With each new day we have the opportunity to start over and begin with a fresh perspective. We get a chance to create a day that is satisfying and fulfilling. When your day ends, does it end with a celebration of your accomplishments or with regrets? I used to live in the world of regret, and it’s a frustrating world to live in! I once met a wise person who sensed my regret and asked me two questions:
“What would you do if you didn’t need approval from other people?”
“What would you do if you weren’t afraid?”
These questions left a lasting impact on me. As soon as I could find a pen and paper I wrote down the answers that came to my mind. I began to create long lists representing the possibilities of my life. I imagined myself in a world where I did not make decisions based on what I thought others expected of me, and then a world where I was not afraid of the unknown. I offer this exercise to you so you can realize your dreams. After all, a life without dreams is a life not worth living.
Some of my dreams include: taking voice lessons and recording a top 40 hit, becoming an Olympic athlete, starting my own business and having my own TV show. What comes up for you? Just because you have some answers doesn’t mean you have to take action immediately. My chance at becoming an Olympic athlete is probably over, but the question becomes how can I compete on a local level and achieve the same satisfaction?
I did quit my corporate job 2 years ago and now I have a community TV show I host and produce as a stepping-stone for something that one day goes beyond Community TV. When I pushed aside the fear and approval, my world became so much bigger than I ever imagined.
It’s never too late to have a fresh perspective and start over. If you have dreams still to realize, no matter how big or small, consider making a fresh start this month. With each new day ask yourself the two “What would I do?” questions. You might be surprised at what comes up.
Feel free to share your answers in the comments section to offer inspiration and motivation. No dream is too big!
Visit Stacey’s blog, Back to Your Senses, for tips, techniques, and personal stories to help you think with a fresh perspective, live well and manage stress.
