, too bad pg wasn't the explanation.
Kiki, Charlie, I know - it seems like everyone is either pregnant or just having a baby. I want one! (and then of course too, I'm also really liking the private little club dh and I have! but we really want kids, so I guess that has to change sometime) I also want to know that I will have one, and when! I think the mystery of the whole process is the most frustrating.
Lana and Dancn - I know, crazy about all those times we hoped we weren't pg, and heard about those that had a big oops! Come and get me now!!
Robyn - welcome back! HOpe it was great. do you journal or post pics anywhere?
I'm meli_g11 on LJ if anyone wants to be friended...
Del Sol -
Hope your day and your mood are better!!! <<hugs>>
Charlie - time to call a dr? that is a long cycle.... my dr said to call if it was longer than 35 days.
Sunshine - how are you? feel better!
Mel - I hope the every other day method works for us! Of course since I don't know when I o we can't step it up then. Good luck to you!!
Me - I'm just hanging in there - remember my hope to not get crazy this cycle? Well, the questionable cd is sort of "helping" that case, but still cant' help but wonder. We bd'd again last night - it's kind of work for dh since he has to ahem, perform. I like it though! and so does he, just more presssure. So... the every other day streak continues... not sure for how long. Now I see why my dr said just do it when you want to. Since the chances are only 20% that you'll conceive in any given month, this would get really old for 5 straight months. Crossing fingers this is it!! That's why I'll start charting if this isn't it so that we don't wear ourselves out when it's not the right timing!!
Ok, so can't help but wonder, I spotted and had weird light discharge for almost 2 weeks, but only 1 day of real red (but it was pretty thick, if a pg woman told me she had that I would say freak out!) but after reading FSUs post (and of course the thought crossed my mind too) I'm wondering if I should take a test? DH just laughs... he thinks I'm crazy that I don't know my body and that it was so screwed up. and thinks that was in fact a period.
What to do?
looty
08-17-2006, 07:32 AM
Sorry about the negative Sam! I was really hoping that was the reason for the reflux. When do you have to go get the meds/endoscopy again?
Mel~I am glad that you are getting better. I would hate to be without a voice for that long. It would be really frustrating since I like to talk so much. I hope your technique works for you this cycle!
I hope the cough goes away soon Tenny!
Delsol~That's good that you are feeling better. I hope traffic is better today so you can have a better start to your day.
I totally understand kiki and charliez! My sister is pg, so is my SIL, DH's cousin, several friends, and several friends of friends that I also get to hear about. Joy! :rolleyes:
Melg~I think that if it will make you relax a little then I would test. It could be possible (some women bleed in the first couple months around Af time when they are pg). I hope your method works this cycle. Charting is good for helping you see when you tend to O (a pattern) but you won't be ableto tell before it happens. That is the only thing I don't like about charting (even though I have never done it before). My cycle is off sometimes so there would be times that we would be on marathon bds.
Me~I am about 10-12 DPO today and there isn't much going on in the symptoms department. I have been crampy still, to the point of thinking that AF might come early, but it is always short lived and there is no spotting.
melandtim
08-17-2006, 07:37 AM
Thanks Looty!
Just talked to my doctor's office. My doctor is on vacation and the nurse said with tests like these the doctor likes to go over them with you. That does not sound good :( Or maybe I am just reading too much into it :confused:
Chelsea524
08-17-2006, 07:44 AM
melg there are women that get a light AF when they are in fact pg, do you have any other symptoms at all? Go ahead and test if it will make you feel better.
DelSol glad your temp stayed up, when are you going to be testing?
sammy sorry about the BFP:(
charliez sorry you are still on this looong cycle, did the dr give you provera or anything, or have you not made it to the dr yet?
Sorry, I know I missed a lot of you, but work is starting to flow in and I need to cut this short.
Me, CD 28 and oh boy have the FPS started, I was up a ton last night having to go to the bathroom, my BBs are a little sore, not to bad, but oh man am i sick, I got sick first thing this morning and then dry heaved another 3 times, my gut is so upset right now. I also have a really bad lower back ache, not sure if that would be a symptom or not, and light cramps as well. But today when I went to check my CP I couldn't even reach it, it was so high but I was completely dry, not sure whats going on. I will test tomorrow though!
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 07:45 AM
looty~I did just that! Boss sent mehome and DH cuddled me the rest of the night:) heehee! Altho I fell asleep pretty well as soon as I got home! I feel ALOT better today! Which is great!!!! THANK YOU!
You are almost at testing time!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited for you! I also dont have any "symptoms" at all. I still am UTTERLY AMAZED that my BB's dont hurt! DH said to me yesterday, VERY CAUTIOUSLY that maybe I am pregnant, but then quickly said after that "But I dont want to get excited just yet..." LOL!
FSUSammy~I'm so sorry you got a BFN:( But ovulating is a good sign! I hope you did O!!
DelSol~I'm sorry for all of the confusion. I hope everything gets worked out soon...YAY for your temp staying up!!
Tenny~Thank you! I feel ALOT better today! I went home and slept the night away!!!!!
Your little boy sounds so cute:)
Charliez~I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better:(
melandtim~I went home and fell fast asleep! And didnt wake up until this morning! LOL! I seriously just went into the living room so I could be with DH, layed a blanket on the floor and passed out! LMAO!
I feel MUCH better this morning tho! I hope it was just a couple day thing!
Thank you!
YAY for the BD marathon beginning! GOOD LUCK this cycle!
Oh, and your new post....I'm sorry that the nurse didnt tell you any more....When does yuor doctor get back in town? I hope you dont have to wait long.....I wouldnt worry, altho I know that is easier said than done!
melg~Thank you, I feel SO MUCH better today! My nose is still a little congested, but other than that, I think al the sleeping I did yesterday really helped!
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!
Nothing much going on with me. I feel MUCH better today! YAY!!!!!!!!!!! Still not 100% but close enough!!
Still amazed that my BB's arent sore! I actually jumped up and down today to see if they would hurt when I did that and they didnt! ROTFLMAO!
GOOD LUCK TO ALL TESTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 07:56 AM
Chelsea~I CANT WAIT FOR YOU TO TEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sounds PROMISING TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GL GL GL GL GL:D
FSUSammy
08-17-2006, 08:00 AM
looty - I'm already on the meds. Silly me started them before I knew I was definitely NOT PG. Oops. My endoscopy is scheduled for Sept. 8th. I'm going to stay on top of the doc's office because they told me that people tend to cancel them at the last minute, so maybe I'll get lucky.
Sam
dancn226
08-17-2006, 08:04 AM
Hi everyone, its one of those days. I am having a crazy day. Its acutally driving me nuts. Peopel are so ignorant. I work for a community college, and an an office supervisor for a grant. Well peopel make appts to come in to find out if they are eligiable for this grant. This person that I work wtih took a 10am appt over an 8am appt. I mean seriously isn't that commen sense!?! Then she sent the 8am home. So she called back pissed. Do you blame her. Anyhow, this is the frustration I am dealign with today, stupid people.
Anyhow, Chelsa sounds like you've got yourself a BFP there!! Lucky girl!!!
I am on CD 28 as well with NO and I mean NO symptoms. SO I am really thinking there is No way I caught that egg this month. Which also throws me into anther bad mood. I really want this, and its pissing me off. I am telling you its one of those day's that a bottle of Wine could fix.
Hope its goign good for everyone else!!!!
Hi.
Actually, though it is nice to "dream" that the messed up AF might actually meant that I am pg, I don't think so. So, rather than waste a test and see a nasty bfn... I've decided not to test. It's a dream, so I'll keep it a nice little one.
No pg symptoms either. I think that I may actually be O'ing... I have been having more breakouts since going of BCP... and today there are some doozies. Curiously, mostly on the left side of my face. I know my doc said 2 things about ttc: your body will let you know when you want to bd (haven't really experienced this, but have noticed increased sex drive since going off bcp) and that your skin will be worst when you're feeling the most like DTD! great combination, no?!:rolleyes:
So... has anyone else noticed a correlation with your skin? And it sort of makes sense if it is on one side more than the other. and I may be imagining this, but before most of the breakouts were on the right....
see where I'm going?
And... my left bb is sore. not very sore, but since I'm looking for it - tender to the touch I guess is more like it.
Thoughts?
We bd'd last night - hopefully that is the right time... may ask Dh to dtd again tonight - but he's real tired! :eek:
melandtim
08-17-2006, 08:20 AM
Wow we have so many ready to test. I'm jealous :p
Good luck Chelsea! Keeping my fingers crossed!
Sunshine - glad to hear you are feeling better. Doctor won't be back till Monday but she is really good about calling back so I know I will hear from her then.
FSUSammy
08-17-2006, 08:25 AM
Chelsea - Hoping you get that BFP. Sounding good so far!!!
Sunshine - Glad you are feeling better.
dancn - Hang in there. Do you have any signs of AF coming?
melg - Your doc is right about your body letting you know. It at least works for me. I had NO sex drive on BCPs and now I can't leave DH alone, he usually has to turn me down since he's not used to all the attention.
Sam
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 08:27 AM
melandtim~Oh, I am so glad that your doc will be back soon!!!!! And thank you!!
FSUSammy~Thank you!
Soooooooooooo, 7 days until testing time....well, we will see if I actually test or not :rolleyes: But AF should show up (as far as my cycles have been giong) either the 23rd or the 24th. Our 1st anniversary is on the 27th....so it would be SO GREAT to have a BFP as our anniversary gift, KWIM?
But we will see.............
dancn226
08-17-2006, 09:15 AM
FSUSAMMY~At times I feel as if she si going to start, but nothing serious, just those little twinges, that make you realze she is on her way! And my face is breaking out all over the place......boy, I am really starting to get frustrated wtih this crap.
Chelsea524
08-17-2006, 09:46 AM
Sunshine, thanks!! I am really hoping this is it, just 7 days for you, wow, doesn't time seem to fly? That is until you get to just a couple days before testing, then it just drags on. Good luck to you!
dancn Thanks, I hope AF stays away for you and you get a BFP, sorry your feeling down.
Mel Sorry you have to wait til monday for your test results, good luck
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 10:29 AM
Chelsea~I was thinking the same thing when I posted this morning, like how am I on day 21 again?????? Crazy!
dancn226~Oh wow, you are on cd28? How long does your cycle normally last? AND WHEN ARE YOU TESTING??????????? heehee!
Good Luck!
And hey, if your popping a bottle of wine, I'll be right over:) YUMMMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Tenny
08-17-2006, 11:03 AM
melg I agree with others if it will put your mind at ease then I say test.
looty 10-12 DPO? When do expect AF? Are you going to test early? Good Luck!
melandtim Your Dr has some nerve being on vacation when you need test results!!
Chelsea524 Good luck testing tomorrow!! Sounds promising!
Sunshine Glad you are feeling better! Hope you get a BFP for your anniversary!
dancn226 Sorry work is getting on your nerves! You know when I was pg with DS I had NO FPS!! I was sure AF was going to come!
melg You know I always feel more in the mood around O so maybe your DR is onto something!
Just hanging out at work. Little POed about some family issues! My Dad passed away unexpectly in April (actually 3 days after DS 1st birthday) and he didn't have a Will so things are really messed up. I never expected people in my family to act like this, it just makes me so sad and angry. DH is traveling for work today and most likely will be too tired to DTD when he gets home....oh-well! :(
Aw, Tenny, I'm so sorry this is getting Ugly! I hope it is all resolved soon.
I don't think I'll be testing. I really don't think I'm pg. I think it is more fun to think that it is possible, but really I know I'm not. I think more likely I'm O soon. With the breakouts it makes sense.
As for sex drive, it's definitely up since being off BCP, but as for being higher for O, I haven't noticed it. I do believe that, afterall , nature has been helping people procreate long before we started... but I think I'm so focused on every other night and think about it every night that I so far haven't noticed being more in the mood on a particular day.
good luck to everyone though!
I'm going to see if dh wants to dtd again tonight, ;) I really think this could mean O soon.
but again, I have no idea :eek:
Lanapoo
08-17-2006, 12:03 PM
Hello all, I've been slacking on the s/o's so here goes...
Sunshine - I'm glad you're feeling better today! I hope this last week of the 2ww flies by for you and you get a BFP at the end of it.
Looty - LOL, morning BD is rare for us too, but sometimes DH can be very persuasive ;)
FSUSammy - Sorry about the BFN, but now you can feel free to do what you have to do to get better.
Delsol - Sorry about the crappy days you've been having, hope things get better.
Tenny - Too cute about your DS's response to the brother/sister question! Sorry you're having family issues.
Charliez - Yeah, it doesn't get any easier to deal with no AF/no BFP when there are tons of pregos around you huh?
Melandtim - Sounds like we have a similar strategy for BD this month, I hope it works for both of us! That sucks that you can't talk to your Dr. today.
Melg - Too funny about your DH. I think mine thinks I'm crazy too sometimes.
Chelsea - Very promising FPS there!
Dancn - I hope you won't be able to drink the wine because of a BFP ;)
There's nothing really going on with me, I'm just going to go with the flow and make sure we BD every other day and then every day closer to O. DH and I discussed our strategy last night at dinner and he's more than OK with the increase in BD sessions :p .
dancn226
08-17-2006, 12:07 PM
Chelsa~Just keep us updated on you!! I am intrested to here.
Sunshine~hey, I know I can't believe I am alreayd to CD 28. Crazy shit. I will probagbly wait to test until sometime next week. Just for sake of wasting vs not. Okay so here's the deal at 4:30 today my ass will be popping a bottle of wine open. Anyone intrested, be there!!! ;0)
I think at thsi poitn that is going to be the only thing to fix my bad day, that and a BFP would work otu really well to!!!
Tenny~I really hope your right. So you thought AF woudl start to huh! I mean I have no feelings like there will be a BFP. My DH was asking if he thought I was, I was like probably not. Boy would it be great if I could prove him wrong!!!!
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 12:47 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm, I went to this site (b/c I am obssessed......) called pregnancy.org, and checked out their pregnancy calendar....Last night I started feeling nauseaus........just slightly. Nothing major....Anyways, I thought it was odd since I just had a head cold.....Well, it says for today~
Early pregnancy symptoms include sore breasts, cramping, mild nausea, fatigue, increased irritability, or sometimes you might not feel anything at all -- in which case you're blessed.
and then for tomorrow
Morning sickness could set in. Your brain might not know you're pregnant but your body sure does.
I thought that you didnt feel that for awhile?!?!?
Either way, I know I'm just pulling at straws, but I thought I would share! Its a pretty neat site:D
Tenny~THANK YOU!
I'm so sorry that you have been seeing your family in a different light:( You never know until something like that happens. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I cant imagine how hard that must be:(
Lana~AWE! THANKS!!!!! heehee, YAY that DH is on board!!!!!
dancn226~I'm THERE! What kind you buying? I like a California White, or a Zinfedel....Heck, I'll drink whatever you got:D LOL!
(Great, You KNOW I am going to be pouring myself a glass of wine Right after work now, dont you....?:D)
dancn226
08-17-2006, 01:16 PM
Sunshie, I have some GREAT REISLING That my hubby brought back from a Winery In OHio. Oh is so damn good. Okay at 4:30 I will make a toast to you!!! I am going along wtih the whole fact that I don't have symptoms, but its still happening, thus the reason why i am IRRATIABLE today. Because that is stating exactly how I feel today, and let me tell you the bathroom trips, are turning into some thing all on there own!!! WEll, whatever, I sure hope it happens!!!
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 01:24 PM
dancn226~SWEET! Well, I dont get home until 4:45, so I will toast back to you then:D;) heehee! I'm going to tell hubby this when he gets home, he's going to think I am crazy! LOL! Eh, he already knows! LOL!
Dancn - It sounds really promising! You are really making me think you are going to get a bfp! when are you testing? you could be the first graduate this month!
Oh how I hope to get one in a few weeks too!
Sunshine - I hope those are not fps! I am going to check out that website too!
of course... broken record here.. who knows what Cd I'm on! I'll count it as CD14 though :) DH is getting geared up for tonight :p I told him about my breakout and he's buying to my theory that today is O or soon. :) Let's hope so!
I looked it up, and we've only bd'd 6 times in the past 10 days, but it feels like a ton! :o Well, I guess for us that is! We haven't done it that often in years :eek:
looty
08-17-2006, 05:17 PM
I haven't really read through the thread, so I apologize but I just wanted to let you all know that I may be absent for a couple days. We just found out that my grandpa has leukemia and today we found out that contrary to what they originally told us that it is really advanced and only gave him a couple weeks to a couple months to live. I have never had to deal with the death of someone that is really close to me so I am pretty much a mess. :(
Plus on top of that I did start spotting a little today so the hope of having news to cheer the family up at least breifly is dwindling. :( again.
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 05:23 PM
looty~((((HUGS)))) I am *SO SORRY*........I wish I knew what to say...
Take Care...and spend as much time possible with your Grandpa and your family. And know that we are All here for you if you need us.
Chelsea524
08-17-2006, 05:36 PM
Oh Looty I am so so sorry, huge ((((HUGS)))), take care of your self and make the best of this time you do have with him. Sorry about the spotting too, I know how much you wanted it this cycle for your family, I hope the spotting goes away and you can still have a BFP.
DelSol
08-17-2006, 05:37 PM
Thanks Everyone! Today was much better.
I drove to Baltimore with my boss and we had some traffic but it wasn't too bad. We wanted to leave the Baltimore office at 3PM but didn't get out of there until 4:30PM, needless to say I didn't get home until 7PM. I stopped and got myself a salad since DH went to his mom's and he'll spend the night there.
Good luck to those testing! Sorry to those who has AF show up.
I probably won't test until Tuesday, it seems so far away. That will put me at 13 DPO.
ETA: Looty ~I'm sorry to hear about your Grandpa. My thoughts are with you & your family. (((HUGS)))
Chelsea524
08-17-2006, 05:40 PM
Delso, that is such a pretty chart, I love the dip at 5 dpo and then the big rise, looks very promising!!!
dancn226
08-17-2006, 07:24 PM
Looty~I am very sorry to hear this about your grandfather. I will pray for you!!!
Sunshine~I postponed my bottle of wine, so I could get my hair cut, I think that made me feel better, so I am going to toast to you know!!! Hope you have a great day tomorrow! :0)
Melg~I hope you are right, I am not to sure, I keep going back and forth about it. My bb's hurt then they don't. I feel nauseau then I don't. TIred, I am always tired, so that sucks, can't use that as one. I jsut really hope you are right!!! Cramps keep coming and going so who really knows. I dont' think I am going to test until this monday. I might try over the weeknd, but I will only if my DH agrees, so we will see. Perhaps I may have news this weekend. Probably a BFN!!! But we will see! STill not to sure!!
Hope everyone else is doign good. I am bound and determined to have a great day tomorrow, no matter how stupid the other people I work with are!!!!! :0) Have a great nite and hope to chat some mor etomorrow!!!
:0)
Sunshine
08-17-2006, 07:44 PM
dancn226~I toasted to you too! At 4:45pm! LOL! I drank my wine while watching Days of our Lives! LMAO!
bellabonga
08-18-2006, 01:35 AM
Wow, I only havenīt posted in here for a day and itīs already hard to catch up!
melandtim, hope we have better luck this cycle! But since you are already starting the BD on CD 5, it seems as if you cover your bases pretty well! I have had this several times too that I called my doctor and the nurses said that the doctor likes to discuss the results personally with me. Not to freak you out but usually they did find something when that happened. Although for me, they never found something major. Just like this month when he said that I was too low on estrogene and he wanted to put me on Clomid. So IMO it wasnīt that major that the nurse couldnīt have told me that herself. I hope if they did find something wrong with you, itīs easy to fix. How long is your doctor on vacation? Does he have a substitute you could talk to?
kiki, I have had this pinkish-brown spotting this month too and this month it was AF starting veeeery slowly. But I have also had this in my first pregnancy and mistook it for AF.
Chelsea, good luck testing today! FPS on CD 28 sound very promising! :D I have thought about getting some HPTs via Ebay but I would have to get them from Ebay Germany since otherwise the shipping is too high to be profitable.
looty, Iīm so sorry about your grandpa! :( Is it impossible to treat it in this stage? Iīm crossing my fingers for you that the spotting means nothing and that youīll get a BFP soon to give your family something to look forward to.
Sunshine, good to hear that you are already feeling better again!
Robyn, welcome back! :) Good to hear that your trip was amazing. Did you have that Pina Colada for me?
Lana, have fun BD!
Sammy, sorry about the BFN! :( Iīm crossing my fingers for you that they fit you in earlier than September 8th. I have forgotten - do you still have to wait with TTC after the procedure or can you join in again directly after it?
Tenny, have fun BD! Iīm sorry you have to deal with your family acting ugly on top of the death of your father. I can relate to that in a way since my MIL died in March 2003 and we have an ongoing lawsuit with my greedy FIL since then. MIL left a will but one that was written without a lawyerīs help and that can be interpreted in different ways.
Charliezangel, CD 59 must be awful! I hope your spotting means that AF is coming. I had the same thing this month - spotting, used a tampon, spotting gone. This repeated itself for maybe three days and then AF kicked in. You should really go back to your doctor and get examined. Maybe if AF doesnīt come on its own, you could get provera like Chelsea did last month.
melg, I donīt want to give you false hope but from you are describing, I think it is possible that you are pg. I had a strange light AF too when I was pg for the first time. About the breakouts: For me, there is definitely a correlation. But I never get breakouts when I O, I get them shortly before or when I have AF. And I get them really bad when Iīm newly pg because of the hormonal changes. So if I were you, I would test just to know. Maybe you can already stop the exhausting BD. :D But I know what you mean - we BD something like 6 times in 10 days too and were totally exhausted too. We are both not used to that anymore.
dancn, why wait until Monday to test? Sounds promising to me, so donīt let us wait! We need a BFP!
Yesterday when I was missing in action here, I had a very upsetting day. It started Thursday morning at 4am when I woke up because I was in so much pain. My left ovary hurt and the pain went all the way down my left leg. It was so bad that I couldnīt stay in bed but couldnīt walk very well either. Because the pain was so strong, I was covered in sweat all over in literally a second and looked like a wax bean since all blood had gone from my face. I felt sick but couldnīt vomit properly and had some diarrhoea. I had AF but still had that sore boobs and was very worried that I might have an ectopic and a bursting ovary. I have had strong abdominal pains with excessive sweating, vomiting and diarrhoea before during AF (even with fainting) but I have never had pain only in my left ovary and never only in one leg. I often have the feeling as if there is water in both of my legs though when I have AF. But this was different. DH woke up too and thought about bringing me to the ER but since it was only 5am, I would have needed to wake up my mom and have her come over to watch Maya. So I refused and said I would wait until the morning. At 6am the pain got slightly better and I went back to sleep for another hour. When I woke up, the pain was gone.
I was still very worried about having an ectopic and so I went out and bought a cheap HPT thatīs picking up from 25 HCG. It had a very, very faint line. That did not give me peace of mind and so I went out again and got a digital Clearblue which clearly said "not pregnant". Now I have heard that ectopics donīt have that high HCG-levels but since Iīm symptom-free for 30 hours now, I hope everything is okay. AF is very heavy and yesterday I had some clotting. Combined with the sore boobs and the disturbed egg-riping by the lack of estrogene, I think it might have been a poorly developed egg that got fertilized and ended in m/c with AF. That would at least explain the very, very faint line. It still doesnīt explain the ovary/leg combo but Iīm keeping an eye on it and if my ovary does act weird again, I will go to my obgyn. But I hate going to my obgyn while Iīm bleeding and after they were always so unfriendly during my m/c Iīm not keen on asking for an urgent appointment.
Since my last cycle was so messed up and I donīt have a clue when I Oīd, I started with charting today although itīs already CD 3. I donīt want to take Clomid if it isnīt necessary and maybe charting gives me an idea if and when I O if I donīt notice it by myself this cycle. I really hope Iīll manage to get pg this cycle since I so want to be past the 12 weeks mark when my EDD with Olivia comes up on December 15th. This is only possible if I get pg this or next cycle. Iīve already looked up my EDD: If I should get pg this month, it would be May 23rd. I would love to have a May baby! If I decide to have a c-section again, I could have it on our 16th anniversay on May 17th. Okay, this is far out but a girl can dream... ;)
melandtim
08-18-2006, 03:48 AM
looty - big (((hugs))). I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
bella - I was wondering why we didn't hear from you yesterday. Hope you are feeling better today.
I'm on CD6 nothing to report.
Good luck to everyone testing this weekend!! Hope to have lots of BFP by Monday
FSUSammy
08-18-2006, 04:40 AM
Sunshine - I hope that PG calendar is right for you. How cool would that be!!! Let us know how you feel today.
Looty - Oh I'm so sorry to hear about our grandpa. I lost my grandma 3.5 years ago. It was the hardest thing I ever faced. She was not just a grandma but a great friend. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers.
Bella - Not sure if I can TTC immediately after the procedure or not. I guess it depends on what the doctor finds. If he sees that I've healed myself then I'm sure we can continue, if not I have no clue what he wants me to do. Hopefully he'll give me the all clear at the procedure. Sorry about all your pain yesterday, glad you are feeling better right now. Hopefully this new cycle will be "the" cycle for you.
Me - I'm on CD 23 (or something like that) and had my 2nd day of high temps. Just need to wait until tomorrow to confirm O. Nothing else new.
Sam
First - Looty - You and your entire family are in my thoughts, and GIANT (((hugs))) being sent your way. There really aren't words to express the feelings. I've been there.
I do hope the spotting is implantation or nothing and that you can still get a bfp.
Bella - yikes, that is scary adn sounds painful. I am glad it went away. I did need to just get it out of my system, so to speak, and I did test last night. I figured no need for fmu since it had been so long. bfn. It wasn't so hard to look at, I really did expect that. Thanks though! I have had "d" and with the other symptoms I think that maybe yesterday was O so if so, we had good timing. We'll continue to bd for a while longer. ;)
Dancn - Monday we'll be glued to our computer screens! Do you think you'll really hold out that long? sooo hoping for you. really for all of us that you get a bfp!!
DelSol - you're holding out on us! looking forward and hoping for a bfp on Tuesday!
Sunshine and Dancn - you guys are cracking me up! :D
Me - As I said above, I needed to just curb my curiousity (started thinking if I get pg this month I'll wonder if it was reallylast month, etc.) so I did test last night. That makes me a liar :eek: since I said yesterday I wouldn't. oops. :o I figured no need for fmu since it had been so long. bfn. It wasn't so hard to look at, I really did expect that. As I said yesterday, I have had "d" and with the other symptoms I think that maybe yesterday was O so if so, we had good timing. We'll continue to bd for a while longer. ;)
In fact, we were going to last night. Got all geared up. started playing. then .... nothing. we were both so tired. so every other day it is! I've read that that is really enough, so here's hoping!!:rolleyes:
Chelsea524
08-18-2006, 06:57 AM
Well, tested this morning and got a BFN, I am not to bummed because as I have said before, I really think I didn't O until CD 20, I was just hoping I O'd on CD 15, I got EWCM both days but a lot more of it on CD 20, so I will test again on Tuesday probably, that would put me at 13 DPO if CD 20 was my O day. I had such a great way to tell DH today too, with it being his Bday I was going to make him a card that was similar to this:
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/layouts/layout_images/944945.jpg
but with two of a kind on the front and on the inside 3 of a kind and write that we got ourselves a full house. Oh well, guess I can still do that later, he'll just know somethings up if I give him a card out of the blue.
Tenny
08-18-2006, 06:59 AM
looty I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa. I know first hand how hard it is to loss someone close.
bellabonga Wow, I glad you are feeling better! I hope you get some answers soon!
melg Sorry about the BFN!!
Chelsea524 Sorry about the BFN. I hope it is just too soon!
dancn226
08-18-2006, 07:13 AM
Melg~I am praying that I get that BFP this monoth. I think I can hold out, but who woudl know. I might break down on Sat, since the Hubby is home all day (being a FireFighter and having 24 hours where he is gone, kind of helps). So since he will be home with me, and we plan on doing as little as possible, we will see. I will keep you all posted.
Bellabong~I totally had that same thing happen to me to. It was in about April. But the same exact symptoms, I was so ill, it hurt so bad, I took a vicidon (I got in a car accident, and didn't use them, so I had leftovers) and went back to bed. Needless to say, I was done for the day. It was so bad, I never got that sick from AF, I mean never, and my cramps were never that bad. So i think you have something there. Becuase it to bazarre that you had the same symptoms, and I did to. You know what I mean!!
I am on CD 29, so we will be seeing pretty soon here. AF does feel like she is on the way. But who knows. Let me tell you my biggest problem today. My twitching eye!!! Why does it do that?!?!?
Hi everyone, we are going to have a good day right!!! :0)
Sunshine~I had some wine lastnight, and let me tell you, it was so nice. I fell so far asleep lastnight, it was the best night sleep ever!!! Tlak abotu a great night!! Hope it was as good for you as it was for me!! :0)
Sunshine
08-18-2006, 07:36 AM
Bella~THANKS! I actually feel 100% today! It's weird, but the last 3 or 4 "head colds" I have had, I have only had them for about 1 day?!?! Not sure if that means I have a good immune system, or a bad one that I keep getting them. They've been spread over at Least a year, but still?!?
And WOW. I am so sorry. I wonder what happened there...:( I am glad that you are feeling better now, but its good that you are keeping an eye onit and if you do feel that pain again to go to the ER. HUGS. I hope this is your cycle so you can have a May baby!!!!!!!!!!!!! We have SO MANY birthdays already in May. I Think I counted 18 last year, so another would be crazy! But whenever I get pregnant I will be More than happy!!!BEST OF LUCK to you this cycle!!!!!!!
FSUSammy~THANKS! LOL! Today, I feel pertty good! I had some weird cramping first thing this morning, but it didnt last longer than 5 seconds. And now, back to the boobs dont hurt stage?!?!? I dont know whats going on. I hope it doesnt mean I Didnt O, b/c I really feel like I did this month. Oh well, time will tell! I have 5-6 days to see! I cant BELIEVE I am at this stage again! I want SO MUCH to tell DH I am pregnant for our paper anniversary! I would go to the doctor on Friday and see if they could print me something out on paper! But again, GETTING WAY ahead of myself, and that is what I always do, and it always ends with AF or a BFN.....
We are both So Close with CD's, altho if you just O'd I guess my cycle is alot shorter than yours:( I wish we could test at the same time:D
GOOD LUCK! Hope you caught the eggie!
melg~Did you drink with us? heehee! My hubby thought I was crazy so I told him "But you already knew that;)" LOL!
Sorry you got a BFN, but I guess it helps if you were thinking you would see it:( I HOPE you caught the eggie!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And definately, I have read in several different places that you double your chance of conceiving if you do it every other day! GOOD LUCK!
Chelsea~AWE BUMMER:( I HOPE you DID O on the 20th!!!!!! Your chart IS so pretty!!!!!
AWE! WHAT A GREAT WAY to have told your hubby with a card like that!!!!!!!!!! I would have never thought of that!!!! Sorry you couldnt surprise him that way, but you know, when you DO get your BFP you can still make him a card like that! Does he play cards? We play poker, that would be SO NEAT! GOOD LUCK!
dancn226~I HATE IT when my eye twitches!!!!! Hope it goes away! Maybe its a sign!
And heeeeheeeeeeeeeee about the wine! Mine was YUMMY TOO! YAY for a good night sleep!
Me~CD22 and I had some weird cramping this morning when I woke up....only lasted maybe 5 seconds and then it was gone. So it was probably gas or something! LOL! Other than that, my boobs are STARTING to get a little sore. Sore on the sides..........My stomach is a little upset this morning.....
I have to volunteer at the Baseball Canada Cup this weekend. Hubby works for the News here and has volunteered myself and him for the day Saturday. He will be score keeping and me selling souvenirs! Fun Fun! BUT we get volunteer passes and can watch the games when we are done, so thats pretty cool!
Hope everyone has a GREAT WEEKEND!
COME ON BFP'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Chelsea524
08-18-2006, 07:57 AM
Sunshine I hope those are pg symptoms, sounds pretty good! Yes DH plays poker, we actually have a thing almost every sunday night we get together with his family and have a poker night, and he plays with his friends every thursday, thats why I thought that card would really fit him.
Dancn I hope AF stays away, good luck testing!!!
Melg sorry about the BFN, I hope you caught the egg though this month!!
Sammy I hope you get another high temp tomorrow and were able to catch the egg!
Bella Sorry about all that, how scary, I hope you are feeling better
DelSol
08-18-2006, 08:14 AM
melg ~ sorry for your BFN. No holding out, I really want to test but I am holding off the urge to buy a HPT today.
chelsea524 ~ thanks, so far so good. Sorry about your BFN, I hope it was too soon.
dancn226 ~ I hope you are having a better day today. Good Luck Testing!
bella ~ I hope you are feeling better today, that sounds very scary.
Sorry if I missed anyone.
Me~
I want to test so bad but I really think it's too early for me, it's CD24 9DPO. Last month 10DPO my temp fell and AF arrived. I don't feel any symptoms right now so I really don't know. My chart is looking good though.
Sunshine
08-18-2006, 09:20 AM
Chelsea~Thanks:) Even better! We used ot play every Friday night but since we came back from Vegas we havent played since:( I LOVEd playing! I've won quite a few times, AND I've even gotten a 4 of a kind!:D heehee!Do you play Texas Hold-em?
DelSol~I'd wait if you can:)But if you cant I would definately wait until tomorrow morning! I'd actually see if I could wait until Sunday just to see if you get that temp drop! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DelSol
08-18-2006, 09:25 AM
DelSol~I'd wait if you can:)But if you cant I would definately wait until tomorrow morning! I'd actually see if I could wait until Sunday just to see if you get that temp drop! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks Sunshine! I will see if can hold out until Sunday to see if I get that temp drop.
dancn226
08-18-2006, 10:06 AM
Sunshine~I hope the eye twitching is a sign. That would be great. I think I could handel it a lot better. I am telling you, my stomache is a littel upset today. But I think it could be because of the bad attitudes that I am around here..Not putting to much on that. I am however, very very very tired today. People keep commenting on the fact, tha tI just look dead tired...I feel it. I forgot to Mention when I was drinking my wine lastnight, I was watching General Hospital. That's the best!!!! Gotta love the soaps!!!!! :0)
Chelsa~Sorry about the BFN, I know that you will get it in a few days, you will be our first graduate!!!!
Delsol~Day is a littel better, people that I have to deal with here, just make me angry, I think I will be better next week, when I am not around that one person. So I am kind o fhappy to get today over with.
jnshanna
08-18-2006, 10:26 AM
Delurking to say that's such a COOL way to tell DH, Chelsea!! My DH is obsessed with poker these days and that would be perfect for him. I hope you still get that BFP and it was just a bit early still. :)
pacificbliss
08-18-2006, 10:58 AM
looty sorry about your grandfather. <<<hugs>>>
bella I'm glad you're feeling better. Those re some scary symptoms. Given all you have been through maybe you should call the Dr and just tell them. Definitely if you have any more pain or soreness, run a fever, etc, go right away.
Happy Friday everyone.
~~~~~~~~babydust~~~~~~~~~~
petunia
08-18-2006, 12:34 PM
Hello all!
I doubt that anyone will recoginize me because I joined this thread last month but was very busy the last two weeks of July and then on vacation for the first two weeks of August, so this is the first time I'm logging in after a month.
For me, I'm starting my second round of Clomid, so at this point, I don't think I'm really "seeing what happens", so Threadmistress, could you please remove me from this thread? Thank you.
Thank you all for letting me be a part of this valuable resource, even if only for a short time. Congratulations to all who have gotten a BFP and best of luck to those of us still waiting.
Sunshine
08-18-2006, 02:01 PM
sorry to see you go petunia!
QUESTION~I should know this by now, but, HOW EARLY IS TOO EARLY TO TEST? I am 9DPO today.....I know a few of you have tested early (and I know if you still read this, you got some early BFP's on certain tests)
PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE WHEN TO TEST!
zhannushka
08-18-2006, 02:10 PM
Sunshine, I tested on 8 DPO and got a BFP. I thought it was weird, but the doctor confirmed that I was 8-9 DPO at the most. It was a VERY faint line, but nevertheless - it was a BFP. :)
Chelsea524
08-18-2006, 02:52 PM
Sunshine, I think implantation happens between 7-10 dpo, so at 8 dpo you could possibly get a bfp if it implanted early but I personally would wait till 11 dpo, well, who am I kidding, although I was at cd 29 I am pretty sure I am only 9 dpo, although I was really bummed this morning. Good luck testing either way! I will be testing again on tuesday which is 13 dpo I think.
Thanks everyone, I was bummed about the BFN but I really wasn't expecting a BFP, like I said above, I think I am only at 9 dpo. Good luck to anyone getting ready to test!!!
Sunshine
08-18-2006, 03:15 PM
zhannushka~THANK YOU! I think my DH will prob tell me to wait, but I just have this weird feeling, I dont know.....I was going to do it with FMU for sure tho, didyou? THANK YOU!
Chelsea~I was thinking of testing this weekend.....But my DH will prob tell me to wait until AF is due so I dont get all upset over nothing. I just have the oddest feeling, I dont know........Maybe I'll hold out until Tuesday and test with you:) We'll see if I can wait! I dont want to get a false BFN(If I AM preg), so I should just wait....
THANKS!!!
Yah, it IS so early for me still, I dont know why I am getting so anxious this month to test, all the other months I didnt even test.........:confused:
DelSol
08-18-2006, 03:18 PM
I hope everyone has a great weekend!
If my temp stays up on Saturday, I *might* test on Sunday. This will put me at 11DPO.
zhannushka
08-18-2006, 04:51 PM
Sunshine, I did test with FMU, but then I tested again, and again, and again :rolleyes: - and it kept coming back positive (but very faint). In fact, it was very faint for about a week, then it started getting darker. GOOD LUCK to you!!!
looty
08-18-2006, 05:08 PM
Reading along still. Thanks to everyone for their thoughts, prayers, and hugs. They mean a lot.
I am keeping my fingers croseed for everyone testing this week. I had more brown spotting today. I am expecting Af to show sometime between tomorrow and Tuesday. Due to the spotting I probably won't test until Wednesday or later if Ah hasn't shown by then.
We really need some BFPs! Bring them on!
RobynScott
08-18-2006, 07:17 PM
Hey Looty - just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. I know there is really nothing I can say to make you feel better. I will tell you that you are not alone - you've got all of us here - and you are not alone in what you are experiencing. Feel free to PM me if you would like - unfortunately, I have been in the position of having close family members deal with cancer before (and a terminal diagnosis) - if there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.
Also, there is a thread in Emotional Support for people with loved ones with cancer - I don't know if that would be helpful or not.
Sunshine and Chelsea - Good luck with the testing!
Bella - I did have a pina colada (or 2 ;) ) for you while I was on vacation :)
DelSol - I don't think I realized you are in Collegeville. I work in Philly and live right outside the city - good luck - I don't know much about charts, but from the little I do know, yours looks promising :)
Hello to everyone else. Well - crazy week at work - vacation, what vacation? - and here it is, Friday night and CD 13 - guess I'd better get off the computer and get busy :cool:
Have a great weekend all!
DelSol
08-19-2006, 06:58 AM
looty ~ keeping you in my thoughts & prayers. I hope AF isn't on her way.
RobynScott ~ Yup, I'm in Collegeville. I work in the King of Prussia area (Wayne). Did you sign up for the Philly GTG? I did but then everyone got busy and we never had the GTG. Thank you, I am hoping my chart stays promising. I hope you were able to get some BDing in last night. ;)
me ~
CD25 ~10DPO. I woke up feeling like crap, all stuffy, slight sore throat and I didn't sleep very well. I can tell this isn't my allergies. The guy that sits in the office next to me, was coming down with a cold or something, then he sat next to me at lunch so I probably caught something from him. :mad: On a good note I am going to test tomorrow since curiosity always gets the best of me, :)
Chelsea524
08-19-2006, 07:29 AM
DelSol good luck testing, your chart looks so beautiful, I may cheat and test again tomorrow too but I am going to try to hold out til Tuesday
Robyn I hope you got some BDing in last night, good luck catching the egg!
looty fingers crossed that AF stays away
Sunshine I may cheat and test again tomorrow but I am trying to hold out til Tuesday, good luck to you, maybe since you are feeling the urge to test this month and you haven't before then your body is trying to tell you that you are pregnant! I hope so!!
Well, CD 30 for me, I have been sick to my stomic the last few days and its just getting worse, this morning I was brushing my teeth and started to get sick, DH made me some toast and that helped a lot. For the last week he has said he didn't think I am pg but now he says he is sure I am, hope he's right. Ends up that he isn't going to leave for camping til monday now so I may cheat and test tomorrow, face it, I have enough tests I can spare one.
Tenny
08-19-2006, 08:26 AM
DelSol and RobynScott I'm from the Philly area too. I know live in GA, but grow up in South Jersey and worked in Philly for a couple summers through college! All of mine and DH's family are still up there so we go up several times a year. We are actually thinking about and hopefully moving back to the area next spring/summer!!
Chelsea524 and Sunshine good luck testing!! I can't wait to hear some good news!!
Nothing new is going on here. I'm CD 12 (ya remember I'm don't want to keep track:rolleyes: ) I had some CM around CD9 and 10 and nothing since. I usually O around CD14. So we shall see what happens. DH and I have tried to cover our bases, but with me being sick it has been a little hard. I'm feeling a little better, but I went to the DR yesterday and it turns out I have a sinus infection so I got some meds for that.
Hope everyone is have a great weekend!!!
Hi All,
Hope the weekend is treating you well.
Looty, hope you are getting to spend some time with family. And do something good to yourself too. This is definitely stressful, and TTC or not, you should manage that. Be good to each other, and be good to yourself. I really believe that.
Chelsea - here's hoping that the sickness continues :p I hope you have GOOD reasons to be puking up breakfast :eek: Is that gross or what? hee hee. I hope you get a bfp and get to tell DH he is right, AND that you weren't crazy after all!!!
That is such a cute way to tell DH about a bfp. Where did you find that idea? I love crafts, always liek to hear about a new resource. I want to try to get into scrapbooking. that reminds me of that.
We need a bfp. I started on this thread only last month, but it is 2/3 of the way through the month and no graduates yet!?
Chelsea and Sunshine and DelSol- good luck testing!!
Tenny, I too was not going to track! ha! Oh well, I think I really do it here for comparison sake rather than any other reasons.
Dancn - Hope your weekend is good - you need a great weekend. And still holding out for testing? My fingers are getting sore from being crossed so hard for you! :D
Everyone who has a cold: I hope you are all on the mend! And stop breathing on your computers :) I tried to stay away from you all, but now I'm taking my chances. I love coming here and getting suppport and reading about you guys!!
me - trying to decide whether or not to bd this afternoon. we did last night. will be too tired tonight after we go out. so... this afternoon or tomorrow evening. hmm.... every other day is a good method. is every day better? no clue :rolleyes: I must be near or just past O....
We have been pretty consistent every other day this whole time except last Sunday we dtd and MOnday so that we wouldn't have to do Tuesday (late night for me). DH really wants this to be our month. I teased that it was because of too much sex! He said he likes the sex, but not really the fact that it has a purpose. I agree.
Chelsea524
08-19-2006, 01:49 PM
Tenny Thanks, sorry about the sinus infection, but when its me, I am kind of happy to hear that because that means I get meds to make me better rather than being told "you should feel better in X amount of days", good luck on BD and catching the egg.
melg thanks, I got the card idea from this web site (www.twopeasinabucket.com), it has cards and scrapbook pages in it, thats where I steal all my ideas. Good luck catching the egg, from what I've heard BD every other day should be *enough* but its mainly recommended for those with low sperm count, so unless you guys have a problem there then BD every day would be the best, but don't wear yourself out.
Well, I went home from work today sick, I'm not really sick but just feel off, I have decided that I can no longer wear my perfume because it makes me sick, this is perfume that I have been wearing for a few years now and the last couple days its just been killing me. I have a feeling this is all in my head now though, I am working myself up way to much and I am going to be so upset...Why do I do this to myself???
Chelsea524
08-19-2006, 02:44 PM
I have spotted a BFP of one of our members!! Congrats to you!!! (I won't out her, let her share the news herself) Yes, I snoop, sorry:p
Sunshine
08-19-2006, 03:58 PM
Chelsea~YAY, our first BFP!!!! I'm going to snoop now too, wonder if I can figure it out!
It took ALOT for me to not test today! I dontknow why I am so impatient this cycle:(
zhannushka~THANK YOU! I still dont know what I am going to do......:p
looty~Thinking of you....I still hope AF doesnt show...
RobynScott~THANK YOU! Hope you were able to get 'er done;) heehee! Best of luck to you this cycle!!!
DelSol~ugh, I hope you arent sick:( Getting close to testing time hey?
Chelsea~Thanks! I hope you are right!
I think I have decided Not to test until next week, but it is getting So Hard not too............I really wanted to go to the walk-in today, but I kept thinking "What if its neg?" So I didnt.....
I wish you could send me a test;)
Your symptoms sound like mine! VERY PROMISING!
Does the smell of some foods make you feel sick?
Just read your newest post! OMG I was just telling someone today that I had to stop wearing perfume b/c it was making me want to get sick. This guy we hired yesterday, his cologne, OMG, I wanted to hurl.....Hmmmm, I hope we both get good news!
Tenny~THANKS!
Best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!
melg~My cold is gone, so I'm alright;) heehee!
We try to do it every other day and every day for the day before O and day of O...TRY! But I've read that if you do it every other day you double your chances! GOOD LUCK!
Oh, and THANK YOU!
Nothing new with me. We had the Canada Baseball under 17 cup here in town so I volunteered (Since hubby works for the news and the games are sponsored by them) to run the souvenir stand.....It was pretty fun! I got to talk to a news photographer, and learned a few things!
Still nauseaus, smells are making SICK! ugh.
And I wanted to go to a walk-in so badly this morning but was worried I would see a BFN...
GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE!
Sunshine
08-19-2006, 04:00 PM
Chelsea, you are a better detective than I...I couldnt figure it out...........
Tenny
08-19-2006, 04:17 PM
Chelsea, you are a better detective than I...I couldnt figure it out...........
Me either!!
Congrats to who ever it is!!
Edited to add that I think I might have just figured it out!!!
Sunshine
08-19-2006, 05:08 PM
WHAT????????????
I give up, I just spent 30 mins trying to figure it out:(
Chelsea524
08-19-2006, 05:13 PM
Sunshine, I was just looking through other family planning threads and happened to click on her chart, but I have a feeling she will be here soon!!
Sunshine
08-19-2006, 05:18 PM
I found someone too, BUT she doesnt post here according to our first page. JUST MY LUCK HEY?
LMAO!
Oh well!
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!
Chelsea524
08-19-2006, 05:28 PM
Was that on the charting thread? Someone mentioned her the other day and I had to track that one down too, but I don't think she really even posts on CC anymore at all, at least I haven't seen her around anywhere lately. This one is someone else.
Sunshine
08-19-2006, 07:01 PM
LOL! Yup! I think you are right too, I dont think she really posts here either.
But, Okay, now you Really have me intrigued;)
BerBer
08-19-2006, 09:32 PM
beginings of AF have started... so I'm out. Sorta sad and sorta relieved! Great, now I have a HPT that I was looking forward to peeing on tomorrow:rolleyes: ...(first time ever) I guess I'll save it for when we officially TTC.
Good luck to the rest of ya ladies! Can't wait till I get to be here for real.
Baby dust for all!!!!
LMAO with all the detectives in here! Are you scoping out LJs or other threads? I guess charting threads?
The sickies sound promising - at least the sick to your stomach ones of you. The colds... not so much. Glad all the colds are starting to feel better!
Good luck to the testers!
me - we bd'd earlier this evening. two days in a row. I hope that doens't actually decrease our chances. no low sperm count that we know of...
DH is going to be out of town Tuesday AND Wednesday night :eek: so I'm not sure what we'll do about missing two nights. hmmm... wish I knew when O was so that I would know if this is actually a problem. Maybe we could rendezvous home during work/lunch on Tuesday for a quickie if it's necessary? nether of us work anywhere near home so this would not be easy!
Funny story on that topic - tonight was a quickie. About to go out for dinner with friends, DH decides it would be fun. So... turned out not to be so quick. We bd'd then I finished getting dressed after lying down for 15-20 minutes. We were about 20 minutes late! Luckily our friends were too and the restaurant didn't mind holding the reservation! oops! it was for a good purpose though! and she's pregnant and due in Oct. so if they knew I'm sure they would approve.;)
Anyway, at dinner they were telling us all the gross and crazy unexpected things about pregnancy and delivery that "no one tells you until it's too late". We were cracking up! Most of it I kind of knew. I'm sure there's more though!:confused:
hee hee.
Ok, off to bed. We have a charity walk tomorrow.
Good night!
Can't wait to congratulate someone for a bfp - I hope we get lots of them!
I don't think I'll be testing for at least 2 more weeks so I realized that I wouldn't really get to be an August one even if this is our month!
Good night!
Chelsea524
08-20-2006, 07:43 AM
BerBer sorry about AF being on her way, can't wait til you are ready to join us, good luck
melg good luck catching the egg, I don't think BD every day will lower your chances, on the front page it says you have a 1 in 3 chance each month if you BD everyother day and a 1 in 2.5 chance if you BD every day, so I think you should be fine.
Well, BFN again today, good thing I have the dollar store tests so I'm not waisting to much money, I think today is about 11 dpo so it could still be early but I don't know, I feel all crampy so AF may be on her way soon, but my BBs are now starting to get sore, especially my nipples so I am still holding out a little bit of hope.
DelSol
08-20-2006, 09:30 AM
Quick update and I'll be back for some shout-outs later on.
I took a HPT early this morning and it came back BFN. I'm thinking it's still early since I'm only 11DPO. If AF isn't here by Wednesday, I will test again, she's due on Tuesday. Right before I woke up to test, I had a dream I was spotting and thought why should I even test I'm not PG. I woke up and tested but no spotting, weird!?
looty
08-20-2006, 09:36 AM
After the detective work talk I did some detective work myself and I found 2 members that are expecting that haven't announced it, but both are still around. I also found a third who is probably pg but either hasn't tested yet, or hasn't posted that she has.
DelSol
08-20-2006, 09:36 AM
QOTD: Which HPT do you prefer?
I bought Clearblue Easy Digital, just wondering if were some better ones out there since I never bought one before.
cross-posted from Charting Thread
DelSol
08-20-2006, 09:37 AM
After the detective work talk I did some detective work myself and I found 2 members that are expecting that haven't announced it, but both are still around. I also found a third who is probably pg but either hasn't tested yet, or hasn't posted that she has.
Darn you guys are good, I can't figure it out. I only found one after looking through all the charts!
Sunshine
08-20-2006, 11:44 AM
Sorry DelSol and Chelsea for the BFN's. I guess I'm the only left to test at this time?! I know us 3 were grouped together and I am 11DPO today too.
Cant believe I still havent tested.......feeling crampy and BB's hurt. Still a little nauseaus. Man am I going to be upset if AF shows........I've worked myself right up again this cycle...
Oh darn, I have to go...BBS!
GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!
DelSol
08-20-2006, 12:45 PM
Tenny ~ when you are in town next let us know we'll see if we can plan a Philly GTG. I hope you move back. Sorry about your sinus infection, I hate getting them.
melg ~ you can do every other day if DH has low sperm count or you get tired fast. My DH gets tired fast so we only did it every other day but I think that might change is my BFN is really a BFN. Woo hoo for a quickie! :D
Chelase524 ~ Sorry about your BFN, I'm in the same boat, let's hope it was too early for us. I tried to the spot the MBFP but can never seem to figure her out.
Sunshine ~ good luck holding out on testing, I couldn't hold out & got a BFN. Some smells make me sick but I can still wear perfume.
BerBer ~ sorry about AF, hopefully you can join us soon.
Me ~
I'm still a little bummed about the BFN but keep telling myself it's probably too early. Im feeling better because I took an allergy pill last night and this morning so I hope it was just my allergies.
Chelsea524
08-20-2006, 12:50 PM
After the detective work talk I did some detective work myself and I found 2 members that are expecting that haven't announced it, but both are still around. I also found a third who is probably pg but either hasn't tested yet, or hasn't posted that she has.
Hmm, now I'm curious, I know one girl from this thread and one from the charting thread, the charting one doesn't post anymore I don't think, but then there are some mighty pretty charts on the charting thread, 17 dpo and still hasn't taken a test, man, what will power! So I still can't find the other one you are talking about that is still around.
DelSol sorry about the BFN, I got mine this morning too, I think I am at 11 dpo as well, so hopefully it is just to early for both of us.
Sunshine, when do you plan on testing? I will probably test again on Tuesday, if not then I would have to wait til friday for my next day off. Good luck to you, sounds very promising!
Well, I have no more FPS except my BBs are sore, but not extreamly sore like when I first was pg with DS#2 so we shall see.
Chelsea524
08-20-2006, 12:52 PM
QOTD: Which HPT do you prefer?
I bought Clearblue Easy Digital, just wondering if were some better ones out there since I never bought one before.
The digital tests aren't as sensitive, I think they pick up at 100, where most tests are about 50, I like first responce early detection myself
DelSol
08-20-2006, 12:58 PM
The digital tests aren't as sensitive, I think they pick up at 100, where most tests are about 50, I like first responce early detection myself
Thank you! I was going to get first response but thought digital would be easier to read. Well on my next trip out I'll be reseaching them more.
Chelsea524
08-20-2006, 02:08 PM
Ok, someone help me. Is it possible to get EWCM after Oing, and I mean like 11 days after? This may be TMI but, I was feeling kind ok wet and thought AF had just started so I went to the bathroom and is was EWCM, and a lot of it. I was pretty sure I already O'ed and I really don't want to go through the 2ww all over again, I mean, if I am just now Oing we covered our bases really well, I made sure we BD after I saw the EWCM just in case and we have BD for the last few days but this is so frustrating, I really wish I could just chart to know what in the world is going on but DH is so against it. Now I may just hold out on testing for a while, no point in waisting tests. Sorry for my vent, just not what I was hoping to happen, I was happy this 2ww was almost over just in time for it to start, ahhh.
Ericka_Jarett
08-20-2006, 02:51 PM
DelSol,
Actually Digitals pick up at 50 now, use to be said to be 100 but it's changed.
When I got my BFP both times I used Equate (Walmart) and CBE Digitals. Got my BFP at DPO11 with this pregnancy. I used the Equate first to see what it said, if it was positive I used the digital to confirm.
looty
08-20-2006, 05:04 PM
Man, we aren't having much luck this month are we? Sorry about the BFN. I didn't test because I have been spotting. It has only been brown but it has been fairly consistent for the past few days. I am just waiting for it to turn into full blown AF sometime by Tuesday. After that happens I will have to call my dr. to schedule the HSG again. Phbbt!
As far as "still around" I just mean she is still around the boards but not around this thread. One hasn't posted in here since May, but the others have posted more recently. I don't think that one is going to come here to announce it, but I hope the other(s) do.
Sorry I am still not doing SOs. I will probably get back into those in the next few days. I can't go all the way back but I do want to say thanks again for all your support. I saw my g-pa yesterday and although it was hard to see him emotionally I want to try to see him as many times as I can before he is gone.
I hope those of you whoe have tested recently just had it a little early.
Ericka_Jarett
08-20-2006, 05:12 PM
looty - you can always write the ladies under the threadmistress name and ask them if they wanted to be graduated from the thread.
dancn226
08-20-2006, 07:47 PM
Sorry girls, but I am out. Got AF today, browinsh red, horrible. I thought I covered all bases. I mean ALL...I was really thinking this was going to be our month. I thought it would be perfect espeically since we have no April B;day in any of our famlies, and like 2 that will turn one next May, I figured it would be awesome, to have an April B'day. But oh well, I guess God has a plan of his own. I just don't get it....I really don't. I mean seriously, I don't think we could have tried harder. It really bothers me, granted this is only the REAL first month of giving it a really good try, but really, I thought for sure we got it. I mean honselty, somone help me out, if I got AF today, wouldn't that have made me O on like the 7th or 8th. That would then make my cycles something like 30 ish days, Correct. Give or take (and trust me we made up for the give or take but many), so that I just really confused really upset, and completley annoyed that my sister in law has three kids, that she siad they have never planned. SO WTF is going on here, why so easy for her, and yet so hard for me.
Part of me thinks I should try and chart, but I really don't want to put that much on something. I am just so mad right now, I always though I had a pretty good handel on my cycles, and always believed that it would be easy when I did decided to get pregnant, now it seems like something that is so damn hard, it PISSSES me off.
SOrry for the nice long vent, but I am really aggrativated, it makes me so mad, I want this so bad, I really do, that is almost starting to drive me nuts!!!! Its so easy to say not to think about it, but damn, its really NOT!!! Anyhow, I can feel a really good week coming on!!! RIGHT, I HIGHLY DOUBT THAT.
Oh well its like Sunday night, and my DH is at work (24hrs Firefighter), so I am going to go sit on my couch, ALONE, and be depressed, while drinking enought wine to NUMB the cramps away.
Hope everyone has a nice night......TIme for some General Hospital, and a LOT of wine. No need to feel guily for that.
Me, Not BACK to CD 1
P.S. SOrry for the long post, just a little aggravated, wanted to vent, but the DH is with all men, so he can't really discuss this like I want him to.
Smittenk
08-21-2006, 12:53 AM
Over our holiday DH and I have decided to go back to TTA until next spring/summer. Not bad news...it actually goes back to our original plan and timeframe so I feel like some pressure is off.
Sorry I haven't been more involved with the thread. I have already chatted to Looty and I will keep helping out until someone else would like the job.
So if you would like to be the new Seeing What Happens co-threadmistresses please PM me. The first person to PM me will get the job!
bellabonga
08-21-2006, 02:46 AM
Sammy, Iīm crossing my fingers for you that the get the okay to TTC again immediately after your procedure.
melg, sorry about your BFN! :( It sounded so promising. Have better luck this cycle.
dancn, thatīs weird that you had the same symptoms as I did. Did you go to your doctor to get it checked? Sorry about AF! :( I know it is a big bummer if you have tried so hard. But even if you have perfect timing, your chances of getting and staying pregnant are only 25%. I know, thatīs not fair if you consider how many women fall pregnant unwanted.
Sunshine, 18 May birthdays?! Wow, thatīs crazy! We donīt have a single one. Your symptoms sound promising, especially that you get sick from smells. Good luck testing! :)
looty, I hope the spotting doesnīt mean anything and youīll get a BFP once you test. :)
Chelsea, your symptoms sound so promising, so itīs a big bummer that you got two BFNs. I hope it was just too early. If I remember correctly, you can have more discharge when youīre pregnant, maybe that would be an explanation.
Berber, sorry about AF. I hope you have better luck once you officially start to TTC.
Delsol, sorry about the BFN. Hope it was just too early.
QOTD: I got both BFP with a Clearblue. The BFP with Maya with a regular one, the BFP with Olivia with a digital one. I have emailed Clearblue because they donīt say from which HCG count on the tests pick up. They said that both the digital and regular one pick up from 50 while the early pregnancy test you can use from 10DPO on picks up from 25. I have still another digital left. Iīm torn if I prefer the digital or the non-digital. Somehow a line is more exciting but you donīt have to interpret faint lines. And you still see the lines once you eject it. So I guess I prefer digital Clearblues.
Thank you all for your good wishes! I havenīt felt weird during the past days, so I hope that everything is okay. I can feel my left ovary from time to time but only feel it. It doesnīt hurt, I can just feel that my ovary is there if that makes sense. AF has been very heavy from CD 2-4 and was nearly gone yesterday. Now Iīm CD 6 and I would like to start BD on CD 8.
BUT: DH has had a tooth pulled out on Friday and has horrible tooth ache since then. He has been to the emergency dentist twice this weekend and they discovered that two little pieces of his jaw bone have broken off and infected the wound. Even though the pieces are out now, DH is still in horrible pain and lies in bed totally ill. He has had several numbing injections, he has taken several painkillers, he is starting antibiotics today for six days and they have put lidocaine into the wound for hours. So now I am not sure if we should TTC this month as I have no clue how or if this is affecting his sperm. Okay, first he has to feel a lot better anyway because in this state he is in, there is no way he would BD at all. But even if he feels better in two or three days, I am not sure if this is dangerous or not. Any thoughts?
Apart from that I have no clue who is hiding her pregnancy from us! :D Is it one of the regular posters? There are so many nominal members on the first page who Iīve never seen posting which I find confusing. Maybe it would be better if we just started out new every month and everyone who really wants to post copies their stats from the old threat. But congratulations, whoever it is!
melandtim
08-21-2006, 04:04 AM
Wow I am so anxious to hear who is our first graduate!! Hopefully this will be the start of a great thing for many of us!
BerBer and dancn - sorry AF has arrived. good luck this next cycle.
Looty, Chelsea and DelSol - keeping my fingers crossed that it was just too early to test.
Looty - I am so glad you got to spend some time with your grandfather. Just know we are all here to support you and listen when you need to chat.
Bella - sorry to hear about your DH, that sounds painful :( Glad to hear you are feeling better though.
Hope all who have been sick are feeling better after the weekend.
Me - I'm on CD 9 and finally feeling better :) We have been getting in some good BD time. I am going to give the OPK another try this month to see if it works. Expecting a call from my doctor today with my blood test results.
Monty
08-21-2006, 04:27 AM
Well, we finally started TTC!!!! Yipppeeee!!!!!! I finally get to be part of this thread!!! Here's my stats:
Me: Monty (24) - October 21
DH: Chris (30)
Married: April 24, 2004
Last BCP: January 2005
TTC since: August 2006
Should be interesting! GOOD LUCK LADIES!
bellabonga
08-21-2006, 05:21 AM
melandtim, glad to hear that you are feeling better! :) I have thought about getting some OPKs this month too. Over here we have digital Clearblue OPKs that come in a package of 7. I just have to find out how much they are since the package of three (no name brand) non-digital costs already $22! :eek:
Welcome, Monty! :)
melandtim
08-21-2006, 05:27 AM
Welcome Monty!!
Hi Bella! - I am just using the simple test strips. The actual monitors over here are so expensive. I did get faint lines twice last month but it never acutally got the positive line I should have gotten. May have been that I missed it, not sure. But I have some left over so I am going to use them!
motray36
08-21-2006, 05:49 AM
Good morning eveeryone!!
I've been MIA because my DH's friends came up for the weekend (8 of them, plus a german shepherd, who all slept in my 3 bed, 1 bath cape cod!). So, needless to say, I've been a little preoccupied!!
Sorry for all of you who got AF/BFN's :( What is up with this month?! And where are those BFP hiders?
I'm just hanging out, waiting for AF...assuming I'm out because of poor BD timing, unless the temperature on CD22 was a fluke!
ceaserbride
08-21-2006, 06:00 AM
Okay, I *need* to join in here, all things considering...hehe
Me: Tasha (23) -
DH: Jason (23)
Married: August 5th 2006
TTC since: August 2006
So I just need some more experienced peoples opinion! AF is due to arrive tomorrow and still no PMS symptoms but some different symptoms like very tender nipples (I've never had this before) and they're leaking a very small but note-able amount of clear and milky fluid (never had this before either). No cramping (I ussually get AF cramping a couple days prior to AF arriving) or bloating as normal.
Is it to early to test today??
DelSol
08-21-2006, 06:04 AM
Morning Ladies!
Quick post, I have 3 new hires starting today so I need to do orientation soon!
Temps are still up so I have no clue what's going on. I feel crampy today.
I decided if AF was going to arrive she'd arrive today because I am wearing white capris! She did that to me a few months ago and came early since I had my white capris on.
I'll be back later for shout-outs.
ETA: CD 27 - 12 DPO
Ericka_Jarett
08-21-2006, 08:39 AM
ceaserbride - I would say test tomorrow with FMU if AF hasn't arrived. Get a 2 pack of tests so that if it's negative and AF still didn't arrive in a few more days you can test again. AF could be delayed due to wedding stress as I see you got married very recently. But with leaking of the breasts it's possible you are pregnant. Good Luck
BerBer
08-21-2006, 08:58 AM
ok... I am really confused now. I started to have some spotting on DPO 10 and just thought that it was spotting before Af like usuall just a bit early. (I usually spot brown blood a few days before AF on a normal cycle. The spotting has stopped and never really amounted to much. AF isn't due until tomorrow so I am just confused...
I took an HPT on DPO 10 and it was negative so I know I'm not pg but, I just don't know what is going no now... Where is AF...???
Do you think it could be an early miscarriage or something like that?:confused:
Sunshine
08-21-2006, 09:24 AM
melg~Hope you had fun at the charity walk! I was doing charity this weekend too, altho I wasnt walking;)
Chelsea~I dunno, I am back at the "wait until AF is late and Then test...":p I dont have a test....so I dont know! LMAO! Altho, tomorrow might be the last day of my cycle, so I can test soon if AF doesnt show!!!!!!!! YAY!
(I almost just want to go to my doctor and have him take a test, but if its neg, than what, KWIM?
dancn~OH NOOOOOOOOOOO. I am so sorry:( Even if you DTD on all the right days you still only have something like a 20% chance of conceiving....HUGS. I hope this cycle will be the one for you.
My SIL has 3 children they didnt try for either, AND she actually had her tubes tied before she got preg with the 3rd. HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN???????
I hope the wine and GH was good yesterday!
Bella~OMG, May is CRAZY for birthdays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am scared to test and now I dont even want to anymore. I am back to the waiting until AF shows......Sheesh.....
Not sure if it would be dangerous, but I sure hope he feels better soon.......
I have NO IDEA who the graduate is either! LOL! I was going CRAZY on the weeeknd trying to figure it out! LOL! I'm not good at detective work I guess! LOL!
Monty~WELCOME!
motray~You arent out until AF shows:D GOOD LUCK!
ceasarbride~WELCOME!
DelSol~LOL! Yuor right, if you are wearing white, she will come:p LMAO! I hope AF stays away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seems we ovulated on the same day!
BerBer~GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
(I hope I didnt miss anyone, if I Did....HI!!!!!)
Well, update on me.........I am afraid to test:p I dont have any HPT, and I am just at the point where I just want to see if AF shows(Which should be Wed/Thur.....tomorrow Could be the last day of my cycle since last month my cycle was 26 days, but it is usually 27)........LOL!
I almost want to make an appoint with my doc to see if he can do a test for me, but then what if it is neg? KWIM? I dont know what to do..........ugh.
Nothing much has changed, still the same....
BEST OF LUCK TO ALL THE TESTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
pugzy
08-21-2006, 11:36 AM
Hi Ladies!
Sorry I haven't posted in a while, I've been terribly busy as we are in the process of buying our first house. Yay!!
I have a question for all of you. This is my first cycle of TTC, and I've noticed that not long after we BD, the semen in coming out of me (sorry this is graphic!) Anyways, I've heard of people propping up their hips to keep it in, but is this really necessary? I just lay on my back until I feel it coming out, then I get up and clean up. My concern is that I'm not giving it enough time to swim up there!
DelSol
08-21-2006, 12:07 PM
dancn226 ~ ((((BIG HUGS)))), so sorry AF showed.
bella ~ glad to see you are feeling better. I hope DH feels better.
melandtim ~ glad you are feeling better and can move onto BDing.
Monty ~ Welcome!
ceaserbride ~ Welcome! Since AF is due tomorrow, I think you would be good if you tested tomorrow AM. Good Luck!
BerBer ~ not sure what is going on but Good Luck!
Sunshine ~ you are too funny! So far the white capris aren't working. If we both get a BFP, we'll be due on the same day since we O'd the same time. I'm going to test next on Wednesday since AF is due tomorrow. Keep my everything crossed for the both of us.
pugzy ~ this is what i found at Baby Center:
If conception is going to happen, it will be in the first few hours after sex. At this point you can't do much except cross your fingers and hope, though some experts say the woman should stay on her back (with a pillow under her butt) for at least 20 or 30 minutes so gravity can help the sperm get to the waiting egg.
Getting pregnant: How babies are made. (http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/preconception/gettingpregnant/7056.html)
Me ~
Not much of an update on me. I feel like I have cramps, keep running to the ladies room and nothing, still got a couple more hours for my white capris to work, if she's coming.
Sunshine
08-21-2006, 12:45 PM
Okay, so where did I go on my lunch break? I went to buy some HPT's! LMAO!:D This time I went to Walmart and found the cheapest tests there so far! 2 Tests for $10! YAY!
Soooo, If I test tomorrow it will either be 1 or 2 days early. The test I bought (One Step) it says that 1 day before is 87% and 2 is 84%...so pretty close!
Anyways, I figure that I can use the one test early as I have 2 now:D If AF shows, then I have 1 more for next cycle, if not, well, I can use the 2nd!
DelSol~HERE'S HOPING! BTW, have you checked What our due date would be yet? I have;) A few times:p And it will be May 4th! heehee!
GOOD LUCK!
DelSol
08-21-2006, 01:38 PM
DelSol~HERE'S HOPING! BTW, have you checked What our due date would be yet? I have;) A few times:p And it will be May 4th! heehee!
GOOD LUCK!
Yeah for going out and buying an HPT! FF is telling me my due date would be May 2nd. I think we have different CDs but we are the same for DPO. I can bet the doctor will have a different day for us!
Chelsea524
08-21-2006, 01:52 PM
Sunshine you make me LMAO, the other day you were deciding when to test, if it should be over the weekend or monday or tuesday, then this morning you decide you will wait til AF is late and then just a couple hours later you buy tests, you are to funny!! Good luck with testing!!!
DelSol Glad your temp went up this morning, maybe those cramps are a little one settling in! Last cycle I wore my white capris to work begging for AF to show (this was day 60 or something so I really was hoping she would show) I hope AF stays away!
pugzy I try to wait about 20 mins before I get up (key word is try:rolleyes: )
BerBer at 10 dpo it is really early to get a BFP, implantation doesn't happen until 7-10 dpo so I would test tomorrow or the next day and see, that spotting could have been implantation.
ceaserbride Welcome, I would test tomorrow, but as Ericka said, the wedding stress could have delayed O
Monty Welcome!!
motray Sorry about the bad timing of BDing, I hope that temp was just a fluke, looks like your temps went back down until today
I think I got every one, if not sorry!
Well, I had more EWCM this morning but it has completely dried up, and don't laugh at me but I took a HPT this morning, BFN as I expected, but then this afternoon I decided to take an OPK just to see, it was close to being positive but just a hair bit lighter. So if I did just barely O today then I guess that would be OK, I hate the idea of starting the 2ww all over again but I think we would have done a good job over covering our bases. I am going to attempt to hold out testing from now on unless I have some big FPS, I still have really sore BBs but maybe that is related to Oing. 14 DPO from today would be our anniversay, that would be kind of fun to get a BFP that day.
BerBer
08-21-2006, 01:56 PM
Well all afternoon I was peeing every other 30 mins, and everytime I wiped I checked for spotting and nada. Then I ate my usual Smartones frozen dinner for lunch and was starving after eating it. At 2 it was time for me to walk the 3 miles home and I pee'd before I left... and I had to stop and go again... this is what tipped me off. I stoped off at Walgreen's and picked up some HPT's and another frozen dinner since I was starving.:D
I put the frozen dinner in the microwave and took the HPT while it was cooking... BFP! It is a very faint line, but it's there and I can't really believe it...The spotting on Saturday must have been implantation spotting... I knew it didn't look 'normal'.
Thanks everyone for holding my hand through this! I can't wait for DH to come home so I can tell him. He is going to flip out.:D
Chelsea524
08-21-2006, 01:58 PM
Oh Congrats Berber!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is so great, have fun telling DH!!
bellabonga
08-21-2006, 02:03 PM
Congrats, Berber!!! :D Somehow I knew it the whole time that you had to be a graduate. It just seems to work best if you donīt try at all. Maybe I should TTA again... ;)
Sunshine
08-21-2006, 02:16 PM
heeheeeee, arent I a silly one;)
BerBer~OMG, really? Congrats!
DelSol~FF tells you when your due date would be? Maybe b/c I have the free version it doesnt? How do you do that? I bet our docs will give us a different date too:p
LMAO about me going to buy a HPT:p We had extra money on our cheques, so I thought, WHY NOT? LOL! I'm not telling DH tho! heehee!
OKAY, I figured it out! I checked and it said (When I put in my LMP date) May 4th(WOW, right on!) and I checked my O date and it said May 2nd....No wonder you get so many different dates! Well, it will be an early May baby for me, maybe:p
Chelsea~heehee! I KNOW! I'm crazy! LMAO!
THANK YOU!
I am hoping like you to get a BFP for our anniversary! Ours is this Sunday!!! How strange the similarities between us, especially if you just O'd!
GOOD LUCK!
FSUSammy
08-21-2006, 03:59 PM
Sunshine - Let us know the results of that HPT!!!!
BerBer - Congrats on the BFP! That's awesome news. H&H 9 months!!!
Me - I'm 5 DPO, there is definitely no chance of having caught that egg which is a good thing seeing that I need to get rid of this acid reflux before there is a baby on the way. I started NPC this cycle so we'll see how that affects my LP and if it affects when I O next cycle.
Ericka_Jarett
08-21-2006, 03:59 PM
pugzy - sperm are fast swimmers and can get to where they need to in the first few seconds of DTD. You really don't need to wait 30 mins with your hips up, but if you want to attempt it just pop a pillow under your hips and wait 20 mins or so. Tell hubby not to pull out right after he is done, that will help keep some of the sperm inside instead of them coming out.
BerBer - congrats, happy pregnancy.
DelSol
08-21-2006, 04:40 PM
Sunshine ~I bought the 90 day Membership with FF and it gives me the due date, what date I should test, how many temps I have over the cover line and so on... Can't wait to hear your results
Chelsea524 ~ let's hope it's a little one settling in. I had some major pain on the way home, AF type cramps and I get home, go to the bathroom, expecting to see AF and nada. Tomorrow will be another stressful day since she is due then.
BerBer ~ Congratulations! Happy & Healthy 9 Months!
I think Bella has the right thinking, if you aren't trying it will happen for you right away, if you are trying, it's not gonna happen right away.
As I mentioned above, I had some major pain on the way home, AF type cramps but nothing, there what looked like some creamy CM. We just got back from dinner and I swear I could have been sick while eating, probably my mind playing tricks on me but it wasn't fun trying to get those thoughts out of my mind while trying to eat. I told DH tomorrow is when we find out if we were successful in making a little one, he just shrugged his shoulders. I can tell he's not into it as much as me so it bums me out. I hope he gets more excited if I am PG.
Tenny
08-21-2006, 05:01 PM
BerBer WOW!! Congrats!! So what is your due date? Happy and Healthy nine months to you!! I can't wait to hear DH's reaction!
Be back tomorrow for more SO!
RobynScott
08-21-2006, 06:29 PM
CONGRATS BERBER!
Sammy - hope you are feeling better soon.
Sunshine - Good luck - I know exactly how you feel about the tests! (thinking back to myself just a few short weeks ago ;) )
chelsea - good luck - at least you know you have your bases covered, right? ;)
bella - glad you are feeling better! too bad DH is now having problems - hope you are both healthy and feeling good soon!
welcome monty!
dancn - sorry about the BFN :( As bella said - even if everything is right, there's still only a 20 (35?) % chance of conception - frustrating I know!
looty - glad you got to spend some time with your GF - I'm still here if you want to talk!
melandtim - good luck! I just started using (well, using for their intended purpose anyway ;)) - OPK's this month. we'll see!
Ericka Jarrett - hope you are feeling good!
I told DH tomorrow is when we find out if we were successful in making a little one, he just shrugged his shoulders. I can tell he's not into it as much as me so it bums me out. I hope he gets more excited if I am PG.
Just had to respond to this - my DH was the same way last month when I was hopeful - they don't get it the same way - but I'm sure he will come around. It's just that it's easier for us to obsess about things - well, me anyway :rolleyes:
Phew - I tried to hit everybody - sorry if I missed anyone. As for me, CD 16 - I'm thinking I o'ed yesterday. It was sometime between Sat night and yesterday I think. Fri night and Sat afternoon I got a positive OPK. Took one tonight (was out of town yesterday) and got a negative, so I'm hoping that means Sat night/yesterday was O day.
We'll see. I told DH we'll see what happens this month - but next moth we may ahve to use the 'marriedagoali' method, b/c I would really like to be due by next June if at all possible, *lol* (Of course I would like a healthy pregnancy whenever it happens, but a girl can dream a bit, right?)
and so - another 2 WW begins. Last month I was so busy I barely noticed till the end - hope I can do that again (but not looking good so far - already today I was thinking, c'mon sperm - go meet that egg! (yes, I am a freak!)
Have a good night all and good Sunshine! (and anyone else testing soon)
looty
08-21-2006, 07:54 PM
Hey girls! I only have a few minutes because I have had a long day at work (meetings all day and then open house tonight) but I wanted to pop in here and root you all on! I hope that we get some more BFPs soon!
Congrats Berber! That is such great news. Remember to come back and tell us your due date and how your DH reacted.
Welcome Monty! I agree with the others that if AF is due already you can test any day and see.
Well today is CD 1 for me. The white capris worked for me but luckily I was ready for her so it wasn't an issue. Well except for the horrible cramps I had this month and of course those came just in time for open house when I am supposed to be perky while seeing all these students and meeting all these parents for the first time. Nice!:rolleyes: I will be calling my dr. tomorrow to set up the HSG. I told DH that I expected them to want to do it on Monday and he wants me to see if they will do it Tuesday instead because he has to do training. :rolleyes: I told him I'll see what I can do. The only good thing about the whole g-pa thing is that TTC seems pretty inconsequencial so I am not too upset by AF coming and I wasn't obsessing before she came.
Seeing What Happens
08-21-2006, 08:08 PM
Updated to here!
Congrats to Berber and welcome to Monty!:D
tinkerbelljenny
08-21-2006, 11:56 PM
Congrats Berber!!!
melandtim
08-22-2006, 03:56 AM
YAY a graduate! Congrats Berber !!! Hope you have a healthy 9 months.
Welcome Monty!
Looty - sorry AF showed. Why couldn't she have waited a few more hours.
Ericka - wow you are getting so close. Hope you are doing well :)
Robyn - I only got a faint line for 2 days last month. I guess I missed the surge. But I have already started testing this month.
DelSol - keeping my fingers crossed for you.
FSUSammy - sorry you don't think you caught the egg this month. Hope the acid reflux is getting better.
Bella - how is your DH doing?
I think I stressed myself out too much the first few months so now I am trying and succeeding in not thinking much about it. I am keeping track of my temps but trying not to obsess.
My doctor called last night. Test results were normal!!! That is great. DH has his SA towards the end of September. I still can't believe they are that backed up :( By then we will be at almost 9 months off BCP so my doctor is sure that my insurance will cover CLomid for me. But we are going to give it a try till then and hopefully get lucky!!
I had laugh at DH. I noticed he wasn't wearing his tighty whiteys much lately and I asked him why. He gave me a sly smile and said he was trying to help out by keeping the boys free :p
Ericka_Jarett
08-22-2006, 06:29 AM
Bella - just looking at posts from the last few days. I would say to wait about TTC. Your husband probably isn't in the mood at all and will want to get past all the tooth pain. I had all 4 of my wisdom teeth pulled back in December, it was about 5 days before I was to O. AF showed up 14 days later. That cycle was my longest in almost 2 yrs. Got pregnant the next cycle, maybe it will work for you as well. Good Luck
DelSol did you try to test again? You may have gotten a negative because you didn't O when FF said you did. Took me a few cycles to figure out when the perfect time to DTD would be. Here is my chart from the cycle I got pregnant: Chart (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/22964)
DelSol
08-22-2006, 07:12 AM
RobynScott~ I was thinking my DH just didn't care so I guess it's normal for them. Yeah I obsess too so we are in the same boat. No are you are not a freak about this "c'mon sperm - go meet that egg!" I was doing the same cheer! :p
looty ~ sorry AF showed.
melandtim ~ thank you, tomorrow is test day as long as AF stays away. LOL at your DH, good to know he's taking this seriously and not wearing those tighty whiteys.
Ericka_Jarret ~ nope didn't test yet, holding off until tomorrow. I've only been temping for 3 cycles and they've been pretty consistent in when I O'd.
Me ~ CD28 ~ 13DPO
Still feeling crampy like AF is gonna show any minute now. Feeling somewhat nauseated. I keep praying AF stays away. I'll be testing tomorrow morning.
BerBer
08-22-2006, 08:23 AM
Thank you all for all of the words of encouragement and support. I wanted to come back and tell you all how things went. Here is a cross post from my LJ...
On Saturday I went with my girlfriends to Riley Fest in Mt. Horeb. Last year my friend Beth went with her BF and ended up conceiving their DD there... They named her Brinna Riley Margret! LOL, Then this year I go to the bathroom and I think I'm spotting... but alas it was just my baby settling in. I called Beth and said that it must be the fesival, everytime one of us goes there somebody comes back pg.
I told Scot last night and he was shocked! I told him on Sunday that we were in the clear because I thought my period had started. After the shock wore off he seemed fine/happy with it. We feel lucky and blessed. He held me so close last night and this morning he gave me a kiss on the check and told me to take good care of his baby today. How could I ask for a better father than him.
I am really scared/ excited right now and I have no idea what to do next. Last night I went to a baby shower right after I told DH. It was weird being around all the babies. Still can't believe this is happening to me.:eek:
Chelsea524
08-22-2006, 09:54 AM
Congrats again Berber that is really great, H & H 9 months to you!
So where is Sunshine this morning, she tells us she has bought tests and doesn't come in with the results?? How rude:p Good luck Sunshine, I hope there's two lines!!!
CD 33 for me and who knows how many DPO, just hoping either way that I have O'ed and caught the egg, hopefully we will see in a couple weeks.
Ericka_Jarett
08-22-2006, 10:24 AM
Nice to see that this month is not ending as a bust for you ladies. Congrats to all the new mommies and those still waiting to test. April/May is a great time to have a baby :) (I'm an April baby and also had Rebekah in April)
Chelsea524
08-22-2006, 10:33 AM
OH ME TOO!!!! Congrats!!!
FSUSammy
08-22-2006, 10:39 AM
Oh me too me too!!! Congrats MBFP!
Tenny
08-22-2006, 10:42 AM
I spy a MBFP. Congrats.
Oh I can't wait!! Congrats to all!!
Chelsea524 That totally sucks if you are Oing not and you have to start the whole 2ww all over again. I hope you catch that egg!!
BerBer Congrats again!!
DelSol Keeping my fingers crossed for you!! Can't wait to hear the results of your test tomorrow!
melandtim Yah for the normal test results! Your hubby is too funny!
looty Sorry AF came! Good luck with your HSG.
RobynScott Good luck in your 2ww!
As for me I am finally starting to feel better from this sinus infection. I had such a horrible time sleeping Sunday night, but lucky I was able to get a good nights rest last night. I think I may have Oed yesterday, but I really have no clue. I can usually tell, but this month with being sick and all I just don't and it is really bugging me. I don't think we covered our bases good enough because of me being sick and tired. I guess I shouldn't give up hope just yet, but I'm pretty sure we are moving on to next month! Oh-well!!:(
pacificbliss
08-22-2006, 11:07 AM
Congratulations Berber!!!!
It's about time this thread had a BFP. I don't see this other one that has been spotted? I must be slow.
Sorry about AF looty I was really hoping the spotting would go away.
Sunshine
08-22-2006, 11:10 AM
Sooooooooo, you are all wondering why I wasnt here this morning, huh?
Well, I had to make a doctor's appointment, because.....well, I GOT THIS!!!!!!!!
http://images1.snapfish.com/34794%3A598%7Ffp347%3Enu%3D3258%3E8%3B9%3E3%3C2%3E WSNRCG%3D3233%3A986%3A3825nu0mrj
It didnt even take a minute for it to show!!!!!!!!!!
I grabbed the test and went and grabbed the box (b/c I didnt tell DH I bught the tests) and go out to where he is getting ready for work.
I am hiding it behind my back and I said "Dont be mad at meokay..." And he is looking at me like "What did you do now:p"
So I showed him the test and the box and we just started jumping up and down! I was shaking SO BADLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I called my work and he called his and we both called in sick! LMAO! Then I called my doctor and he fit me in at 10:30!
He confirmed, and gave me a due date of MAY 5!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a GREAT 1st ANNIVERSARY PRESENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks everyone for EVERYTHING! I hope you all dont mind if I stay on as a cheerleader:D
pacificbliss
08-22-2006, 11:11 AM
Congrats sunshine!!!!!
FSUSammy
08-22-2006, 11:16 AM
Congrats sunshine!!!! That's one dark plus sign!!!!! I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months! I hope to be able to have a the same kind of present next month for our 2nd anniversary, given that my doctor gives me the all clear to TTC again.
Sam
Lanapoo
08-22-2006, 11:17 AM
Holy Cow! I'm gone for a few days and have to read a bunch of pages to catch up!
Congrats Berber!!! Happy and Healthy 9 months to you :D
Sunshine - Where are you? Did you test?
Ack! There's just no way I can catch up on S/O's. So I'll just update. I'm CD13today and I'm hoping that I haven't O'd yet. I felt some pains in that region on Sun (CD11) but we didn't BD because we were tired. So much for being pro-active this month about BDing :rolleyes: . Maybe it's time to pick up the BBT to figure out when the heck I actually O.
ETA: ACK!!! YAY Sunshine!!! I'm so freaking excited for you!!
dancn226
08-22-2006, 11:18 AM
Congrats SUNSHINE!! Congrats. How cool that you both called in sick, i think that is so neat! I hope you enjoy your day!! How exciting. Good thing we toasted each other that glass of wine a week ago, because NO MORE FOR YOU!!! :0) LUCKY!!!
dancn226
08-22-2006, 11:20 AM
Oh crap, wanted to mention something about me. Here is am like on CD3, adn Ih ave to admit, I feel more FPS, then ever!!! Def fake though. I mean seriously, I so want to puke right now, I am so dizzy, and just blah. Typical situation for me. Go figure right. Oh well, hopefully this cycle will be better. DH and i are slowly telling more and more people that we are going to get going on this. Espeically since lots ofpeople have been giving us a lot of crap about it!!!
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