May 2006 Mommies - 2nd Trimester [Archive] - Page 5

smiles33

02-04-2006, 10:43 AM

I've been super busy at work and exhausted at night (heading to bed by 8 or 9 at the latest!) so I've totally been MIA here. Just wanted to drop by with a few updates and alert you about a great "gift certificate" for $50 off I can share with anyone who hasn't yet purchased furniture and wants to buy stuff by Baby's Dream.

We bought our crib and a combo hi-lo dresser (both Baby's Dream, hence the great $50 off coupon I can e-mail to anyone who PMs me), got our bedding (Wendy Bee's Starry Night that I bought off eBay), got our stroller (Zooper Waltz, which we love!), ordered plantation shutters from Home Depot, and finished painting and wallpapering (just the Wendy Bellissimo starlight border). Still, it's not ready for photos yet so I'll post those when we're all done.

Had a check-up yesterday and the GD test (find out in a few days). It also looks like I might be a bit anemic (the website had my blood test results and showed low red blood cell count, low hemoglobin, low hematocrit, etc.). I'll find out at my next appointment. The doctor did say at the check-up that Jocey is measuring a few days early, but everything looks good. I also asked her about how my linea nigra now continues ABOVE my belly button, too. She said it's just hormones, but I thought it would only appear below. Boy, is it weird.

Anyhow, now, on to a vent, which I really can only do here (since DH dislikes the woman in question and I can't tell him any negative stuff about her anymore as it only reinforces his image of her):

My girlfriends are starting to plan a baby shower for me, but there's been some drama already. 2 of the 3 women are moms of kids under 3 (and 1 of them has a 6 month old) and the 3rd single woman works at a start-up, so I know they're all incredibly busy. The 3rd single one is taking on the task of doing all the cooking for about 10-15 people and my MIL offered her house, so the 2 moms are focusing on invites, games, and decor.

I specifically told them to think low-key and just casual food and fun. The newest mom of the 2 had a very fancy Martha Stewart type shower that practically killed us but she's a very "girly" girl and wanted it perfect. Think Charlotte from SATC (In fact, I'll call her "Charlotte" for this little vent). I, on the other hand, am more aligned in thinking with Miranda and even joked that having fried chicken and my friends in the same room would be all that I want.

Plus, since I'm only inviting about 15 people, 6 of whom are from out of town (and none of them came to my bridal shower so I doubt they'll come to this) it should be a small, manageable shower (compared to 40+ for Charlotte, whose shower I just co-hosted last spring).

I told my 3 friends not to kill themselves, especially because I remember how much work goes into showers (I was up until 2 am both times cooking and prepping for their showers). But I'm a bit irritated that Charlotte (who even before she became a mom tends to be a bit "ungenerous"--which DH bluntly refers to as selfish and cheap) is trying to pass off work to my MIL, who told me from the beginning she can't do anything but offer her house as the party site because of midterms and a planned vacation in March (MIL is pursuing a graduate degree).

Charlotte and I even talked about MIL being busy before this latest issue about 2 weeks ago. MIL had emailed the friends planning the shower (and cc'ed me!!!) that she is not able to do the invites. I had no idea what MIL was talking about (I wasn't cc'ed on the original emails) but Charlotte called me and tried to explain that she had thought MIL had offered to do the invites because MIL had e-mailed the girls some ideas about invites, favors and shower games and asked them what they thought. MIL also apparently added that she knew a friend who did great hand-made invites. So Charlotte wrote back to her and said that would be great if MIL and her friend did the invites, which led to MIL's email saying she didn't have time to do the invites and didn't want to ask her friend to do it by herself. It was a simple misunderstanding, which I didn't think twice about until this latest incident.

Charlotte called me after this email from MIL because she wanted to make sure I knew she wasn't trying to pass off work to MIL and that she was willing and able to plan the shower. Then, casually, she said, "We just asked her to do the favors." I was surprised because I know MIL had only offered to have it at her house and was going to be super busy in March, but just said, "Oh, ok." I assumed perhaps MIL suddenly realized she had time for this project.

I was talking with MIL the day after this conversation and learned that MIL had NOT agreed to do the favors, so I e-mailed Charlotte and told her I would just do the favors myself and take over anything else Charlotte needed someone else to do, since MIL wasn't available at all. I would have called her, but her son has been having some sleep problems and I am wary of waking him up (she's a SAHM so no voicemail at work either). No reply yet despite it being more than 4 days (and this woman is on-line everyday) so now I'm thinking Charlotte is probably annoyed or irritated by my email.

Was I wrong in offering to do the favors? Should I have just said "screw the favors" since I really don't care about them much at all? Is it weird for me to just take over more tasks for my own shower? Charlotte oversaw everything for her own shower (color theme, supervised the choice of design for invites, approved the favor idea, etc.) but other people did the work. I know the other mom who is helping to co-host is pretty much going to help just the night before, as she works full-time, has a 2 year old, and her boyfriend works weekends so she isn't going to have any time to help more than that. The single friend is working at a start-up so she has no time either, plus I already feel badly that she is cooking by herself, as for the last 2 showers we cooked together and split up tasks.

I also figure I have weekends free and I can always drive an hour over to my mom's and have her help me. Still, I know I already have this "rep" as a Type A overachiever and I don't want to insult my friends by saying I'm taking over stuff. The other option is that I just tell them to forget about favors and just focus on hanging out and having fun. ARGH! I just want to see my girlfriends and have some good food and relax before the baby comes!

Southlooper

02-04-2006, 02:34 PM

Hope you're all having a great weekend.

According to the babyzone.com calendar, I'm/we're in the 3rd Trimester. Do you all consider 24wks and up the 3rd?

Smiles33: Yikes! What a dilemma. I can sympathize. I am a Miranda-type person also. My mom and SIL are throwing me a shower that was originally suppose to be at my mom's house for close friends and family (25 tops.) Now it has been moved to a resturant and at last count the guest list was at 65!!

There seems to be a total lack of communication among the people organizing. Could you possibly, or better yet have "Charlotte", send out an e-mail with an itemized list (in order of importance) of all the things that need to be covered and have everyone claim what they need/want to do? I find that when things are presented this way not only is communication better because eveyone know what they are doing but allso, when putting things in order of importance, people tend to gravitate to what needs to be done rather that the extra frilly stuff (which in turn tends to fall by the wayside.)

Once things are settled you could (if you really wanted to) offer to pick up the slack on the frilly stuff.

Hope this helps. Not the kind of stress that you need right now.

Discipline Issues: Without starting a debate on Spanking/No Spanking, have you and DH/SO discussed this? Lastnight we were at a friends birthday dinner. One couple brought their 2 1/2 year old. She did some thing and her father chose to handle the situation in a manner which I did not agree. DH and I talked about this incident and discipline in general and we are divided. Anyone else having this problem?

Jen1098

02-05-2006, 09:03 AM

Bloomwood Very Cute belly! I've got to take mine.

smiles33 Oy tough situation. It does seem to be a lack of communication there. I don't think your wrong in offering to do the favors but do you really have the time to do them. You said it was going to be small so at least it wouldn't take to long to do them. I agree with you, I'd much rather have something casual.

Fats Your nursery walls look great. Can't wait to see the fiinished product!

Discipline issues We're still having issues with this and Josh is 19 months old. Right now it's tough b/c right now his tantrums are mainly b/c he's fustrated or tired and he can't really communicate what he wants. DH and I still disagree on ways to discipline but I know we need to sit down and come up with a comprimise. One thing we've agreed on is not to argue with each other in front of the kids if we don't agree with something they said or did. We'll discuss it later away from them. Not to say we won't argue in front of them but if I don't agree with the way he handled something I'll wait to say something.

So I met my new Dr. on Friday. I like him and the office. He has me starting my two week appts. He said they usually start two week appts. at 28 weeks but since I'm new he'll start me now. I have my Glucose test in two weeks.
I also do my urine at home and bring it in to them. They want the early am pee before I eat. It's actually better to do it this way b/c it's one less then to do with Josh while there. He's going to start thinking it's normal to pee in a cup.:)
Oh he also gave me new vitamin samples with omega 3 in them. Guess I'll switch to those.

Well I'd better get cleaning or maybe I'll nap instead.:D

May2006Mommies

02-05-2006, 09:14 AM

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shortcake

02-05-2006, 09:58 AM

I think I missed some posts yesterday! So here is some catchup:

Jen - The barf bag is a great idea - I'm sure Ellie will love it! She's 2 now so we *have* to get her own seat anyway, but I'm glad we do.

Fats - Your walls look gorgeous! Makes me wish I pushed for DH to do two tone walls. Ours are cute but very sky-blue - fine for a baby/toddler I guess, but they did turn out bluer than we imagined from the paint chip.
I have an idea for you about pg photos (though you look great!). First of all, wait till you're 34 weeks or so...your big belly will make the rest of you look smaller (at least it did for me! I thought I looked good even though my butt etc were bigger than before). Also, we didn't get professional photos. I do some pro photography myself so I have a nice camera, and DH and I went to a nice woodsy park and shot 2 rolls (or was it 3?) of film. We did mostly of me (some full shots, some closeup) and a few using the self-timer, one of which is one of my favorites (hands on belly and our hands look really cool). You could also have a friend do it. Basically my point is if you take enough photos, you *will* get some you like! And it's so much cheaper than a professional - especially if you have a digital camera. Oh and use a GOOD photo lab to print them. There is a definite difference. If you just have a little point and shoot camera, you can still do this and get some great shots, but if you have a friend with a good SLR camera you might be happier with the results.

Ironhair - It's probably partly pg hormones but I have some different but related issues...I am thrilled that SIL is pg but a little jealous because they live right by ILs while we live in another state, so I am worried their kid will be the "favorite" or at least will know the grandparents better. I do think, though, that it will be so GREAT to have cousins the same age. I never had that.

Southlooper - Really? 3rd tri? I would have thought it was 28 weeks or at the very least 26 weeks...but hey, I'll take it!

futurelamgirl

02-06-2006, 08:38 AM

CC futurelamgirl
Me: Emi, 30
DH: Dave, 31
Married: 8.8.03
TTC: 8.8.05
EDD: 5.8.06
Confirmed Gender: Boy

I hope I am doing this correct because this is my first post in CC.

AttyGrl74

02-06-2006, 09:18 AM

Welcome Futurelamgirl!

I just wanted to pop in to post my 24 week photos - I look a mess - just out of the shower.

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b6dc24b3127cce9741f9ec4bcc00000035138EcNXDFo0ac

Guinness

02-06-2006, 09:36 AM

Welcome futurelamgirl!

Nice belly shot AttyGrl74!

Ugh Smiles33:( I hate when a simple let's get together starts to feel like a huge imposition for others. I would just reiterate again that you will be perfectly happy with a casual get-together! Favors for a shower wouldn't have crossed my mind, but we didn't do anything like that for my wedding. Hope it works out! Yay for all the shopping you completed too.

Jen1098 Sounds like a good Dr. appointment! I actually haven't had to pee since my 1st appointment. I think it is odd :confused:

Discipline We haven't talked about this at all really, however we have always pretty much agreed easily on everything. I think we are of similar styles, but it definitely is something we should discuss. We have done a great job training dogs if that counts (ha ha ha). My Brother and SIL always joke that our dogs are so well behaved they will send their kids to our house for discipline training :p I do know (believe me) that kids and dogs aren't the same!!

Update on me 28w today :D Belly is popping more and more. I am getting super achy and DH is not being nice about pampering me. I got really mad this weekend because he refused to rub my back :mad: I might just have to go pay to get pampered! Anyone else getting achy and sore??
I am also feeling really tired these days - but did have a busy week/weekend, so maybe it I was jsut overstimulated.

Hope everyone is doing well. Keep the belly/nursery shots coming - everyone/thing looks so good. I will get brave soon I promise!!

Em7.31.04

02-06-2006, 11:28 AM

I just had my 24w appointment, and it went really well. I am starting to meet the other midwives in the office, and I really liked the one I met today. I might even like her better than my midwife....I will be going in sometime next week to get a variety of blood tests....including the GD and Rh-antibody ones. My next midwife appt is on 3/9. I've gained 4lbs total - this was my first appt w/a gain. I'm happy w/the results so far.

Now, on to some much-delayed QOTDS:
Are you continuing to DTD? Yes, but not that often.

Has your appetite changed yet again? Hmmmmm, maybe a little bit? I no longer feel that I would sell DH for a slice of cheese or glass of milk. I was having some major dairy cravings there for a while. I'm eating sweets again now, which I didn't eat at all during the 1st tri. Still eating about the same amount of food though...

Can you see underneath your belly button? I wish!

Do you feel like your belly is growing significantly faster than before?
Yes! Especially in the past week.

Aside from health, what are your major concerns related to the baby?
Short-term...finding a good pediatrician & daycare. Long-term...having to go back to school so soon after my due date. Cross your fingers for a (healthy) early delivery!!

Has anyone thought about a sleep plan? DH & I have talked about it, but we don't necessarily have a "plan." We plan to have the baby sleep in his crib from day one, not in our room. We won't be co-sleeping. Pretty simple for us, I think.

Is anyone considering having professional belly shots taken? I won't be getting these done...I'm taking my own belly shots every so often, but that's all I plan to have.

Anyone else taking iron supplements? No, although I know my iron levels will be checked at next week's lab appt. So, maybe I will taking them after that? Who knows.

Additional vitamins? Prenatals every day. I also take a calcium supplement a few times a week, when I feel the need. Lately I've been popping the Tums and those have calcium in them...

Babymoon? Not unless you count our short trip to CA for my baby shower in April...

Breathing I'm so short of breath lately...I think he's getting higher and higher inside me, so that could be why. Plus my anxiety...Sheesh!

Discipline Issues: I think DH and I are in agreement about most discipline-related issues...

Welcome, futurelamgirl!!!!

ironhair

02-06-2006, 01:08 PM

Em - Did you say 4 pounds total?!? You are going to have to keep those numbers to yourself ;) I talked to a lady I know this weekend and she told me she gained a TOTAL of 13# w/ her first and 16# w/ the second! As of my last appointment I had already gained 15. I am scared to see the scales at this week's appointment. :o I also talked to another girl who gained 60 with her last one, and she lost it all. So I guess whatever happens, happens. 4 pounds?...

Discipline Issues - I think DH and I are on the same page with this, although he might be a smidge more strict than I. We both feel our niece and nephews are definitely lacking in the discipline department and are using that as a check with our own DC. Then again, my dog has serious behavioral issues and I have a hard time disciplining her - DH is sure I am going to "ruin" our DS just like I "ruined" the dog.

Welcome futurelamgirl - jump right in!

fats

02-06-2006, 01:54 PM

Em 4 pounds? I can't believe it!! Did you lose weight in the beginning due to m/s or something? Or were you overweight to begin with? I'm just so jealous because I've gained about 24 already (I think I lead the pack here!!)

Discipline WE haven't really talked about it - just comments in passing, but I think we're on the same page. Guinness - I know you were kind of kidding about how you raise your dogs, but I think it's definitely an indicator. Like if Eco and I agree on how we discipline then, I think we're likely to agree on how/when we discipline our kids.

Heather719

02-06-2006, 02:31 PM

Once again, I'm way late to this party! I have my next appointment tomorrow (including u/s)- so I'll be back with an update then. However, I figured I'd answer the latest QoTDs:

Are you continuing to DTD? Yes, usually at least once a week. However, my drive has been quite low since getting pregnant- not sure what is up with that.

Has your appetite changed yet again? I feel like it's finally back to normal! I didn't want to eat at all during the first trimester, then I ate like a pig the first few weeks of my 2nd. Now I'm back to my normal appitite, which is wonderful!

Can you see underneath your belly button? Hahaha..that is funny! Don't I wish!

Do you feel like your belly is growing significantly faster than before? Ehn..not really. It's so hard for me judge.

Aside from health, what are your major concerns related to the baby? Find good daycare. Making sure we're good parents. Learning to live with little sleep (that is my biggie!)

Has anyone thought about a sleep plan? I've been doing a lot of reading- but the way I see it is it all depends on the baby him/herself. Once we gage the baby's personality, we'll be able to (hopefully) formalize a plan.

Is anyone considering having professional belly shots taken? My belly is so bruised from my blood thinners that it would be a big old waste of money!

Anyone else taking iron supplements? No, are we supposed to be?

Additional vitamins? I take 2 Flintstones, 1600 mcg of Folic Acid, 100 mg B6, 1000 mcg of B12 and a baby asprin every day

Babymoon? Not really- but I am planning a weekend away in PA for DH's b-day next month.

Breathing No complaints there yet.

Discipline Issues We seem to be on the same page, but I'm sure there will be big discussions about this as Miracle get older.

Welcome, futurelamgirl! :)

AttyGrl74

02-06-2006, 02:47 PM

Weight Gain Try not to stress it so much! I gained 45 lbs. with Nora - lost it all within a month, then went on to lose an additional 45 lbs. doing Weight Watchers online. So when I got pg with #2 - I was down a total of 90 lbs. from my delivery-date weight.

Em7.31.04

02-06-2006, 04:00 PM

ironhair & fats: Yep....4 lbs total! I was probably about 15 lbs over my so-called ideal weight before getting pg. I never lost because of m/s. I guess everyone is just different. But don't worry, I'm SURE I'll be catching up at mach-speed from here on out. :) My midwife did tell me today, though, to aim for 15-24lbs total weight gain. That was based on my pre-pg weight.

fats

02-06-2006, 06:28 PM

AttyGirl - you lost 45 pounds in a month?!! I didn't even think that was possible without cutting off a limb - maybe two. Wow.

nettreefrog

02-06-2006, 07:07 PM

I just vented in my journal on LJ...so I don't feel like posting my normally long-winded thoughts...So, I will just post little updates:

My DH is very into learning about babies now... He bought (and started to read): http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1931686238.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

Physical Changes - I have also been growing more tired after walking long distances, felt overheated today although my colleagues said that it was just me, and am waking up throughout the night because of discomfort. I still feel this horrible pain on my side (thanks to everyone who made me realize that it is probably not abnormal...I take your word much more strongly in a certain sense than my doctor's!) Oh and I am struggling with a tickle in my throat--again!

Family notes - You can see my LJ posting about some of it... In news I did not post today, my DD is really still anti-baby, but hopefully that will change.

Belly growth - My belly shots are actually a sequence of shots that we stuck together so that we could see the progression. My older journal posting on CC and on LJ will now show the newest in the series. It is amazing how rotund I have become.

Discipline Issues - I don't remember posting about this...but I cannot imagine that it will be any different from what we do with #1.

Now shout-outs...Only from today as I really need to get off this computer!

Welcome futurelamgirl!

AttyGrl74 - As I said to you in your journal, you look fabulous!

Guinness - No pampering? Hmmm... we'll all have to work on your DH...sending him a mental note to give you a foot massage! I know what you mean about feeling achy... Does anywhere in particular bother you?

Em7.31.04 - Wow...Only 4 pounds thus far? And, I am crossing my fingers for a healthy delivery for all of us :D

ironhair - And wowsers again... I cannot imagine gaining 60 pounds! Was the woman carrying multiples?

fats - Don't worry...My weight seemingly fluctuates a bit...I was 108 pounds to begin with ...and now weigh in at somewhere between 129.5 and 131.5... I have gained in three locations --and looking at the photos, you can guess where! Hehehe

Heather719 - Cute about the Flintstones...I normally was taking Vitaworms pre-pregnancy... Oooh those were tasty!

crazycaro

02-06-2006, 07:44 PM

Just quick as Ruby has just woken up from her nap.

I've gained around 9 or 10 pounds now, all in the last 7 or so weeks.

I have my GTT test tomorrow.

I am soooo tired all the time, think I need to start taking iron tablets again. My levels are being checked tomorrow.

smiles33

02-06-2006, 07:48 PM

Thanks for the support, ladies! I still haven't heard back from my friend but I'm honestly too tired to do anything about it. DH and I took a 30 minute walk today after work and I felt like my lower uterus was really hard/tense and uncomfortable to the point of slight pain. Is that what a BH contraction feels like? It didn't relax until 10 minutes or more after we got home. And I normally take daily walks with my boss at a faster pace!

All this talk of weight gain and loss is so eye-opening! I can't believe Attygirl was able to lose 45 pounds in a month...wow, were you not sleeping or eating much? That is impressive (though scary if it means you were that exhausted).

I know my cousin gained 60 pounds when pregnant with her first son, but she was a tiny 90 pound girl to begin with so she may have been underweight. I'm up 18 pounds so far, and am feeling a little bad about that but relieved that I only gained 8 pounds second trimester (since I gained TEN during the first trimester). Four pounds is amazing, Em. Does this mean you don't really have a belly or increased BBs? I think my belly alone already constitutes more than 4 pounds of my overall weight gain and my BBs are probably at least each a 1/2 pound heavier.

Hope you're all having a good night!

Mrs U

02-07-2006, 04:05 AM

Morning Ladies! Finally I have a free moment since we got back to sit down at the computer. Between babysitting, friends coming over for lunch and basic -non baby shopping/cleanig out the stuff that we dont need, there has been very little 'me' time.

Friends of mine gave me a ton of stuff the past few days- maternity clothes, pregnancy books, toys, pack n play, tons of baby clothes up to 4T and baby books. All we have to do is just buy the furniture at Ikea (isnt this like the 5th time I have posted that we need to go there:rolleyes: )

QOTD

Are you continuing to DTD? Sure am! I'll probably win the gold star for this, but we are at it at least every day :D

Has your appetite changed yet again? Still eating sweets and lately everything is a bit on the bland side, so I either need more seasonings or jalipano (sp?) sauce to eat certain things.

Can you see underneath your belly button? Slowly that's becoming non exisitant.

Do you feel like your belly is growing significantly faster than before?
Yes!

Aside from health, what are your major concerns related to the baby?
none really, more concerned with the birth cause 10cm is not big at all!

Has anyone thought about a sleep plan?
We just have planned to start a routine as early as possible so we can hopefully get some sleep.

Is anyone considering having professional belly shots taken? We talked about it, but I'd rather do them myself since I have a good camera and could save some $$.

Anyone else taking iron supplements?
Yep and it's causing major traffic jams in the exit off ramp! Cant wait to stop taking them!

Additional vitamins? Just Centrum and the iron tabs that have folic acid in it as well.

Babymoon? Just took it and it was wonderful! I'll have to post some pics when the roll is finally finished.

Breathing Dont get me started at how much I hate the 40 steps up to our apartment. :rolleyes:

Discipline Issues SO and I are fairly in agreement on how our kiddo will be disciplined.

Welcome, futurelamgirl!!!!

Atty Nice belly shot! Love the blue wall behind ya!

Hope ya all have a great day!
:D

missy329

02-07-2006, 05:06 AM

Good Morning Girls-

Let me just add my $.02 about the weight gain/loss. With my daughter I gained 12lbs total. But, I was overweight before I got pg. When I had her (she was 8lbs 11oz) I lost about 15 lbs- meaning when I came home from the hospital I was 15lbs lighter than when I went in. I lost probably another 5-7lbs that month. So, after the first month I was down about 20-22lbs or about 10lbs below my pre-pg weight. With this pg I have gained 2lbs so far. Again, I was overweight to begin with. I did lose a lot the first trimester and I lost about 4 lbs in the past 3 weeks with being sick. But, I definately have a baby belly!

Just remember that everyone is different- my mother only gained 10lbs with each of her kids and we were 10lb babies! My aunt (her sister) gained over 50lbs. And they are the same build.

marchfamily

02-07-2006, 05:37 AM

Weight - I am about average weight pre-pg (size 10). I gained 50# with DD (she was 9 pounds 1 ounce) - all between week 22 and week 40. I lost 30 pounds by week 3. I lost all 50 and then some by week 6. But, I had terrible swelling. This go round I've gained 15-18 pounds so far. I'll probably be on the high sides - but hope I can lose it easily again.

Standrea

02-07-2006, 05:47 AM

Hey Mama's...I'm sorry I haven't been around. I have been searching for a new Family Care Doctor, as mine has stopped taking my insurances as of January 1st. I have been relatively healthy, so i didn't think i'd need anything, until this past weekend. On friday, i was getting this pain everytime the baby kicked. After it was happening for a few hours, i figured she was kicking my bladder. Then on sat. it got a little worse, and on sunday, i woke up feeling absolutely terrible. Sore throat, achy, itchy ears...it was the worse i've felt in years...I went to work yesterday, and my boss immediately sent me home (I work for a very popular non profit in the fundraising department, and we have alot of events coming up within the next month, including a telethon and radiothon) because she didn't want the rest of the staff to get sick...completely understandable, and i'm not going to complain AT ALL...

I finally got into a new doctor and found out I have a Bladder infection, and an upper respirtory infection/virus. They have put me on amoxicillin, so hopefully i will start to feel better soon. I have only taken the first dose of it so far, and woke up this morning feeling worse then yesterday...needless to say, im home again...

Now for some long overdue QOTD's:

Are you continuing to DTD? Yes, but it is getting VERY uncomfortable...

Has your appetite changed yet again? Not so much. I've always been a very picky eater, and I haven't eaten any red meat in a long time. I had 2 cheeseburgers this past week. Other than that, i've been pretty much the same.

Can you see underneath your belly button? Not as of this week. I have a tattoo on my hip that has disappeard

Do you feel like your belly is growing significantly faster than before?
Oh My Yes!! it's been all of a sudden...I just "popped" the past week or 2.

Aside from health, what are your major concerns related to the baby?
Just recently, i've been starting to worry alot about being a good parent...

Has anyone thought about a sleep plan? Yes and no. The baby will sleep in our room in a bassinet for the first few months, then will sleep in her crib. I will be the one to get up with her at night.

Is anyone considering having professional belly shots taken? I dont think so

Anyone else taking iron supplements? no

Additional vitamins? My OBGYN just prescribed me new prenatal vitamins that have colace in them to help with constipation. I'm still battling with this one...

Babymoon? We were planning on going to FL in March, but now that may be off...

Breathing: I hate taking the stairs...even one flight wipes me out...
Discipline Issues: I think DH and I are in agreement about most discipline-related issues...

I hope everyone has a good day...

Standrea

02-07-2006, 05:53 AM

I just wanted to add my thoughts on weight gain too.

I have only gained 3 pounds since the start. I (don't think) I lost any weight in the beggining, since i didn't have any morning sickness, although, i did change eating habits, and my face was showing signs of weight loss. I know that the pounds are going to come on at one point or another.

My best friend, who is a BIG girl, is pregnant with her second child and is due 3 weeks after me. She was wearing full term maternity clothes starting at 6 weeks. She grew everywhere fast...her belly, her butt and hips, EVERYWHERE...but, she claims to have lost a total of 14lbs so far this pregnancy. I dont' get it. But, everyone is different and it's a funny thing the way the body reacts to different things!

kristin9903

02-07-2006, 06:02 AM

Hello all! I'm right at 29 weeks today and am getting majorly uncomfortable. Everything hurts and the waddle has started since I'm also experiencing the wonderful "kicked in the crotch" sensation. I'm also super tired all the time. Not good considering I haven't cleared any of the junk out of the nursery.

Weight Right now, I'm up 2 pounds. I actually gained during my 1st trimester and then lost it in the 2nd tri. I'm still not even really showing at all. I'm very overweight so I'm hoping I'll come out of the hospital feeling motivated!

nettreefrog Let me know how DH likes that book...it looks good!

Standrea

02-07-2006, 06:13 AM

Kristen-I'm sorry you are feeling lousy! I hope you get some good energy soon!!

I forgot to mention that i signed up for Lamaze, and for a Breast feeding class. The lamaze is 5 weeks on sunday evenings at the hospital that we are delivering at. There is a minimal fee. The BF course is one monday night and there is no charge.

I wish i could find a new born care class, but they dont offer any around here...:rolleyes:

Mrs U

02-07-2006, 06:26 AM

Standrea Hope you feel better soon. Being ill while preggers sucks.

Weight I'm up 10 kilos (22lbs) from the start. Most of it was gained in the last 3 weeks when my belly 'popped'. As you read on you'll know where the rest most of that weight went to. ;)

I went looking for a bra today. Let me just say that I miss my B/C cup cause now I'm a whopping E.:eek: Damn they will be hanging by my knees soon! No wonder SO beams when he tells his friends that the 'boobie fairy' has arrived!

I've been reading "Girlfriends Guide to Pregnancy" cause it was in the bag of books that I received. OMG it is too funny and oh so very true! I cant help lol while reading it!

fats

02-07-2006, 07:03 AM

nettreefrog I gave DH that book as well - it came with the diaper bag I got him for Xmas. I think I'm the only one who has read it though.

Thanks everyone for sharing your weight gain. Even though I still top the list, I feel a lot better knowing that I'm not THAT far ahead of everyone anymore!!

QOTD: Has anyone started reading child care books? I feel like I spent so much time reading all the pregnancy related books and now I'm thinking I should move on to child care since I have NO idea how to take care of a baby. I just wish DH would read some stuff too - I don't want to be having to teach him everything - I want us to share the responsibility of figuring out what to do.

Guinness

02-07-2006, 07:04 AM

Finally being brave and uploading belly shots. Any guesses?

26w
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28w
http://images.snapfish.com/345%3C55%3A35%7Ffp337%3Enu%3D325%3A%3E237%3E983%3E WSNRCG%3D32334%3B82%3C%3B%3B83nu0mrj

shortcake

02-07-2006, 07:50 AM

Guinness - cute belly shots! I am going to guess girl!

Standrea -yikes, hope you feel better soon!

Smiles33 -That sounds like BH feel like to me, except they are not a constant thing...usually it last a minute or so and then stop, then start again. But if it stopped after you stopped walking I still bet that's what it is.

Standrea

02-07-2006, 07:53 AM

Guiness-I say its a girl too!! :D

kristin9903

02-07-2006, 08:59 AM

Guinness Totally not scientific, but your belly looks very girly to me!

marchfamily

02-07-2006, 09:21 AM

QOTD: Has anyone started reading child care books? - Some of our favorites: Weissbluth's, Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child (read this 3 times - sleep), Karmel's, First Foods (feeding), and Touchpoints (development).

Bloomwood

02-07-2006, 09:29 AM

welcome futurelamgirl!

smiles - yep, sounds like BH to me. There is no rhyme or reason to why I get them either.

Standrea - feel better!

Guinness - no guesses, but CUTE belly! Thanks for posting it!

nettreefrog - that book looks very cute. I might have to check it out for DH!

I'll weigh in on the weight thing too. I've gained 16 lbs as of today. I am guessing I'll gain about another 10 before it's all over. I absolutely believe that your body will do what it needs to do. Whether that's 4 lbs or 50+ lbs. Obviously, if you treat your pregnancy as a free ticket to eat everything you deny yourself not pregnant, you're going to influence what you gain.

I'm off to my drs appt. Should last about 5 minutes: pee in a cup, get weighed, have bp taken, listen to the hb, tell the doc I don't have any questions and come home!

May2006Mommies

02-07-2006, 09:42 AM

Welcome futurelamgirl!!

Updated to here!

marchfamily

02-07-2006, 10:13 AM

I'm off to my drs appt. Should last about 5 minutes: pee in a cup, get weighed, have bp taken, listen to the hb, tell the doc I don't have any questions and come home!

Sounds like my appts too!

ironhair

02-07-2006, 11:57 AM

I'm off to my drs appt. Should last about 5 minutes: pee in a cup, get weighed, have bp taken, listen to the hb, tell the doc I don't have any questions and come home!

Mine too, Now imagine driving 100 miles one way to it - what the h*** was I thinking:confused:

Bloomwood

02-07-2006, 04:47 PM

ironhair - ugh!! What WERE you thinking?? :p

Appointment was typical. But, she asked some questions/said some stuff that make it seem so real all of the sudden! First, she asked if I had a ped. lined up yet, then gave me another name to call. Second, she gave me a one-sheet on "what to do before delivery" (with things like find the ped, what to pack and general stuff). Third, she told me I'd come back in 3-4 weeks, then come again in 3 weeks, then two weeks, then every week. Wowza! I'm gonna be a MOM!

Nettree - I picked up that book to give to DH for Valentine's day. I'm also getting him a dad diaper bag, so it'll be perfect. thanks for the recommendation. It looks really cute!

smiles33

02-07-2006, 04:47 PM

WOW, 100 miles one way, ironhair? Now I don't feel so bad about my 45 minute drive (although I do work pretty far from where I live so it's only 20 minutes from my house).

Cute belly shot, Guinness! That's how my belly looks and I'm having a girl, so I'm guessing girl, too!

I skipped all the other QOTD so I'll just answer the latest QOTD on books.

Yes, I, too, have moved on to child care books, though mostly focused on sleep. I've read Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child; Happiest Baby on the Block; and Babywise (DH's colleague recommended it to us). One of DH's cousins is a nutritionist and works with new moms, so she gave us a book about infant/childhood nutrition but I forgot the name of it. I plan to BF so I'm hoping I won't need to read that book until she's 6 months-1 year old.

Oh, one new baby-related bit of news: we ordered letters for Jocelyn last night from an eBay vendor. I'm keeping my fingers crossed they'll look ok, as I didn't want to spend $80 on letters so I went with a seller that only charges $4/letter for 12" letters. I'll post photos when I get them!

Have a good night everyone!

nettreefrog

02-07-2006, 05:44 PM

Neat that so many of you have the same book --My DH started to read it last night and laughed his way through a few sections. I then grabbed a stuff animal and a sheet to teach him some basics... like how to swaddle a baby, how to hold a baby in the swaddle, how to burp said baby, and of course how to wipe and diaper him as well. Is anyone else teaching their DH the ins and outs of babies?

smiles33 There are some great nutrition books out there...I have seen a few in Barnes and Noble...but I agree BF is best for as long as possible.

Bloomwood "Wowza! I'm gonna be a MOM!" --So very true... Neat gift idea--I hope he likes the book!

ironhair Is this a special doctor? Are you delivering any closer?

Bloomwood "I absolutely believe that your body will do what it needs to do." I couldn't agree with you more. I think the same logic can be applied to non-pregnancy weight as well. I try to eat healthy foods, but stay within a range and exercise daily.

marchfamily QOTD: Has anyone started reading child care books? - Those book suggestions look interesting. I read more online these days...and am mostly interested in health related information.

Guinness I am guessing girl as well!

fats Awww --Has your DH started reading other books?

Mrs U LMAO at " 'boobie fairy' has arrived!" --I am still impressed at the growth!

Standrea Your other classes might include some of the newborn basics.

kristin9903 I know what you mean about "getting majorly uncomfortable" --Does anything help?

Standrea "Wearing full term maternity clothes starting at 6 weeks???" Wow... I remember maternity clothes being huge at that point in time... However, I now feel like they are shrinking. I know that we'll all go back to "normal" bellies --but those days seem so far away right now. When I woke up this morning with a sore throat --I immediately stressed out that I might have strep and need amoxicillin--but was wondering if it is safe to take during pregnancy... I guess you answered my question.

marchfamily How has the swelling been during this pregnancy? My coworker's feet were horribly swollen --but she claims that she did not feel as badly as they looked.

missy329 "She was 8lbs 11oz!" --Now that's a good size baby! And you are right "everyone is [certainly] different... My friend (due at the beginning of June) commented about how little she has changed thus far --and I feel like I am at the other end of the spectrum in terms of bellies.

crazycaro Sorry about you being tired all the time... Do you think that the extra iron helps?

Guinness

02-08-2006, 05:49 AM

Wow - all girl votes :D Thanks for the compliments and guesses. It is very bizzare how 50-50 everything is on our gender guess. All the wives tales point to girl (including now how I am carrying according to you all). I have done several ring type tests and they all say boy. DH and I think boy, although I have been feeling girl a bit more lately. It truly will be a surprise for us either way.

Short appointments I guess we are all in the 5min appointment phase. I have my GTT this friday and am not looking forward to it. I suppose that will be a longer appointment. Plus I want to have my Dr. fill out cord blood donation paperwork. I am 20min from the office, but can't imagine 45 - yikes!

QOTD Recent books I have read are Babywise, and I have Healthy Sleep Habits; Happy Child which I have browsed but haven't found it to be easy reading yet. I also have the Happiest Baby on the Block DVD, but haven't watched it yet.

Glad it is Wed. I worked from home yesterday and loved that. I got a ton done and could take breaks and hang out with my pups. Must do that more often and not feel guilty. Back to the office today. Have a good day everyone!

Guinness

02-08-2006, 05:54 AM

I missed nettreefrog's question - DH and bebe in and outs - DH is pretty knowledgeable about babies as he has had 11 neices and nephews. Not sure how many diapers he's changed, but he has watched plenth ;) Funny story though, we are taking our Child Birth classes. On Monday she showed how to change a diaper. There is one guy in there who is taking a TON of notes . . .when she talked about how to wipe a girl you could see him write it down, 'always wipe girl from front to back'. Very cute how invested he is into learning it all or at least having a resource to find it :)

ironhair

02-08-2006, 06:50 AM

Teaching DH the ins and outs? Ha - we'll be learning together! I have younger sisters and a niece, but I haven't ever really been around a baby for any extended period of time, and I'm not so sure I've ever changed a diaper. Oh, what have I done?!?

Reading Books? I read a ton when I first found out I was pregnant, but not much since. I have been so busy getting everything else ready. However, based on my comment above, looks like I better stop by the book store today after my dr. appt.

I should clarify a little on my 100 mile trip to the dr. My dr's office is actually 65 miles from my house (again, I live in a tiny town and giving birth there kind of scares me). I have been seeing this dr for quite a few years now. It didn't seem so bad when I just went for my annual check ups. The unfortunate part is I work 35 miles from my house, in the opposite direction. So, when I leave from work to go to my appt, it is 100 miles to get there (but I guess only 65 to get home :) ).

I kind of have a fear about going to the hospital thinking I'm in labor, only to find out I'm not. I thought the 65 mile drive might help with that - either I will REALLy be in labor when I get there, or I figure it our 1/2 and turn around. I have heard too many stories about women who thought they were in labor - or thought their water broke, only to find out they just wet themselves. I don't want to be one of those women.

I'm off to a ton of meetings today and a dr appt late this afternoon - hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday!!

fats

02-08-2006, 07:10 AM

ironhair I'm about 50 miles away from my hospital as well and I'm just counting on heading there as soon as I feel anything that might be labor - I don't want to take any chances. But we have a lot of friends who live near the hospital, so if they tell us to go home, I'll probably just go to one of their apartments. I may even consider staying there towards the very end of my term - depends how nervous I get about making it to the hospital on time (or driving an hour with painful contractions!)

nettreefrog As far as I know, DH isn't reading ANY books. I guess he's just figuring we'll figure it out as we go along and in some ways I agree. I mean, I want to read stuff so I know the general stuff - when do they start eating solids, how much milk/formula should they get, etc. But I kind of a think a lot of the basics will just be learned as we go.

bloomwood I agree that your body will do what it needs too. As long as you don't go crazy and see the pregnancy as free reign to eat whatever you want, I think you're going to gain as much as you're going to gain regardless of what you do. That's what it says in the Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy as well.

Teaching DH Baby Basics We'll be learning together - I need someone to teach me!

QOTD I think we may have talked about this already - cord blood. I was planning on donating but now DH informs me that he thinks he might want to bank it. I just feel like I don't know enough about banking so I'm not sure if it's worth the money. But then one of my friends was saying, "When your kid gets sick you'll do whatever you can and spend whatever you have to help them" so I'm wondering if we should just do it. Is anyone banking? What's your reasoning behind banking or not banking?

Em7.31.04

02-08-2006, 07:39 AM

So...I've had a very eventful week so far...I got some sort of food poisoning late Monday night, that lasted through yesterday (Tuesday) afternoon. I couldn't keep anything down, and was just miserable. I'll spare you the gory details. :-) Anyway, I called my midwife's office yesterday morning just to check in, because I was really concerned about dehydration. I hadn't peed in almost 12 hours but was still running to the bathroom - so I was obviously going to get dehydrated. I was told to wait for 2 more hours, then call back if I still hadn't peed. I called back, and was told to come in to get IV fluids. That took 6 hours! I ended up sleeping most of the time, because I hadn't slept much the night before...I wasn't discharged until I could pee a certain amount - which took forever. So...DH and I came back home last night and I still couldn't keep anything down. I'm feeling better this morning and actually slept most of the night...I'm staying home from work again today just to make sure I can actually keep food down. WOW, what a day...

shortcake

02-08-2006, 08:31 AM

Em - Yikes!! Glad you're feeling better now, but how scary!

Hospital distance - It stinks to be far from the doctor/hospital, but on the other hand it's good that you are getting care you really feel comfortable with! With DD I was pretty far from the hospital depending on traffic (generally took me about 45 min to get there but in traffic it could be quite a bit worse) but since I moved here at around 6 months along, I just wanted to pick the "best" place. This time around I switched somewhere closer because I have heard from people they are also good. I am loving not making that long treck though!

QOTD - Planning to donate cord blood though I still haven't talked to dr about it!

Mrs U

02-08-2006, 09:03 AM

Can anyone use the boobie fairy? I stand corrected- I'm now at an F cup.:eek: Please I'd be happy to send her away just to make them stop growing!

While on the subject I was thinking about nursing bras- any repeat offenders have any advice on when and what size to buy?

Em I hope you feel better. I know I had something similar a year ago and lived on crackers and gatoraid for a week.

Hospital Distance
Exactly 4 bus stops away (6 minutes) or 3 by car. :D

Cord Blood
It's on my list of things to ask at next week's visit. I'd like to donate if possible and as long as it's free.

Teaching SO baby basics
I'll have to see what is taught at the birthing class and then go from there. I bought him a similar book that you all have, but a German version called "Papa Handbook"- basically everything about pregnancy from other father's experiences/ POV.

Good news- my lawyer contacted me and *fingers crossed* if everything goes well I should be divorced before the baby is born! :D

marchfamily

02-08-2006, 09:08 AM

Em - ick. Hope you are feeling better!

Blood cord-donated it last time. Will probably do the same this time (note to self...need to get the paperwork)

Nursing bras - I went up one band size. For the engorgement phase, I has a soft bra that was super comfy (probably 2-3 cup sizes bigger than my pre-pg). Once I had been nursing a while, I went back to underwire - probably 1 cup size bigger.

Guinness

02-08-2006, 09:09 AM

Yikes Emily, how scary. Glad you are feeling a little better.

Yay Mrs.U on the divorce going through before the baby. I hope that works out. What a PITA as you described what would happen if it isn't final - ugh.

QOTD Cord Blood We're donating if we can and it is totally free. The reason we are choosing this is because we don't have any reason to think we will need it, so I prefer someone who needs it now has the chance to use it. As to how long it can last etc. I think there is lots of info on their websites. I think it is a good amount of time, you just have to pay monthly fees for storage.

smiles33

02-08-2006, 12:20 PM

Just popped in for a quick read and wanted to note my doctor told me last Friday that the one company that used to accept donations is no longer doing so. Now, we have to figure out if we want to keep it in storage for our own future use or just "toss" it.

Guinness

02-08-2006, 12:38 PM

Smiles33 I am planning on donating through this place http://cryo-intl.com/enroll_donate.html (http://cryo-intl.com/enroll_donate.html)and I just called and they said they are still accepting donations and need them. It is free, although your doctor may charge for taking the cord blood. My doctor said if I can find a place that accepts donations he will waive his fee and write it in my chart so anyone on call will as well. I will say that when I did ask my doctor about donation he said he didn't know of any place that took donations. . . .so I am not sure if that is the info physicians are getting from somewhere or what. I think that is unfortunate because that is where I expected to get the info, but realized I had to find it myself (CC is a great resource and many have positive things to say about this company and the process). HTH

ETA: This place sends everything needed and picks it up Fed Ex, so it can be done anywhere in the country. Perhaps local places aren't accepting any longer??

Bloomwood

02-08-2006, 04:20 PM

Emily - ugh. I hope you start feeling better soon!

Mrs U - I don't usually wish for divorce, but I will keep my fingers crossed that yours goes through soon!

Teaching SO babycare: I'm with ironhair and fats . I am afraid to do anything with a newborn in my hands but sit very still! I can't wait to give DH the baby owner's manual so that I can read it too! clueless! (and back to my earlier comment: Wowza! I'm going to be a mom!) Definitely hoping that mother's instinct kicks in!

Guinness - thank you so much for posting that link. I wanted to donate, but didn't know where to start and the threads on here didn't give me the info quite as straightforward as you just did. I'm going to ask my ob about it next time I'm in.

Regarding banking v. donating: I just don't think there is enough research out there that says that banking it is a guarantee it will be what we need if, God forbid, we need it. The cynic in me says that cord blood banking is just another way for people to make a lot of money. I don't believe that the technology is advanced enough nor do I believe the market is mature enough to guarantee these banks are going to last. Then what happens to the cord blood? And, how can you really be confident it is your kid's blood? Whereas, if we donate it, I have a higher confidence it will be used to help someone.

disclaimer (seems like you need these often on CC): I understand that this is a very personal decision, so I am not judging anyone that does it; these are only the questions DH and I have asked in making our decision. I know other people come up with different answers than we did.

fats

02-09-2006, 06:44 AM

re Cord Blood I tried to do a bit of research about it yesterday - both the online bank sites and personal opinions. I pretty much found this to be the consensus: The probability of every needing the blood is so small that it's really not worth spending the money for it BUT if you have the money and it's not going to be a hardship to spend it, then you might as well - better safe than sorry. For the longest time I was planning on donating (smiles - there are a few banks who take donations out there) but now I think we may bank it. It's a lot of money, but when I think about all the money I spend on frivolous things for myself, I don't think I'd feel very good if I cheaped out here and g-d forbid I had one of those rare occasions where my child (or another family member) needed it. I do agree that these companies really prey on your fears and the guilt of "doing all you can do" for your child, but if there's any chance that it can save the life of someone in my family, then I feel like it's worth it. I think my friend brought it home for me when she said, "The way I saw it, I was spending $800 a night for a private room in the hospital to give birth, so how could I deny that for my baby?" I'm not spending that much for my hospital stay, but I could see her point.

And like bloomwood, that's just my personal opinion. I'm going to have DH research all the banks and decide who to use and meanwhile I'll ask my OB and the pediatricians we interview about it and by then maybe we'll change our minds again. Who knows?!

In the meantime, I all of a sudden got overwhelmed with all that's left to do before the baby comes - especially finding a pediatrician which seems to be such a daunting task. I have 3 interviews set up over the next month and a fourth doctor to call today.

I also signed up for our Breastfeeding and Newborn Care classes which will be when I'm at 36 weeks - so I hope I don't have any early labor. I just sent SIL the guest list for our shower, which will be April 8 and we still have to set up a tour of the hospital (we're not taking our childbirth classes at the hospital where we deliver).

Oh, and Saturday we're meeting with our Doula to put together a birth plan. My calendar is quickly filling up with Baby Stuff.

I forgot to mention that I found the CUTEST clothes at Baby Gap this past week. I was so happy to find cute boy clothes because I'd been really upset that it seemed like girl stuff was so much cuter. So I broke my vow not to buy stuff until after the Shower and we see what we need! This little boy is going to be very spoiled!

marchfamily

02-09-2006, 06:58 AM

Donating cord blood - Check with your local blood bank. They might be able to direct you to a NON-PROFIT donation site. Lifesource in Glenview (Chicago area) accepts donations.

shortcake

02-09-2006, 08:26 AM

cordblood - I just had my appt and asked my OB about it, and there's apparently a local place that accepts donations here (Washington state) so I will be calling them. Yay!

doula - for fats and any others planning on having a birth doula...I found out I have the opportunity to hire a doula dirt cheap ($150) because it would be her first solo birth so she's still kind of in the learning stages. Some of the negatives of her being new to this are not an issue for me - 1) she has been a postpartum doula for years so is very comfortable around newborns/new moms 2) as I am planning a medicated birth and as my 1st delivery was quite fast, I'm not expecting to need hours and hours of help during the birth. Of course you never know!! I would still like a doula to help support DH and make sure everything I need is taken care of. HOWEVER I am not sure how I feel about having someone I don't know so well in the room with us! So I guess my question is - how did you get used to that idea? Do you think I should go for it? I kind of figure at that price I can't go wrong - if I really don't click with her for some reason, I can just call it quits after our two prenatal meetings. (I have met her when I interviewed her and thought she seemed super nice...but it wasn't like she seemed like an instant best friend or anything).

appointment update Just had my appointment yesterday and all was good. Next appt is the GTT, ugh. Also I have to do a repeat u/s for the low placenta. Both of those are in a month.

Em7.31.04

02-09-2006, 09:24 AM

Cord Blood: We won't be banking it...We've done a minimal amount of research, and to us (please, no offense anyone) it just seems like a way for companies to make more money off people having babies. I just don't see the costs being worth it...We may donate it if it's free to us and of minimal effort to do. Will add that question to our list to ask at the next appt.

shortcake: Can you post the contact info for the place you found in Washington? Thanks. :)

fats

02-09-2006, 10:24 AM

shortcake About the doula - I'm in a different boat than you. This is my first baby and I am so in the dark about childbirth and pretty much terrified of the pain (even though I'm planning to get an epidural asap). DH is also clueless and I think he's really nervous about what's going to happen and how to help me through it, so for us the presence of a doula is something we welcome even though we don't necessarily know her. I mean, we won't really know any of the doctors or nurses either (unless I get lucky and my OB is on call when I go into labor). Of course we met with her and really liked her and I've spoken to her a few times on the phone so I feel more and more comfortable with her. It seems like if you've already gone through this once without a doula than you're probably ok to do it again, but for $150 what can you lose? At the very least, it's someone to go run out and get drinks and food for your husband while you're waiting for the baby to appear!!!

marchfamily

02-09-2006, 10:43 AM

It's a very personal decision. I hope that if you don't bank it you (in general, you, not calling anyone out) consider donating it. My grandmother passed away shortly before my daughter was born from Lou Gehrig's disease. Stem cell research is huge these days. I hope people will seek out the non-profit companies and give it consideration. Okay....off my soapbox.

We may donate it if it's free to us and of minimal effort to do.

Our's was SOOOO simple. They sent me a packet approx 4-6 weeks before I was due. I completed the paperwork. The hospital did the rest - collected the cord blood and sent it to the company. They even sent me a lovely thank you after it was all done.

futurelamgirl

02-09-2006, 03:15 PM

Thank you all for the nice welcome.. I was swamped at work so i am finally getting a chance to check back.

Guinness

02-10-2006, 06:03 AM

Good Morning! It's Friday - YAY :D

Have an appointment today and it is the GTT :( Trying to not eat sugary this morning. It is at 2pm, so I guess I can't eat lunch. I am teaching until 1:30 and supposed to drink my orange crappiness at 1:15. Guess I will either be late or just sneak out for a minute (not lecturing today). DH can't come because he has an interview. Fingers crossed for him pleast. He right now commutes 1 1/2hrs each way to work and has been trying to find something closer for a while. A great job opened up 20 minutes away - ah it would be so nice to have him closer!! I said go for the interview, I am sure besides getting blood drawn it will be a quick appointment. Not sure if I switch to 2 weeks for the next or after 32. Oh got to take the cord blood info - must do that.

Have a great day/weekend. Everyone is getting close to the 3rd trimester :D

marchfamily

02-10-2006, 06:07 AM

We scheduled the csection (still hoping I go into labor on my own....and a bit early) - May 10th.

My appointments switch to every two weeks now.

nettreefrog

02-10-2006, 06:07 AM

Well all, I am home today…So, if you are out there in cyberspace and need someone to chat with…you can contact me. I wrote (in my LJ) everything that happened to me yesterday at the OB visit.

I woke up, and headed straight for the doctor on the UES... They took my blood (baseline comparison before the sugar), drank an orange flavored drink (the first bit of liquid or solid to pass my lips since the previous night), and then I met another one of the doctors in the practice (I need to meet all 4 of the OBs at some point during my pregnancy). Per their scale, I was 131 pounds and the baby's heartbeat is 154 bpm. My cervix is apparently "nice and tight".

The doctor also asked me whether we had thought about cord-banking, and I asked her for more information (I feigned complete ignorance to get a better gauge of what she thought). She said that I would have to ask specific people who handle such matters for the practice, but she thought that a little less than half of the patients were now doing it. She was cynical and suggested that although this is the only opportunity we will have to harvest these cells, there is a slim chance that it would even be useful. The doctor went on to say that the practice charges a fee for the retrieval (~$300 she guesstimated) + the fee for the actual place (she thought ~$1,000) + the yearly storage fee (maybe around $100). However, she encouraged me to ask for more information to make my own informed decision about the matter. I really don't know where we stand --but will keep thinking.

I also picked up a packet containing: pre-admittance forms for my hospital (http://lenoxhillhospital.org/), information about the hospital tour (every Thursday and Saturday at noon), and the birth certificate information. There was also a pamphlet listing the frequency of various procedures (everything from c-sections to the use of forceps).

After sitting for a few more minutes, I then had more blood drawn to determine the effects of the glucose on my system. Realistically, it was a dreadful day to take blood given my unhealthy condition --but so be it. My next appointment is scheduled for March 2nd at 8:45 am.

Around the 36 week appointment (beginning of April), I will supply them with my job's disability forms.

May2006Mommies

02-10-2006, 01:49 PM

updated to here!

Any volunteers to help out the mods so we can start a third tri thread?

Guinness

02-10-2006, 02:10 PM

Appointment went well. That orange stuff is nasty, but could have definitely been worse. Weight up 6 :o but it is pouring here and humidity makes me flucuate big time. Dr. didn't say anything. BP Good. Dr. said HR sounds like a girl today.

Found out I have a big shower scheduled for March 25th :D My mom will come into town for it, and my birthday is the 28th, so it will be nice to have her here.

I will volunteer to help out with the thread for the 3rd trimester. I seem to be on plenty, so why not. I am an early May mommy though, so I might be useless once this little one arrives, or I might have a great sleeper and plenty of time ;) . Is the login and pw the same? I did it for 1st trimester, so I assume it is.

Let me know if/when you want me to start helping out.

Em7.31.04

02-10-2006, 04:11 PM

Just wanted to pop in quickly and say that I scheduled our first pediatrician interview for 2/21. This is a practice that was recommended to me by two friends. We have a few other practices in mind, but will wait to schedule interviews after seeing how this one goes.

I've also been in contact w/our local childcare resource line. Basically it's a clearinghouse for all licensed providers (in-home and centers) in the county. You call the number, give them information like your home address, hours you need care, preference for centers or in-home, etc, and they narrow down the options for you. You then get a list of providers that meet your specified needs and you can make the calls to get more information yourself. I'm anxiously awaiting the referral list - should get it next week - so I can start making some calls. It's probably too early (centers in our area don't fill up as quickly as it seems like they do in other places!), but it doesn't hurt to at least call and further narrow down the ones that take part-time enrollments.

Have a great weekend, everyone! We plan to choose the fabric for our upholstered rocker (ordering it online) and start painting the nursery.

jarm

02-10-2006, 04:44 PM

I swear that everytime I come in here and actually post, it's to complain. Just for the record...if my first pregnancy was half as bad as this one is turning out to be, I wouldn't be posting in here at all because there is no way I would've wanted another one. If I should change my mind someday in the future, please remind me of this.

I had this pubic pain on and off. I turned the great women of the CC and it almost sounds like pubic symphisis. I have an appointment on the 24 (I think) so I will ask about it then unless it gets a lot worse. It comes and goes.

The other thing is that my sciatica has been absolutely killing me. I did have that last time and they did threaten to put me on bedrest because of it. Nope! Not doing that!

I'm going for my GTT tomorrow. I've been trying to watch what I eat, but it's oh so hard.

Things have been a bit hectic here. Work has been nuts with reports about the board members and some principals in my district. Crazy, crazy, crazy!

So besides all my pain, my DD has been a pain in the neck. She hasn't been going to bed easily the last couple of nights, but tonight it's pleasure (so far). She fell asleep on the couch eating her snack so I carried her to her room and she couldn't wait for me to finish putting her pj's on so she could go back to sleep. Uh oh...I spoke too soon. Maybe...she's been having night terrors as well so it's hard to tell when she's awake and when she's crying in her sleep.

ga girl

02-10-2006, 05:29 PM

jarm- I just saw your post in the pg thread about the pelvis pain- I have this also. I called the dr and she said it sounds similar to pubic symphisis but without seeing me she can't tell - I've also had really bad sciatic pain this week. He sits very low w/ his head basically in my pelvis and he won't move :mad: grrr... stubborn little guy! It's becoming pretty painful and I'm having trouble walking so I know exactly how you feel- just wanted to let you know someone else is in the same boat.

Southlooper

02-11-2006, 06:19 AM

Happy Weekend everyone!

What a week! Is anyone else overwhelmingly exhausted? Last week I was feeling tired while this week I was falling asleep standing!! My poor students had to bare the brunt of my crabby sleepiness. Also, I've been having horrible stomach problems and constipation. To top it all off, Dh has been running a fever since Wednesday. Luckily Monday is a state holiday so I can get some rest (thank you Mr. Lincoln!)

jarm:You have had it rough. My heart goes out to you. Hopefully this difficult pregnancy will lead to a laid back baby who sleeps all night.

Marchfamily/cord banking: Thanks for the info on cord donation, it's good to know there is a local source. Good luck on the C-section. Where are you delivering (You don't have to answer that if you don't feel comfortable.)

futurelamgirl: Welcome to our community!

Siatica: I've found that doing leg/hamstring stretches and spinal twists has helped a great deal in relieving the pain.

3rd Trimester Mod: I can help out also. Let me know what to do.

kristin9903

02-11-2006, 07:15 AM

Southlooper Me too!!! I feel more tired than I think I did in the 1st tri. All I want to do is lay around and sleep. Hope you don't catch what your DH has (and that he gets better, too!). I'll PM you with the user name and password for the thread.

jarm So sorry about all the pains. Feel better!

Em7.31.04 You must be feeling better to get so much accomplished! How did you find out about the resource line in your area? I would love to have one of those around here!

Guinness User name and password is the same. :)

Not much new here. I'm going to a painting class this afternoon to get inspiration for baby's room. My feet and ankles are getting so swollen now that I am afraid that some sort of rest is going to be around the corner for me, so I have got to get moving!!

Em7.31.04

02-11-2006, 09:52 AM

Em7.31.04 You must be feeling better to get so much accomplished! How did you find out about the resource line in your area? I would love to have one of those around here!

Yes, I am feeling 100% again. Thank goodness!! And all the stuff I got done...was done while I was at work. Nothing like using paid time to do personal stuff. ;-) Anyway, I work at a childcare center so I knew about our local resource line....Depending on the size of the city or county you work in, you probably have something similar.

A few suggestions:
1. Find your city or county website and search around...The agencies in our area are called Childcare Resources or Childcare Resource & Referral. Look for something by that name.
2. Google the above-mentioned names w/your city or county name and see what comes up.
3. Call a local childcare center and ask if they know of any such resource. Most centers will know about it, if there is one.
4. Look in your phone book under childcare/daycare and see if anything is listed.

I hope that helps....Good luck!! :-)

jarm

02-11-2006, 02:20 PM

I went for the glucose test this morning...fun, fun, fun! I drank the stuff and now I'm starting to get a headache from being too sugared up. Blech! I'm just praying it comes back normal because I just bought a bunch of sweet stuff.

mcl

02-12-2006, 02:27 AM

i wanted to post this for those of you still looking for a nursery bedding. it's a great deal.

http://babystyle.com/common/dProductDetail.asp?PMId=17312&SIND=1&cmCL=estyleoutlet&frm=2

http://babystyle.com/images/product/17312_MID_l.jpg

Mrs U

02-12-2006, 06:21 AM

Hi All! Hope ya'll are having a good weekend!

Finally we went to IKEA!:D I spent all day yesterday building the crib and changing table and now my hand hurt! The closet we'll put together once we move cause we really have no space.:eek:

Friends of our gave us the second car load of stuff- boppys, bassinet, swing, bouncy seat, toddler rocker, bath tub, diaper genie, newborn play mat, kick n play, ocean aquarium lights and sounds that hang on the crib, another that is star shape and lights up and plays music and hangs on the crib as well. I expect that on Wed. she'll have another box of clothes for me to bring home. Seriously we have soo much! I just need to get my mom to order a few minor replacement things so everything is like new.

Friday night I met up with a group of moms to be from a Swiss website for dinner- too funny cause 2 of the girls live across the street from me! Maybe it's the American side of me, but since I was the furthest along (others were slightly trailing by 2 days, 2 weeks, a month, ect) I had more accomplished in regards to the babys room/ buying baby gear.

Southlooper I feel like I am the non- stop Energizer Bunny lately and have absolutely no time to be tired. I'm sure it will catch up with me sooner or later. I swear last night was the 1st night I was able to sit at home in front of the TV in a long time.

Have a great weekend!

shortcake

02-12-2006, 02:33 PM

Em - The place my doc mentioned is Puget Sound Blood Center (http://www.psbc.org/cordblood/index.htm). Looking at their website, they don't list my hospital as a place where they collect (I'm going to Northwest) but since my doc mentioned it I will just call them during week hours and ask about it.

Fats -Thanks for your thoughts on the doula. There's one thing I don't think I mentioned when I asked - which is despite having made it through one birth, I am totally terrified of doing it again! I think I am somewhat irrational about it since so many people with "worse" experiences seem to be less afraid, but hey I'm a wimp or something. Even though it was quick, it was quite painful (pitocin may have increased that) so I am sure I could use the help - that's why I started looking into doulas at all. I think I have pretty much decided that I have nothing to lose by hiring her, just as you say.

Ga Girl and Jarm - With ya on the pain! I feel so crazy achy and have pretty bad sciatica. Some days are better than others. I thought I had pubic symphisis earlier in the pg but now that part seems to have let up and it's mostly just the sciatica and back pain. Only 15 more weeks - I am starting to count down! :)

Em7.31.04

02-12-2006, 02:43 PM

shortcake - Thanks for the link! My hospital isn't on their list though, so I'll make sure to ask at my next appointment.

Mrs U

02-13-2006, 06:26 AM

Drive by belly shot....

26 Weeks
http://photobucket.com/albums/b229/s1975/Image034_35.jpg

http://photobucket.com/albums/b229/s1975/Image035_36.jpg

Post more later.:D

Guinness

02-13-2006, 06:37 AM

Mrs.U Great Boy belly! Now I know why people comment that mine looks like a girl belly. After seeing your confirmed boy belly, mine is definitely a girl ;) Wow you got a ton of baby gear. Hammy downs are the best!!

Jarm Hope you had a good weekend and this week is better for you. Complain away, that is what we are here for. Believe me I have had my share of whining!!

Emily Did you pick fabric and paint? Can't wait to see/hear your ideas.

Southlooper I am jealous you have a holiday today. We don't get those, but spring break is around the corner so I shouldn't complain too much

Kristin Can't wait to hear your inspiration too. Sorry about the swelling. I am getting a little of it here and there. Made DH look at fake rings this weekend because I am not sure mine will last much longer.

Shortcake I am on the countdown too. It is totally an obsession though. I count how many days left, and then count back to get perspective of how long that really is. Right now my count back is to the beg. of Dec :eek:

Update on me: 29w today :D My parents are coming to visit for a long weekend (I have to work some, but they have it free). Not totally sure what we will do, it will just be nice to have them here. We finished buying/putting up fauz wood blinds this weekend. They look great, so much better than our mini blinds. I forgot to post that my next appointment is March 10. This is my last 4 week, then on to every 2 weeks. Crazy how while it is moving fast, I sure wish it was faster!!

Alright better get to work. Have a good monday everyone.

Em7.31.04

02-13-2006, 09:40 AM

What a productive weekend...at least in the sense of finally making some decisions.

We picked the paint for the nursery (swatch is downstairs, but it's a medium blue color by American Traditions @ Lowe's). Pretty close match to the blue in the bedding. I've been prepping the room this morning, and I plan to paint one coat later today.

We went to BRU to look at fabric swatches for the Dutailier gliders...We're ordering an upholstered glider online from www.babycatalog.com, but wanted to pick the fabric in person. You never really know what you're getting unless you see it in person, right?

Here's a picture of the chair (we aren't getting the ottoman): http://www.babycatalog.com/dutailier/05/1641035.jpg

And we'll get it in this color: http://www.babycatalog.com/dutailier/05/fabrics1205/fab40702.jpg. It's a dark red microfiber suede.

We narrowed down our crib choices too...We'll order one of these from BRU in the next week or so:

http://www.babiitalia.com/images/pinetspic1.jpg (has stationary sides)

or

http://www.babiitalia.com/images/pinetscrib.jpg (one drop side)

It finally feels like things are coming together...

Jen1098

02-13-2006, 03:25 PM

Oy so far behind again! I hope everyone had a great weekend. We were snowed in which was fine b/c I had some kind of stomach thing going on-not fun. Still don't feel great but much better than yesterday.
This boy has been moving so much it's crazy. Of course usually when I'm trying to sleep or very early in the am. So fun.

I've also had lots of bh this weekend. I noticed I get them if I've been standing to long.

Em7.31.04Nice chair-looks nice and comfy for those every two hour feedings in the beginning.:D

GuinnessI never thought I'd say this but I wish it would got faster too. That's nice your parents can come for a visit-put them to work.;)

Mrs UNice looking belly! You really scored with lots of goodies-good for you.

kristin9903 I hope your swelling has eased some.

I have a question for you RO's-How are you handling picking up your other dc. Right now it's getting to the point for me that it's to much picking Josh up. He's probably 26 lbs so not very light. I've finally got him to "walk" up the stairs with me holding his hands and we go down on our tush. But of course there isn't any way I can get through the day w/o holding him at some point or another. It's just going to get harder as the weeks go on.

Guinness

02-13-2006, 03:52 PM

Well got my 1hr GTT results. Dr. wants them 140 or below, mine were 144. Means I am on to the 3hr :( Any one else get their results or had the 1hr yet? I really wasn't expecting that - UGH

shortcake

02-13-2006, 04:26 PM

Guinness - That stinks!! I had to do the 3 hr one for DD (passed no problem -I'm sure you will too!) and it is definitely NO fun. Sigh. I have my test in about a month and I am hoping for better luck this time!

ga girl

02-13-2006, 06:14 PM

According to Amazing Pg I'm in my 3rd trimester!!! Woo hoo!!!! Time is flying now.....

I have a couple of questions for all of you- first, what exactly do Braxton Hicks feel like? I've been having some tightness in my pelvic area and it's uncomfortable for a few minutes but I have no idea what it is.
Also- how often do you feel the baby move? I keep reading that by this point I'll feel him move on a regular basis but I only really feel him late at night and maybe once during the day- it makes me nervous.

Not a lot going on right now- I'm extremely tired all the time, I never had that "burst" of energy in my 2nd trimester I read so much about. Could be linked to low iron?? My guess is the cold weather (I'm sure all of you in the North think I'm crazy for saying this being that I live in GA!)- I can't WAIT for Spring!!

Lolly

02-13-2006, 07:18 PM

I finally signed up for birthing classes. It meets 4 times in 2 weeks for 12 hours total, and it starts on April 26th! I know it doesn't leave much time but I have been reassured that we're not taking them too late. We'll finish on May 4th so that leaves about 2 and a half weeks before the due date. :)

We got about a foot of snow this weekend. Not too bad (especially since I was not allowed to shovel in my condition, tee hee).

I'm so far behind I won't bother with the last weeks QOTD's, but I'll start with today's.
what exactly do Braxton Hicks feel like? ??? Not sure I've had them yet myself.

how often do you feel the baby move? Several times a day, but sometimes I'm so busy I don't think I notice every little move. I find I feel the baby most when I am more relaxed, like when first lay down in bed or when I first get up in the morning. I also feel the baby sometime in the late afternoon and evening when I am usually sitting at my desk at work or sitting on the couch watching TV.

Threadmistresses, please update my profile. I turned 31 last Thursday (the 9th).

smiles33

02-13-2006, 08:08 PM

Hi ladies!

First, happy belated birthday to Lolly!

Great belly shots, Mrs. U, yours TOTALLY looks like a boy!

I'm sorry about your GTT result, Guinness, but hope you pass the 3 hour test. I took my 1 hour test about a week and a half ago (but forgot to mention it) and was so worried because diabetes runs in my family and my cousin had GD. Plus, this little baby has me craving sweets now (pre-preg, I never had a sweet tooth). Fortunately, I passed but I was so relieved!

I like the first crib the best, Em7.31.04, as I'm not a fan of the drop-rail and I prefer the first one for aesthetic reasons, too. Good choice either way, though, as they look like sturdy, great quality cribs.

So DH and I had planned a mini-babymoon to go to Carmel (so I took today off work) but I was so exhausted just running errands early Saturday (for about 3-4 hours) that we canceled our plans and decided to stay local. We went and checked out 2 daycare facilities (both were amazing, though one is clearly better in that it has a newer facility with more "high-tech" stuff like computer check-in for drop-off and pick-up of your kids) and then had a fun time going crazy at Whole Foods (which was near the facilities on the Peninsula side of the Bay Area), buying giant prawns (the ones that look almost as big as a lobster tail), littleneck clams, chocolate eclairs, saffron (for making saffron rice, which was delicious!), and some other specialty items we don't normally have access to in our neck of the words. FUN!

We also got the first gift off our registry--the FP Ocean Wonders Swing! It's from one of DH's guy friends, which is so thoughtful as I'm not doing a co-ed shower so he really didn't have to get us anything.

Our nursery is really coming together now, as I also picked up a Graco Pack and Play on clearance from BRU, as it was a floor model. I did some research on the Baby Bargains message boards and ended up finding a website selling Kushies play yard sheets so I ordered a bunch of those, too. They come highly recommended, especially when I saw the bad reviews on Amazon about the Graco Play yard sheets.

OK, gotta run, DH wants to build a fire and snuggle. Hope you're all having a great night!

ga girl

02-13-2006, 08:17 PM

smiles33- Could you post that site you found for the Kushies sheets? I too have read all those negative Graco sheet reviews and have been looking for something else.
Thanks!

Spellbound

02-14-2006, 04:16 AM

Hi Mommies! Just wanted to apologize for my scant posts here, but things have been pretty hectic and my online time has been minimal. I'm working on increasing my computer time in my homestretch since I've now got a shocking 10 weeks to go and my activity levels have definitely slowed down elsewhere.

Also I wanted to let everyone know that I've changed my username from Medieval to Spellbound (trying to get my usernames to be the same everywhere) so thread managers please update my profile! You can see me now too in my new icon :).

Over the last few days I have started having swelling in my fingers and some serious hand cramping that makes me worry that I have pregnancy related carpal tunnel. It's been quite painful and it's especially weird since I've been keeping away from any type of repetitive activity. My next appointment is on Thursday so I will be sure to bring this up with my doc. Anyone else having similar symptoms?

We started working on the nursery last week, it's coming along but still has quite a ways to go! I promise to share as things move along.

May2006Mommies

02-14-2006, 05:50 AM

Updated to here!

Mrs U

02-14-2006, 05:55 AM

Hi Ladies!

Finally I have a few minutes!

Went to TRU today and bought 3 fitted sheets for the crib. Now the baby's bed is complete! I guess there isnt much more needed except for minor things like diapers and wipes.

Em I agree with the others on the 1st bed. Is it a convertable bed?

Smiles33 Too bad on being too tired for Carmel. I love that town! At least you got some things accomplished! Cool that you received the OW swing! Over here it's a really pricey item- so we are thankful that we received one 2nd hand.

Guiness Hope the 3 hour test turns out with better results.*fingers crossed*

Jen In regards to picking up kids, even though I babysit (ages ranging 3 months to 7 years old), the bigger kids understand that I cant pick them up, but I try to sit on the floor more so I'm on their level.

How often do you feel the baby move? Lately when I finally sit/lay down I'll feel him. I've been too active lately to really have time to notice. I did feel him on the way home from our walk today- of course he had to start kicking when I needed to pee.:rolleyes: I'll hopefully see tomorrow if he moved a bit, hence less frequent kicking/hitting like last month.

Ok off to babysit my favorite 2 kids- the 3 month old and an active 2 year old!:D

flyerwife

02-14-2006, 09:16 AM

QOTD: How often do you feel the baby move? I usually only feel him move when I'm relaxing. It bothered me for awhile that I didn't feel him more, but then I think it's just being busy with other things.

what exactly do Braxton Hicks feel like? Not really sure, but I have had some tightening up and think that might be them?

[B]Guinness[B] I hope the 3 hr test goes better than the 1 hour. I know one of my friends had to do it and came out of it with flying colors after having problems with the 1 hr one, hopefully you will do the same. I dread having to go drink the orange stuff and am really afraid that I'll have problems too.

Not much else to report, things are moving along, but we still haven't done much with the babies room yet. Really need to get on that soon!

fats

02-14-2006, 10:44 AM

How often do you feel the baby move? ga girl - if it's any consolation, I feel like you do - I don't feel him moving around very consistently. Usually at night when I go to bed and here and there during the day, but I was worried about it and even though my doctor says it's ok, it still bothers me when I hear others saying that they're feeling kicks all the time.

Guinness Good luck with the 3 hour test. You were so close on the 1 hour one that I bet you'll do fine. I have my 1 hour test on Friday and I'm a little worried - diabetes runs in my family and I haven't exactly been keeping very healthy this pregnancy.

Em I like the first crib better too. Both aesthetically and because I prefer a non-drop rail (after TONS of research!)

Lolly Happy belated birthday

Not much to update on me although I have noticed that my belly button is slowly starting to move outward. It's still an innie but I don't think it will be for much longer!

We met with our doula on Saturday and went over a birth plan. Honestly, it's nice to try and plan ahead but I really feel like I'll defer to whatever my doctor says. She's been doing this a lot longer than I have.

This weekend we're heading to San Francisco for a wedding. Both of the dresses I have are sleeveless and I don't really have any thing nice to wear over it. Can any of you Bay Area girls tell me what the weather is supposed to be like?

kristin9903

02-14-2006, 10:52 AM

QOTD - movement It depends. Sometimes, he's a little gymnast. Otherwise, he's a couch potato like his mom. :) I almost never feel him if I'm really busy running around town or something. I read that our movements kind of "rock" the baby and they sleep more. Don't know if that's true or not...

QOTD - Braxton Hicks I *think* I've only had a couple...but my whole abdomen just feels tight, like I'm doing a stomach crunch and holding it. I've also had some little crampy feelings, but I think that's stretching still.

Guinness Sorry about the GTT. You don't sound too far off, so hopefully you'll pass the 3 hour no problem.

Smiles33 I second wanting to know where you got the Kushies sheets. I had no idea people didn't like the Graco ones!

Well, the painting class was a total bust. It was one huge sales pitch...last time I take a clinic at Lowe's. And they didn't even have any place for this swollen, crabby pg lady to sit. The nerve of some people. :rolleyes: We almost have the nursery cleaned out and I am itching to get it painted and ready!!!

fats

02-14-2006, 12:31 PM

Oh - what are play yard sheets? Is that for the pack n play?

Spellbound

02-14-2006, 12:49 PM

QOTD - movement This little guy LOVES the time between 3am and 7am. Grr. It's sometimes a hard bam! and other times simply spastic. I'm trying to not preoccupy myself with keeping track of his movement because I noticed when I do it's like watching a pot boil...nothing.

QOTD - Braxton Hicks I don't think I've had any so far. I was with a friend last night though where her and her husband kept timing the ones she was having. Roughly she was having about 30 a minute, but I have no idea what that means. She's also full-term and ready to deliver whenever the little one says go.

fats I believe the wonderful Spring weather we've been having is supposed to take a turn later this week with the onset of another storm. I don't know if the wedding you are going to has anything taking place outside but I would definitely come prepared with something to cover/keep warm with.

And yes I believe the play yard sheets are for the pack and plays.

jarm

02-14-2006, 05:43 PM

Copied from my LJ

Work started with a breakfast. It was yummy! The day went relatively well, too. Right after lunch, though, I got this really bad headache again. I have never had headaches so bad. In any event, one of the paras walked in and I mentioned the headaches to her and she questioned whether or not it was my BP. She sent me to the nurse's office to get my BP taken. It was high (for me). She wrote it down for me so if there was a problem tonight, I could call and let my doctor know. My head hasn't hurt since and Ray took my BP tonight and it was practically back to normal.

Ray picked me up after work and we went for the repeat Level II u/s. The indifferent news is that they are still getting straight and not straight images of the leg. The bad news...well, not bad, but the new concern (I swear that I need to stop going for u/s...a new issue comes up with each one I have) is that the abdomen is measuring small. So I will be back in 4 weeks for another Level II u/s. Just stinkin' great!

missy329

02-14-2006, 06:22 PM

Hello Everyone-

Had my Dr's appt yesterday. I am still only up 4lbs so far. I had another Level II u/s. My placenta previa is still there and it is still completely covering my cervix. I am a repeat c/s anyway so I am not too worried about that part of it. But, they did warn me if I started bleeding to go straight to the hospital- the Dr said that is the biggest concern he has right now. The u/s tech mentioned that the baby is measuring a bi bi (about 2 weeks ahead) but I told her that my daughter was 2 weeks early and weighed 8lbs 11oz. So, after that she wasn't too concerned- said it just looks like we are having another big baby. I also had my GTT and got my rhogam (sp?) shot in my fanny since I am Rh-. It was a busy appt!

Feeling the baby move- I don't feel the baby unless I am quite and still (usually). With my daughter I really felt her moving around 35 weeks. She was so active that there were times I was literally in tears from all of her movement.

BH Contractions- For me I feel my while belly tighten up and I kind of get short of breath. If I touch my belly, it is hard to the touch. I seem to get them about every other day- much more than with my daughter.

Ok, I finally downloaded some pictures so I am going to be brave and post them here. These are pretty old- 22w and 24w (I am now 28w but haven't taken any pictures in 4 weeks- must remember to do that soon!

Here's 22w:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v513/ltournour/2006_0213Image0003.jpg

ANd here's 24w:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v513/ltournour/2006_0213Image0010.jpg

Hope everyone had a good Valentine's Day!

Em7.31.04

02-14-2006, 07:36 PM

missy329: Tell me about the Rhogam shot...I have to get that at my 28-week appt. Does it hurt worse than a regular shot, or getting blood drawn? Not looking forward to the fanny shot! :-)

QOTD re: Diaper Bags: For the repeat offenders, what do you recommend in a diaper bag? For the newbies, have you thought about what bag you want? We're thinking either the Skip Hop Duo or one from Land's End...Any good/bad things to say about these options?

I registered for my bf class...it's scheduled for exactly one week before my EDD...and that makes me nervous. I know first babies are more likely to be late than early (right?), but still. I don't want to miss the class if I deliver early...

shortcake

02-14-2006, 07:49 PM

jarm - So weird that the leg looks different each time! I am pretty sure the stomach size can vary quite a bit depending on who is doing the measuring, etc, so I am hopeful next time it will look normal.

Diaper Bags - Funny you should ask about those two, Em, I have both the Skip Hop Duo and the Lands End Little Tripper! I used the Lands End one a bunch at the beginning, and it was fine - though probably smaller than what some folks use. I found it just big enough for me. DD was FF so I had to carry bottles, too, which take up extra space. I switched from that to a non-diaper bag from Old Navy which worked great but I got tired of it, so just a couple weeks ago I bought the Skip Hop. I like it a lot! I think for one kid it is big enough - though it is very slim so if you carry a ton of stuff you might fill it up. I like the pockets, and the fact that you can zip your wallet etc. in the "personal stuff" pockets but just reach into the main compartment to get out diapers, wipes, etc. I like that it's slim when I am wearing it b/c I don't feel overloaded. I am, however, nervous it might be too small for 2 kids, but I have yet to find out! I figure if I BF the baby, I won't need THAT much additional stuff so it may work fine. I would like to try to stay compact if I can. Anyway, long answer for you but I hope that helps!

jarm

02-14-2006, 08:00 PM

Em - I'm going to step in and talk about Rhogam. It is nothing worse than a normal shot, but it's just in a different spot. HTH! Nothing to be worried about...just make sure you aren't going to need to be sitting for a while.

smiles33

02-14-2006, 08:32 PM

Hello ladies! Happy V-day to you all!

DH made me a delicious Mediterranean feast and is now busy cleaning up so I snuck in here to check in.

Sorry I didn't have time to come by earlier. Yes, play yard sheets are for the Pack and Play (which I think might be "trademarked" by Graco, which is why I just used the term play yard). Anyhow, here is the actual website where I bought them. Scroll down to the bottom for play yard sheets (only $7.99 per sheet and free shipping!):

http://www.basicallybaby.com/sheets.htm

They don't actually say the sheets are by Kushies on the website (I saw on another website that they're not allowed to discount Kushies, so perhaps this website is able to do so because they don't tell you the manufacturer unless you email them). FYI, this is the exact message from Customer Service as I emailed to make sure:

Thank you for writing Basically Baby! Kushies is the manufacturer of
our Portable PlayPen Sheets. Everything on our site, except out Snug-to-fit
Diapers, are made by Kushies. Please write anytime should you have any further questions :o)

Sincerely,
Janet L.
Basically Baby
1-888-254-8780
http://basicallybaby.com
http://basicallybaby.ca

The only drawback is that you don't get to specify color. I did add in the "Comments" section when ordering them that I'd prefer solids in blue, yellow or white. Who knows if I'll get some pink clowns or some other weird pattern? :)

FYI, this is one of the threads from the Baby Bargains message board about crib sheets, pack and play sheets, etc.

http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=7684&mesg_id=7684&page=

A few moms recommended sheets by Fleece Baby, but they are twice as much at $15.99. Given the fact that I plan to have Baby J in a Halo Sleep Sack when she's in the pack and play, I think the $7.99 sheets (which are still supposed to be high quality and soft) will be sufficient.

BTW, the message thread actually references a different website to buy Kushies pack and play sheets, but it's more expensive and doesn't include free shipping. However, you can specify if you want a color other than blue or pink (you pick boy or girl and they'll give anything but the opposite gender's color):

http://www.kidsurplus.com/kuss345.html

OK, now that I've totally went overboard in answering the question, I'll move on to QOTD and the ones I missed yesterday! :)

Feeling baby move? I frequently feel her move when I'm lying down and sometimes even when sitting upright in my office. She's quite active and I often feel her in the middle of the night past midnight.

BH contractions? Yes, though really only that one day while taking a long walk and it was incredibly uncomfortable. I'd say slightly painful, as it felt like one long abdominal crunch that wouldn't relax.

Diaper Bag? DH actually bought me a great black fabric Coach diaper bag that I had been lusting over each time we went to the outlets for the past 2 years. I know, it's a bit outlandish/impractical given its intended use as a carrier of dirty diapers, but I figure it will double as a purse and go undercover "masquerading" as a diaper bag so I will get dual use out of it and still feel a little chic. I am thinking of finding something that will be more unisex so DH can use it, too. Maybe the Skip Hop Duo, as I've read good things about it. Or perhaps the Land's End or Eddie Bauer ones that Baby Bargains recommends.

Alrighty, back to enjoying a wonderful relaxing V-day with DH.

missy329

02-15-2006, 12:25 AM

Em- the rhogam shot didn't hurt me at all. I actually never felt it go in and I forgot I had had it until I felt the bandaid during my shower that night- so no sore fanny for me. I did not have to have the second shot last time because my daughter was Rh-. (The second shot is given after birth if the baby is Rh+.)

Diaper Bags- I can't even tell you what kind of diaper bag I carry now. I have just always used whatever I thought was cute. I did have a black one for my DH but he usually just grabs the one I use because it is "stocked". We never seem to carry much in our bag- a few diapers, wipes, and a bottle and additional liners when she was younger.

ironhair

02-15-2006, 05:38 AM

OK, things have been a little hectic in my world and I haven't been able to post in a week - I'll try to get caught up here.

Mrs U & Missy - great belly shots! I love all the pregnant bellies - though I must confess, pregnancy used to creep me out. Funny how your priorities and things change throughout life. I must remember to post some pics this week, I am just so lazy at night.

Em - I love that rocker! I also agree with everyone else on crib #1, though both are great.

Guinness - Sorry to hear about the 3-hour test, hope it goes well for you. I have to do my 1-hour at my next appointment on March 1. QUESTION: Is there anything special I need to do/not do b/f my test. They didn't tell me anything at the dr office, so I think I might call.

Lolly - Happy Belated Birthday! Hope you had a wonderful day!

Movement - I was glad to read all of your posts, as I was just thinking about that yesterday. I don't feel him move all that much. Usually in the afternoon at my desk and at night, but sometimes even then it is not much. I'm glad to hear a lot of us are experiencing the same thing - without you guys I would call my drs office every other day I swear!

Quick update on me:
I had an appt on Jan 12. At that appt I learned I have gained 11 pounds, total. Not great, but not bad. At my last appt on Feb 8 I learned I gained 11 pounds...SINCE JAN 12! A whopping 22 pounds total - and I have how many more weeks to go :eek:

I don't really mind putting on the weight that much, I don't mind that nothing fits, all of my pants have an elastic waste, and that I haven't seen below my belly button for a few weeks now...but this week a new terror has struck...I've discovered my thighs now touch!!! Worse, they rub together when I walk! Corduroy is definitely out unless I want to start a fire on the way to the bathroom!

I reported earlier that my belly button has popped out, but it has gotten worse! I now catch it on everything and by the end of the day it so sore!

OK I better get back to work. I hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday!!

Guinness

02-15-2006, 05:53 AM

Thanks everyone for positive thoughts on the 3 hr test. I am going to go in on tues and have to eat high card diet for 3 days before. My parents will be in town this weekend, so I figured we will be eating plenty anyway. Not looking forward to being stuck for 3 hours. The good news is I will have an exam to grade, so no better way than being stuck in a doctor's office all morning :rolleyes:

Ironhair My only instructions were to eat normally, but avoide sweets the morning of. So no juice etc. What I have been reading and didn't know is that milk is not great for you 1st thing in the morning. I had no idea as that helps my heartburn a lot, so I drink it. Truth is I don't think you can manipulate the test or would want to. I think it is pretty straight up whether your body metabolizes sugar or not. I am trying to remember the mantra, healthly baby and mother is our goal.

Great belly shots to those of you posting them. Everyone is growing :D

Movements Mine have been few and far between until this week (29) I have started to feel them more often throughout the day. I asked my Dr. about it last Fri and he said as long as you feel something sometime during the day it is fine. Amniotic fluid is still pretty high, so it isn't always easy to tell.

BH Contractions I do get these, but not as often as earlier on. I have been having more RLP the last week - must be another belly growth spurt.

Diaper bags I drool over many, but haven't gotten any yet. Figure I will wait until after my shower and then look for something - unless I come upon the perfect one before.

Good luck to all those with appointments coming up. Hello to everyone, hope you had a good valentine's day.

shortcake

02-15-2006, 06:59 AM

Em - I called the Puget Sound cord blood area, and she said they are only equipt to collect from places on their list. They are working on being able to collect from anywhere, but she didn't seem hopeful that it would happen before May. She suggested Cryo-bank international. Oh and on your crib finalists - those are really nice!! How tall are you? I have a drop side, which I find really useful because I am so short. Once the kid is bigger, you lower the mattress so it gets hard to reach. I find I need to lower the side rail just to organize her blanket, pacifiers, etc. Of course I could always keep a stepstool nearby. (And I think someone mentioned that the stationary ones start off lower?? This would help if that's the case - but I wonder if some little monkey kids would start climbing out sooner!)

movement -I must have a crazy jumping bean in there! Soooo different than DD was.

Guinness - What do you mean about milk not being good in the morning? For the test? I REALLY don't want to fail the 1 hr as I don't know what I would do with DD while I was at the 3 hour test! Sounds like a good grading opportunity for you - ugh.

BH contractions? Yep - feels tight, have to take a deep breath. I've been getting these for about a month now (I'm coming up on week 26). I remember them being stronger - I think that will happen later on in the pg, as it was in the 8th month that I had them a ton with DD.

nettreefrog

02-15-2006, 07:22 AM

Hey all... I should be working so I will make this quick...

Glucose test -- Everything came back normal.

Diaper bags -- I actually need a regular bag now, and my coworker recommended one that I can use as a small diaper bag later on. I am cognizant of the fact that we go most places on foot so everything needs to be compact and light.

BH Contractions -- I really cannot say whether this is going on or not...

Movement -- The words "constant", "continual", and "never-ending" come to mind when describing the movement in my belly. You can watch my belly do waves and feel the thumps. He moves during the night (sometimes waking me), while I sit in front of computer, and even when I am walking.

Btw...My age is 29 as I celebrated my birthday a few months ago. Thanks!

fats

02-15-2006, 07:57 AM

Hi all - I should be working. What else is new?

drop rail cribs: I'm the one who said the stationary ones start out lower. On a stationary crib, the front rail is about the same height that the drop rail is when you drop it. If the baby starts to climb out earlier than expected, I'll just drop the mattress. But like shortcake mentioned, I'm getting a little step stool in case I need an extra boost once the mattress is lowered - even if it's just to change sheets. I actually ordered a step stool from the same place that I ordered the wooden letters to hang on the wall, so they will both match the bedding and each other.

Diaper Bags I'm a bag whore in general so I already have 2 diaper bags and when I was shopping at the maternity store last month, I saw another one I was lusting after. First I bought this one because I was able to get it discounted.
Kecci Shanghai in Chartreuse
http://www.kecci.com/product/CM7000-19/CM7000-19-lg.jpg
I like it because it can be carried with a strap or as a back pack.

Then I got this one from DH for Xmas (I picked it, of course)
Oi Oi Black and White Flower Messenger Bag
http://www.diaperbags.com/store/images/products/product_184.jpg
I really love this one - it's so nice in person!!!

The other one I love is a Petunia Picklebottom, but it looks pretty similar to my Kecci so I'll probably skip it. I also like the bags by Fleurville because they are coated in plastic and that seems pretty practical to me.

Come to think of it, I have an old Coach diaper bag that I didn't even realize it was a diaper bag when I bought it (my friend and I were trying to figure out what the changing pad was - shows you how clueless I was pre-pregnancy!!). I used it to commute, so maybe I'll dig that up if I can find it.

The way I see it, I change my every day bags often enough, why not have a few diaper bags that I can use interchangeably as well.

BH contractions I haven't had any (that I know of) but I'm wondering if it's pretty common to get them - should I be expecting them at some point?

Play yard sheets Ok, I have another question about these - is this for the bottom of the pack n play or for the bassinet portion of the pack n play? My PnP comes with a bassinet and I'm pretty sure we registered for sheets for that, but I don't remember thinking about sheets for the bottom of the thing. Are you supposed to put sheets there as well?

Guinness

02-15-2006, 08:09 AM

Shortcake I don't really know about the milk thing, it was just something I read when looking at GD type diets. I guess maybe milk has carbs so it isn't great first thing in the morning, but I don't know. I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe eat an egg and piece of toast for breakfast with water . . . I can't imagine milk made me not pass as I am sure many people eat cereal for breakfast and pass just fine.

shortcake

02-15-2006, 08:15 AM

fats - Ooh I LOVE the Oi Oi bag! I agree that you will be using your bag a lot so variety is nice - I tend to use the same bag for a long time but get tired of it and switch at that point.

Guinness - Thanks for the milk info. I think that sounds like a good breakfast that day! My test isn't till evening, so I'm thinking of eating less carbs all day long.

missy329

02-15-2006, 10:15 AM

Fats- As far as the sheets for the PNP. I don't know what kind you have but most all of them use the same pad from the bottom of the PNP for the bassinet. That is if you have a full size bassinet. So, you take the pad out of the bottom of the PNP and put it in as the bottom of the bassinet. Therefore, they are the same sheets. Hope that makes sense?!

GTT- My Dr wanted me to fast for 4 hours before the test. But, I have read studies that say it is best if you don't fast. So, I guess I would call your Dr's office if you are not sure what they want you to do.

Drop Rail Cribs- My DD is 21 months old and I have never dropped the side of her crib to get her in or out- even now with my belly I am able to take her out with the side up. And I am only 5' tall! I guess everyone is different- maybe try it out at the store- but I think they usually display them with the mattress all the way up. I say get what you like and buy a stool if you can't reach!

Mrs U

02-15-2006, 10:54 AM

Hi All!

I had my Dr. appointment today. Good and bad news- Good news is that over here the GTT isnt part of protocal- only if I want it I can have it done.:D Bad news is he's still butt down and he has 4 weeks time to turn. So I might be looking at a either them trying to turn him or C- section (bites nails cause this is something I dread thinking about either). Otherwise his size/ weight looks good.

I also inquired about cord banking- here there used to be a time that cosmetic companies used to 'buy' the cord blood, until the HIV breakout in the '80s. No donations taken sadly, but I could bank it for later use at a cost (no thanks).

Next appointment is on March 15th.

Diaper bag I posted mine a while back- it's by a Netherland company called "Little Company". I received it in the mail 2 weeks ago and I cant wait to use it!
http://www.babykoop.nl/images/Diversen/little%20company%20tas%20blauw%20bloem.jpg

kristin9903

02-15-2006, 10:56 AM

missy and MrsU Y'all look great!!! :)

smiles33 Thanks for the link for the sheets...I'll definitely be using them. The ones we registered for at BRU are a couple dollars more.

fats Love the Kecci bag...and the OiOi, too. You have great taste! Unfortunately DH wouldn't hear of either of those....so we just have a plain old navy blue one.

Just got back from the Dr. I have no clue why I pay this man. He measured my belly, wrote me a prescription for a decongestant (one of my lovely pregnancy side effects is being constantly clogged up) and completely forgot that I hadn't had the 1 hour GTT or my thyroid checked. I had to tell him to order my own bloodwork!

Blood pressure was holding it's own, but getting higher (120/70) and I gained 4 lbs. So, I've gained 6 lbs total for the pregnancy...which should account for why I don't look pg at all.

ironhair

02-15-2006, 11:20 AM

Just checking in quick after lunch...

Thanks for the feedback about the GTT test. Guess I'll just show up, ready for my orange drink.

Fats - Love the Kecci bag! That was my #1 bag and I was so excited to order it...then I found out I was having a boy, now it doesn't seem boy enough, and I can't seem to find anything I like :)

Hmmm...something else I was going to post, but phone just rang and I lost all train of thought...darn PB

missy329

02-15-2006, 12:22 PM

Well, just got a call from my Dr's office. I failed my 1 hour GTT. So, now I have to go for the 3 hour test :( I passed the 1 hour with my daughter so this kind of suprised me.

Guinness

02-15-2006, 12:40 PM

Sorry Missy. Hopefully after the 3hr we will both be cleared. It is a big bummer though.

marchfamily

02-15-2006, 12:41 PM

QOTD - What was your BP at your last appt? Mine was 128/82. I have no signs of pre-eclampsia (sp?) so they don't seem concerned. Last pg, my BP got up into the 140/90 range.

Guinness

02-15-2006, 12:45 PM

QOTD 126/60. I am usually 110/60. My 1st appt was 110/70. Last appt Dr. said your bp is better than when you started. He really cares mostly about the 2nd number.

Bloomwood

02-15-2006, 01:09 PM

I've missed alot. I read through, but no time for SOs. Here're my QOTDs, though:

BH contrax - probably get 6 or 7 a day. It is a tightening/pulling sensation in my lower pelvis and my whole belly becomes rock hard. Dr said it was nothing to worry about unless I was feeling 6+/hour.

movement - I feel the baby a lot too. She hates if I lay on my side, but kinda on my stomach. She'll kick me and of course this is in the middle of the night. I feel like her movement is slowing down though which I've read is normal as she is running out of room in there (although, my belly is so big, it seems like she has a pretty nice pad in there!).

Speaking of big belly, I measured it today (I'm a glutton for punishment, I guess). At my belly button, I am 37 inches. wowza. I'm so curious where I'll be at 40 weeks!

diaper bag - I am having the hardest time committing. I think I am going to get the oioi carry all and maybe later (or sooner) the Lexie Barnes Darling
http://froogle.google.com/froogle_image?q=http://us.st7.yimg.com/store1.yimg.com/I/take-twomaternity_1883_8011113&size=4&dhm=7eb080f9&hl=en http://www.sophiebags.com/images/bags/casual-handbag-1290.jpg

The oi oi is pretty big, but I figure I'll overpack in the beginning and I can use it as her carryon for some of our upcoming trips - and maybe my hospital bag.

bloodpressure - no idea. I have always been on the lower side, so it is not something I've given a second thought to.

I gave DH his diaper bag and baby owner's manual (thanks again nettree!) last night along with a more personal VD gift. He loved it. He was particularly interested in reading the section of the book on "programming sleep mode."

He also told me this weekend that I should get my bag packed for the hospital. He's more paranoid than I am!

Hope you all are doing well. Sorry to the girls that have to move on to the 3 hr GTT :( I'm keeping my fingers crossed you pass with flying colors!

fats

02-15-2006, 01:12 PM

fats Love the Kecci bag...and the OiOi, too. You have great taste! Unfortunately DH wouldn't hear of either of those....so we just have a plain old navy blue one.

Oh, I got DH his own bag for Xmas so he doesn't have any say in my bag!! His is a nice rugged 'manly' black canvas one!

Fats - Love the Kecci bag! That was my #1 bag and I was so excited to order it...then I found out I was having a boy, now it doesn't seem boy enough, and I can't seem to find anything I like

We're having a boy too but I went by the "it's my bag, not his" philosophy. Seriously - I'm the one carrying it around! I'm not going to change the purse I carry just because the baby is a boy, so why shouldn't I have the diaper bag that I want. Plus, I think if it really bothers you, you can surely find a color that is more 'male' - it comes in like 12 different colors!!

No idea what my blood pressure was, but I know it was normal because I always ask, "Is that good?" I'll find out on Friday what it is now.

ETA: Bloomwood I LOVE the bag on the left!!! I think I'm developping a major new obsession with diaper bags!

Em7.31.04

02-15-2006, 02:27 PM

BP: At my last appt (2/6), my BP was 122/70.

Just a guilty note...I've gone to Starbucks twice today...decaf both times, but full-fat milk. Gulp. :rolleyes:

jarm

02-15-2006, 03:06 PM

I am on modified bedrest until at least Friday. Fun, fun, fun! With the headaches that I've been having and the BP going back and forth, she told me to take it easy for the next couple of days so no work for me. I get an extended vacation as vacation starts Monday. I tried to get her to let me work the last two days, but no go. I go back in on Friday to get checked out and then my normal appointment is the following Friday. I feel like a darn hypochondriact.

smiles33

02-15-2006, 05:35 PM

DH has a late night tonight so I've got at least an hour to kill before he comes home for dinner.

Wow, Bloomwood, your DH is already telling you to pack a bag? I'm only 2 days past your EDD and I wasn't even thinking of doing that until around 36 weeks. My baby shower isn't even until I'm 36 weeks because of my friends' schedules.

QOTD: I think my blood pressure was 120/70 at my check-up yesterday. It usually is around there, though sometimes lower.

I forgot to mention the doctor's visit in my eagerness to talk about Kushie's sheets. I spent 40 minutes waiting for a 2 minute check-up--the doctor measured my belly (I'm right at 28 cm) and then listened to her heartbeat with the doppler. The one worrisome thing is that they noticed I have some sugar in my urine sample so if it happens again at my next visit, I'll have to retake the GTT. :( So I really feel for you ladies taking the 3 hour--I guess
even if you pass the 1 hour GTT, there's still a possibility of having to re-take it.

Also, after seeing all these belly shots, I wanted to take my own. I think I'm lucky I'm tall and have a relatively long torso, as the other pregnant women at work who aren't as far along as me (but are 5"-6" shorter) do look bigger than me. Since I took the photo in front of the mirrored closet door, it didn't turn out as well as if I had DH take it. But for some reason, I haven't had him take any belly shots because I feel funny about it.

Anyhow, here's my 28 week belly shot, reflecting a 22 pound weight gain (10 of which were in the first trimester!):

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b6dc34b3127cce9769852ec21900000015109AZOXDJo4ZI

ga girl

02-15-2006, 05:51 PM

Funny diaper bags were mentioned- they've become my new obsession! I just bought the first 2 and have my eye on the 3rd. They're JP Lizzy bags. I completely understand you Fats :)

http://www.jplizzy.com/media/collections/products/39.image.jpg http://www.jplizzy.com/media/collections/products/3.image.jpg
http://a1472.g.akamaitech.net/f/1472/124/4h/images.ebags.com/images/products/66466_SQ250.jpg

Thanks smiles33 for the sheet info- I'll go look into that once I tear myself away from diaper bags!

Thanks everyone for responding to the movement issue, it's something that's been bothering me for days now but after reading your replies and some others I found I feel much better. I do feel him just not all the time but I'm 27 weeks- I'll give myself to 35 weeks before I become psychotic about it;)

Just got a call from the nursery furniture store today- when we bought it we were told it "never takes over 6 weeks for delivery"..well, I must be special b/c it's going to take 14 weeks total!! It's now been 7 so I have another 7 to wait, grrr..... I've occupied myself with decorating the rest of the house. I can't stop! Last weekend I spent hours looking for new curtains, rugs, etc. Good thing we're waiting 3 years for another child or we'd be broke!

Mrs U

02-16-2006, 01:27 AM

Hi All!

BP Since they give us a "mama passport" with all of our info in it, I have all my check-up BP's.

110/80- 10.12
120/70- 11.9
110/70- 12.7
120/65- 1.13
110/80- yesterday

I'm just happy it's back to normal again. I had problems in Dec/ Jan with it being too low then going really high (153/90 was one reading that I had at home) causing me to nearly faint if I stood in the same spot for too long.

Weight Up 10 kilos (22 lbs) according to the dr. scale yesterday. He said nothing about it so it must be within an acceptable range.

Smiles33 Lovely belly!

Ga Girl That really bites that you have to wait another 7 weeks for your crib.

Missy Sorry about failing the 1 hour test. Hope it turns out better in the 3 hour.

Better get looking over my hospital rooming options. Right now my insurance covers a room with 4 people. I could upgrade and have a half private (2 bed room for $1050 extra) or full private (single bed room with a lot of extras like partner can stay for a night, changing table in room, all the little things like in a 5* hotel for $2160). On the other hand with 4 in a room with the possiblity of 4 babies bunking in room, I may never see any sleep for the week. Decisions decisions- all in 5 days time I have to decide.:rolleyes:

shortcake

02-16-2006, 07:44 AM

Mrs U - WOW 4 to a room? Of course, overall the insurance there is really great and cheap, right? But 4 to a room??? You are very right that with 4 babies you might get no sleep at all. Oh - do the babies room in with you or are they in the nursery and just brought in when they need feeding? That might make a difference - I'm sure they'd be quieter if they're just brought in as needed.

I'm lucky that my hospital only has private rooms, so I don't have to make that decision (my insurance will only pay for semi-private if that's standard at the hospital, but most places around here are only private). It is very nice to have your husband able to sleep there, too - if that's an option I would definitely factor it into your decsion.

flyerwife

02-16-2006, 07:57 AM

4 to a room, that seems like a lot! Hopefully the babies are in a nursery and not all in the room too. My hospital has single rooms standard. Some are nicer than others, but at least you are alone and the baby can stay with you or in the nursery. Dad can stay too, but I don't know with having a 4 yr old whether he will this time or not. QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc?

I have to go do the GD test within the next week and I'm dreading it. All the nurse told me was don't be stupid like one of her other patience and drink a pepsi and have a pop tart for breakfast. I figure I'll go simple like toast and water and hopefully it will all go well. Next appt is 3/2, the c/s will probably be scheduled then too. Kinda scary it's getting close!

jarm

02-16-2006, 08:29 AM

QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc? DH will stay the first night with me and the baby. He will be working the following nights until I come home (unless he happens to be off anyway). Because I'm probably having a repeat c/s, I will need him home to help. MIL will probably sleep over here while I'm in the hospital because DH works until midnight.

shortcake

02-16-2006, 08:31 AM

QOTD -We don't know yet. In part, it depends on whether my mom is in town yet - she is planning to come up a few days before my due date but if I'm early DD may have to be watched by friends; in which case DH will obviously go home to stay with her. If mom is here, we will see - he might go home to put her to bed and then come back and stay with me? I feel very needy and I want him there!!

Jen1098

02-16-2006, 09:12 AM

Happy Thursday all. Just got home a little while ago from my OB appt. Up 14 lbs since I first got pregnant. Dr. isn't at all concerned. Said most people gain between 18 and 20 lbs at this point. But I am already 4 lbs away from what I was the day I gave birth to Josh.:eek:
I see another partner in 2 weeks, him two weeks after that then down to once a week. Said we'll do an internal at 36 weeks and the strep test. Said we'll also discuss the induction of 7-10 days early.

Took my glucose test today-wasn't so bad. At least they keep it cold. THe last lab didn't and I think that makes a difference. When the lady was drawing my blood and she asked when I was due she couldn't believe it. She thought I was due before May. :o

Em7.31.04 That's okay-milk is good for you. :D I've had two choc. chip cookies today and I think I'll be hitting starbucks myself for a half decaf cafe mocha. Yummm

smiles33YOu look great! Sorry about the sugar in the urine-hopefully you pass the GTT again.

ga girlThose are gorgeous bags you posted. I love the brown one. That's one thing I'm treating myself to this time around.

Mrs U Add me to those that can't believe they have four to a room. Wow. But for me I probably wouldn't pay extra to have a private or semi private room. Maybe you'll get lucky and it won't be a busy day for babies when you're there.

QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc?

Well my mom is planning on coming up but she lives in Florida so once it gets closer we'll have more firm dates. Another reason I want the induction-don't want to be dragging JOsh to the hospital at 2 am.
Anyways I told Dh he shouldn't sleep over at all, that he should go home and get what sleep he can but he says he's at least sleeping over the first night. That's probably good b/c he is the expert swaddler.

Anyone else not able to sleep through the night anymore? I find myself waking up all hours of the night now. It's so fustrating.

AttyGrl74

02-16-2006, 10:16 AM

QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc?

My folks are a 4 hour drive away - I may end up at the hospital delivering #2 alone. Which I'm actually ok with. It all depends on when #2 decides to make her grand entrance!

With Nora - my water broke at 9:30pm, my parents made it to the hospital around 2am and Nora was born the next morning at 8am.

I think if the same thing happens, we'll just have our neighbor come over and sit at the house while Nora sleeps and we'll head to the hospital.

I'm not going to make DH stay at the hospital with me at all this time. In fact - I'm going to tell him he needs to go home with Nora. He's going to need all the quality sleep he can get before we come home from the hospital.

Bloomwood

02-16-2006, 11:03 AM

I'm not an RO, but I'll be sending DH home too. I think we'll both be better able to let the whole thing "sink in" if we have some quiet time alone. And, like Attygrl said, he's going to need some sleep. I don't actually know if he'll leave me alone in the hospital, but I think he should - seems like a pretty safe place for me to be alone!

Smiles - yeah, I am not packing my bag right now. Like I told DH, what would I put in it? I need everything still! He's a certifiable goofball. You look great! Those 22 pounds are well concealed!

jarm - sorry to hear about the bedrest.

ga girl - beautiful bags!!

Mrs U - I like the idea of a mommy passport; I could obsess to my heart's content with all that info at my fingertips. And, no, I can't imagine sharing a room with 4 other women - and babies!

then there's shortcake - gawd would I love to know I'm getting a private room! Our ob apparently is very well respected at the hospital and her patients are often awarded with special perks, but there's no guarantee a private room is one of them.

flyerwife and others - I ate egg whites and spinach with wheat toast right before my test (this was after my oatmeal breakfast with some sugar and dried cranberries) and was fine. I hope everyone passes, but if you don't, there isn't that much longer left!

jen1098 - I actually had a very rare wonderful nights sleep last night. No idea why, but it was heaven - only got up once for the bathroom. But, in general, I am waking for hours at a time during the night.

We already took our childbirth class, but I just signed up for the c/s class and the BF class. DH isn't coming to either with me, but we might take an infant care class. None of the infant cpr classes are open when we have time, so I guess we'll skip or try to get there after the baby comes. I'm a little annoyed that they want me to take the c/s class, but I guess it is better to be prepared.

marchfamily

02-16-2006, 11:38 AM

QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc?

DH slept at home with the first baby. I assume he'd do the same for the second. He usually left when I was tired and came back around 8am. Since we'll have a 15-16 month old, not sure who will watch her while we are having the baby. And, would assume that she will only be able to visit at the hospital for short periods. I'm hoping that family will want to spend some time entertaining her at home until we come home. Hoping for another short stay after the csection (had DD Sunday, went home on Tuesday).

Lolly

02-16-2006, 11:42 AM

Thanks to everyone for the belated birthday wishes!

BP at last appointment (2/1/06) was 116/74. At that time I had gained 15 lbs overall. I'll find out how much more I weigh at my next appointment on 3/2/06.

For some reason I'm having my 1 hour GTT done at 28 weeks. So thanks for all the advice ladies. And I'm sorry for those that have to take the 3 hour test. Hopefully you'll all pass it.

Did I mention that I finally signed up for birthing classes? They start on April 26 and end on May 4 (2 nights a week, 3 hours each totaling 12 class hours). I think its cutting it close but its the only class time that will work with DH and my schedules.

ga girl Now you've got me lusting after the chocolate bag as well. Love it! I have bought myself a bag already at Target, on clearance for $10. It wouldn't hurt to have a few though. Like fats I like to have several bags to use depending on my mood.

jarm sorry about the bedrest too, but hopefully you'll be better and cleared to go off bedrest on Friday (tomorrow). Do you have any reading you can get caught up on or any other non-stressful activity (scrapbooking?) to do?

Mrs U 4 to a room does sound like a lot but at least you'll only be there in that situation for a few days. Like Jen1098 I probably wouldn't pay any extra for a room either. Maybe it will be a slow day though so that 4 per room may not be full.
The hospital that I'm pretty sure I'll be delivering at (still wavering) does not have all private rooms but they do have some. Once they finish their new wing in 2007 then all their rooms will be private.

smiles33nice belly shot. I have taken a few of myself but have only had DH take one of me so far. He thinks its silly that I want to take pictures of my expanding belly. Oh well.

Mrs U

02-16-2006, 01:11 PM

Well we opted to go semi private. We live 5 minutes away so it really isnt needed that SO sleeps there. The hospital has the option of baby sleeping in- room so that is the worst case senerio. Plus after the mommies dinner last week and meeting 5 other May mama's to be, I think the chances are high that the 4 to a room would be full (Aug. was a very rainy month here ;) ) The major difference and the main reason I opted with semi private is I can at least choose my Dr, unlike general where you get whomever is on call. Plus it's protocal here for a new mom to stay between 5 and 7 days in the hospital.

jarm

02-16-2006, 01:12 PM

Luckily, I'm not complete bedrest so I've been up and about today. I went to the lab to get my bloodwork done. I even took an extra little ride because I was enjoying being out. Unfortunately, I just can't stand being home with DH in the mornings. DD and DH have their routine, but it frustrates me because it's not the way I would do things. But whatever...tomorrow in the morning is my doctor's appointment and I'm hoping to get some good news. My headaches seem to have disappeared and I'm pretty positive that my BP is back to "normal." I'm sure the elevated BP the other day had something to do with how bad my head hurt.

nettreefrog

02-16-2006, 06:27 PM

QOTD: For those of you that already have 1 or more at home, how do you plan to handle the hospital stay and your SO. Will they stay with you and the baby, or at home with the older child, etc?

This is a wonderful question. We have not worked it out yet. As you all know, my DD is in 6th grade now...so we need to have a game plan worked out. If she is in school when my water breaks, I am hoping that she can go home with a friend...but it is all really up in the air.

Sorry that I have not done SOs lately... I like reading along though.

In other news: We leave for Puerto Rico on Saturday, and my DH is dropping the car off at the body shop before we leave. My DD is currently in the process of collecting the fungus (we switched from bacteria to fungus) she needs for her science fair projects. Work is hectic --as we have an ever increasing number of projects of "priority". Many of my clothes are getting tighter as my belly juts out in front of me. The pain on my side seems to dissipate when I lie on the couch in a relax posture--but it is quite painful during the day. Well...we need to work more on science fair stuff...

ironhair

02-16-2006, 06:51 PM

Too tired for many SO's - Count me in the group who's not sleeping well! Last night I only got 6 hours of sleep and still had to get up twice to pee, plus was awake at least 3 other times! Guess I'm just getting prepared for what's ahead.

All nursery furniture was delivered today - very exciting - but DH thinks it too early to assemble it :mad: Guess I could wait until the room is ready :rolleyes: Still need to paint and new carpet comes on March 8.

Love all the diaper bags - good poing fats, I'll be carrying it, not the little guy!

Good luck at the dr tomorrow Jarm!

Great belly shot smiles! I'm up 22 pounds also, and I think I read someone else was too, so it must be pretty normal. That makes me feel a little better!

OK, it turns out I'm not smart enough to figure how to post pictures! Is there a trick to this?

jarm

02-16-2006, 07:01 PM

When you post a reply, there's a button that looks like a mountain postcard. Click on that. Right click the properties of your pic (BTW, it needs to be on an online photoalbum first) and copy and paste the URL in the box.

Em7.31.04

02-16-2006, 08:38 PM

Dear Baby,

I want to thank you sincerely for consistently kicking me in the ribs on my right side. What an absolute joy it is to finally recognize your position inside me. I feel relieved when you stop kicking temporarily. However, I must note that the pressure of your foot wedged up underneath my ribs is equally worthy of a sincere thank you. I cannot wait until you get bigger and your kicks are more powerful. You are such a joy!!! :D

Love,
Your Mom

fats

02-17-2006, 12:03 PM

Update on Me

Had my doctors appointment today and I am surely living up to my screen name - I am now up a total of, are you ready? 31 pounds. EEK!!! I'm not happy about it, but I'm also not getting depressed about it like I used to. My doctor is REALLY not happy about it though - she's worried about all of the possible complications, so I guess I better start getting more serious and cutting out all the carbs and sweets. I think I may also start getting up early and taking our dog for a walk. He really needs it too (he's a puppy and doesn't get enough exercise and he's been getting destructive as a result).

Anyhoo, otherwise, I actually feel pretty good. My bp was 100/70 which sounded low to me, but the doc's assistant said it was normal. I took the GTT and I didn't mind that orange drink at all - it was pretty good actually, although it was a little tough to drink the whole thing in 5 minutes. I should have my results this week, I'm really crossing my fingers that I pass. One good thing about the drink - the baby went wild. I've never felt him move so much!!! Now I know what to do to get him going before our 3D ultrasound!

I start going every 2 weeks now and I'll be rotating for the next 4 appointments to meet the other doctors. I can't believe I'm starting my 3rd trimester - I filled out the pre-registration form for the hospital and got a pamphlet from the doctor about labor, delivery, their procedures (they don't accept birth plans, so they tell you what their general practice procedures are re episiotomies, c-sections etc.), what to bring to the hospital - all that stuff. I can't believe how real this is becoming!!

On a lighter note - we're off to San Francisco for the weekend!! Even if the weather isn't great, it'll be a nice little escape and we'll get to spend time with our families (Eco's uncle is getting married so his whole family will be there and my brother is flying up for San Diego to spend Monday with me). I just hope the 6 hour plane ride isn't too uncomfortable!

Happy Friday everyone!

ETA: Doctor says I need to start sleeping on my side (I always end up on my back) so I have to get one of those long body pillows. What is the one that everyone gets and where should I get it?

jarm

02-17-2006, 12:20 PM

Good news! No more bedrest! If I get a headache, though, I do need to take Tylenol and lay down on my left side. When I first was taken into the room and the nurse took my BP, it was high. She had me lay on my left side and a few minutes later it was "normal." The doctor took it and the bottom number had gone up a bit. Oh well...lab results were normal and do not show toxemia. She also went over the results from my glucose, and the only thing with that was that it shows I'm slightly anemic...of course it did! I knew that would happen. Same thing happened with Arlyn. So I got a note to go back to work beginning the 27th, a Rhogam shot (which my tush hurts now) and good news.

Em7.31.04

02-17-2006, 12:37 PM

fats: I have a basic body pillow from Target...Cost less than $20. I just love it - it really makes a difference in my sleep and it helps me stay on my side. I am a former stomach sleeper, sigh. The other type of pillow I've heard mentioned is the Snoogle, but it costs more and I don't know much about it. HTH! :-)

Have fun in CA - I'm jealous!

AttyGrl74

02-17-2006, 02:15 PM

I'm bored today and lurking in the other months' journals - several March mamas have had their bebes already!

WOW. It is just really coming up, isn't it?

I keep thinking - baby isn't coming until spring and it is still very much winter - so I have plenty of time.

But that just isn't true!

EEK!

Hope you all have a nice long weekends - these 3 day weekends make me so glad to be a federal employee!

Spellbound

02-17-2006, 04:24 PM

WOW. It is just really coming up, isn't it?

I keep thinking - baby isn't coming until spring and it is still very much winter -so I have plenty of time.

But that just isn't true!

I can't agree more! I just got back from my appointment today and when they told me I'll be coming in every 2 weeks it really hit me and DH when we walked out. To think we just purchased our crib mattress the other night and have only just begun to work on the nursery! Home stretch, here we come.

I'm finding myself constantly searching for infant clothing, I suppose the nesting is beginning to hit hard. There seems to be an endless supply of girl things I love, but not so much in the boy category. It's funny to me, since I'm not so much of a clothes shopper myself that I'm being so meticulous about this little boy already! I gave in and got these online today:
http://store.babycenter.com/MEDIA/ProductCatalog/15877_100463_md.jpghttp://store.babycenter.com/MEDIA/ProductCatalog/47588_206708_md.jpghttp://www.vanzy.com/images/s08197.jpg

ETA: The first two items are from BabyCenter.com (they're offering free shipping right now or a 5/10/15% discount), and the latter from Ebay.

nettreefrog

02-17-2006, 04:45 PM

That horrible pain that I have on my left side comes and goes--but it is around more than ever before. Do any of you have pain on your sides?

Fats -(ETA: Doctor says I need to start sleeping on my side (I always end up on my back) so I have to get one of those long body pillows. What is the one that everyone gets and where should I get it?) I think I whined about my Snoogle purchase months ago...but I just wanted to reiterate my position on it... The Snoogle body pillow was what everyone swore by ---and I figured that we would hunt it down and spend the $50+ on the body pillow. Well, I tried it and was extremely disappointed. I could not get comfortable at all, and found that it actually made me feel hot. So, after 2 nights of accomodation, I packed up the Snoogle and decided to try it later. Of course, when I tried it again (only a few weeks ago), I was still uncomfortable. So, I know that other women think it is fabulous--but personally, I think it was a major waste of money.

ironhair - I hear you about not sleeping well. I toss and turn many times a night, and my DH says that it is making sleeping hard for him as well.

Em7.31.04 - That was such a cute posting...It really made me smile.

jarm - That's is just wonderful about the bedrest...I read your journal, but did not have an opportunity to really post.

AttyGrl74 - Hahaha! I am constantly lurking in the threads of the other months. I venture to guess to that some of our babies are going to come before May...So yeah, they will all be here in no time!

Spellbound - It is wild to realize what the change from the 4 week to the 2 week appointment schedule means!

I also broke down today, and bought more maternity clothes. I haven't tried them on yet--and really hope they work. Oh and my weight is still going up--I now weigh ~133-134 pounds...a gain of ~25 pounds! It feels like it is all in my belly and chest though...Eeeks...

We head out to Puerto Rico tommorow! So, I should be writing from there...

Mrs U

02-18-2006, 04:41 AM

Well the reality check of pre- registration forms for the hospital came in the mail today. Along with it was the paper for the birth name to be sent to town hall. Is it just me or is time flying too quickly by? Where did Jan & Feb go?

We are heading out in a little bit to meet up with his parents for his mom's 60th birthday weekend. His parents rented a place near a ski lift- I wont be skiing thank goodness since I loathe skiing. At least the weather tomorrow should be really nice- almost spring like finally!:D

Do any of you have pain on your sides? Only when he kicks/hits me.:p I wish he would turn finally!

nettreefrog I envy your trip to warm weather and sunshine. Can you Fedex some of that weather this way?

Spellbound Love those shoes!

Fats I still try to sleep on my belly. Lately I find myself on my back. It's so hard to sleep just on my side- I find that my arm tends to fall asleep and then I have no feeling in my hand/ arm when I wake up which really annoys me.

I feel the nesting phase has begun. I washed up a good portion of the plethora of clothes that we received and ironed (yes ironed) them and arranged them according to size. I need to invest in some more plastic storage boxes, cause we are running out of room and I still have 3 more wash loads of clothes!

Hope ya'll have a good weekend!

Standrea

02-18-2006, 04:47 AM

:) Hey ladies! I'm sorry its been so long.

I'm becoming really stressed out about the baby. There is so much to do and so little time!! It's making me really nervous. We haven't even BEGUN the nursery at all. When I get off of here, I'm cleaning the sparebedroom (which will be the babies room) because BIL is coming to stay for a few days. Good news, him and DH are moving our bedroom from upstairs (we have a bungalo) to downstairs, so we are on the same floor as the baby. The stuff from the office and spare ebdroom are going upstairs to make a den. I'm kind of excited about it. But our bedroom will be cut down to quarter the size...and i lose my big walk in closet...oh well...It will be so much better now when I have to get up in the middle of the night to pee!!

Not much new going on here...i've been REALLY REALLLY tired again lately...it really stinks! I feel so bad for DH...i haven't cooked him dinner in over a week.

Last night I went to see Phantom of the Opera with friends from work. The baby must have really liked it, because she kicked like crazy.

MY birthday was monday, and i was completely spoiled. I was so worried that everyone was going to give me baby stuff, and was being completely selfish. I figured this is one of the last times that I can be selfish for a while...I made out VERY VERY well...

smiles33

02-18-2006, 08:42 AM

OK, so I've had a bad start to the day. At 4 am, I got SIMULTANEOUS leg cramps in both calves after stretching in my half-sleep/half-awake mode and pointing both toes! I thought I was going to fall out of bed from the pain. Has anyone had cramps on a regular basis? I usually get a cramp in my right calf at least once a week and have gotten more accustomed to the pain, but I've NEVER had two legs cramps at once.

I was caught off-guard by the dual cramps. I actually woke DH up this time from whimpering in pain. It freaked him out as I usually don't wake him up for my single leg cramps. I've had 2 bananas since then and am going to go pick up some OJ and magnesium supplements after seeing a thread here on leg cramp "prevention tips."

I'm not even sure if I can go shopping with my mom now, since both calves feel "weak" and may not be up to walking all day. Maybe today (or this weekend) will be the time when I finally clean out the nursery closet, as the room is almost finished but the closet is still stuffed full of our stuff like luggage, my wedding dress, and other random things.

A few SOs before I gotta change and get to my facial!

fats, I've been sleeping on my side fine without a body pillow, but we have a generic one from Bed, Bath and Beyond "on deck" sitting in the nursery if I need it. My biggest problem is actually my little terrier, who keeps trying to sit on my belly or snuggle right next to me. So I keep waking up to move him away from me. For some reason, I can't stand the pressure of a 10 pound dog on my belly but we're also reluctant to kick him out of our bed since he's going to have some major transitions in the upcoming months anyway. :)

Jarm That's GREAT that you're off bed rest! I, too, am slightly anemic (the doctor told me at my last appointment, even though I had received a letter saying I was normal). She asked me to pick up the iron supplement called Slo FE and to take at the opposite time of my prenatal (e.g., in the morning since I take my prenatal at night).

Em7.31.04 I'm also a reformed stomach sleeper, but I find I can still lean slightly towards my belly so I'm not completely on my side. The only downside is that I can now feel her move more easily and it wakes me up frequently.

Attygirl I don't think it even occurred to me that mommmies might give birth pretty early! Wow, I really thought we might only have 1 or 2 May mommies in April (like the ones whose EDD is 5/1!). DH is begging me to try and have her as late as possible, and at least AFTER Easter, as it's prime fishing season in April and May.

Spellbound those are adorable! I haven't bought any cute clothes for DD yet, just some onesies as I figure the grandparents will go crazy in that department. :)

Ooh, Nettreefrog, I hope you're having a FANTASTIC time in Puerto Rico. Even here in CA, it's been hitting the low 40s and I'm FREEZING (though I know I shouldn't be complaining!). As for weight, I would be so delighted if I could get down to 133 AFTER the birth. Like I said earlier, I've gained 22 pounds but I started off heavier than you so the number now....*shudder* Let's just say I weigh more than my high school boyfriend used to weigh and he was a tall (albeit super skinny) guy about 6'3". As for pain in the sides, nope, no pain other than BH.

Nesting phase already, MrsU? I so hope I can delay that for as long as possible, as we moved into our house about 8 months ago and still have boxes hidden in closets. If I move into nesting phase, I'm afraid I'm going to have to tackle all those, too! And I know I need to launder all the clothes before she gets here, but I don't have many clothes for her yet, as we haven't had my shower yet and I only have 1 friend with a daughter. My girlfriend with the 2 year old DD offered half-heartedly to loan me some of her DD's clothes (she is super sentimental, so it's not because she wants to keep themo for future kids, she's sworn off having any more). But that was about 6 months ago and she hasn't brought it up again. I doubt it's going to happen.

Hi Standrea! Don't be too stressed. I know it's hard, but look at the EDDs of the moms who have stuff done--they may be several weeks ahead of you and if you're doing a simple nursery (e.g., painting, wall border, assembling furniture, minimal babyproofing), it's not going to take several weeks. We finished ours in 2 weekends.

Whew! I haven't done SOs in a while. Hope you all have a fantastic weekend!

jarm

02-18-2006, 09:12 AM

smiles - Last pregnancy by this point, I was getting leg cramps every night...two or three times a night. DH would rub them for me and help me out. This time, knock on wood, I haven't had as many, but DH hasn't been as sweet as he was last time.

I had to take Slo FE with DD too, but I absolutely suck at trying to take medications (including the prenatal). I just have a fear of pills. Stinks...but I know I have to do it. Must force myself...must go get some from the store.

Guinness

02-18-2006, 09:19 AM

For those with leg cramps - my mom just told me about a weird remedy that she swears by. . . .she always gets cramps in her calves. Put a bar of soap under your sheet and when you start to feel a cramp come, put your leg on top. She says she hasn't had any since she started with the soap trick and she used to get 1-2 every night. I haven't tried it, but it is worth a shot. She uses hotel size soap, so really small.

Southlooper

02-18-2006, 11:13 PM

Leg Cramps - are you sufficently hydrated? I was once told that most leg cramps are caused by dehydration.

It's 1:13 am, temp outside is -4 F with a 25mph windchill. I am giving up on finishing our taxes. Last check we owe the $64,235. I think I entered something wrong...damn Turbo Tax...

smiles33

02-19-2006, 07:37 AM

Hey Jarm, I haven't found the Slo FE yet, as they didn't have it at the local vitamin store. Did you find it at a regular pharmacy?

Guinness, I'd try the soap thing but my dog moves around so much I think it would disappear before I could find it when a cramp was coming on.

Southlooper: I had to smile at your post, as I'm the MOST hydrated person there could be. I literally drink 1-2 GALLONS of water a day because I'm constantly thirsty and I love water. Plus, it's a good strategy to ensure I actually get up from my desk at work (when I get busy, I forget to take breaks and rest my eyes/wrists but nature's call ALWAYS gets me to the bathroom at least once per hour).

I also bring 2-3 of the little bottles of water with me whenever I go run errands as I know I'll get thirsty. In fact, DH and I get bottled water delivered to our house (the big 5 gallon jugs) and I'm the only one who drinks them. So yes, little old me (well, not so little now) drinks about 10 gallons every two weeks even though I'm at work most days and drinking at least 1 gallon at work during the day.

No cramps last night, but I had 2 bananas in the 3 hours before bedtimr and I just had another banana. Both calves are so stiff/sore that it hurts going up and down the stairs. I will probably just sit here surfing the net (on CC, Craigslist for gently used baby gear, and eBay too) all day instead of running errands....

Southlooper

02-19-2006, 10:37 AM

Smiles33: I wish I had your discipline when it came to drinking water, I'm terrible.

Side sleeping/Pregnancy Pillows: My BIL got me 3 little beanbag/scrunchy pillows for Christmas. They have been a Godsend because they're more moldable and give more support than a regular body pillow. They sell them in small sizes and body pillow size. I think he got them from Bed, Bath, and Beyond.

ga girl

02-19-2006, 10:38 AM

smiles33- I take the Slo FE supplements and found them at my local drugstore (Eckerds), not sure what you have out there...
Also, I thought I would let you know that I'm a fellow water fanatic. I carry around a 64 oz jug at work and fill it up 3-4 times per day- it's become a huge joke in my office that my baby is going to just swim right out of me! (That would actually be really nice if he could!). I have to have a bottle with me at all times when I'm out of the house.

Kim

02-19-2006, 12:58 PM

Hi girls! Hope everyone is having a great weekend. I'm so happy because DH has tomorrow off. He's playing with the girls right now so I actually have a minute to myself.

I had a doctors appointment yesterday. Everything went well. My OB asked again if I was interested in having a waterbirth. I'm so indecisive right now. I would LOVE to have a waterbirth, I'm just not sure that I'd love to give birth at the hospital that offers that as an option. He assured me it's a great hospital (his last two kids were born there even though he lives near me and the hospital that I was originally planning on delivering at). I guess I'm having a bit of a fear of the unknown. I know the hospital that I was planning on delivering at-I was born there, my two kids were born there, all of the kids in my family were born there. I'm comfortable there.

The hospital with the Alternative Birthing Department that offers waterbirth as an option is a much larger hospital. It's also 30 miles away which isn't terrible unless I need to get there during rush hour. I'm not anticipating an extrememly fast labor and delivery but DD #2 was born after about 4 hours in the hospital (so it wasn't that long) and driving the 20 minutes to the hospital while experiencing contractions wasn't much fun. We could be in for a much bumpier ride depending on the traffic conditions. I guess I have lots to think about. He offered to personally give DH and I a tour of the birthing facility the next time he's on call there. I'm thinking I should go for a tour and then depending on the feeling I get from that I'll make my decision.

I'm honored that he'd even offer to do this for me. It's not his normal shtick, you know, though he has delivered babies in the water before. He kind of limits it to patients he knows well. He's actually the only physician that uses the underwater birthing room. All of the others that deliver babies there are midwives. That's one of the things that I love about him. He's a very open-minded MD.

Sigh. Decisions, decisions. I better decide soon, huh? May is rapidly approaching!

jarm

02-19-2006, 02:23 PM

smiles - I got my Slo FE from Target.

fats

02-20-2006, 08:31 AM

Standrea Happy Birthday!

Southlooper That's cracks me up about your taxes - you definitely entered something wrong!!

Anyway, DH and I are in San Francisco and what a wasted trip. We came out for his uncle's wedding and had all day yesterday to enjoy the city. What did we do? We spent the entire day in this tiny hotel room because I was incredibly sick. I woke up feeling so nauseous and after trying to swallow a few spoonfuls of oatmeal at breakfast, I spent about 5 minutes just throwing up in the parking lot. It was really quite scary to me because I hardly ever get sick - at least not throw up sick. Even in the first trimester, I only threw up once. We called the doctor and he said it was probably just a bug and to try and stay hydrated. If I started to run a fever or get abdominal cramps or if after 6-8 hours I couldn't keep any fluids down, then I should go to the ER. So MIL went out and got us a thermometer and some gingerale and gaterade and we spent the entire day here in the hotel watching movies and me trying to nap - not because I was tired but just because it was easier than being awake and feeling so crappy. Needless to say, we missed the wedding.

I'm actually feeling MUCH better now (thank god) but being sick like that while pregnant was pretty scary. I kept thinking about the baby and pre-eclampsia. Not to mention that I'm 3000 miles from home!

Fortunatey the doctor called us back very quickly, but it made me wonder - there are 6 doctors in my practice but only one of them is on call at any given time. What happens if I have an emergency and s/he's in the middle of a delivery? Who calls me back? I think I'm going to have to ask my doctor about that. Being an hour away from our hospital, I really worry about stuff like that - there's another hospital about 5 minutes from our house that I could go to in the event of a "real" emergency, but I would hate to have to do that.

Meanwhile, on the bright side Eco finally felt the baby move. It was so awesome. I've been waiting and waiting for him to kick hard enough to be felt from the outside and yesterday morning I figured we might as well give it a try (even though I thought I could feel it from the outside, I didn't know if it was because I actually knew exactly where/when it was happening because I felt it on the inside). I don't think Eco thought he'd actually feel anything and he was so incredulous when he did. I think that was one of the biggest highlights of the pregnancy so far!!! The other totally crazy thing was actually seeing the baby move. We could both see the ripple in my stomach as he kicked. It was amazing and also a little freaky!! The only good thing about being bedridden yesterday was that I spent the whole day just feeling and seeing the baby move - which was a pretty new experience for me because he's been quite a slow starter. I really didn't feel him move much until a few days ago. Now it's been pretty constant. I love it!

Thanks for all the advice on the body pillow. I ended up ordering a Snoogle but I also found that this weekend I was able to sleep on my side without any problems, so we'll see if I really need it.

As far as nesting, I feel like I've been in nesting mode for so long now!! Our nursery is just about ready - need to hang up the curtain rods, but we're still waiting for furniture. So it's just a big empty room but the paint job looks great!! ;) I really can't wait to get our furniture so we can get the room all set up, put the bedding on the crib (the backordered stuff just arrived on Friday - I love it!!) and put clothes away - stuff like that.

Oh, SIL is getting started on planning our shower and she picked out the cutest invites!! Here they are

http://www.novelexpressions.com/images/1C-24%20Parents%20Blue017.jpg

The shower is going to be on April 8, which seems so far away but I know it'll be here in no time. I'm trying to hold off on buying too many baby clothes until I see what I get, but I haven't been too good about that - his closet is filling up!! I think that I'm just so happy when I find cute boy stuff that I have to buy it - I was convinced that all the cute stuff was for girls!!! My friend who just had a baby in September was assuring me that there are plenty of cute things for boys, but she said this while holding her baby in his Ralph Lauren sweater! I called dibs on his handy-me downs and she said I could have whatever I wanted, but then I realized that the season will be off - unless I want to dress SH in sweaters during August, I probably won't be able to make much use of her stuff! :(

Jen1098

02-20-2006, 08:58 AM

Fats I'm sorry you were sick, on vaca no less. It seems as though the stomach bug is going around though. I had it last week and it does suck being sick while pregnant. Very cute shower invite.
As for cute boy clothes, we have until they are about 4 or 5 before they become not so cute.:D By then they'll be getting so dirty outside we won't want anything nice on them!

Kim It sounds like you've got a great dr. That's wonderful. A water birth sounds great(well for me I couldn't do it b/c I need the epi;) ) I do understand the concern about getting to the hosptial during rush hour-nothing worse then stop and go while in labor. Hopefully once you have the tour it will help make your decision.

smiles33 Hopefully you haven't had any more leg cramp episodes-at least you're getting lots of potassium with all your banannas!:D

Not much going on here. I'll be 28 weeks tomorrow. Craziness. We took our son to a new ped. today but wasn't impressed with the office so the search continues. So fustrating.
We're going shopping when ds wakes up and will check out double strollers. Yikes.

We got a new minivan this weekend. I can't believe I drive a minivan now. Back when I was younger I always said I would never ever drive one. Sigh, guess I'm just not cool anymore.:)

shortcake

02-20-2006, 05:37 PM

fats - Yikes, sorry about being sick! I'm glad it passed quickly.

double strollers - I had a bit of luck today! There's a stroller I was interested in - the Zooper Tango - but NO stores in our area or my parents' area (where I am visiting right now) carry it in person. And I wanted to see it in person! And it's not so common - I don't think a ton of people have them yet. So today we were out at the mall and for the first time I saw a person pushing one in real life. She let me try it out - it is really nice! It's pretty big, but it's not heavy and quite easy to push. It looks/seems like it will handle more bumpy situations than the maclaren which is the other one I am considering. I think it's probably what I will get!

nesting - I feel like I've been nesting for months! While I've been gone, DH has been painting doors & trim in our house. Still 3 more to go, and he said it's been pretty mind numbingly dull. Hopefully I can help out with the last 3. Still need to put up baseboards (in all 4 bedrooms. We are trying to get the house in basic order before the baby comes in case we have no energy to do it after!).

jarm

02-20-2006, 05:56 PM

Okay, I realize that we still have three months left, but do we have contact people here to announce the arrivals of our little ones?

Em7.31.04

02-20-2006, 08:53 PM

shortcake: I know that USA Baby in Tukwila (near the Southcenter Mall) carries Zooper, but I can't remember if I saw the Tango? It might be worth calling them...But, they don't have their 2006 models in yet. DH and I were just there today.

Speaking of strollers...we ordered ours today. We got the Zooper Waltz from www.arunningstroller.com. We tried to get it in person at the one local store that carries the brand, but they don't have their 2006 models in. They tried to sell us their 2005 floor model (again), but we (again) weren't interested in a floor model. They sure are persistent! :-) Didn't someone else on this board order the Waltz? What color did you get?

DH and I finished painting the nursery today...Next task is getting our carpets cleaned.

DH's parents came into town this weekend - they just left today. They helped us do some projects around the house...We now have garage shelving, a completed fence, and painted interior light fixtures (painted the brass to look like black wrought iron).

My MIL and I went to Babies R Us to order our crib, but when I found out that it is ready for pick up in 7-14 days, I decided that we aren't quite ready for it. But...my MIL did offer to buy it for us, which is so nice!

DH and I are interviewing a pediatrician tomorrow morning. I also have my follow-up u/s to check on my partial placenta previa...Let's hope we'll get good news!

Guinness

02-21-2006, 05:10 AM

Off for my 3-hr GTT - fun fun fun! I will catch up with everyone when I get back.

Bloomwood

02-21-2006, 08:34 AM

Hi all! I just skimmed the posts from the weekend. Wanted to give a brief update on my scare yesterday.

We had a GREAT weekend in Santa Barbara on our "babymoon" - beach walks, great food, lots of relaxing, the most amazing massage ever (it was the pillow with the cut out so I could lay on my stomach and I fell asleep!).

We had driven down there as its about 5 hours from here. Yesterday morning before we left, we DTD and it hurt like nothing I'd experienced before, we tried a couple of different ways, but it just didn't feel good. Anyway...then we went for a 2 mile walk on the beach, had breakfast, went to a cute baby boutique in SB before getting on the road. About 1/2 way home, I stared noticing contractions that were pretty close together. I started timing them silently and didn't tell DH at first. They were 8 mins apart. Didn't hurt at all, just this sensation of tightening and pulling that didn't last long. After I was sure they were consistent, I told DH and he started timing them with me. I wasn't too worried, except we were pretty much in the middle of nowhere. We got to a bigger town and I called the dr's office. since it was a holiday, I got the answering service and ultimately an on-call doc. She said that if I were home she'd tell me to go to the hospital even though I was probably ok. She said I should get hydrated and if they don't slow down find a hospital. (the catch - having to pee will also trigger contrax!)

We got back in the car with a huge bottle of water. About 30 mins later they started coming at 4 min apart! We were in the central valley which is full of agricultural communities and not very populated period, let alone with hospitals. We drove to Salinas which is about 90 miles from us. There was an "H" sign and we followed it to the ER. They took me to L&D and hooked me up to monitors. (the baby had the hiccups which was so cool to hear, esp. since I've never felt them!). After about 1/2 hour of observation the nurse said I had uterine irritability which is contractions that don't dilate the cervix, similar to BH. It can be caused by intercourse, dehydration, and constipation. I hit the trifecta as I had all of those. She gave me a shot of tributelin (sp?) and you could immediately see my uterus stabilize. But, it made my heart race for about an hour. She gave me an internal and then I had to wait for the doc to get there. We waited. And waited. Finally about an hour later he showed up. Basically did another (much more aggressive) internal, told me not to have sex for 2-3 weeks (yeah right, DH is SO cut off!) and if I have discharge over the next few days not to worry since it's from the gel.

A word to the wise: if they give you an internal, pull your knees back toward your head as much as you can as it will shorten the vaginal canal. Nice he told me this AFTER. It hurt like a mother!!

I'm waiting for my dr's office to open and let her know what happened and try to get in this week. I am also going to find out what I can do to counter-act the constipation caused by Slo-fe.

The whole experience still has me in a daze. It was certainly a wake up call that maybe I should pack that hospital bag and definitely get the car seat if I don't get it for my shower (Mar 5). What was REALLY cool is that while we were waiting in the room we could hear a newborn cry out. It was so neat to be close to that. All told, it was a 3 hour detour and we were exhausted when we got home!

Sorry this was such a long one-sided post! I'll try to catch up better and do some SOs later!

Lolly

02-21-2006, 09:07 AM

Don't have time for many shoutouts...just trying to catch up.

bloomwood so glad everything is fine now!

Happy belated Birthday Standrea :)

Parrothead

02-21-2006, 09:25 AM

WOW, Bloomwood, what a crazy experience. I am glad that everything is ok :)

Things are going well here. Our little girl's movements are sometimes kicks, but a lot of the time it feels like she is doing these large, whole body movements to get comfortable. It's like she is scraping along large parts of my belly.

I can't believe that we are under the 3 month mark. Last weekend, we ordered our furniture (crib, changing table/dresser, hutch, glider, and ottoman) as well as our car seat and stroller.

We should know today or tomorrow if the sale on our condo will close (keep your fingers crossed for us!). We are set to move into our house on 3/11 and will begin a full kitchen remodel ASAP. We figure better to at least start the kitchen before she gets here. We know it won't be done, but at least we'll be making progress.

We also begin our baby classes next week. We are doing the following:

1) CPR (infant & adult) (1 class, 4 hours)
2) Prepared Child Birth (5 weeks in a row, 2.5 hours each)
3) Breastfeeding (1 class, 2.5 hours)
4) Infant Care (1 class, 3 hours)

It is becoming VERY real....

I am a bit nervous that I won't recognize labor and will end up rushing to the hospital OR that I will be too anxious and run to the hospital for every little twinge. I just imagine getting DH up at 2am to go and then being sent home -- and I imagine doing this like 10 times! Anyone else worry about this?

QOTD - What week did you start going to your OB/Gyn appointments every 2 weeks?

jarm

02-21-2006, 10:27 AM

QOTD - Next week I'm supposed to go for my 28th week c/u, but I'm going Friday instead. Then I start going every 2 weeks. Fun, fun! The one after Friday's appointment will be the very first internal...I just can't wait to start those! Blech!

I just want to tell everyone that we have chosen a girl's name! Now if we can decide on a middle name for a boy, we'll be all set!

kristin9903

02-21-2006, 10:44 AM

fats So sorry you were sick on your vacation! Glad to hear you're feeling better.

Jen1098 Congrats on the new car...minivans can be cool, too! :cool:

Shortcake and Em7.31.04 Sounds like you've made great progress on getting the house "baby ready." I still need motivation in that department.

Guinness Good luck with the 3 hour GTT.

Bloomwood Wow!!! So happy to hear everything was fine with baby. It's crazy to think that we're getting close enough to have scares like that!

QOTD - 2 week appointments Next Wednesday (3/1 - our 3rd anniversary) will be my first 2 week appointment. So, I made it to 30 weeks before they put me on the every 2 week schedule.

Well, the nursery isn't painted, but we have paint picked out...so I guess that's a step in the right direction. I'm still fighting a major case of the lazies. I'll be 31 weeks tomorrow (single digit weeks!!!:eek: :eek: ) so I better snap out of it quickly!

AttyGrl74

02-21-2006, 12:12 PM

Hey everybody - reading along, but not much to add, although I am curious Shortcake about the Zooper Tango, as well. Have you checked the Double Stroller Thread?

shortcake

02-21-2006, 01:36 PM

jarm - yay for picking the girl's name...but are you not gonna share? :p Well I can understand that.

Em - I will call that place at Southcenter. There are several places that I thought might get them in...but I'm starting to get a tiniest bit antsy and want to make a choice soon! Not sure why, as I won't need it for a while...that's just me. :) I feel much better having tried out that other mom's though.

Bloomwood - glad everything is ok!! And thanks for the tip on bending your knees during exam. I will remember that! As for counteracting the iron - my doc said it is fine to take colace...also there are prenatals that contain stool softener (prescription ones). Something to consider.

QOTD - We start going every 2 weeks after 28 weeks, which for me is my March 8th appt. Not sure when they start internals - ugh!

Attygirl - I have been keeping up with the double stroller thread too! Those on there who have a zooper tango love it. But I'm not the only one having trouble finding them in person before buying! What other strollers are you thinking of? Oh I also tried a Valco in a store - it is soooo nice. But I can't buy a $600 stroller, no way. I saw one on craigslist for $350 so was considering it - but I think it is gone. It is also really heavy. I found, after testing various strollers in the store, that I don't want to lift anything more than 32 lbs into my car!

Parrothead

02-21-2006, 03:11 PM

AttyGrl74

02-21-2006, 03:53 PM

This may be a dumb question, but what exactly are "internals"? Clearly, based on the name, they are internal exams, but what all do they do and what are they looking for? Sorry, lame 1st timer question!

Doctor/midwife just does an internal check to see how your cervix is. I didn't start having those until 36/38 weeks, I don't think. They just check by inserting finger/hand/speculum into your vagina like when you have your annual exam.

Not the most fun, but it does get you used to all the prodding that you'll have once it comes time to deliver!

Em7.31.04

02-21-2006, 04:30 PM

I'm back from a busy day! I had an u/s this morning to check on my placenta...things unfortunately looked exactly the same. I was told that my placenta is just 1mm away from my cervix. That's too close. It isn't covering it though, so things could look more serious than they do. No restrictions as of yet - will find out more at my next midwife appt in two weeks. I'll keep getting u/s throughout the rest of my pg to monitor things. Who knows...I may end up with a scheduled c/s afterall! I also had my GTT done. I really didn't mind the drink...I find out tomorrow if I passed or not.

southlooper: Any luck figuring out your taxes? You had me cracking up!

fats: I'm so sorry to hear that you got so sick on your trip...What a bummer. Hope you're back to your normal self by now. Your shower invites are adorable, by the way!

kim: Agreed...your doctor sounds really great. I would love to have a waterbirth...and it's done at our hospital. But, I'm afraid of committing to a room w/the tub if I'm not 100% sure that I will go through with a natural birth. We'll see...

Bloomwood: How scary about your contractions!! That's great that you timed them and went to the hospital, though...Thanks for the tip about the internal exam too...Will definitely have to remember that.

smiles33

02-21-2006, 07:03 PM

Fats and Bloomwood--I'm so sorry to hear about the drama this past weekend!

"Luckily" for me, we stopped DTD a month back so there's no way I'm at risk for uterine irritability. But it's good to know that constipation is a side effect of Slo FE. I just bought it at Target this weekend--thanks again for the "lead!"

Good luck with your closing, Parrothead. I know how stressful it is.

QOTD: I started my bimonthly appointments at 26 weeks. I'll have my third one nextweek.

DH and I got a 2006 Zooper Waltz--the black/gray/orange one. I LOVE it! We have, um, also purchased a few other baby items, largely because my friends aren't throwing my baby shower until April 9--when I'll be 37 weeks along (it's a long story about why it's so late but suffice to say, unrelated to me as I would have liked to have had it earlier)!! Who knows if our DD will be here by then? So we went ahead and picked up some items to make sure we have what we need in time: a Graco Pack and Play w/bassinet and changing table for downstairs, an Arm's Reach co-sleeper, some Halo sleep sacks, a pack of 6 onesies, and, I was going to get the infant carrier but a friend already bought it off our registry. I'm sure we can ask for it if she comes early!

So anyone else out there willing to confess buying way too much baby gear now?

Em7.31.04

02-21-2006, 08:22 PM

I passed my 1-hour GTT today! :D

crazycaro

02-21-2006, 08:36 PM

I passed my 1 hour GTT too. I did mine last week and found out the good news at my appt today. My iron levels are still really crappy though. I have been back on iron supps for 2 weeks, she is going to retest my levels soon.

My appts have been weekly for most of my pregnancy thanks to being high risk. I am getting a bit over it all to be honest, especially as I get more pregnant and I have to wait every appt, they seem to be at least an hour behind every week! So frustrating.

Today I had a test called the FFN test. It it is swab of your vaginal fluid that tests for pre term labour within the next 2 weeks. I passed it! This is great news for me as my waters broke with Ruby at 30 weeks and 5 days, and today I was 28 weeks and 6 days, so it does look like I will get further along this time. Fingers crossed!!!

I have an u/s next Tuesday to check growth and presentation (I really want to have a VBAC), really looking forward to seeing our little girl again, and especially anxious to see what position she is in. I have a feeling she will be breech because I often have a hard lump up really high, and am sure it is her head. Hopefully I am wrong and find it is her big cute bum. :)

Caroline

Mrs U

02-21-2006, 10:38 PM

Hi All!

Went out yesterday and bought a nursing bra. Darn things are really expensive here- costed me $55 USD.:eek: Only bought one so I had it on hand just in case.

Our boy is still breech. His kicks and hits are still in the same position. I have a weird feeling that at my next appointment I'll be scheduled for an external version- from what I have read not a fun thing and a slight chance that he could be born a lot sooner than needed if things go wrong. We are all set if he should come early, but hopefully he waits a bit.

What week did you start going to your OB/Gyn appointments every 2 weeks? I thought it should start after my last appointment, but he wrote down next visit in 4 weeks.:rolleyes: Probably after the March 15th - the 31 week appointment.

Bloomwood Wow what a scare! At least you had a nice 'babymoon'.

Em & CrazyCaro Congrats on passing the GTT!

shortcake

02-22-2006, 07:32 AM

buying baby stuff - I haven't bought a huge ton, mostly because we have a lot already - but I think I have bought more than necessary at this point. Things like a sling, baby bjorn, etc. Things that would make great gifts from people! But as this is my 2nd baby, I don't think I'm having a shower so I'm not really expecting much in the way of gifts.

nursing bra - I bought one too! Mostly b/c my bras are all too small. But I'm only 26 weeks or something, so it might not fit later...a fact I find hard to fathom! I currently wear it on the tightest setting and the cups are pretty roomy, so I am thinking even if I grow it will still work. Last time, since I was on bedrest, I had to send DH to buy me a couple nursing bras and they were soooo uncomfortable! So I wanted to be sure to pick it out. I got it at Motherhood Maternity for pretty cheap!

marchfamily

02-22-2006, 08:47 AM

Nursing bras - I have probably 5-6 and have been using them through the whole pg. I'm rather large chested to begin with (and, lordy are they big after the baby). Recommendations:

Early PP - great for early engorgement, no underwire, not a ton of support, but super comfy - Crossover ($19 - www.motherwear.com):
http://www.motherwear.com/images/timages/06115_1.jpg

Good for work - underwire, smooth lines - Ultrasmooth underwire bra (www.motherwear.com - $19) or Full Coverage Nursing Bra (www.motherhood.com - $16)
http://www.motherwear.com/images/timages/06123_1.jpg
http://www.motherhood.com/Images/Products/4712tn.jpg

Do not recommend this bra - www.motherhood.com - Soft cup nursing bra ($11.98) - flimsy, no support, not that comfortable

http://www.motherhood.com/Images/Products/2471tn.jpg

fats

02-22-2006, 08:53 AM

2 Week Appointments At my last appointment (almost 27 weeks) they started scheduling me for every 2 weeks - so my next appointment will be at 29 weeks and then it'll be every 2 weeks after that. I think around 34 weeks, I start going every week.

Buying Stuff I buy cute little things when I see them (clothes, hooded towel) and the nursery stuff (furniture and bedding) but I'm trying to hold off on the big stuff until our shower. I'll be 34 weeks at the shower so I figure that should still be enough time to get whatever we haven't gotten.

Nursing Bras I'm going to try and hold off as long as possible because I heard your boobs blow up after the birth so I'm afraid anything I buy too soon won't fit later. I do need to buy more bras though. I've been wearing the same 3 bras I got when my boobs first grew (during the first tri) and I think they're starting to feel too tight around my ribcage. Really uncomfortable.

So I kind of failed my 1 hour GTT. I say "kind of" because my doctor's office uses a cut off of 130 and my test came back at exactly 130. What sucks is that everything I read says the cut off is normally 140, but what can I do? I have to go for the 3 hour test on Friday. Since it's a fasting test and I'm over an hour from the doc's office, I'm going to spend the night at a friend's apartment who lives a few blocks away. It totally sucks though and I'm not happy. I'm just trying to think of it as an inconvenience since if I had any other doctor and I got 130, I probably wouldn't be taking the 3 hour test. The important thing is to find out I don't have GD so I'm trying to focus on that. Out of curiosity, do you know what your 1 hour GTT cut off was?

About L&D - I have what might be a silly question, but can you wear your contact lenses during the birth? I feel like every time a see a picture of someone with her newborn, she's wearing her glasses (people that normally wear contacts). Do they tell you not to wear contacts during labor and delivery?

Bloomwood Your story had me so nervous!! I can't imagine how you must have felt!

AttyGrl74

02-22-2006, 09:03 AM

About L&D - I have what might be a silly question, but can you wear your contact lenses during the birth? I feel like every time a see a picture of someone with her newborn, she's wearing her glasses (people that normally wear contacts). Do they tell you not to wear contacts during labor and delivery?

I wore my glasses only b/c my water broke after I'd taken out my contacts for the day. I wish I'd worn my contacts b/c my glasses kept getting fogged up from the oxygen mask.

I plan on wearing my contacts this time. I'm sure it is ok.

AttyGrl74

02-22-2006, 09:05 AM

Has anyone had the rectal swab test yet? Is that the Group B strep test? I can't even remember. Maybe my doctor forgot about it!

Jen1098

02-22-2006, 09:06 AM

Fats I wore contacts during my labor and delivery. Never told otherwise.
For a C-Section you'd have to take out your contacts.
Also my cutoff for the GDD test was 140 also. With Josh I was 141 I believe so he just had me do the one hour test again and I passed.
Sorry you have to take the 3 hour test.

marchfamily Thanks for posting all those bras-that's something I need to get soon also.

Mrs U Wow $55 for a bra. Well you'll get a lot of use out of it that's for sure.

Bloomwood What a scary time, I'm happy to hear everything turned out fine.

Well I'm quite tired, so I think I'll take a nap while Mr. Joshua is sleeping.
Happy Wednesday!

eta-Attygirl My Dr. said he'll be doing that at my 36 week appt. when I have my first internal. Last time I believe it was my 35 or 36 week also. Oh yeah and it is the strep test.

marchfamily

02-22-2006, 09:42 AM

Has anyone had the rectal swab test yet? Is that the Group B strep test?

I tested positive for Group B Strep during my first pg. They are going to give me antibiotics this go round too. It's my understanding that many women test positive for this test.

shortcake

02-22-2006, 09:49 AM

marchfamily - Thanks for the bra recommendations! My problem is I can't buy w/o trying on because I never know what size I am...at the store she told me I was a 34 D but the one I ended up getting was a 38 C - my ribs just feel huge!

I got this one:
http://www.motherhoodnursing.com/Images/Products/3018tn.jpg
soft cup bra with mesh insert from motherhood maternity (motherhood.com). It may have the same issues you described for their other one - not super supportive, etc, once I'm actually nursing! But for the moment it is super comfy so at least I will get use out of it now.

Guinness

02-22-2006, 10:19 AM

I am pretty sure I passed the 3 hr GTT - Yay. The nurse called and said one of my numbers was high but the rest were fine. She said that one is high on a lot of people and he usually recalculates. If I look online, all mine are normal range, so he uses a different range I guess. Plus I have to have 2 high to be diabetic. So that is good news. Probably will still try to increase protein and decrease carbs some, would be better for me overall.

2-wk appts. Mine start at 32.

1 hr GTT cut-off 139, I was 144 and did the 3hr.

So when are we going to start the 3rd trimester thread? Are we all there yet?

okay back to work :p

Bloomwood

02-22-2006, 10:38 AM

Thanks everyone for the positive thoughts. We are so relieved it was nothing. I didn't really think I was in labor, but the idea of giving birth to a preemie on a desolate part of the 101 was a little frightening!

Buying stuff - I've bought bedding, clothes and a few decor things for the nursery (like a clock and music box). My shower is next weekend so I will be going crazy after that. I'm planning to use PBKs registry completion to get the discount on the remaining furniture. We currently have over $500 in PB gift cards and may get a few more at the shower. I've been stalking eBay for the rug I want. Of course, now that I'm ready to buy no one is posting it!

I have however, starting yesterday, begun getting stuff for the hospital bag. I got her a coming home outfit (I'll post it later) and I ordered a majamas nursing sleep gown for me in black (in case there's blood). I also picked up nursing pads and lasinoh (whatever its called).

nursing bras - thanks for the tips.

2 weeks appts - I don't know. When I made my last appt (really the next appt) they said I could come 3-4 weeks. It worked out that I am going in 4.

Starting the 3rd tri thread - I think we're all mostly there. We started this thread when everyone reached 12 weeks, so this one has been going on a while. I am happy to start a new one over the weekend. What does everyone think of NOT including appts anymore? I am guessing all we care about for the 3rd tri is updating when the babes arrive. Guinness (edd 5/1) and Southlooper (edd 5/27) volunteered to be our 3rd tri mods. Anyone I'm forgetting? One more would be great in case they end up going close together.

Jen1098

02-22-2006, 11:54 AM

Got a call from the nurse-passed my GTT test. Yay. She said my #was 80. So I rewarded myself w/ a trip to starbucks for a half decaf cafe mocha with whipped cream. Yum

I can continue helping with the thread. That would be great Bloomwood if you started a new one this weekend. We are going out of town and won't have computer access. T

lowcountrywed

02-22-2006, 11:54 AM

Woohoo- I passed my 1 hour GTT. Woohoo- my glider is in- we just have to go pick it up.

2 week appointments - My next appointment is 32 weeks and then I'll go every 2 weeks.

Buying stuff - Went on a shopping spree at gymboree but other than that I haven't bought anything. I will probably buy some things soon that won't be on my registry like a sling (although, I think SIL wants to buy me one), a diaper bag, etc. Possibly a breast pump - I doubt anyone will buy that one off the registry.

I have 2 questions: Anyone have a breast pump recommendation (I'll be pumping at work, so I'll need something good)? Has anyone taken BFing classes through their hospital? I'm debating about whether to sign up for one.

marchfamily

02-22-2006, 12:41 PM

Anyone have a breast pump recommendation (I'll be pumping at work, so I'll need something good)? Has anyone taken BFing classes through their hospital?

I have the Medela PIS (I pumped at work). It was a couple of years old when I used it - so thinking about getting a new one. And yes, I took the hospital BF class. I think it was worth it - it helped reassure me that BF would be hard, but worth it!

QOTD - Have you picked out godparents for your child?

jarm

02-22-2006, 01:01 PM

Godparents - Ummm...not yet! We don't even have names yet.

Buying - Luckily we have most of our stuff from DD, but we do have to look through it all. We did go to BRU last night and looked around. I wanted to get a coming home outfit, but they had like no neutral outfits...they were all boys or girls. Now I'm thinking that I'll get a boys and a girls and have DH wash whichever while we're in the hospital. Then again, I do have another u/s in March. Maybe I can convince DH to find out the sex.

Breastfeeding Class - Last time I was pregnant quite unexpectedly...learned that it really does only take one time. I wasn't quite prepared for all the mother stuff, so BFing was totally out for me. As I get closer, I want to at least try it. I called this morning and found out about the classes. I will definitely be going to the class.

Has anyone else been getting really sore? My back is absolutely sore. It hurts to sit for too long or be up for too long. It's going to be awful going back to work next week when I have at least 11 more weeks...49 more days considering I have one last vacation in April. And I'm pretty much on my feet all day long. Ugh! My back hurts just thinking about it.

When is it officially the third trimester? I stink at figuring that out!

Guinness

02-22-2006, 01:22 PM

Yay to all those passing the 1hr GTT!! I am not jealous anymore, because I officially passed the 3 hr :D

This weekend sounds great Bloomwood to start the thread. Let me know if I can help. Definitely take off the appointments. Basically we will all have them almost every week at some point. (ps. sorry to hear about the labor scare, I have the exact vision of 101 strandedness - ugh).

I bought a couple nursing bras this weekend. I am scared at how much these suckers have grown. I usually wear a 36C and I bought a 38E and 40E :eek: I hope those get me through the beg., but it isn't as if either are puckering anywhere.

Buying stuff After my shower I will start buying clothes - some. This surprise baby does help curb that appetite ;) - for now.

BF stuff i have registered for a hand pump and will decide later if I want an electric. My friend has one I can use if I do. I am thinking the hand will be fine for me as I have my own private office and a flexible schedule. Haven't signed up for a class, but we will cover it in my childbirth class - maybe will afterwards if I want more.

Pink_Converse

02-22-2006, 02:30 PM

June Mommy lurking here today...

fats-My bras stopped fitting around the ribs only so I went to Motherhood and got these pieces of elastic w/ hooks that extend your band size for for $1.50 each. I figure those should hold me over for a while.

shortcake

02-22-2006, 04:53 PM

pump - Last time I bought the Avent Isis figuring I'd only be doing occasional pumping (I'm able to be a SAHM for now). But then we had tons of BF difficulty, so I rented a hospital grade pump for a month. After that we decided to FF, so I never really used my Avent, except to help with engorgement as I was weaning. This time around I am going to try again to BF, and again I have an Isis (had to get another one b/c I sold my old one on ebay...duh!) so my fingers are crossed! I did really like it the times I used it, and found it was much more comfortable than the electric.

fats

02-23-2006, 07:26 AM

Thanks Pink for that advice! Although I've been wearing these same 3 bras for so long that I think it might be nice to shop for some new ones (new cheap ones!)

BF Class We're signed up for a class but not at our hospital. I'm taking my classes at a childbirth class center (don't know what else to call it) - we signed up for a package: Childbirth with an Epidural, Breastfeeding and Newborn Care. We're also going to take Infant CPR there as well. We're not going for the BF or Newborn Care until I'm 36 weeks so I hope I don't go really early!

Breast Pump I've heard too many people say that they had trouble BFing so I decided to rent a pump first and if it's working out ok, I'll buy one. Although the Medela Pump in Style seems to be the most popular, I'm planning to get the Ameda Purely Yours, which is actually the only one my rental place will use. Apparently, the Ameda is the only one where the milk does not back up into the tubes. Sometimes when the milk backs up into the tubes, it gets stuck in there and bacteria can grow. Something like that. Anyway, from what I've heard, the two brands are pretty comparable and the Ameda is actually a little cheaper, so it works for me!!

We met with a pediatrician last night (husband and wife) and we both really liked them a lot. We still have 3 other doctors we want to see, but at least I feel good that we have someone we like if the others don't pan out.

kristin9903

02-23-2006, 09:04 AM

Bloomwood Thanks for getting the new thread started. I'm all for ditching the appointment section, too.

pumps Like Fats, I think I'll rent to begin with to make sure all of this is going to work out. We're also probably going to go with the Ameda Purely Yours. It's a lot cheaper than the PIS. Make sure that you check with your insurance to see if they cover breast pumps!

buying stuff I've bought some clothes that I found on sale at the Carter's outlet. I don't think we're having a shower, but future grandparents have bought us a lot of stuff already: Our Peg P3, car seat, crib bedding, diaper bag, diapers, etc! Otherwise, we're trying to hold out as long as possible in case anyone else wants to be generous. :)

Bloomwood

02-23-2006, 09:09 AM

Hope everyone is doing well!

Anyone just feel so BIG? My belly is measuring 38.5 inches. That is HUGE. I am up 19 lbs, which I am fine with. It is just amazing to me that I could gain so much more in the next 10 weeks (give or take). I've had to ask a friend to borrow some of her maternity shirts because none of what I bought just a couple of months ago (DECEMBER!) still fits. But, at the same time, I am SO happy the baby is still in me after last weekend!

BF classes - I signed up for BF and c/s. DH won't be going to either with me. We were going to do Infant Care and CPR together, but none of the classes are offered when we can go, so we are going to do CPR after the baby comes.

Breast Pump - I am going to get the PIS original, but not open it until I am confident BFing is working.

Pediactricians - I am calling a friend today to get recs and then making appts after I see if DH wants to go with me. I 'm sure he'll just leave it up to me, but I gotta ask!

New thread - no problem! DH is having a boys weekend in Vegas this weekend, so I'll have some downtime. :)

flyerwife

02-23-2006, 09:49 AM

pump - I didn't BF my first one at all, but have decided to try with #2. My friend loaned me her Medela Pump in Style and I plan to buy new parts for it. She only used it a couple of weeks due to things not working out and her son is now on formula. I figure I'll try and it all goes well great and if not, then I'm okay with formula. That being said I'm not taking a class at the hospital, I think it would send me back to formula faster than helping me. I have a bunch of close friends that have or are BF that I can ask for advice and the lactation consultant will be there too.

Godparents This is one of the few things that we are actually ahead on. We've chosen 2 of our close friends and asked them on New Year's. We are pretty close with 2 other couples, so we had a hard time, so to make things easy and keep all involved we chose 1 from each couple. So that we didn't hurt feelings we asked then when all 4 were there, chosing the individuals from the couples was easier since the one female isn't Catholic.

GDT All i can say is that I'm really upset about this! I went this morning to take the test and the lady in the lab was an idiot! She gave me the wrong drink, but didn't realize it until after I'd already had to drink it, sit there for an hour and they took my blood and I'd gotten home. Then she called to say I'd have to go back again, so I have to go back tomorrow, with my 4 yr old in tow. She said if they turned in the results they would be high and send me straight for the 3 hour test. Does anyone know how having all the extra sugar in my system will affect the results tomorrow? I'm really afraid that having all of it today and then again tomorrow will make the test wrong anyway. I tried calling the doctor, but of course they are on lunch, so I have to wait. Thought maybe someone else would know. I really don't want to waste my time if I'm going to get sent for the 3 hour as a result anyway.

Buying stuff We are rather behind on buying stuff, but that's partly due to already having some stuff from #1. We did buy a few things, but I dod need to start shopping for some clothes, as they are opposite seasons (Nov and now May).

Hope everyone else is having a good day! Thanks to the moderators for setting it all up!

Guinness

02-23-2006, 10:03 AM

flyerwife From what I read about GTT stuff, the extra sugar today won't hurt you and actually might help. For the 3 hr they have you carb load for 3 days before which to me seemed counter intuitive. So I looked it up. The purpose is to have your system up it's insulin production so it is better able to handle a big dose of sugar on test day - sort of priming the system. Before my 1 hr I decreased carbs the week before thinking I don't want sugar circulating, and I think in hindsight that was bad as I was priming my system to produce less insulin - I failed the 1hr and passed the 3hr FWIW.

Lolly

02-23-2006, 11:25 AM

Anyone just feel so BIG? A little I guess. I still have to remind myself not to park in tight spaces anymore. Its just too hard to get out of the car now with this belly out there.

BF classes - I haven't signed up for any yet. However, I do plan to BF so maybe I should.

Breast Pump - I plan on doing what several others plan on doing. I'm going to rent a pump for a month or so, then buy one (probably a Medela PIS). I want to make sure BF will work for us before buying a super pump. FYI at one of my registry places, buybuybaby, they told me NOT to register for pumps because regardless of whether they were opened or not, they will not accept the return. Which also means if I bought one for myself they would not take it back.

Buying stuff - I'm with Guiness. I think not knowing the baby's sex has really curbed the spending. I do plan on buying more after the shower, and probably more clothes once the baby is here.

Pediactricians - Still need to call the place my doctor recommended. He also told me to bring in a list of peds that my insurance covers and he can go through it with me with his recommendations.

Godparents I'm guessing it may be one of our siblings each. BUt we haven't even discussed it yet or even picked out names for our child!

New thread - thanks Mods!!!!

Mrs U

02-23-2006, 11:49 AM

Hi ladies!

Anyone just feel so BIG? Some days yes, others not really. Just getting to be a PITA with the stairs, cleaning the dog's food explosions off the floor (he's a messy eaters and flicks the dry food out onto the floor) and getting up out of chairs.

BF classes I'm assuming a portion of this is covered in the partner weekend class. If not, I know that there is a good network of LC at the hospital and they are pro BF.

Breast Pump A friend of mine is giving me hers since she doesnt need it (her daughter is 4 months and starting solids along with formula). Just need to buy a sterilizer and some bottles.

Buying stuff We have been fortunate enough that his parents paid for the bedroom set and stroller. Friends of ours really helped out with hammy downs so we really just need to stock up on Pampers, wipes and baby shampoo. We'll be renting a car seat til my parents come over in June.

Godparents Still havent decided which way to go with this. SO is Catholic, but isnt involved with the church anymore. I was raised Protestant, like SO also not involved.

Pediactricians We got some names off the insurance list, only 1 wa familiar to me. I asked around and he is one of the few that speak high German instead of local dialect (better for me), so I think we'll go with him.

Thanks mods for setting up the new thread!

Em7.31.04

02-23-2006, 12:15 PM

The GTT cut-off for my clinic is 135.

Rectal swab: No, haven't had this yet...But it sure does sound like fun! :eek:

I'm all for not including appointments in the 3rd tri thread. Good idea.

Thanks to the moderators for taking care of the new thread - this weekend sounds like a great time to get it started.

BF Class: I'm signed up for one at a local birthing center, but not until my 39th week. I hope I don't go early and then end up missing the class!

Godparents: We're signed up for our two Baptism classes at our church...and we've got the baptism scheduled for this August. It's so crazy to schedule it out that far...We've picked the Godfather (haven't asked him), but not the Godmother yet...

I think I've changed my mind about having pg pictures taken...I emailed our wedding photographer and she has some great ideas for combining pre-baby and baby pictures...She said she would waive the session fee for my pg pictures since we're repeat customers, so I think I'd be silly to pass that up.

Ok, time for an attention-whore moment....Happy birthday to me!!! :D

shortcake

02-23-2006, 12:39 PM

rectal swab I don't remember this from #1...ugh! But I guess if I don't remember it it must not have been a big deal??

new thread Thanks mods! Yes no appointments on this one. (I've been very bad about listing my appts anyway).

Godparents We don't really do this in my family, as we are Jewish. I SHOULD have a legal guardian set up for DD and for this baby, but nope, haven't done it yet even for my 2 year old. DH and I agree that my parents would take them if something happened to us while they were young, but I feel uncomfortable as the kids and my folks get older. On the other hand, we can't really think of anyone else in the family who we'd want to raise them. I feel like our good friends would be excellent guardians but DH feels it should be family. So we have stalled. It's bad of us!

Em - very cool about the photography package!

Doula I just signed on with a birth Doula who is only charging $100 as it is her first birth. She's been a postpartum doula for a long time, so is very good around new moms and babies, but she will be learning also. I have decided that although I have some concerns about having a "stranger" in the room with us, I think the benefits will outweigh them! Even as a newcomer to the job, there are many things I trust she'll be extremely helpful with. So...yay!

nettie

02-23-2006, 12:46 PM

Em7.31.04 Happy Birthday!! Treat your pregnant self to something nice!

I've been gone from here for a while, lurking along, but not feeling chatty. DH and I had a lovely babymoon in St Thomas. I bravely bared my belly in a bikini (woo hoo alliteration). It was liberating, no sucking it in, no worries about big dinners and stomach pooches. The warm weather and gentle caribbean water were wonderful. Back to reality...

Feeling huge? Definitely sometimes. I'm having difficulty getting my maryjane-esque shoes on and off, and picking stuff off the floor requires forethought. Almost all my maternity stuff still fits though. I'm getting frustrated without a maternity coat. I popped a button off of my favorite non-maternity work coat. Poor DH made the mistake of laughing. I miss having a coat that I could button, but I'm not sure if it's worth the investment at this point.

BF Class We're signed up for one at week 36 at the hospital, partners strongly encouraged to attend. I'm also reading a book, though I'm not sure how helpful that will be and am considering a free class at a local breastfeeding center that also sells/rents pumps and sizes for nursing bras.

Other classes, we're doing infant cpr/first aid in another two weeks and a general preparing for childbirth.

Buying stuff Still not much. I did place an order at Gymboree, I'm a sucker for sales, it should come soon. Otherwise I'd like to start buying some of the other things we didn't register for/wouldn't expect others to buy like the crib mattress, a diaper bag DH will carry, anything related to breastfeeding, and the little things (diaper cream, baby tylenol, etc).

Pediatricians I have the name of one that came highly recommended, just need to call, or get DH to. I'm putting it off because I'm still no sure what to ask. Maybe I should do some research.

Southlooper

02-23-2006, 12:53 PM

Feeling Big: HUGE!! And this is just in the last few days. I must be growing through a growth spurt because I've been eating like there's no tomorrow. It's getting harder to sleep.

BF classes:- No, but we are doing childbirth and Infanct CPR.

Breast Pump - My friend gave us a Medela electric pump. I hope to use it as long as I can.

Pediactricians - A friend of ours recommend hers. I put down in my pre-admission paperwork without an interview because my friend and I are so much alike, but now I'm having second thoughts. I'm going to make an appointment for an interview.

Godparents:We're not having trouble with who, but how many. In our families the standard is 4. I have a cousin who has 10!!! We are thinking of breaking with tradition and just having 2 - my brother and DH's sister.

Guardian: We set up a Trust which named my SIL and the primary guardian and my brother and his wife as the secondary. FYI, for those of you who are going through this here is something to think about: If you are definate about who you want to be guardian you should have it written in a Trust rather than a Will. According to our attorney, a Will can be challenged so if there is a relative or the court does not agree with your choice, it can be challenged while in a Trust it cannot.

Buying stuff: I've bought a few things (mostly things I couldn't put in the registry) I'm waiting 'til after my showers to see what I will need. It's really hard, there is so much cute stuff out there.

New Thread/Bloomwood- So you're going to set up the new thread? Please let me know if you need any help.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EM!!:)

Guinness

02-23-2006, 12:58 PM

Happy Birthday Emily!!

Lolly

02-23-2006, 02:27 PM

Happy Birthday Em!

Parrothead

02-23-2006, 02:42 PM

Feeling Big: - Starting to. My belly really seems to be popping out these days. I find myself w/ my hands resting on top of it a lot, kinda like a shelf!!!

BF classes: - Yup. It's 2.5 hours and we are scheduled for it in late April. We are also doing infant & adult CPR, infant care, and a prepared childbirth series (5 classes).

Breast Pump: - I registered for the Medela. But, I am 99.9% sure that a) no one wants to buy me a $300+ gift and b) no one wants to buy me a breast pump. So, I'll probably end up buying it myself.

Pediatricians: - Our HMO has a group of 6. One is on-call and will visit us in the hospital. As to who we'll see after, I asked a my primary care physician which of the 6 he takes his son to and we'll be going w/ her.

Godparents: - Haven't discussed this in awhile. Probably should bring that up to DH soon (see below).

Guardian: - Will be the Godparents. We are setting up our living trust this weekend so we need to hammer this out.

Buying stuff: - We have bought a good amount of stuff, but only things that we aren't registered for (bedding, furniture, car seat, stroller, etc.). I have also gotten a fair amount of clothes. But, mostly basics like plain onesies/T shirts -- the things that people won't usually buy as gifts.

New Thread - Yeah! 3rd trimester! Thanks, moderators!!!

Happy birthday, Emily!

fats

02-23-2006, 02:44 PM

For the 3 hr they have you carb load for 3 days before
Hmm, they didn't have me do this. I hope I don't fail the 3 hour one tomorrow!!

Happy Birthday Em!!!

Godparents Not an issue for us but I guess we will need to figure out who's going to be guardians if something happens to us. Speaking of which, have any of you decided to get Life Insurance now that you're adding a little one to the amily? Eco's been all over this and just had me sign a bunch of papers last night so that the baby's taken care of in case something happens to us.

Bloomwood

02-23-2006, 05:12 PM

whoa! The June moms already have a 3rd tri thread! I'm definitely getting ours up this weekend!

Em - Happy Birthday!! :D

Mrs U

02-23-2006, 11:01 PM

Happy Birthday Em!

jarm

02-24-2006, 06:23 AM

Happy birthday Em!

Is anyone else becoming really irrational and crying at the drop of a hat? I have these annoying thoughts that DH is cheating on me, but with no sign or evidence to point to that direction (sort of). Then today I started crying because it was 9:00 and DH wasn't showered or dressed. What are we going to do today on my last official day of vacation? I have no idea, but would it kill him to get dressed in case we wanted to do something?

shortcake

02-24-2006, 07:12 AM

Bloomwood - Wow those June moms are quick! I (and the other end of the month-ers) am just entering the 3rd tri this weekend I think, so don't feel bad! :)

jarm - yep, totally emotional! You are not alone.

Well yesterday was tough, and today doesn't seem like it will be better - DD is pretty sick with a very nasty head cold and she seems so miserable! She hasn't really eaten much in 4 days, but yesterday she was just crying and a wreck all day. She is drinking some, so I'm not too concerned, just wish she'd start to get better. I was hoping today was the day but from the look of her this morning I think I have another day of a major sickie ahead of me. Not to mention that this morning I feel sick too - not as bad as her, but I hope I don't get the full-blown thing she has!

flyerwife

02-24-2006, 08:08 AM

Happy Birthday Em! I guess I need to update my info too -- I'm now 32 (as of Monday), DS is 4 and DH is 32

Shortcake -- I hope you don't get it very badly and I hope your DD feels better soon!

Emotions -- I'm not crying at the drop of a hat, but I'm ready to pick a fight with DH all the time, so I'm guessing it's the same -- hormones!

Update on the GD. I called my doctors office yesterday after the lab mixed everything up and wanted me to go do it allover again. The nurse I got was super and really didn't want to put me through that again unless the test came out horrible. So, to make this shorter, my number came back in the normal range even with them giving me the higher dosage and thank goodness the nurse stood up for me or I would have gone again for nothing.

I can't believe we'd hit the 3rd trimester -- it's getting really close!

Guinness

02-24-2006, 08:19 AM

Good news flyerwife. Also Happy Belated Birthday!

Shortcake, sorry about your DD. Hope today it starts to get better. Take care.

jarm I totally hear you. The fuse is short and FWIW I think justified!! They just don't get that there is NO room for button pushing!

We haven't done godparents or guardian stuff at all. DH is catholic and I am happy to go there, but we haven't been for a long time. I think I have decided we can look into it more after the baby is here.

I had terrible cramping/pulling/aching last night really low. Not sure if it is BH, real contractions, just needing to go potty or what. It was really a bit scary, but went away. Also check baby movements and that was normal. Not sure what it was. Anyone else having anything similar? I drank a couple big glasses of water. Needless to say I am really tired. TGIF :D

jarm

02-24-2006, 08:57 AM

I'm so glad I'm not alone.

Now...I'm sure this has been discussed, but I just want to throw this out there. I've been getting this pressure feeling in my stomach and then my belly is hard for a while after that...the whole belly. Is that Braxton Hicks? I never had them with DD, but they kind of hurt...not hurt, but they're definitely uncomfortable. I suppose it could be the baby stretching him/herself out.

Lolly

02-24-2006, 09:32 AM

Guinness, I've been getting the same pains. They feel like they are way down there. Not sure what it is but it doesn't last too long.

Bloomwood

02-24-2006, 09:37 AM

Good news on the GTT, flyerwife!

jarm - yep, those are BH. I get them ALL the time. They're hard to explain, huh? Not pain, just a sensation that is weird.

Guinness and Lolly - I had that a little the other night. I remember a girlfriend telling my she had it toward the end too, so I didn't worry about it. I think it's the uterus just stretching out some more.

emotions - so far I just haven't been overly emotional. Thank goodness! I still cry at stuff that would make me cry non-preggers - sad dog stuff in particular.:rolleyes:

Hope everyone has a GREAT weekend!

ga girl

02-24-2006, 10:08 AM

Happy Birthday Em!!!!

Anyone just feel so BIG? Yes!! I had my 28 wk appt yesterday and the midwife said- I can't believe you're only 28 weeks- you're measuring big! Nice...weight gain is 20 lbs and I'm just getting more uncomfortable. Although, a girl one cube over at work is due next week and it's painful to watch her- she's completely swollen and has trouble moving around. So I guess I should feel lucky for now.

BF classes - No, I probably should but I only signed up for infant cpr, childbirth and baby basics 101. The hospital where I'm delivering has a huge lactation dept so I'm hoping for some help.

Breast Pump - A friend of mine is selling me her Medula for $100.

Buying stuff - - Ummmm...yeah.. I can't STOP buying stuff!!! To make it worse I'm now obsessed w/ re-decorating the whole house. I have to stop, it's getting ridiculous all the things I've bought and I haven't even had my big shower yet.

Pediactricians - - Found one last week based on friend's recommendations, seems really great.

Godparents - We're doing the baptism in NJ at dh's old church since his entire family is Catholic and mine is not- it will mean a lot more to his family. We booked it for mid Sept and took our baptism class last weekend. We asked dh's sister and cousin to be godparents.

New thread - - Great, thanks for setting that up!!!

Emotions- More so recently, dh travels a lot for work and I've become very upset that something will happen to him. I've always had this nagging feeling the past few days that something is wrong- like I haven't finished something, it just feels uncompleted but I have no idea what?? Hmmm..

shortcake

02-24-2006, 10:21 AM

Anyone just feel so BIG? Yes!! I am not as far along as most of you, and still at the end of 2nd trimester. So it shocks me when things like walking up stairs, getting in/out of car, putting on socks, seem so difficult already! I felt better when my friend, who is 6 weeks behind me, said she feels the same way. I think I have gained around 18 or 19 lbs which is more than I would like but I guess it's ok. I need to cut back on the sodas (wasted calories) but I love them so much!

BF class - no, but I have heard that they are great. I am crossing my fingers that this time is easier, and that the lactation consultants and my doula will be a big help.

jarm

02-24-2006, 01:01 PM

Sorry for the long update!
We went and the doctor asked me how I was doing. I told him I was a bit stressed about everything. This just isn't the same as it was with DD, not that I expected it to be, but it's been a seesaw. Not necessarily with my own doctors, but with the doctors at Yale who've been doing my Level II u/s. In any event, he spent a few minutes talking to us to calm our fears. Apparently the report from Yale didn't even explain that I was to come back for a repeat u/s in 4 weeks because the abdomen was measuring small. That pisses me off, but then he looked at the rest of the report and the abdomen is only a week behind. Everything else was right on target. I'm not concerned about it because it's all in how you measure it...everyone's perspective is different.

In any event, I asked about that pubic pain I've been having and he confirmed that it's pubic symphisis. He said there's absolutely nothing I can do for it, and that it is fairly common in second pregnancies. He also said it was a little early, but I'm also overweight so I'm sure that contributes to it as well.

The c-section can probably be scheduled at my next appointment. Yippee! Of course, I make these plans for the c-section and this kid's going to come out when s/he wants to (before we're ready).

When I realized my next appointment would be my 30 week check up, I started to freak out. On the way home, DH and I were actually making light of my stresses. I was stressed about this baby coming on its own (most of you want it to come on their own...I don't, especially considering I have a final on the 15th) and going into labor while I was at work. Just crazy thoughts going through my mind. But we joked about what would happen if I was at work...DH would make sure that the entire fire department was there. Great! Let's just hope that doesn't happen. Then again, if it does, at least he knows tons of people who can help us out. I won't have to wait for an ambulance to get there. He could have me transported by the rescue. That's a good thing especially if this kid decides to just come as fast as can be and my placenta is still low.

It was cute when we heard the heartbeat. Now DD always had the hiccups when I was pregnant with her, but we never heard them...I just felt them. Today my kiddo had the hiccups so you'd hear heartbeat, hiccup, heartbeat, hiccup. Really cool!

Oh, and my BP was 122/80. Right on target! I have no clue what last week was about.

Edited to answer QOTD:
feeling big Just the opposite! I can't wait to actually look pregnant rather than fat. I told two people the other day that I was pregnant and when I told them how far along I was they said, "Oh, you don't look it." Good thing or bad thing? I don't know!

I do feel big when I need to lean down to pick something up while I'm sitting down. That's the only time I'm really bothered. That and getting in and out of my brother's Hummer the other night...yeah, that was fun!